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What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by empire2017(op):
happy boxing day friends..
please I need advise,this issue is really bothering me!
OK, I met this girl during one of my outing in school. I like and admire her much hence I strike up a conversion with her while waiting for my brother (same kindred), my brother arrived and both of them start talking like friends. i was surprised at first but ignored them.
before the arrival of my bro,av already collected her(Juliet) number ,so later that day I asked my brother about Juliet and he told me she's one of his friends and nothing much.. but I tried to let him(my brother) know I have feelings for the girl.
2weeks latter, I noticed some strange behavior form my brother. note(he has a girlfriend o)then I asked him y and he said nothing, then my mind told me is because of my friendship with that juliet "(not real name) ,so one cool evening I invited her ,she came and I started telling her my mind ,she was confused cos I spoke to her in parables though, then she requested I explained better to her and I quote" 3THINGS SEPARATE BROTHERS 1,IS MONEY, 2 TWO IS FRIEND WHILE 3 IS A GIRL/WOMEN "I CAN'T LET U DESTROY MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BROTHER" she starts shedding tears ,telling me my brother never propose love to her and he has a girlfriend. I just ignored her(Juliet) and left the environment
that same evening, my brother visited me with a different girl(asin side shima,not her real chick) he signalled me to leave and I understood that immediately.. when the shima left, I asked my brother about Juliet ,still trying to let him know I have feelings for her and he said "BROTHER JUST CHOP AND LET ME CHOP "
hmmm!! I breathe heavily, I told him I love juliet and I want her as my girl..his mood changed immediately. but after my initial encounter with the girl,(Juliet) at my invitation, she has been calling and begging me that my brother is not her boyfriend even texted me.I love the girl (,Juliet)so I decided to welcome her back,she immediately cutoffs all her contact with my brother.. and we have been rolling wellah... but my problem is that, is over 2months since the incident happened. my brother Hardly talk to me or reply my chat on Facebook or WhatsApp.. I wana make peace with him....advise me please...
initially I wanted to end the relationship but the girl(Juliet)said something that touched my heart. she said "I LOVE U WITH MY HEART, HENCE I ENDED ANYTHING THAT MAY SERVE AS HINDRANCE TO US..PLEASE " BEKEE" DON'T BREAK MY HEART. PLEASE " that words touched me...

wana make peace with my brother ..advise plssss...sorry for the long post.. and typo errors that may occur..
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:14pm On Dec 26, 2018
empire2017:
happy boxing day friends..
please I need advise,this issue is really bothering me!
OK, I met this girl during one of my outing in school. I like and admire her much hence I strike up a conversion with her while waiting for my brother (same kindred), my brother arrived and both of them start talking like friends. i was surprised at first but ignored them.
before the arrival of my bro,av already collected her number ,so later that day I asked my brother about her and he told me she's one of her friends and nothing much.. but I tried to let her know I have feelings for the girl.
2weeks latter, I noticed some strange behavior form my brother. note(he has a girlfriend o)then I asked him y and he said nothing, then my mind told me is because of my friendship with that girl by name"Juliet "(not real name) ,so one cool evening I inverted her ,she came and I started telling her my mind ,she was confused cos I spoke to her in parables though, then she requested I explained better to her and I quote" 3THINGS SEPARATE BROTHERS 1,IS MONEY, 2 TWO IS FRIEND WHILE 3 IS A GIRL/WOMEN "I CAN'T LET U DESTROY MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BROTHER" she starts shedding tears ,telling me my brother never propose love to her and he has a girlfriend. I just ignored her and left the environment
that same evening, my brother visited me with a different girl(not her real chick) he signalled me to leave and I understood that immediately.. when the girl left, I asked my brother about Juliet ,still trying to let her know I have feelings for her and he said "BROTHER JUST CHOP ND LET ME CHOP "
hmmm I breathe heavily, I told her I love the girl and I want her as my girl..his mood changed immediately. but after my encounter with the girl at my invitation, she has been calling and begging me that my brother is not her boyfriend even texted me.I love this girl do I decided to welcome her back,she immediately cutoffs all her contact with my brother.. and we have been rolling wella.. but my problem is that, is over 2months since the incident happened. my brother Hardly talk to me or reply my chat on Facebook or WhatsApp.. I wana make peace with him....advise me please...
initially I wanted to end the relationship but the girl said something that touched my heart. she said "I LOVE U WITH MY HEART, HENCE I ENDED ANYTHING THAT MAY SERVE AS HINDRANCE TO US..PLEASE " BEKEE" DON'T BREAK MY HEART. PLEASE " that words touched me...

wana make peace with my brother ..advise plssss...sorry for the long post..
Date the babe, dont worry about your bro, he will get over her and get some other babes to fool around with.
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by Godmother(f): 11:18pm On Dec 26, 2018
*sighs*

You all seem like children to me; building issues where there are none.

Your brother also seems like an unserious fellow, rolling with so many girls. You better draw that girl close and warn your brother to keep off.

Let him know this one is not for 'community chopping".





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Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by CreepyBlackpool: 11:20pm On Dec 26, 2018
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.
Jesus!!!!
enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by lilmax(m): 11:20pm On Dec 26, 2018
smh.....it seems its your brother you'll get married to las las


you better use your head, family is forever but, set your standards and build your wall
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by sukerefakere(m): 11:22pm On Dec 26, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.

Jesus!!!!

enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
grin
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by empire2017(op): 11:27pm On Dec 26, 2018
Godmother:
*sighs*

You all seem like children to me; building issues where there are none.

Your brother also seems like an unserious fellow, rolling with so many girls. You better draw that girl close and warn your brother to keep off.

Let him know this one is not for 'community chopping".





Here's What to Do If Your Phone Falls Into Water
have done that but it really creating huge enmity..
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by clive2u(m): 11:28pm On Dec 26, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.

Jesus!!!!

enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
mehn, he's prioritizing the wrong thing
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by empire2017(op): 11:29pm On Dec 26, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.

Jesus!!!!

enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
noted. just understand that I can't be perfect ..besides "oyinbo"aren't perfect in my own native dialect
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by 10mobile: 11:39pm On Dec 26, 2018
Build your manly aura and you will no longer need to hanker after girl issues. The most beautiful feeling you will ever have is to have ladies looking for you wherever you go, instead of you looking for them and putting them in a position of emotional advantage over you. It is why many men complain that their women are not loyal to them. Those women had been spoilt by the same men complaining about them, by making them feel more important than they are. Learn to build your manly aura and enjoy women always seeking you out and all these will be over. I recommend Dr Des. Just email him and get trained for free. doctordes101@gmail.com
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by kiddoiLL(m): 11:53pm On Dec 26, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.

Jesus!!!!

enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
the thing tire me oooo.... I dey try read but as I reach dat he inverted her side, my head first puff smoke... but this your statement enh Bro you no go make heaven oo

Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by empire2017(op): 11:59pm On Dec 26, 2018
kiddoiLL:
the thing tire me oooo.... I dey try read but as I reach dat he inverted her side, my head first puff smoke... but this your statement enh Bro you no go make heaven oo
trying to type fast ,typo errors must occur.. anyways.. thanks.
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by Offpoint: 12:01am On Dec 27, 2018
Which gender is your brother gan-gan?
All these her, his, him, her, inverter....is confusing my confusion. Can you please type in your local dialet, I will Google Translate it.

her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him,.. na lyrics?
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by kiddoiLL(m): 12:21am On Dec 27, 2018
empire2017:
trying to type fast ,typo errors must occur.. anyways.. thanks.
thanks for? Lol, bro don't take any offence from my statement please, I'm only reacting to the other guy's statement.... I saw you admitted you need to fix up your English and I find that matured and cool. Good luck with it bro
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by empire2017(op): 12:31am On Dec 27, 2018
Offpoint:
Which gender is your brother gan-gan?
All these her, his, him, her, inverter....is confusing my confusion. Can you please type in your local dialet, I will Google Translate it.

her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him, her, his, him, he, her, his, him,.. na lyrics?
modified now bro...thanks. was trying to type fast.
Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by Godmother(f): 7:48am On Dec 27, 2018
empire2017:
have done that but it really creating huge enmity..
Then continue with the girl you love since she also likes you and ignore your brother for now. He'll come around.







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Re: What Can I Do In This Situation Please!! by lordm(m): 9:12am On Dec 27, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
I tried reading your post and I lost like 50 IQ points.

Jesus!!!!

enyia forget both the girl and your bro, you need English lessons asap
you are the most wicked person I have seen in my life. Ah, kilode. Lol
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