DukeofNZ:


make you no de say nonsense. na who tell you say person we be career woman no suppose de humble and submit to man. me i don live for many countries, my mother na medical doctor for america and my father na successful businessman and i be successful man, my family de happy because my mother no de behave like bitter woman. bitter woman like pocohantas of nairaland na bad exmaple for wetin a career woman no suppose be and she no successful self. make she no de make noise de yarn nonsense. make she change her way. she de bitter.

woman can have money and de humble

lol. I smell lies. Your upbringing was probably done by housemaids

xynerise:


The truth is bitter ma.


I repeat!!! The weak and lazy ones are the majority. Sue me!!!

one weak and lazy one is coming your way

DukeofNZ:


make you no de say nonsense. na who tell you say person we be career woman no suppose de humble and submit to man. me i don live for many countries, my mother na medical doctor for america and my father na successful businessman and i be successful man, my family de happy because my mother no de behave like bitter woman. bitter woman like pocohantas of nairaland na bad exmaple for wetin a career woman no suppose be and she no successful self. make she no de make noise de yarn nonsense. make she change her way. she de bitter.

woman can have money and de humble

Are you humble and submissive yourself?

Why are you looking for a humble and submissive person? Is she a dog? It's only a dog that will be all those things.

Let's be reasonable about the unreasonable expectations you place on women.

We're not being fair to them. They're human, too.

There's nothing like "humble... Submit". There's respect. Respect is reciprocal. Respect her and she will respect you.

funmisticqueen:
one weak and lazy one is coming your way

I am allergic to the weak and lazy ones

funmisticqueen:
like all the women in your family opened their legs to weak men and gave birth to weak sons like you.

Hmm, God don catch u, so u mean u have been opening ur legs for strong men? wow that's interesting, very soon u will become a career woman.

By the way, which Alhaji or Chief bought that car for? u most have impressed him in the other room. Lol
Continue to work hard, u will soon became a career woman. Lol

U think say na only u sabi insult pessin abi?

Tellemall:


Are you humble and submissive yourself?

Why are you looking for a humble and submissive person? Is she a dog? It's only a dog that will be all those things.

Let's be reasonable about the unreasonable expectations you place on women.

We're not being fair to them. They're human, too.

There's nothing like "humble... Submit". There's respect. Respect is reciprocal.

make you no do like mumu. wetin you know. me know your type of somebody i de sure say you never crossed your state before and no know say bad woman na bad woman for any place for dis world. me i have successful parents and me i de successful so me i know wetin be good woman and wetin be bad woman. you tink say good career and money na dey be everything. no de yarn nonsense you hear. bitter woman na bitter woman

Lol, who said I am opening my legs for anyone? I have no child and am keeping myself for the man I find worthy. Closing shop helps to keep weak men like you away

Almunjid:


Hmm, God don catch u, so u mean u have been opening ur legs for strong men? wow that's interesting, very soon u will start claiming career woman.

By the way, which Alhaji or Chief bought u that car? u most have impressed him in the other room. Lol

U think say na only u sabi insult pessin abi?

DukeofNZ:


make you no do like mumu. wetin you know. me know your type of somebody i de sure say you never crossed your state before and no know say bad woman na bad woman for any place for dis world. me i have successful parents and me i de successful so me i know wetin be good woman and wetin be bad woman. you tink say good career and money na dey be everything. no de yarn nonsense you hear. bitter woman na bitter woman

You don't know if I'm Nigerian or not. I know most of you don't leave your states. Which is a pity.

Thanks for your analysis, though it is incorrect.

Tellemall:


Are you humble and submissive yourself?

Why are you looking for a humble and submissive person? Is she a dog? It's only a dog that will be all those things.

Let's be reasonable about the unreasonable expectations you place on women.

We're not being fair to them. They're human, too.

There's nothing like "humble... Submit". There's respect. Respect is reciprocal. Respect her and she will respect you.

leave him, does he look like the child of successful people to you?

Heloct:



Source: https://helenaheloct..com/2018/12/stale-but-stew-1.html?m=1

career conscious instead of entitlement conscious!

ya black women should start thinking with ya head instead of letting that smelly hoes do the thinking

funmisticqueen:
leave him, does he look like the child of successful people to you?

Do not mind the way I write here, I am both a successful medical doctor and businessman. me i fit feed de whole of your local government for 100 years. both you and that guy you quote no sabi anything. una no sabi wetin de good and wetin de bad. bitter woman na bitter woman

good money and successful career no suppose make any body de arrogant

funmisticqueen:
Lol, who said I am opening my legs for anyone? I have no child and am keeping myself for the man I find worthy. Closing shop helps to keep weak men like you away

U said so, u said u open ur legs for strong men.
U don't have child does not mean u r not doing it.

I know ur type, u call guys that r not rich as weak men. That's y u preferred strong men because they r rich. By the time chief or Alhaji give u enough money u will establish ur self and become a career women. Lol
I hope u will retire soon... Lol

Almunjid:
From Slay queens to Olosho then to career women. Oloshos bear career women when they retire. They can only deceive the gullibles. We know that they all opened their legs to get to that position.

lol!

or rather bend their way to the top!


yansh benders

DukeofNZ:


Do not mind the way I write here, I am both a successful medical doctor and businessman. me i fit feed de whole of your local government for 100 years. both you and that guy you quote no sabi anything. una no sabi wetin de good and wetin de bad. bitter woman na bitter woman

good money and successful career no suppose make any body de arrogant

all I can see from your statement is delusion of grandeur

Almunjid:


U said so, u said u open ur legs for strong men.
U don't have child does not mean u r not doing it.

I know ur type, u call guys that r not rich as weak men. That's y u preferred strong men because they r rich. By the time chief or Alhaji give u enough money u will establish ur self and become a career women. Lol
I hope u will retire soon... Lol

think anything that helps you sleep at night

funmisticqueen:
all I can see from your statement is delusion of grandeur

na somebody like u we never tasted success before de make noise and abuse people anyhow, and wen una begin to taste success small una go begin de try to emasculate men we de for una life and other women wey una consider unsuccessful

me know wen a person wey de successful de yarn

Almunjid:


U said so, u said u open ur legs for strong men.
U don't have child does not mean u r not doing it.

I know ur type, u call guys that r not rich as weak men. That's y u preferred strong men because they r rich. By the time chief or Alhaji give u enough money u will establish ur self and become a career women. Lol
I hope u will retire soon... Lol

lol her yansh go soon start to dey produce 5 5 naira note!

funmisticqueen:
think anything that helps you sleep at night

Lol, it's seems I don pass ur power. U don meet ur Waterloo!.

I hope sambarry reads this
So that she would not discourage women who want to enter politics.

Tellemall:
Nigerian men will misunderstand this post as feminism and begin the "alpha male" BS: impoverished, beggars, bending, opening, money etc. At the end of the day they're still the ones giving those girls monetary gifts. It's like an online rage against a hurricane. They want career women but cannot handle it. Things like : arrogance, rules, not taking care of the children, etc. You can't eat your cake and have it. Worst are the female sympathizers, so damaged by years of abuse and disregard from their counterparts. Nigeria has a long way to go in the way its male citizens reason.

Gender is not a restriction. It's an unavoidable vehicle to getting your dreams accomplished.

You want the Western world? Get ready for all of it. The "alpha male" blather is the imagination of the weak. The people you copy take it all. Take it all, too.

Do not assume I'm female for saying this.

The career women v men threads are getting boring because the men need reorientation about life and the world.

The (Nigerian) women also need reorientation about life and the world.

Cigo1:
Lol.

80% of your single rich women bent over to get to their position now.
And being a leader, an alpha male is clearly in a male's DNA..

Also, your attempt at generating traffic to your blog is puerile. I hope that is not what makes you a career woman too.

And all the men on top miraculously deserve it.

Bravo.

I have long waited for this post,

And it's very good, d type of career a woman picks is very very important,so many woman have used their hands to drive them self out of their husband or their family hux becus of the type of career line they are involved in, we all know example of all dis career and I usually term them "what a man can do a woman can do better" ladies b watchful"

You might end up picking a career becus your parents wants u to or because u want to compete with men on the field but at d end you just get exhausted because the abilty of what a man can condole is totally different from that of a woman and God has long made it dat way, I have meet a few female who picked engineering as a course and I was like why don't u pick a course which u can work from home like computer science which was even suggested also by her aunty also to her, yes I kw u are picking d engineering because it's lucrative but don't dive into a field dat will distance yourself from your husband and family, but she said my parents what me to study engineering and elect elect to b precise, na waoo, if only dis girl kws what's she is going for she will think twice,

For me a lady dat goes for a professional field u can name them, just a few are still able to handle their home which d many of them completely allow their professional job climb their head and last last na cry day end am

Woman way don too get money, men hardly come around them, no matter how financially ok the man is, people say the man will b intimidated, and it isn't intimidation, naturally woman get pride then con money con join again forget it anytin u say is rubbish just few women still humble them selfs even with d money but na 1 in 100 women still day loyal

Heloct:



Source: https://helenaheloct..com/2018/12/stale-but-stew-1.html?m=1

@OP

Happy 2019.

I would have preferred the post was quotable.

I cringe at tags such as 'boss lady', 'independent woman', 'career woman' etc. because it connotes that being a woman is not enough or these qualities are not inherent in women.

This is 2019: women should just be women of integrity who have principles and build values along the way.

They should also look for men inline with their dreams who can push then when they slack.

Chinashopping84:
career women hardly have time time for the family

So men cannot assist in the home but you lots do not need a liability for a wife You also need a woman who can assist in putting food on the table but cannot help her take care of the home because according to your so called traditional archaic settings men provide women nurture . forgetting that this is 2019 times have changed and it Is not a crime if a man helps out.
You just want to eat your cake and have it.
Help your wife it is not a crime.
The family abi na home is also yours.

good women make una de career conscious but make una no turn to bitter women, na wetin alpha men like us de talk. the original poster be like a good woman wey de career conscious but dat one wey dey de cal pocohantas and oda bitter women like her no follow for promo

mogbojaiye:
I have long waited for this post,

And it's very good, d type of career a woman picks is very very important,so many woman have used their hands to drive them self out of their husband or their family hux becus of the type of career line they are involved in, we all know example of all dis career and I usually term them "what a man can do a woman can do better" ladies b watchful"

You might end up picking a career becus your parents wants u to or because u want to compete with men on the field but at d end you just get exhausted because the abilty of what a man can condole is totally different from that of a woman and God has long made it dat way, I have meet a few female who picked engineering as a course and I was like why don't u pick a course which u can work from home like computer science which was even suggested also by her aunty also to her, yes I kw u are picking d engineering because it's lucrative but don't dive into a field dat will distance yourself from your husband and family, but she said my parents what me to study engineering and elect elect to b precise, na waoo, if only dis girl kws what's she is going for she will think twice,

For me a lady dat goes for a professional field u can name them, just a few are still able to handle their home which d many of them completely allow their professional job climb their head and last last na cry day end am

I doubt any normal woman would pick a career to compete with a man. I am not even considering them in this discuss.

So if I desire to be an engineer, I shouldn't because?

What if I read education and because I am excellent at what I do, I am made minister for Education or perm sec for education (e.g. Daddy Adekunle Gold), do I reject it?

Do you realize that some teachers would work harder/ longer hours than some engineers?

bukatyne:


I doubt any normal woman would pick a career to compete with a man. I am not even considering them in this discuss.

So if I desire to be an engineer, I shouldn't because?

What if I read education and because I am excellent at what I do, I am made minister for Education or perm sec for education (e.g. Daddy Adekunle Gold), do I reject it?

Do you realize that some teachers would work harder/ longer hours than some engineers?

If u are good at wat u do fine but don't pick a career dat will put ur family below u and ur job as a priority there by distancing your self from ur duty as a wife

Why do u think people hardly marry nurses? And I would even prefer going for a teacher as a wife than a nurse

Hmm so much for a long post filled with balderdash Oga Abeg leave this your mentality for 2018.Balderdash written in one piece.Mehnn your level of primitiveness nor be here

mogbojaiye:
I have long waited for this post,

And it's very good, d type of career a woman picks is very very important,so many woman have used their hands to drive them self out of their husband or their family hux becus of the type of career line they are involved in, we all know example of all dis career and I usually term them "what a man can do a woman can do better" ladies b watchful"

You might end up picking a career becus your parents wants u to or because u want to compete with men on the field but at d end you just get exhausted because the abilty of what a man can condole is totally different from that of a woman and God has long made it dat way, I have meet a few female who picked engineering as a course and I was like why don't u pick a course which u can work from home like computer science which was even suggested also by her aunty also to her, yes I kw u are picking d engineering because it's lucrative but don't dive into a field dat will distance yourself from your husband and family, but she said my parents what me to study engineering and elect elect to b precise, na waoo, if only dis girl kws what's she is going for she will think twice,

For me a lady dat goes for a professional field u can name them, just a few are still able to handle their home which d many of them completely allow their professional job climb their head and last last na cry day end am

Woman way don too get money, men hardly come around them, no matter how financially ok the man is, people say the man will b intimidated, and it isn't intimidation, naturally woman get pride then con money con join again forget it anytin u say is rubbish just few women still humble them selfs even with d money but na 1 in 100 women still day loyal

Ladyhippolyta88:

So men cannot assist in the home but you lots do not need a liability for a wife You also need a woman who can assist in putting food on the table but cannot help her take care of the home because according to your so called traditional archaic settings men provide women nurture . forgetting that this is 2019 times have changed and it Is not a crime if a man helps out.
You just want to eat your cake and have it.
Help your wife it is not a crime.
The family abi na home is also yours.

There are situation where u can decide not to help your wife,
A woman dat goes to d office or her office 8 -4pm and at month end does not contribute a dime to d hux and d husband works also from 8-5pm then pays children school fees and hux upkeep fees then u expect d man to enter kitchen, is dat man sick? Who does dat?

funmisticqueen:
while I like your post a candles that burns at both ends lives shorter.Those men with careers, don't have time for their families. Taking care of tge family and making sure your offspring are responsible members of a society is a full time career. Some women dream to have healthy families. Nothing is wrong with that and nothing is wrong with being a full time housewife. A full time housewife can also have a business empire

A new breed of woman is coming, she is the kept independent woman

How can an housewife have a business empire?

mogbojaiye:


There are situation where u can decide not to help your wife,
A woman dat goes to d office or her office 8 -4pm and at month end does not contribute a dime to d hux and d husband works also from 8-5pm then pays children school fees and hux upkeep fees then u expect d man to enter kitchen, is dat man sick? Who does dat?

And who works but doesn't feed the family? or is this your narrative peculiar to women alone.Do men not also work and spend their monies on drinks and chase young ladies outside forgetting that they have a wife and children but leave all their responsibilities for their wives.
Now tell me which sane woman still stays with such a man or considers assisting him in one way or the other.?Is such a woman sick?

mogbojaiye:


If u are good at wat u do fine but don't pick a career dat will put ur family below u and ur job as a priority there by distancing your self from ur duty as a wife

Why do u think people hardly marry nurses? And I would even prefer going for a teacher as a wife than a nurse

But a man can pick a career that would deny him the time for his children abi?and forget his so called duties as a husband abi?
No wonder children are closer to their mothers than father's because those men failed to also think about their families and build strong bond with their kids.
Anybody male or female should pick whatever careers they are capable and comfortable with.
And both should prioritise their homes if they so wish it is not a woman thing .