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Growing Ugly Trend Amongst Married Women must stop.
By OMA | 27-12-2018 | Education |

Either be married or not.
Married people
Who else has noticed this growing trend amongst married women.

Is it just me or is it peculiar to my circle?

So, I seem to come across a lot of married women these days still bearing their Father's name middle of their name before their Husband's Name and I ask myself what that nonsense stands for.

Either a form of Security so if the marriage doesn't work out she reverts to her maiden name and be like she never ever truly dropped her first Surname anyways (Fathers Name).

The Husbands of such women are weaklings that cant stand their grounds of blinded by love.
It is either you are married or you are still in your fathers house.

You cant be married and Bear your Fathers name and at the same time still bare your Husband's name except you are telling me you are married to your father and your Husband at the same time.

It is like eating your cake and wanting to still have it.

Any woman wey follow me try that non-sense should be ready to park back to her father's house to go and marry her father since her papa name dey sweet am that much.

OMA concerned Nigerian reporting on Behalf of Men for www.omascope.com




https://www.omascope.com/education/growing-ugly-trend-amongst-married-women-must-stop

Imagine me marrying an Adenuga or dangote or dantata or indimi daughters and thinking I will ask her to drop her surname , ordinary dating or courtship lasan,I don dey bear her surname........Baba,forget about alpha male or Red-pill some stuffs are just an exception...

We should be bothered about providing for the family also making them happy and not bothered about if they bear the surname of their village masquerade.


Take Lessons from Olu Jacob and Joke Silva.

Misplaced priority
How does the name a woman chooses to answer affect your life .

JasonScoolari:
We should be bothered about providing for the family also making them happy and not bothered about if they bear the surname of their village masquerade.


Take Lessons from Olu Jacob and Joke Silva.

Oga, this is Africa. Na ur type woman dey lock for blorkus.

virgoquin:
Misplaced priority

How does the name a woman chooses to answer affect your life .

so she should be married to me and still bear her fathers name.

you must be joking.

try it with me and go back to marry your father

PStacks:
Oga, this is Africa. Na ur type woman dey lock for blorkus.

"This is Africa" "This is Africa" should not make a young man like you turn to a primitive monkey.

To be civilize you don't have to be educated.

Bother your head with something productive.

If she like make she join her uncle name with the papa own.. All I know be say her congo na my own

virgoquin:
Misplaced priority

How does the name a woman chooses to answer affect your life .

I hear you are one of the indimi's daughters disguising on nairaland,pls I want to bear your surname, jor shaanu mi

InvestorO:
Imagine me marrying an Adenuga or dangote or dantata or indimi daughters and thinking I will ask her to drop her surname , ordinary dating or courtship lasan,I don dey bear her surname........Baba,forget about alpha male or Red-pill some stuffs are just an exception...

Gold-digger

ouzo1:
If she like make she join her uncle name with the papa own.. All I know be say her congo na my own

Mr Congo Shina

JasonScoolari:
"This is Africa" "This is Africa" should not make a young man like you turn to a primitive monkey.

To be civilize you don't have to be educated.

Bother your head with something productive.

Mr Productive...


Dats y u Choose 4 God to Bless Ibori..


I pity ur productivity

PStacks:
Mr Productive...


Dats y u Choose 4 God to Bless Ibori..


I pity ur productivity

You're not making sense anymore.

Au revoir!

Using her father's name together with yours and only using her father's are two different things. As a man it's what you agree to....that your wife will sneer you with.

PStacks:
Oga, this is Africa. Na ur type woman dey lock for blorkus.

everyone knows africa is backward. Strive to mk it better. As per ur post y not mind ur business. If ur not happy report them to police na

Foodforthought:
Using her father's name together with yours and only using her father's are two different things. As a man it's what you agree to....that your wife will sneer you with.

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she dey mad ni.. how will she use only her fathers name and she is married to me.



Im talking of using her fathers name before using my own surname.


its wrong.


once u are married u drop ur fathers name. That is African culture and tradition even in western worlds abeg.

ednut1:
everyone knows africa is backward. Strive to mk it better. As per ur post y not mind ur business. If ur not happy report them to police na

strive to make it better by promoting nonsense ba.?

Nothing wrong with that na but if its going to cause unnecessary problems then you leave. Some guys can be unnecessarily jealous

PStacks:
Oga, this is Africa. Na ur type woman dey lock for blorkus.

Funny how you Make stupid assumptions tho.Coz he's more concerned about providing for his family than being bothered about what surname she's bearing or not is the reason why he's less of a man??
you might be the one who ends up in the blorkus of your wife.. who knows

chiommy123:
Nothing wrong with that na but if its going to cause unnecessary problems then you leave. Some guys can be unnecessarily jealous

As a Lady... u Can Never c anytHing wrong in it

MannieA:
Funny how you Make stupid assumptions tho.Coz he's more concerned about providing for his family than being bothered about what surname she's bearing or not is the reason why he's less of a man??
you might be the one who ends up in the blorkus of your wife.. who knows

Oga Feminist.. abeg park well jare

Seriously speaking I really don't have anything against it..she might be an only child and might just want to do it for her father.buh am only gonna accept it on two condition's..
1.. whether you bear your father or mother name ain't my business as far my name is there..
2.the nam dies with you none of my kid's is gonna get that name..
If she agrees to that we are cool

No girl can try that rubbish with me.
These feminazis can only try it with effeminate idiots.
Some fools up here defending the disgusting act!

PStacks:
Oga Feminist.. abeg park well jare

you don't have anything important to say.You don't know who a feminist is.some of you males call people who say the truth feminists because you feel it's the best way to ridicule a woman.

People who rant about not doing something, are the ones who later end up doing 'em.Save your energy.Stop ranting

MannieA:
you don't have anything important to say.You don't know who a feminist is.some of you males call people who say the truth feminists because you feel it's the best way to ridicule a woman.

How aNd why SHOULD I pay ur Bride Price aNd u still bear ur Father's Name.. 4 wat na??

Fyi0:
No girl can try that rubbish with me.
These feminazis can only try it with effeminate idiots.
Some fools up here defending the disgusting act!

I Taya oooo

Only a wussy would accept that

PStacks:
Growing Ugly Trend Amongst Married Women must stop.
By OMA | 27-12-2018 | Education |

Either be married or not.
Married people
Who else has noticed this growing trend amongst married women.

Is it just me or is it peculiar to my circle?

So, I seem to come across a lot of married women these days still bearing their Father's name middle of their name before their Husband's Name and I ask myself what that nonsense stands for.

Either a form of Security so if the marriage doesn't work out she reverts to her maiden name and be like she never ever truly dropped her first Surname anyways (Fathers Name).

The Husbands of such women are weaklings that cant stand their grounds of blinded by love.
It is either you are married or you are still in your fathers house.

You cant be married and Bear your Fathers name and at the same time still bare your Husband's name except you are telling me you are married to your father and your Husband at the same time.

It is like eating your cake and wanting to still have it.

Any woman wey follow me try that non-sense should be ready to park back to her father's house to go and marry her father since her papa name dey sweet am that much.

OMA concerned Nigerian reporting on Behalf of Men for www.omascope.com




https://www.omascope.com/education/growing-ugly-trend-amongst-married-women-must-stop

so she should drop her surname if it is dangote or otedola. If your surname doesn't open any influence to more circles than her father's, then there os no reason to change it. Better go and hustle to be great, instead of wailing here

KingOfAllIgbos:
Only a wussy would accept that

sessie u meant

funmisticqueen:
so she should drop her surname if it is dangote or otedola. If your surname doesn't open any influence to more circles than her father's, then there os no reason to change it. Better go and hustle to be great, instead of wailing here

Olosho tins