I have lived most of my life hearing this and I shut people up when they say "GOD will send you your own wife",
People often think there's this perfect spouse made for every one and this mentality is mostly seen among Africans I believe.,maybe not all Africans but I am certain about Nigerians believing in this balderdash.
I met this girl one time, quite religious and I made some advances and she said she had to tell her dad about it, and her parents are going to pray about it to learn our compatibility ratio.. I laughed my self to stupor that night.
We put very valid informations behind such as mutual likes, hobbies, how both persons feel in each other's company, blood group...
Did you even know some might go ahead to get married after their pastor says so without even finding out their blood group... I know I am not relaying this post in the right way that I would have loved to but do you believe there's this perfect person for you??...
Can we all agree that there's about 10 or more other persons carrying the same trait as that your perfect spouse,, it is either you were fortunate to find her or unfortunate to find somebody more better than her... I feel you can have an almost perfect life with almost anybody so far there's mutual likes and interest

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No

No!! nothing like that,


it all depends on the effort the 2 of u put in to make it work.


let me quickly book space, I will explain better before I sleep

NathanAnomaly:
No!! nothing like that,


it all depends on the effort the 2 of u put in to make it work.


let me quickly book space, I will explain better before I sleep

My thought exactly.. No such thing..

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Bro not every post is made for everyone nana

Homeboiy:
No

I am glad to see somebody share my thoughts too

I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

Blantant lies!

jonath0012:

Blantant lies!

List your points to back up your answer, or simply expansiate on why it's a lie.

Lol. African myth

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

I think you made a point from the beginning of your write up .but the last statement is totally not true .you can get her pregnant,but that doesn't mean she is your destined wife.because u can end up not even marrying her which alot of it do happen nowadays.

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

Hehehehe... Boss no make me laugh abeg.. I be Christian but I no buy this prayer thing...You've not seen failed marriages ontop say they even pray

kazyhm:
Lol. African myth

I swear.... No predestined partner rara

FuckoffMOD:

I think you made a point from the beginning of your write up .but the last statement is totally not true .you can get her pregnant,but that doesn't mean she is your destined wife.because u can end up not even marrying her which alot of it do happen nowadays.

So you believe in destiny when it comes to marriage
I still believe there is no right partner.. Anybody can be right for anybody... You just have to reach agreement on certain things.

NathanAnomaly:
No!! nothing like that,


it all depends on the effort the 2 of u put in to make it work.


let me quickly book space, I will explain better before I sleep

Boss I need you asap to come tackle other believers o.... In fact, what makes a partner a destined one,, it's really laughable, I used to be so gullible at this for a long time that I felt I was going to marry my gf at 17,,everything was so right... My eyes later clear as time faded

oluwakayode25:


So you believe in destiny when it comes to marriage
I still believe there is no right partner.. Anybody can be right for anybody... You just have to reach agreement on certain things.

There is!
Are u a xtain or a Muslim?

FuckoffMOD:

There is!
Are u a xtain or a Muslim?

Christian and a catholic....
How has this anything to do with what religion sir??
Muslims have destined wives??

Life na destiny na

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

1st of all who tell u say Samson marry Delilah? And secondly if dem get destined partner, u no go hear anything like "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" jst us brain abeg.

God did not create any woman specially for any man and vice versa. He is a God that doesn't make mistake. He knew if he did it that way, one day someone will marry a spouse meant for another, and the person they married his/her spouse will be stranded and will have to settle for another persons spouse, before you know it they will be Chaos. The whole arrangement will be scattered. People will be marrying each others spouse. Man will still come back to blame God just as Adam blamed God for giving him Eve.

He set a law that whoever finds "A WIFE" finds a good thing... and not whoever Finds "HIS WIFE". God did not create any specific wife for any man, you are to pick one that shares the same interests, faith, feelings with you and make her your wife

In other words, He has made all of them wife materials, it's left for you to choose the design (person) that best suits you.

Don't let anyone deceive you into thinking God destined you to marry sister Angela or brother Mike. if you don't think he/she will make a good partner, pls leave that person for someone else

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

I was enjoying your explanation despite i know what you were talking about until the pregnancy faults. How can I be destined to marry a girl then suddenly i flirt around and get a girl pregnant and she becomes my destined woman..lolz. The truth is you find a woman and asked God if she will make a good wife or hubby to you then the response you get through red flags and the likes will tell you what you want except you turn blind eyes to it. After marriage two of you need to make it work else destiny will be thrown into the dogs.. Finally, you need to know that your destiny is in your hands in which God has placed in it. He will only act as you want him to act. sefini!!!

sircrabo:
God did not create any woman specially for any man and vice versa. He is a God that doesn't make mistake. He knew if he did it that way, one day someone will marry a spouse meant for another, and the person they married his/her spouse will be stranded and will have to settle for another persons spouse, before you know it they will be Chaos. The whole arrangement will be scattered. People will be marrying each others spouse. Man will still come back to blame God just as Adam blamed God for giving him Eve.


He set a law that whoever finds "A WIFE" finds a good thing... and not whoever Finds "HIS WIFE". God did not create any specific wife for any man, you are to pick one that shares the same interests, faith, feelings with you and make her your wife

In other words, He has made all of them wife materials, it's left for you to choose the design (person) that best suits you.

Don't let anyone deceive you into thinking God destined you to marry sister Angela or brother Mike. if you don't think he/she will make a good partner, pls leave that person for someone else

Make sense post bro...

God gave Eve to Adam,it was the Same Eve that made. Him disobey God...there's nothhing like destined partner...just look for who can believe and help you when it comes to being a successful partner and stop wasting ur time God has chosen a partner...He gave u brain to make some decision on your own

nothing like destined partner . just find the woman or man u want to settle down with.

sircrabo:
God did not create any woman specially for any man and vice versa. He is a God that doesn't make mistake. He knew if he did it that way, one day someone will marry a spouse meant for another, and the person they married his/her spouse will be stranded and will have to settle for another persons spouse, before you know it they will be Chaos. The whole arrangement will be scattered. People will be marrying each others spouse. Man will still come back to blame God just as Adam blamed God for giving him Eve.

He set a law that whoever finds "A WIFE" finds a good thing... and not whoever Finds "HIS WIFE". God did not create any specific wife for any man, you are to pick one that shares the same interests, faith, feelings with you and make her your wife

In other words, He has made all of them wife materials, it's left for you to choose the design (person) that best suits you.

Don't let anyone deceive you into thinking God destined you to marry sister Angela or brother Mike. if you don't think he/she will make a good partner, pls leave that person for someone else

lol like those pastors that wll be forcing a lady u dont like on u telling u dat it was God who told them in a vision that u must marry this girl.

oluwakayode25:


Christian and a catholic....
How has this anything to do with what religion sir??
Muslims have destined wives??

Read your Bible

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

I disagree with your post,what if the so called partner dies before meeting him/her,what happens to the other partner