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wealthyhenry:
Now I see you're arguing blindly. I'll put this matter to rest. All d best tho...

Shut up ur mouth...She has defeated you...

You can't conclude

Ask for nude first wt good offer

If she sends to u

Then invite her to hotel to reveal yourself

fergieboy:
I keep saying this..

Aslong as you ain't married to her.,

I don't see anything wrong here

Babe is just keeping her options open

If it's me I won't be angry coz I have not paid her bride price

Even you yourself will fail the test so

So until then.. She is free to meet whoever she wants to me..

No. If you are in a relationship, you don't keep your option open and cheat.

SenorFax:
Takes one to know one

well spoken bro

Lightangel65:
Y
True, for sluts and guys who cant keep their things in their trousers.
Love exists, though not many would see it.only the pure, and spiritual people would see this.

Love does not involve sex, they are polar opposites.
Love does not lust, sex is borne out of lust

sex was only made to bring forth children that's all.

I totally disagree with your last statement. I don't know if such assertion was borne put of religious sentiment! But I want to tell you that Sex has different purposes. It wasn't mainly for procreation; it was meant to connect souls together.

Fix a day n meet her up

funmisticqueen:
She doesnt owe him any loyalty until he proposes. Loyalty from your lady is not your birthright.

Good luck with your future husband.

funmisticqueen:
She doesnt owe him any loyalty until he proposes. Loyalty from your lady is not your birthright.

Ha

Op,the table you are shaking will end in regrets. Believe me.

Please,stop stalking your woman. Find something better to do with your time. If a woman loves you dearly,and she cheats. The problem is right there in front of you -Distance.

Ask ladies,they detest distance so much in relationship. They always want to be around their man. Not because of sex or anything, they just want a companion. Have you ever wondered why they want you around in the market, sitting room, kitchen and laundry.? That is there nature.

Don't kill yourself and worry less to avoid HBP.

The solution to the issue is simple,heart to heart discussion.

Tell her your plans, bring her on board on everything,talk about everything and ask questions. Be sincere when doing this.

Do you know she might have cheated and she opens up when you have this discussion.? Yes,she can. Stalking will just put more problems on you and loose focus.

I have been through this road before,the moment I adopted the tatics,I heard lots of stuff and I did what I promised -FORGIVE and never to use it against her.

That is Love bro..!

Tell me if a more beautiful woman, with boobs ass everything hops into your dms, seduces and flirts with you, will you resist it? Stop trapping your partners purposely, it’s very immature and it shows you have no self esteem. No man or woman is perfect, so stop having unrealistic expectations for them. No smart woman will cut off all her toaster unless she’s 100% sure that it’s a serious committed relationship heading to a lifetime bond. You said you wanted to propose in December, that’s 12 months from now, what could happen in those 12 months? It’s very possible for a woman to love you, but keep her options open. She’s only looking out for herself and her time. Once you understand women, you’ll have peace of mind.

Madlov3:
So i created a fake Instagram account and started chatting with my gf.. she acknowledged having a bf but agreed to come meet me at a Five star hotel.
Am very heartbroken now! This is someone I wanted to propose to in December oo.
I don’t know if I should play along or I should just blow my cover and expose the hoe that she is

PS: we have started exchanging pictures! (I sent her my small cousins pics that is based in USA)Normal pics though but am thinking of asking for nude pics this night

She is not your wife.Until you proposemarry her,you're same with any man that goes on to mess her body up.

lefulefu:
some will say its civilization for a lady to have other guys in tow while she is in a serious relationship.any man who still goes ahead to marry a lady who jumps from one hotel room to the next should have himself to blame when d wife bcomes public toilet for other men.

"Define serious relationship"?

Speedyconnect15:
You could have fallen into same trap if such a test was administered to you.

Man is inherently selfish, greedy and always seeking greener pastures.


Are you saying same girl would continue with you if say wizkid were to propose to her?

I will never carry relationship -- which i see as business or contract --- on my head like gala or la casera.


No much expectations. Marrying a virgin even us no guaranty as she may sample more dickks later.


It's all risk.

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Aside: There is nothing like love or the misnormer -- unconditional love.

It's all business..

This sums it up. Blunt and harsh

nkwuocha:
"Define serious relationship"?

a defined relationship that will lead to marriage is what is known as a serious relationship.

nkwuocha:
She is not your wife.Until you proposemarry her,you're same with any man that goes on to mess her body up.

bros in the depths of ur heart i know say u no go gree marry a girl wey u dey move wit and u know say other men dey smash her .no average naija guy will do that except u are a white man.

Saffi:
Tell me if a more beautiful woman, with boobs ass everything hops into your dms, seduces and flirts with you, will you resist it? Stop trapping your partners purposely, it’s very immature and it shows you have no self esteem. No man or woman is perfect, so stop having unrealistic expectations for them. No smart woman will cut off all her toaster unless she’s 100% sure that it’s a serious committed relationship heading to a lifetime bond. You said you wanted to propose in December, that’s 12 months from now, what could happen in those 12 months? It’s very possible for a woman to love you, but keep her options open. She’s only looking out for herself and her time. Once you understand women, you’ll have peace of mind.

haha if a lady with big azz slides into my dm i will know its probably scam or setup.

Mafizo:
Shut up ur mouth...She has defeated you...

Defeated kwa? is it a contest? Fish Brains and myopic minds everywhere...

lefulefu:
a defined relationship that will lead to marriage is what is known as a serious relationship.

That's the mistake people who mess themselves up all in the name of relationship does.Theres no such thing as serious relationship until marriage occurs.Many have been in serious relationship and majority of them DID not end up in marriage.

Look,I keep telling ladies, DON'T ever buy the idea of being in a sexual relationship with any man.With that she is FREE without any form of guilt to go on dates , create lasting friendship first with various male figures.Dont ask for money and promise NONE nothing!A serious man on her list knows when to propose and take his wife in.

Jonathan:
Ha

Ha dusty simp

nkwuocha:
That's the mistake people who mess themselves up all in the name of relationship does.Theres no such thing as serious relationship until marriage occurs.Many have been in serious relationship and majority of them DID not end up in marriage.

Look,I keep telling ladies, DON'T ever buy the idea of being in a sexual relationship with any man.With that she is FREE without any form of guilt to go on dates , create lasting friendship first with various male figures.Dont ask for money and promise NONE nothing!A serious man on her list knows when to propose and take his wife in.

a lady who sleeps around while she has a serious guy will still sleep around when married to him...same with d guy too.except u are in an open or casual relationship where its ok if u want to sleep around but if u commited to someone then bros it aint cool if yu twotiming behind his or her back.

lefulefu:
bros in the depths of ur heart i know say u no go gree marry a girl wey u dey move wit and u know say other men dey smash her .no average naija guy will do that except u are a white man.

Any babe wey I never marry no be my own Guy!And I no be her own.The op should understand that.I once dated a girl and when I couldn't meet up I let her go,she got married less than a year later.Three years later I got married.

The op is wasting his time.She is not his property.Women na market them be,If you go market you fit see something wey you like,money no dey another person go buy am... Even rotten tomatoes get buyers pass tomatoes wey fresh.Some fresh tomatoes go dey o till night, People go see am dey pass nobody go buy,some go only admire comot face.Thats Women for you.

Go SS ,you go see Ejiro wey street guys start to dey kpash since 12 years.Same boys after 10 years go dey drag drink for her marriage to big man.you see,this one na rotten tomato wey see better buyer!

funmisticqueen:
idiot. She is free game until you walk her to the altar. What did you do to earn her loyalty?

meeennnhhhh....na prostitution in disguise be dat oooooo

nkwuocha:
Any babe wey I never marry no be my own Guy!And I no be her own.The op should understand that.I once dated a girl and when I couldn't meet up I let her go,she got married less than a year later.Three years later I got married.

The op is wasting his time.She is not his property.Women na market them be,If you go market you fit see something wey you like,money no dey another person go buy am... Even rotten tomatoes get buyers pass tomatoes wey fresh.Some fresh tomatoes go dey o till night, People go see am dey pass nobody go buy,some go only admire comot face.Thats Women for you.

Go SS ,you go see Ejiro wey street guys start to dey kpash since 12 years.Same boys after 10 years go dey drag drink for her marriage to big man.you see,this one na rotten tomato wey see better buyer!

d babe wey u first dey date wey don marry now una still dey relate on whatsap and facebook?

funmisticqueen:
idiot. She is free game until you walk her to the altar. What did you do to earn her loyalty?

na lie marriage changes nothing.if d babe still wants to fuk other men even when married she go do am with ease.is it not dis era dat some men carry married women to hotels to smash.

lefulefu:
a lady who sleeps around while she has a serious guy will still sleep around when married to him...same with d guy too.except u are in an open or casual relationship where its ok if u want to sleep around but if u commited to someone then bros it aint cool if yu twotiming behind his or her back.

Sir,women can't be predicted ever!Look,no matter how hard you try,you will be lucky to get a good wife these days.Evenas a man yourself,you also have a tendency to cheat and get away with it.

Guy, make we talk through women are beginning to mean a lot to the psychic of an average Nigeria guy due to the level of poverty among the youth.Any time I come to NL this days,the amount of guys crying and lamenting is alarming!You can't change women,who are you? Anything you see for life concerning the choice you make,guy na your cross be that o.

lefulefu:
d babe wey u first dey date wey don marry now una still dey relate on whatsap and facebook?

For what?!?
She is not even on my FB nor do I have her contact.

nkwuocha:
Sir,women can't be predicted ever!Look,no matter how hard you try,you will be lucky to get a good wife these days.Evenas a man yourself,you also have a tendency to cheat and get away with it.

Guy, make we talk through women are beginning to mean a lot to the psychic of an average Nigeria guy due to the level of poverty another the youth.Any time I come to NL this days,the amount of guys crying and lamenting is alarming!You can't change women,who are you? Anything you see for life concerning the choice you make,guy na your cross be that o.

well true sha some dudes sey carry woman matter for head like gala but then it might not really be poverty cos a popular dj jus killed himself yesterday cos im wife dump am.na low self esteem dey kill some men hence they build their personality around a woman .for me sha if i find out the lady i am with sleeps around wetin i go do be say i will codedly get my own share then i will waka away. guys need to dey sharp.

nkwuocha:
For what?!?
She is not even on my FB nor do I have her contact.

true? i dey ask cos i know most ladies who breakup with their ex so suddenly and marry men dey dont fancy always try to contact their exs for emotional succor and ze oza levels.

Isaacmacdon:
I totally disagree with your last statement. I don't know if such assertion was borne put of religious sentiment! But I want to tell you that Sex has different purposes. It wasn't mainly for procreation; it was meant to connect souls together.

Respect, prayer and understanding connects souls not sex.

lefulefu:
well true sha some dudes sey carry woman matter for head like gala but then it might not really be poverty cos a popular dj jus killed himself yesterday cos im wife dump am.na low self esteem dey kill some men hence they build their personality around a woman .for me sha if i find out the lady i am with sleeps around wetin i go do be say[b] i will codedly get my own share[/b] then i will waka away. guys need to dey sharp.

That DJ story isn't true.Lets stop blaming the wife.DJs are like celebrities, women flock around them.Thst woman is innocent.Ok!Make we reason am well, how many women dey commit suicide when their husbands abandon them or pursue them? Knowing fully well say the thing dey bring shame and disgrace to them?


The enbolden is the mistake guys make.You find out your gf dey straff outside and you dey revenge with sex?Guy na your strength you dey waste o.This girls sleeps around and after you "revenge"she is likely to get her self sexed like that same day!You dey stress yourself Guy!yansh wey you been dey chop before?I?

lefulefu:
true? i dey ask cos i know most ladies who breakup with their ex so suddenly and marry men dey dont fancy always try to contact their exs for emotional succor and ze oza levels.

She is a good lady.Crazy but good.When I knew her then,she drinks and smokes.

Smh

ayenika1:
Op,the table you are shaking will end in regrets. Believe me.

Please,stop stalking your woman. Find something better to do with your time. If a woman loves you dearly,and she cheats. The problem is right there in front of you -Distance.

Ask ladies,they detest distance so much in relationship. They always want to be around their man. Not because of sex or anything, they just want a companion. Have you ever wondered why they want you around in the market, sitting room, kitchen and laundry.? That is there nature.

Don't kill yourself and worry less to avoid HBP.

The solution to the issue is simple,heart to heart discussion.

Tell her your plans, bring her on board on everything,talk about everything and ask questions. Be sincere when doing this.

Do you know she might have cheated and she opens up when you have this discussion.? Yes,she can. Stalking will just put more problems on you and loose focus.

I have been through this road before,the moment I adopted the tatics,I heard lots of stuff and I did what I promised -FORGIVE and never to use it against her.

That is Love bro..!