BlackManta:


Rape and sexual harassment is never about dress code.

What excuse will you make for ladies in India who cover up and yet gets raped.
Why is rape still not eradicated in that country

I believe rape and sexual harassment would reduce drastically if women dress moderately and desist from doing what would make them vulnerable.

Well my babe came angrily at me and I was surprised cuz some few minutes back I'd successful plant the idea of "me I not get bah and I dey hungry,you know the usual na when sakpa hold boys....she told me she wanna go see Dr.o******in his office, same man was my supervisor and we could go to law restaurant and eat....was waiting and she came out with a different mood than I had expected....

Han Han baby what happen,kilo shele"

"That man Is a bastard...(fuming now)
Babe ki lon shele,which man..I'm not understanding..what happen na..
Long story short Sha,the man fondled,grabbed,or whatever her "boobs....and this is not the first time he had tried...

What....I para,all the hunger left my stomach...is the man mad,his he crazy,man yii ti yah wahrah finally....I was more angry because before meself press that bobi a whole semester finish na him dis man grab for free....well I para finish and was looking at her and she started laying on me blah blah ....so I'm not gonna do anything abi,I will just sit here and shout under tree I cannot do anything abi....it's today she knew I really love her..

Baby you know I love you,but Shay you want me go beat Dr.****** Ni...have you forgotten he is my supervisor Ni,joor nitori olohun maje ki temi baje for this school...I don't want to tay rara....baby I promise you lemme graduate first then we go reason am.....

She left angrily....

Bae,bae wait na....Tor no food for uncaring man....


Might be funny but it happened live and clear....I saw terrible things at my department....Bribe,sex....

Rubbish! if you make yourself Available to be harrassed, you will be harrassed. Nigerian women are the easiest, flash some cash in their faces they will be happy to be harrassed as much as one wants.


It's only when they didn't get what they wanted from the "harrasment" they claim they ve been or are harrassed


Believe it or not I know!

Fash20:


I believe rape and sexual harassment would reduce drastically if women dress moderately and desist from doing what would make them vulnerable.

India is having rape crisis despite 99% of their women dressing well

Dont have a story tho. I THOUGHT PEOPLE RE SUPPOSED TO SHARE THEIR EXPERIENCE, why everybody don turn Jim beglin &John Champion?

Oweku:
Any man that said that ladies get raped or sexually harassed because of her dressing is a he-goat...

If u are a man, you will be a father will you sleep with your daughter because of inproper dressing?

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GlorifiedTunde:




Hmm... When you're heading to the Lion's den, you don't wear a cloak dripping of fresh blood.

Don't dangle a sumptuous meal in front of a ravaged dog

Question answered!

we ain't living in the iron age here. what happened to self control?

Lucifer66:
There is no such thing as sexual harassment!
Women are whoreee and enjoy every bit of it!
It's just that our laws are biased and favour these useless creatures.
If Nigeria was a sensible country rape would be legal!

Your mother is a whoreee

2011

Third Year.

Lecturer: I like this your shirt.
Me: Thank you ma'am

Lecturer : Tell your course Rep to see me
Me: okay ma'am

Course Rep: TJ how far?
Me: I soft, wetin dey?

Course Rep: Mrs. Oboh say make you no forge to bring that shirt for her.
Me: Which shirt? This one?

Course Rep: I no know o, but she ask of your number sha, and I give am.
Me: You well so?

*Next Day*

Female Voice: Hello TJ, how are you?
Me: I'm great, Who be this?

Female Voice: Is this how you answer your phone?
Me: Babe no vex, I change phone jor, I no really know who dey talk.

Female Voice: Where's my shirt?
Me: Shirt? Which shirt?

Female Voice: I'm looking at you, come up to my office which the shirt.
Me: Oh ma'am, sorry didn't know you were the one. Sorry ma'am.

*Her Office*
Me: Good Afternoon Ma
Mrs. Oboh: TJ my name is Florence, when meeting like this, address me so.

Me: sensing Green flag* Ma?
Florence: You heard me, how are you doing? What are you doing sitting there? You're waiting for your girlfriends abi? You should be serious with getting the best out of life.

Me: Ma, I wasn't waiting for my girlfriends, I'm waiting for my cousin, she's with my house key, I misplaced my copy of it. And I want to go home.
Florence: Your cousin indeed! (smiles) this time standing up walking to the door. Bolt it and turn facing me, Oya gimme the shirt lemme test it.

Me: Shocked, looking away as she tries to remove her Ankara top, but Ma'am the shirt is not here besides you can't obviously wear it here. In this school that shirt is well known with me. I doubt you can wear it.
Florence: Come and help me remove this zipper my friend, leave talk. Are you the only one with the shirt?

Me: Ma? Zipper? Shirt? Sorry ma, I mean Mrs. Florence (saying things incoherently)
Florence: walking up to me with bossom showing enough of cleavage. I know you like what you're seeing. All these spoilt boys.

Me: blinking at the sight of the purple lace bra, swallowing hard saliva, no ma, I will bring the shirt to you, the shirt is not here. Or I can buy another one for you.
Florence: Don't worry, how much is the shirt, lemme give you money and take it. Now Top is off just bra, with full flesh looking at me.. Remove this Jersey lemme try it on. If it sizes ne good, then you'll know the shirt will enter me.

Me: Okay ma, removed my Jersey no singlet, she marvelled, saw her eyes going dim, immediately she held my hand and send it directly to her left breasst pressing her chest against me hard.
Florence: TJ you have a wonderful body and a strong hand, broad chest and others stuff I wasn't hearing.

Me: Ma'am let's not do this please. Please I beg you.
Florence: This is my office, why are you scared? Because of your girlfriend? Because of what? Are you baby?

Me: No ma not any of that, just that you are not even sure I'm STD free neither if you are. What about pregnancy?
Florence: Raising her head fro my chest and laugh softly, what do you take me for? Don't worry I can't take care of us.

Me: If so, then let's not do this, at least not now. I assured
Florence: Reluctantly agreed. And told me she will call me up on Saturday evening.

*Saturday 3pm)
Florence: Hello TJ, how are you doing today? I'm not too strong but will send you address later.
Me: Okay ma

*Same day 5pm*
Florence: SMS, I will be at the New Dawn Hotel in 30mins.
Me: Okay... Have fun.

Florence: Calling me* Hello TJ, what do you mean have fun? Aren't you coming to have fun too?
Me: Laughing.. Mrs. Oboh, I have everything on tape, I won't spill it out, I just want you to stop bothering me. Goodbye. See you in class know Monday. Ends call.

Mrs. Oboh: Call, call, call, keep calling, kept calling I wasn't taking calls, next day same thing till Monday, she missed class with us even after several phone call from course Rep.


*Exam Day*

Mrs. Oboh: SMS* Hope you know what to write else... The table shall turn.
Me: That is not a problem, Thank you ma'am...


Sexual harassment is almost impossible to ignore in University. If you're in a relationship with a girl who's still in school while you're thru or didn't attend one? Bros better watch it. A lecturer once boasted that he had slept with over 110 girls in 2 years from one of the tertiary institution in Lagos State.

Adios

To an extent, dressing play a part in sexual harasment. Jst as OP said, she was wearing... .... So if u dress well and stand on ur grounds, ur haraser would definitely respect u. But why havent we been hearing of that of female lecturers sef

Some lecturers are G.O.A.TS sef. If u know

women should stop using sex to get what they want from Men, Many men have fallen victim to women's sexual snares.


How can a woman coerce a man to buy her a 2018 Range Rover or build a mansion for her if Not Through SEX!

And these same women has the cheek to complain Harrasment?


Harvey weinstein is still walking Around a free man
After so many confused women Accused him of sexual harrasment.

Fash20:



Is the class room or lecturers office a swimming pool? Until women learn to dress moderately they wont stop being rape/ sexual harassment victims.

the maggots in your brain.
Mr caveman

Back then in school, my uncle(as we nigerians will say) literally my nephew had a sefcon near sch where he lives. He's a church go'er sha, na dem type una go hear dem voices 4 church. Bt nevermind d man n him fellow colleagues de do d deed codedly but one thing i'd say is dat Na babes de rush dem and at d end de grade based on merit highest de uplift any failures. But people are hypocrites!

I feel guys are also assaulted only that they usually don't speak up.
I hope and pray our society to also protect the interest of the young chaps too.
I have my own experience too during my affirmative age.

I feel guys are also assaulted only that they usually don't speak up.
I hope and pray our society to also protect the interest of the young chaps too.
I have my own experience too during my affirmative age but i guess i will leave the story for another day.

there was this very beautiful lady in my class,who took part in MBGN,she was being wooed by a young lecturer,she refused.the lecturer decided to conduct a test and failed her woefully.the bold lady informed the guys in my class (engineering).we decided to help her out ,by reporting to a senior lecturer,who is also a professor.the prof summoned the lecturer and the lady and her script was requested and the prof marked it himself

frbona:
the maggots in your brain.
Mr caveman

Can't you express yourself without insult.

I think I have to point out that, no matter what a woman wears you don't have any reason to rape her .
First premise to examine is can you rape an HIV positive person even if naked or a mad person(i know some people can be crazy though)
Also there is no law against dressing the way she is dressed, but it's breaking law to force her against her will and have sex with her. This implies that she commits no crime by wearing whatever she wears but you commit a jailable offence by raping her. Would you rather destroy your future and end up in prison just because someone chose to wear what
Then if you are not an animal I'm the animals kingdom, you will never be proud of yourself for raping a woman.

However whenever someone points out the need for women to dress appropriately, it does not have to be a justification for rape. What about the fact that we read so we won't fail, it's a fact that terrible things happen out there so I will advise my daughter to dress to be secured.. Don't expose yourself to danger, I am a man and I know what how you dress can do to men that are low life

...when a thread is opened for ladies especially to share their experience and all they do is read and advice others. then he thread is as good as useless. lets close this unresponsive thread and leave them with the problem.seems they enjoy it

Wiseandtrue:

It doesn't justify an irresponsible behaviour!

So if the lecturer sees his daughter's nudity, he should sleep with her

And you all are here condemning MOYO that TVC presenter

Some lecturers even go for Muslims in hijab (covering)

So what do you have to say about that

Is like saying that people stole from you because they had a peep of your properties!

Let us jointly condemn It!

There is no justification for evil!

It's obvious you don't understand what I said

expired

swiz123:
Lectures are arguably sexually harassed than female students.

I know a handful of girls who went to lecturers to seduce them for marks.

They should settle with those ones provided it's by mutual agreement.

Fash20:


Can't you express yourself without insult.

my apologies
I take that back

frbona:
my apologies
I take that back

Apology accepted. Have a nice day

gypsey:
Rubbish! if you make yourself Available to be harrassed, you will be harrassed. Nigerian women are the easiest, flash some cash in their faces they will be happy to be harrassed as much as one wants.


It's only when they didn't get what they wanted from the "harrasment" they claim they ve been or are harrassed


Believe it or not I know!

How do one make herself available to be harrass please?

Fash20:


I believe rape and sexual harassment would reduce drastically if women dress moderately and desist from doing what would make them vulnerable.

Men have raped even women who covered up. Women need to watch how they dress depending on the occasion/event bt men also have a responsibility to behave reasonably and not like animals in the jungle.

If men do not accept responsibility they have automatically given themselves Licence to misbehave.

Lecturers should be professional and work within what is legal and lawful. If a lady misbehaves they shud put her in check or report the issue to the appropriate quarters cos ladies can also harass lecturers.

jaxxy:


Men have rape even women who covered up. Women need to watch how they dress depending on the occasion/event bt men also have a responsibility to behave reasonably and not like animals in the jungle.

If men do not accept responsibility they have automatically given themselves Licence to misbehave.

Lecturers should be professional and work within what is legal and lawful. If a lady misbehaves they shud put her in check or report the issue to the appropriate quarters cos ladies can also harass lecturers.

I agree with you.

chisco82:

How do one make herself available to be harrass please?

If you are in a University to study stick to your studies, If Anyone Approaches you for an unwanted relationship or Attention, make it clear that you are not interested. don't Accept gifts, cash or any other form of Material kindness. don't give Anyone Any impression that you are interested in them suggestively. Report Any form of "harrasement" if you feel you are or have been harrassed, Say NO!! clearly to Any sexual Advances if you are not Interested.


Believe it or not Apply these rules you will be Fine!! Good luck!!

chisco82:

How do one make herself available to be harrass please?

If you are in a University to study stick to your studies, If Anyone Approaches you for an unwanted relationship or Attention, make it clear that you are not interested. don't Accept gifts?, cash or any other form of Material kindness. don't give Anyone Any impression that you are interested in them suggestively. Report Any form of "harrasement" if you feel you are or have been harrassed, Say NO!! clearly to Any sexual Advances if you are not interested.


Believe it or not Apply these rules you will be Fine!! Good luck!!