TomatoBiscuit:
OP, did an akata female hurt you, or where's this coming from? You obviously wrote from experience.

I have enough brain cells to stay away from ratchet akata.
No I write from the experience of others and my own innate disgust of these people having observed first hand how they reason (if I can call it that) and act.

Stereotypes are wrong. There is good and bad in every race and culture. It's just like someone saying all Nigerians are thieves, all chinese eat dogs, white people smell like dogs,all Africans have aids. Love is love it can be found in any race from every country. Dont limit yourself otherwise you will lose out on Gods best because of poor judgment

lefulefu:
and how will u know d well brought up lady? Dat because she goes to church everyday and attends all night service? Guy forget dat thing. Except a guy has a serious girlfriend b4 he went abroad then he can come back to collect her but guy if u know any babe while u were in nigeria its safer u forget about going back home to marry a naija girl once u set ur foot overseas. If u must marry a nigerian girl then check out the ones in ur host country. My friend aunty who returned from germany last year told us a tale about one well to nigerian guy living and working in germany who died mysteriously once he married and brought over the nigerian babe he met on facebook. She say as soon as d man die na so d babe jus dey rush d man property. Only marry the girlfriend u left back home and ensure that its d girl u really trust and who really loves u.

I totally agree with what you just wrote.

May God help us

Ahmed0336:
Where are those Nairalanders that always shout team Foreign? Make una come over...



Any smart Nigerian will hardly marry those black American. instead, they come back home to get a well brought up lady.

Most of the fear is after marrying from home, the moment most Naija ladies step their foot on a foreign soil Naso Dem go begin misbehave like android phone wey need flashing..

Those Black American women that behaves like a psycho

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Ahmed0336:
Where are those Nairalanders that always shout team Foreign? Make una come over...

Oh shut up.he's talking about africN american women. Who in their right minds will travel out just to marry one of them

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My uncle came back home to marry my aunt like 38 years ago and they moved to d USA, they are still together today. People of this time are just cowards when it comes to relationships ni. I'm definitely not exempted.

It worked for your uncle, it will work for everyone.

2buffagain:


That's up to them.

Ideally, the conditions in yankee are much better for verifying who you want to marry.
If they are foolish, you will see it. I'm not saying no one should have flaws, but flaw get level....and you will see all the flaws in a society like yankee...if the man is observant. In naija, not so much.

You don't assume someone is actually good because they are in a community that pressures them to act good.
To really put them to the test, you should be studying the specimen in a community that pressures them to be bad.
Those who are truly prized gems will go against the grain.
These Igbo men you talk about, a lot of them regret doing this thing you are talking about.
I remember the discussion I had with one Igbo man who brought one girl from his village here.

Here is some wisdom: Do you know that is what God is doing to us on earth before determining if he wants to bring us into his house in heaven?
Testing us to see who is for real and who is not by community pressure of this world to be bad?

Interesting write-up.
Wanna make a small correction though.
You can't refer to America which is a location as "yankee"...its the citizens that can be referred to as "yankees" by non-citizens.

2buffagain

How many Black American women have you met to make this conclusion?
Where in the US do also live? Your environment can/may also affect your experience.

I just want a detailed explanation, because I kind feel that the western media is portraying black American women as being all you said but you know the media also portrays all Nigerians as suffering. SO I cannot trust the media on that.

truthsayer009:
2buffagain

How many Black American women have you met to make this conclusion?
Where in the US do also live? Your environment can/may also affect your experience.

I just want a detailed explanation, because I kind feel that the western media is portraying black American women as being all you said but you know the media also portrays all Nigerians as suffering. SO I cannot trust the media on that.

Thats why I used the word "ratchet akata"

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yea, you guys should come home and pick homely girls. Off course there's no guarantees she won't spread her wings when she has left this shores.

Lol I won't even advice my worst enemy who's abroad to go back home and marry Nigeria home base girl,that's worst advice any man can give.Nigeria men living in the diaspora should marry Nigeria women who living there as well or they should marry foreigners.

krissy123:



Interesting write-up.
Wanna make a small correction though.
You can't refer to America which is a location as "yankee"...its the citizens that can be referred to as "yankees" by non-citizens.

LOL you must be a foreigner...Hello and welcome.

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2buffagain:
I have come across some really ratchet black-american females out in yankee. These creatures are so disgusting... I'm not talking about their big booties and face fineness... I'm talking about the average low class akata's tendency to be nasty, rude , disrespectful, gluttonous, filthy and loud... Lacking the wisdom to even discern that such behaviors are stinky.

Sometimes you just look at them while they talk unintelligently and flaunt large nasty tattoos as you wonder "who in their right mind will take this one into his home as a wife?". At the least the average low class Nigerian female still knows how to be domesticated and can cook their food.... But these ratchet akatas are beyond useless. And they always have these roach babies they keep having in bulk.

I have this friend who made the mistake of taking one out because he liked the way it looked.
He knew what he was getting into but he was all like "oh anybody can be understood" blah blah blah.

On the first date, at the end of the date while dropping her off...will you believe that creature tried to set him up to pay for her babysitter in a very dishonest way? After eating and drinking like a cow and costing the guy to pay for her many plates of food alone.

The guy admitted he was a fool and he knows now to run the other way whenever he hears any name like Shaniqua, Helicia, or whatever the Bleep name they give themselves.

If you are reading this and you are a ratchet akata, understand that Nigerian man will never marry you for real. You are a beast... Lacking wisdom in ALL things. No man of sense and value will marry you. Go to your prisons and marry your fellow mentally disjointed men. Better yet, get them to pump you full of more roach babies.

This is why the white police here keep gunning you down as Target practice. You guys are a plague on normal society. An infestation of crime, filth and everything wrong with any modern society.

However, do continue to submit yourself to Nigerian men as kpali-meat to be used and discarded. Accept this as your place, your one noble purpose in this life. Perhaps by serving in this way, you may find some redemption in your existence... But never through us loving you. That is reserved for our Nigerian Queens. You lack the skills needed to build or maintain a legacy. I would pity you, but you animals don't understand the concept of such higher functions.

since when did you became the spokesman for Nigeria men?

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SilentListener:
since when did you became the spokesman for Nigeria men?

Go and marry all the rachet akatas you want then. What's my own?

2buffagain:


Go and marry all the rachet akatas you want then. What's my own?

my own is I'm a Nigeria man,and you are putting me in your shitty threads, next time don't generalized speak for yourselves.

Lordtimothy66:
Lol I won't even advice my worst enemy who's abroad to go back home and marry Nigeria home base girl,that's worst advice any man can give.Nigeria men living in the diaspora should marry Nigeria women who living there as well or they should marry foreigners.

there was one story i read on nairaland some yrs back. This nigerian guy was working in one security firm in atlanta then he came to his village in the easten part of nigeria to marry a young girl that was arranged for him. Carried her back to the states and trained her as a nurse. She had two issues for him and along the line she divorced him then took over his house and he was prevented by the courts from seeing his two kids plus the wife took in a younger lover with her in the house. One day when the kids where in school the man went to the house to confront his wife and during the arguement he shot his wife dead then shot himself as well. With all the bad stories we hear i think its a naive diasporian who would come back to marry a stranger . Wetin do the nigerian women in the united states.

SilentListener:
my own is I'm a Nigeria man,and you are putting me in your shitty threads, next time don't generalized speak for yourselves.

MY own is so get the fawk off the thread.

2buffagain:


LOL you must be a foreigner...Hello and welcome.

Lolz. Not really. I'm Nigerian.

2buffagain:


Go and marry all the rachet akatas you want then. What's my own?

but there must be college educated akatas nau who are classy abi?

SilentListener:
as in with all the baggage Nigeria men have in the international committee, this 2buffagain guy is still gloating.

Baggage? You mean this?
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

2buffagain:


MY own is so get the fawk off the thread.

krissy123:


Lolz. Not really. I'm Nigerian.

And you have never heard the word "yankee" before used to describe the US?
Then you are just forming.

lefulefu:
there was one story i read on nairaland some yrs back. This nigerian guy was working in one security firm in atlanta then he came to his village in the easten part of nigeria to marry a young girl that was arranged for him. Carried her back to the states and trained her as a nurse. She had two issues for him and along the line she divorced him then took over his house and he was prevented by the courts from seeing his two kids plus the wife took in a younger lover with her in the house. One day when the kids where in school the man went to the house to confront his wife and during the arguement he shot his wife dead then shot himself as well. With all the bad stories we hear i think its a naive diasporian who would come back to marry a stranger . Wetin do the Nigerian women in the united states.

Nawa ooo things they happen help me ask them why them they run from Nigeria girls wey they overseas

Lordtimothy66:
Lol I won't even advice my worst enemy who's abroad to go back home and marry Nigeria home base girl,that's worst advice any man can give.Nigeria men living in the diaspora should marry Nigeria women who living there as well or they should marry foreigners.

Oh OK. Your reasons? That it didn't work for u doesn't mean it won't work for another.

Admin401:


It worked for your uncle, it will work for everyone.

I never said it must work for everyone. I'm only pointing out that it happens and will continue to happen.

2buffagain:


And thus your true mind is revealed as evidence of your comments.
Who is forming for peeps at home? Sounds like you feel "less-than" because you are in naija otherwise you wouldn't be projecting that. No one ever said this. You did. We just stating facts and figured from the realities of today.

My dear I know how many people abroad feel they can treat home based ladies anyhow just because they are over there. Perhaps I was biased with my comment but I also refer back to personal experiences and general observations.

2buffagain:


The point being made is against your earlier comment...not against people marrying their friends.
it is a long ting to travel all the way to Nigeria from where one is, just to find someone to marry and it holds no guarantees of anything...except added stress.
The best option for diasporians still, is to find themselves where they are, and become readily good-to-go assets for each others lives than the long acclimization thing.

My dear I ain't saying men must come back o, I only pointed out the realities. I know of 3 of such weddings this December. I seriously detest arguing over what I have no control over. It happens and will continue to. Lets end the back and forth, thanks.

Lordtimothy66:
Nawa ooo things they happen help me ask them why them they run from Nigeria girls wey they overseas

wetin dey make dem run away for naija ladies based overseas dem go still find d tin in a home based babe. Some say d american based naija babes know their right and d homes back home are domesticated...anyway na d naija guys wey don tey wey dem reach naija dey tend to tink like dat. Dem no know say home based babes don tear eyes well well. But there some diasporans sha wey dia mom go jus pressurise them to marry homebased woman in wich case d diasporan guy out of pressure will come back home to marry d girl but im go refuse to carry her with back overseas givin a number of wich maybe he might have a yankee wife overseas. All im go dey do is to dey send im home based wife monthly allowance while he's living with his yankee wife and kids back in d states. Brother if u see some type of marriage wey some diasporan guys dey engage with homebased women u will jus bust out laughing. A homebased lady will tell u her husband is overseas but last time wey she see am was eight yrs ago .dat one na marriage?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My dear I ain't saying men must come back o, I only pointed out the realities. I know of 3 of such weddings this December. I seriously detest arguing over what I have no control over. It happens and will continue to. Lets end the back and forth, thanks.

it might be possible those guys came back to marry their girlfriends they left when they travelled overseas.