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My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by naijanewstv(op): 5:40pm On Dec 05, 2018
There is a man I love so much but I just can't understand him.

We have known for three years now but all he has sent me is 30,000 Naira. He stays abroad and he won't give me unless if I ask.

Of recent I asked him to help me complete my school fees with 45,000 Naira. I asked him for the money August but he kept promising and till date he has not done anything.

He kept saying wait and he will send the money till date no way.

I do everything he ask me to do for him. Please readers advise me, is he using me or what because a lot of encouragement and advises he has given me have worked for me.

He is very jealous whenever he calls my line and it's switched off . So why can't he provide my little needs. Must I ask him for money before he gives me?

Please advice me

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/12/my-boyfriend-living-abroad-hardly-sends-me-money.html
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by tolugar: 5:43pm On Dec 05, 2018
Try and get a job,

Till then, when you need money contact your immediate family.

Think independently

Have it in your mind that he owns you no money and live according to your source
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by BatmanIsWatching(m): 5:48pm On Dec 05, 2018
He doesn't love you. Period.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by adauzed1(f): 5:51pm On Dec 05, 2018
He doesn't see you as priority. stop wasting your time with him.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by yarimo(m): 5:57pm On Dec 05, 2018
Is he your father that you see it as most for him to give you school fees ? Thunder fire that your boyfriend for giving you 30 000 for the first place. Go and look for something to do. Nonsense undecided embarassed sad undecided abroad KO prison ni
naijanewstv:
There is a man I love so much but I just can't understand him.

We have known for three years now but all he has sent me is 30,000 Naira. He stays abroad and he won't give me unless if I ask.

Of recent I asked him to help me complete my school fees with 45,000 Naira. I asked him for the money August but he kept promising and till date he has not done anything.

He kept saying wait and he will send the money till date no way.

I do everything he ask me to do for him. Please readers advise me, is he using me or what because a lot of encouragement and advises he has given me have worked for me.

He is very jealous whenever he calls my line and it's switched off . So why can't he provide my little needs. Must I ask him for money before he gives me?

Please advice me

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/12/my-boyfriend-living-abroad-hardly-sends-me-money.html
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by EbukaHades10(m): 12:11am On Dec 06, 2018
U no know how things tight for his side for there. If he go send am,he go send am. If not,glory be to God.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by chloride6: 12:21am On Dec 06, 2018
Enter playstore download paylater

Apply for loan of 7500

Use that to buy fairly used clothes.

Resell and stop disturbing your bf.


grin
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Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Allaboutkatiee(f): 4:58am On Dec 06, 2018
yarimo:
Is he your father that you see it as most for him to give you school fees ? Thunder fire that your boyfriend for giving you 30 000 for the first place. Go and look for something to do. Nonsense undecided embarassed sad undecided abroad KO prison ni
And would her father wants to do the things that he wants to do with her? undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by khiaa(f): 5:22am On Dec 06, 2018
[quote author=naijanewstv post=73580225]There is a man I love so much but I just can't understand him.

We have known for three years now but all he has sent me is 30,000 Naira. He stays abroad and he won't give me unless if I ask.

Of recent I asked him to help me complete my school fees with 45,000 Naira. I asked him for the money August but he kept promising and till date he has not done anything.

He kept saying wait and he will send the money till date no way.

I do everything he ask me to do for him. Please readers advise me, is he using me or what because a lot of encouragement and advises he has given me have worked for me.



He is very jealous whenever he calls my line and it's switched off . So why can't he provide my little needs. Must I ask him for money before he gives me?

Please advice me

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/12/my-boyfriend-living-abroad-hardly-sends-me-money.html[/quote

It sounds like she is the one using him. undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by McEphiks(m): 7:06am On Dec 06, 2018
If only people know how hard it is to send money from abroad.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by mhizv(f): 8:40am On Dec 06, 2018
I hate when ladies depend entirely on a man. If you had something going for yourself,you won't even notice. Just because he's out side the country doesn't mean things are Rossy.

Get a job
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by ImaIma1(f): 9:27am On Dec 06, 2018
Ask your parents for your school fees and don't shift responsibility to your bf. It is important for your own self respect and the respect he accords you.

If he gives you money, fine. But do not demand it like you are entitled to it. He isn't your husband.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by AryEmber(f): 10:04am On Dec 06, 2018
ImaIma1:
Ask your parents for your school fees and don't shift responsibility to your bf. It is important for your own self respect and the respect he accords you.

If he gives you money, fine. But do not demand it like you are entitled to it. He isn't your husband.
You too gbaski!
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by JayromeWorld: 10:30am On Dec 06, 2018
I really can't believe someone can confidently come online to exhibit stupidity. You said your boyfriend and not your husband. If you don't have parents sending you to school or they can not afford your school fees, so its your boyfriend that will pay your school fees because you are the one that sent him abroad abi.
The way some girls think self really makes relationship stink. God knows I can never date or marry a girl like this wey no get common sense.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by felix55(m): 11:11am On Dec 06, 2018
3yrs Bleep = #30,000.00 #30,000.00 / 36 months = #833.3 ... meaning every month ur boyfriend give u #833... u supposed to b hpy he did...stupid girl.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 06, 2018
naijanewstv:
There is a man I love so much but I just can't understand him.

We have known for three years now but all he has sent me is 30,000 Naira. He stays abroad and he won't give me unless if I ask.

Of recent I asked him to help me complete my school fees with 45,000 Naira. I asked him for the money August but he kept promising and till date he has not done anything.

He kept saying wait and he will send the money till date no way.

I do everything he ask me to do for him. Please readers advise me, is he using me or what because a lot of encouragement and advises he has given me have worked for me.

He is very jealous whenever he calls my line and it's switched off . So why can't he provide my little needs. Must I ask him for money before he gives me?

Please advice me

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/12/my-boyfriend-living-abroad-hardly-sends-me-money.html
start seeing other men
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 06, 2018
why not ask ur homebased boyfriend or boyfriends for the money.ur abroad based boyfriend might be findin it a little rough over there cheesy.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 06, 2018
funmisticqueen:
start seeing other men
as if she hasnt already started cheesy

Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 06, 2018
mhizv:
I hate when ladies depend entirely on a man. If you had something going for yourself,you won't even notice. Just because he's out side the country doesn't mean things are Rossy.

Get a job
ImaIma1:
Ask your parents for your school fees and don't shift responsibility to your bf. It is important for your own self respect and the respect he accords you.

If he gives you money, fine. But do not demand it like you are entitled to it. He isn't your husband.
ehn na wao
are my eyes decieving me cheesy

Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by ImaIma1(f): 12:54pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
ehn na wao
are my eyes decieving me cheesy
You better go and wash the eyes in River Osun.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 06, 2018
ImaIma1:
You better go and wash the eyes in River Osun.
grin
ImaIma1:
You better go and wash the eyes in River Osun.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by ImaIma1(f): 1:35pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
grin
You don't want us to tell the truth abi. I am not like you guys that take sides and always support the guy and bash the lady in most cases.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by Nobody: 1:39pm On Dec 06, 2018
ImaIma1:
You don't want us to tell the truth abi. I am not like you guys that take sides and always support the guy and bash the lady in most cases.
haba thats not true.we do support d ladies when they get wronged.
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by pacificman: 1:40pm On Dec 06, 2018
He is very jealous whenever he calls my line and it's switched off . So why can't he provide my little needs. Must I ask him for money before he gives me?

Please advice me

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/12/my-boyfriend-living-abroad-hardly-sends-me-money.html[/quote]yes they pick money abroad
Re: My Boyfriend Living Abroad Hardly Sends Me Money [advice Me On What To Do] by ImaIma1(f): 1:41pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
haba thats not true.we do support d ladies when they get wronged.
I will be watching you cool
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