Freeze007:


We talked yesterday or a day before... Here is our conversation.
[11/5, 19:18] Leila Kamara: Better now
[11/5, 19:18] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Cool Cool
[11/5, 19:18] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Are you on PIP
[11/5, 19:18] Leila Kamara: No
[11/5, 19:19] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: Been asking questions on my best option to relocate and I was advised to ask what your proposal is
[11/5, 19:19] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: On this matter
[11/5, 19:19] Leila Kamara: OK
[11/5, 19:20] Leila Kamara: Do you mean how or where?
[11/5, 19:21] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I mean what your take is on the subject matter. Both will be suggestive especially as it concerns UK
[11/5, 19:23] Leila Kamara: I don't know about how. But if you could get here we could live together.
[11/5, 19:23] Leila Kamara: It just depends on how you are getting here that's all
[11/5, 19:24] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I guess this is sufficient for my helper to sort me out
[11/5, 19:25] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: He appears to be willing to help he needed me seek your consent
[11/5, 19:25] Earnest Gazillionaire!!!: I have not been able to call because of the tariff charges over here,please bear with me
[11/5, 19:26] Leila Kamara: That's OK

dustydee:

Why don't you ask them to move to Nigeria to join you since you have a job and it will be easier for them to get a visa? I say that because getting a tier 2 visa is quite difficult if you are not a medical practitioner. while they are with you, she could still make do with her benefit (assuming they keep paying her). Marry her, that way she could then apply for a spousal visa for you (may be difficult as she does not earn enough). You can then continue your search for a route to the UK via tier 1 (Exceptional Talent Visa), Tier 2 or Spousal visa.

RalphJean:



What is your main reason of wanting to go to the UK?
A) To be a father figure to your daughter who has been missing the love and care of a father

B) To reconnect with your baby mama

C) To run away from Nigeria

Your story seem to suggest that your baby mama is suffering in the UK, with debts and no money.

Your story seem to suggest that your daughter too isn’t finding things easy.

The best solution for you is this:
CONVINCE YOUR BABY MAMA AND TO PICK YOUR DAUGHTER AND JOIN YOU IN NIGERIA.

Or

APPLY FOR, AND GET A TIER 2 VISA. THEN GO TO THE UK AND BE WITH YOUR DAUGHTER WHILE YOU WORK.
If Holy Spirit touch you, then Marry your baby mama. In that case, you have a job, a wife, a daughter. Complete family.

Freeze007:


If you want my Honest truth, the three points are basis for wanting to leave with particular regard to being a father figure to my little sunshine. Trust me, it is hard to know you have a daughter yet not there to maintain that role as a father in her life, sure you know what it feels like for the lass. Maybe you are driven by the Holy Spirit to know that I do not entirely want to be with my baby Mama but if God gives me the ability then I don't mind. Times are hard Bro, as for making my baby mama allow me to take custody of her it will be a herculean task, trust me, except as man I know nothing regarding what God can do

I want to thank you for your suggestions, hopefully I get a job in the UK because she is truly going through a lot I must say. I wish I could support and also be a good Dad.. In all I can only pray for Gods will to be done..

Thank you for your advise, we rise by lifting others, one live

nomad26:
I think both of you need to start working. If she is not having serious seizures, she can get a job even if it is part-time. You also need a job in Nigeria. Both of you need money. Moving to UK is not cheap, work for a couple of years in Nigeria and plan properly towards moving to UK, it should be a long term plan for both of you. You can visit each other from time to time until then. Good luck.

Freeze007:


If you want my Honest truth, the three points are basis for wanting to leave with particular regard to being a father figure to my little sunshine. Trust me, it is hard to know you have a daughter yet not there to maintain that role as a father in her life, sure you know what it feels like for the lass. Maybe you are driven by the Holy Spirit to know that I do not entirely want to be with my baby Mama but if God gives me the ability then I don't mind. Times are hard Bro, as for making my baby mama allow me to take custody of her it will be a herculean task, trust me, except as man I know nothing regarding what God can do

I want to thank you for your suggestions, hopefully I get a job in the UK because she is truly going through a lot I must say. I wish I could support and also be a good Dad.. In all I can only pray for Gods will to be done..

Thank you for your advise, we rise by lifting others, one live

fatima04:
Lidl price is just there joor. There pampers and baby wipes is just too dry and they have the driest brioche bread ever.

Tesco brioche the best and then Aldi for others.

Haven't been to Iceland yet as it's too far

Ekitibiased:
The issue of masters, is all due to issues as regards the license exam for foreign trained doctors in naija. It's been frustrating, I really need to move on and do something else. If things keep getting worse and doctors are leaving due to frustration then it's best to leave ASAP. It's quite complex cos of no license issue but I am open to non clinical options with the masters. If things do go well.....having a masters is a plus for plab2

Adapapaokoye:

At the end of the day the choice is yours to make. If nah Canada I would have told you to come over but UK, nah you go make that choice yourself

imnotconfused:
Freeze007,

I have a few epileptic colleagues who come to work everyday as their seizures are well controlled with medication,I don't know if your lady is able to consider this or if she is so disabled that she's completely unable to work.

If she's able to work and earns 18k or thereabouts,she can sponsor you.


It's nice you've suddenly woken up and decided to be a father but this life in the UK you seem to be angling for may not be as you want.Saddled with debt,non working parents,on benefits etc

If it is indeed about your child,you need to be on the right footing.

A job first of all then start paying child maintenance/support then mending the relationship between your lady,you and your child.

It's admirable that you think you can move in and live happily ever after but unfortunately life doesn't work that way.She may not even be what you want and you may not be what she wants.

You mustn't live together to be the best father to your child.

Anyway,forget this epistle and find a job first,maybe tier 2 visa.
Good luck.

I have this question, if i am applying for a tier 2 VISA do i need my baby Mama for anything during the processing of this type of ViSA. If i should guess apart from affirmation paternal connection will there any other requirement from her end because she is not working. Ok, we chatted today and she told me she needs to get a job to be able to take care of our little sunshine,not entirely bad as i thought.

I hope to get a job in the UK, thing is what are my chances I really want to bond with my daughter now that she is still young

I appreciate your inputs, we rise by lifting others...One love

imnotconfused:


Hello,

I trained outside Nigeria and did not do housejob.Pure hell!
It automatically means you cannot work here as a locum as you will have to start from the scratch which is Foundation year 1 because you do not have 1 year experience.

To get into Foundation Year one you need to compete with UK graduates and be on a visa that permits you to work which is either an ILR or Citizenship or an employer who is happy to give you a Locum Appointment For Training post as an FY1 and sponsor you on a Tier 2 visa.This is very unlikely because FY1 posts are usually filled up.

I had to wait to get ILR before I could work that's like 5 years all because I didn't do housejob.

If I were you ,I would do housejob,take PLAb ,get on a tier 2 and then do whatever you want.

Cheers!

Adapapaokoye:

Okay

fopishow:
@ fatima04 & gurus here, please advise how easy it is to secure a job on tier 2 dependent partner visa valid for 3 years. Are employers willing to employ on this PBS dependent visa?I work as a procurement specialist, any tips on how to land a job in the same field sooner? FYI, I will be moving to south east-England within few weeks. Please advise.

fatima04:


There are no work restrictions on your type of visa, so you can so just register on as many job site as soon as possible and update your linkedin account to suit your profession and what is expexted of professionals in your field.

In all apply for all jobs you see that fits into your role and follow up with mails and calls seen on job advert.
All the best.

fopishow:
Thanks for the input, i appreciate. I pretty much have the linkedin update and job portals covered as i started applying already. I am mostly concerned about how fierce the job market is at the moment? I currently work the same role with a top oil servicing firm in abu-dhabi and i would be giving that up(resignation) to see if i could land a job within a month/two,how realistic does that seem? Another question i have is that, as a tier 2 dependent, am i to pay income tax as well?

Yinkzy03:
Hguys,

I'm back again to share my testimony just as promised. All Thanks to God and to you all for your advise, it really worked wonders, especially the one from @ESULALU, he practically took me through the lesson via Nairaland, big ups to you Boss.

I passed my practical driving test today with just 5 lessons, yes, 5. Infact, i had just 4 minor faults.

This is to encourage those that are yet to or probably almost given up that they can do it.

Thank you, thank you and thank you.

saboau:
Hello my people, i want to know if a Tier 2 carrying Immigrant can bring in a child with a US passport without a dependant visa into the UK. Of course the child cant stay more that 6 months. Just want to know if holding different entry document is not a problem
Thanks

fatima04:


Getting a job depends on a lot of factors and cannot be accurately predicted. See if you can connect with some recruiters online and probably get interviews arranged via Skype or something.

I believe your experience from abu-dhabi could also help and extend your search to Scotland e.g Aberdeen if possible because of your current experience.

To your second question, you pay income tax when you start working and you earn above £11,000 per annum

Yinkzy03:
Hguys,

I'm back again to share my testimony just as promised. All Thanks to God and to you all for your advise, it really worked wonders, especially the one from @ESULALU, he practically took me through the lesson via Nairaland, big ups to you Boss.

I passed my practical driving test today with just 5 lessons, yes, 5. Infact, i had just 4 minor faults.

This is to encourage those that are yet to or probably almost given up that they can do it.

Thank you, thank you and thank you.

fopishow:
Hi,

Please confirm if it was manual or automatic?

Lexusgs430:
Upfront charges, now live ......

Extract from Guardian UK 13/11/2018

Aphrodite007:


Horrible as this may be, I think this is fair. You can’t come into the country and use medical care you’ve never paid for. Even in America, you won’t try. It’s a National health care not World-wide health care.

Everytime I went on a trip to a schengen country, I had to buy health insurance to cover me. So if any immigrant is coming here, they should either pay the IHS or if not eligible, they should get their own insurance.

My friend was at the hospital recently and he waited 8 hours before he was treated. Somebody that pays IHS and even NI taxes o, just because the hospital didn’t have enough hands. Abeg it haff do.

Aphrodite007:


Horrible as this may be, I think this is fair. You can’t come into the country and use medical care you’ve never paid for. Even in America, you won’t try. It’s a National health care not World-wide health care.

Everytime I went on a trip to a schengen country, I had to buy health insurance to cover me. So if any immigrant is coming here, they should either pay the IHS or if not eligible, they should get their own insurance.

My friend was at the hospital recently and he waited 8 hours before he was treated. Somebody that pays IHS and even NI taxes o, just because the hospital didn’t have enough hands. Abeg it haff do.

Lexusgs430:



Is she receiving PIP payments? You truly have a magical cassava + condensed milk ......

bigtt76:

Lexusgs430:


Madam, I see you o .....

bigtt76:
I see you too jaaaare! Hope you're good