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| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by budaatum: 1:11pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Yeah, I agree. I never conversed with billy much, but I am sure he knew not to do silly with buda - least he never did, while hell seems to do silly with every post! |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by echepops(m): 1:29pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
HellVictorinho:We live in a hyper-sexualized, even pornified culture, and if you’re a man who wants to be pure, you’re going to be involved in a constant warfare against lust. Everything from toothpaste commercials to weight loss ads have some sort of sexual spin. After all, as they say, sex sells. Then there is the rampant immodesty in women’s dress (even in church, sadly), including mini-shorts, crop tops, and leggings worn as pants. Popular TV shows are filled with graphic sex, and celebrities dress in see-through clothing—that is, when they aren’t releasing nude photos of themselves. Now, these temptations are so powerful because they involve our sight—one of the most potent of our senses, especially for us men. What we see is indelibly etched into our memories, and we can never truly un-see anything. Additionally, our sight has a powerful connection to what we want. Radio ads will never be as effective as TV ads, because hearing simply isn’t as strong a sense as sight. Today I want to talk about an ancient Catholic practice that can help us combat temptations to lust: Custodia occulorum, or custody of the eyes. What is it At its most basic level, custody of the eyes simply means controlling what you allow yourself to see. It means guarding your sense of sight carefully, realizing that what you view will leave an indelible mark on your soul. Many of the saints, in their zeal for purity, would never look anyone in the face. “To avoid the sight of dangerous objects, the saints were accustomed to keep their eyes almost continually fixed on the earth, and to abstain even from looking at innocent objects,” says St. Alphonsus de Liguori. Now, staring at the floor at all times is a bit extreme for most of us, but it does demonstrate the seriousness with which the saints viewed the importance of purity. They teach us that is simply impossible to allow hundreds of immodest images into our minds, however innocently, and remain pure. Of course, to the modern mind, this guarding of the eyes is rather quaint and even ridiculous. How prudish, many would think, to think that we should exercise any control over what we see. And yet, if we care about our souls, we have no other option. How to Practice It The best place to begin practicing custody of the eyes is in the things which we can control, such as movies, magazines, or television shows. If your favorite TV show has a sex scene every 5 minutes, you need to cut it out of your life. It’s not worth the temptation. In short, don’t consume things that are occasions of sin. Carelessly putting yourself in spiritual danger in this way is a grave sin itself, so take it seriously. It’s actually rather easy to edit what you consume. But what about the things we can’t control, such as the immodestly dressed woman walking past you? This takes far more prayer-fueled discipline and practice. That said, here are some suggestions. First, if you’re struggling with the way a woman is dressed, immediately look at her face. I don’t care how beautiful a woman is, it is essentially impossible to lust after someone’s face. The face is the icon of each person’s humanity, and it is far easier to respect a woman’s dignity when you’re looking at her face and not her body. Second, it may just be appropriate to stare at the floor sometimes, especially if there’s no other way to avoid temptation. This doesn’t have to be the norm, but if the situation warrants it, it is foolish not to do so. Third, avoid places you know are especially problematic for you. For most men, the beach is a problem. Dozens of women in tiny bikinis is just too much. If that’s the case for you, avoid the beach. Finally, fast and pray. This should go without saying, and yet I am always amazed that men think they can control themselves without God’s help. It simply isn’t possible. We always need grace in the battle against concupiscence, and if we trust in ourselves and our own willpower, we will do nothing but fail. Conclusion Yes, temptation is everywhere, but we are not helpless victims. We must take the need for purity seriously, and that means guarding carefully what we allow ourselves to see. Through prayer, fasting, and practice, we can learn to take control of our eyes and avoid temptation. This isn’t quaint and archaic—it’s basic to spiritual survival. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 1:54pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Good question. You tell me. This is beginning to sound so funny this your question. This is not going to be a one-sided discussion Ranchhoddas. Oh no, it isn't. You too have your part to play too. Here is what it is, scour the Bible for all mentions of "'abomination" please ready for me. Paste your findings for all to see and read. There is a lot of foundation to lay and a lot of ground to backfill, so you bringing up that list, will be very helpful, aside cutting my work up, it at least, will get you familiar with the refresher of getting used to the manu use of the word abomination, as regards in the bible |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:You are truly confused -what was homophobic in my statement anyway ?? I am sorry , but we do not have to be politically correct on this forum ; leave that PC bullsh1t where it belongs. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 8:40pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
frosbel2:"I don't think Homosexuality/Transsexuality/Pansexuality are caused by demon possession. These are acquired behaviours through exposure to the wrong type of environment or material and also caused by circumstances surrounding the persons childhood. These behaviours can be unlearnt, outgrown or in many cases can remain permanent. My only grudge is with aggressive attempts by certain groups to force these behaviours down our throats and try to make them normal. They are not normal - period. So if you decide to remain a homosexual then please keep it PERSONAL , don't force this behaviour on society as a whole." - by frosbel2: 12:10pm On Jan 02 "We can therefore say that just because queerness comes natural to some people, it does not make it legitimate behaviour according to the norms of society. If a particular society accepts this as 'normal' then everyone is free to accept or reject it , most societies don't. Further, statistically ( to buttress the normalcy of heterosexuality), homosexuals make up less than 5% of worldwide population, meaning that it is the exception rather than the norm." - by frosbel2: 8:50pm On Jan 02 frosbel2 please answer the following: 1/ So because homosexuals make up less than 5% of worldwide population, it makes it right to discriminate against them, huh? Why should, according to you, a gay behaviour natural to the person, be unlearned? 2/ If you kid is gay, would you, your gay kid and your kid partner love and be happy reading the above unkind and bitingly critical remarks? 3/ What is the evil in consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour? 4/ What problem do you have with and/or see in consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour? 5/ What effect to you or the society does consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour have? frosbel2:I am sorry but you have a disorder called homophobia. It is curable, but only if you want to be cured. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Godsfavour78: 9:56pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
OpenYourEyes1:what a load of bull crap |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Godsfavour78: 9:59pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:no homosexuality is the mental defect. It can be remedied. But the world has to first accept it is a mental defect. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 10:05pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Godsfavour78:1/ Why do you say it is a mental defect. What is a mental defect. How is it a mental defect? 2/ What evil is there with consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour to you? 3/ What problem do you have with and/or see in consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour? 4/ If your kid confides in you being gay, would you love your gay kid any less or more than after the confession? 5/ What damaging effect to you or the society does consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour have? |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Godsfavour78: 9:11am On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:guy where do you expect me to find time to answer all this now. And you asked in a way that the answers have to be long. Anyway when the world is ready to accept it for what it is. I will be among those finding the cure. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 9:19am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Godsfavour78:It's just 5 simple questions bro. There is a cure but that's if you want to be cured |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Godsfavour78: 9:32am On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Thank God we both agree their is a cure for homosexuality. Don't worry i will help you find the cure. You don't have to be mentally sick much longer. ![]() In fact i think supporting homosexuality is another mental disorder on its own. Its related to deliberately living in self denial. By the way i don't fear or hate gay people so am not homophobic. I just pity them and wish them good health. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 10:19am On Jan 07, 2019 |
HellVictorinho:Genesis 3:4,5 answered your question but these misinformed churchgoers complicating issues won't give a room for wisdom to solve the problem! We all have sex organs and if there is no STRICT rules guiding the use of these organs,then everyone is FREE to use it as they're pleased! *Fornication ~sex between unmarried adults. *Adultery ~sex between adults outside their marriage. *Bestiality ~humans having sex with animals. *Homosexuality ~sex between males. *Lesbianism ~sex between females. *Masturbation ~ self's sexual arousals releasing semens. All are mentioned as wrong in the documents BIBLE. God respected Adam and Eve's privacy so any sexual act between the TWO is OK, that's why HE(God) always makes some sound when approaching their domain as a sign of respect for the MAN and his WIFE! Genesis 3:8 |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:I do not have to accept that Homosexuality is a normal life style because it is not in me to do so and according to my culture and tradition it is not accepted- nothing at all to do with religion. I cannot fathom two men screwing themselves in the butt or two women doing all sorts of sick things to each other. I tremble to think of it. However , that does not mean I am against homosexuals, or open articles to condemn them ( never have ) or embark on campaigns to dehumanise them ( never have ) or even think about them and their habits ( hardly ). It is an opinion I keep to myself. What you are trying to do is FORCE this down our throats and when we refuse to comply you call us HOMOPHOBIC. That's insincere. I will address your other points when I have time. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
The problem began when Adam and Eve chose to be TOTALLY independent of God. The tree of knowledge of good and bad connotes interest in personal ideology on right and wrong that's driven by SELFISHNESS! But the bone of contention is humans are prone to develop ZERO compliance to guidance. I'm sorry,that's the birth of ATHEISM! Obedience is not about rules not understood but obedience is inevitable when there is NO experience, that's what led to all of these! |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by raphieMontella: 6:43pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Shelumiel:Oga,, like the op said... do your research... homosexuality is prevalent among animals... even bisexuality... m not an advocate of gayis.m tho... m just saying... do your research before branding your fellow human "demon" |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 9:29pm On Jan 07, 2019*. Modified: 9:45pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Godsfavour78:Homosexuality is not a disease and isnt a mental disorder, so isnt in need of a cure. You should be thanking God that there is a cure for your disorder though. Your disorder is called homophobia and like I earlier said but because you're in denial you tried twisting what I wrote, it is curable, but only if you want to be cured. Godsfavour78:Hypothetically speaking, if your son or daughter confides in you being gay, would you love him or her any less or more than since the confession? Godsfavour78:Save the pity and good sense health for yourself because you deserve and need the pity not them |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Human Behavior proves one thing. That man is an expression of predetermined absurdity. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 9:44pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
TATIME:Ah-ha haba Chief, whats the meaning of: "The tree of knowledge of good and bad connotes interest in personal ideology on right and wrong that's driven by SELFISHNESS!" Is that what The tree of knowledge of good and evil means? |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by budaatum: 9:44pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 9:48pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
budaatum:Ranchhoddas was saying and asking me: "Have you been able to convince anyone that homosexuality is approved in the Bible? You must be the only person on the planet with this view." My response was: Archbishop Desmond Tutu and Jorge Mario Bergoglio popularly known as Pope Francis, to name just these two (i.e. Anglican and Catholic). Tutu said he doesnt want to live in a homophobic heaven whilst Pope Francis said transsexuals and gay people should be embraced. He told Juan Carlos Cruz, a gay man: "God made you like this and loves you like this" |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Ranchhoddas: 10:21pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Funny. I hope you are familiar with the term "political correctness"? That is what these men do. Has a gay wedding taken place in St Peter's Basilica? I will take the pontiff seriously when he presides over a gay wedding. In any case my question was to you. Have you convinced anyone in the light of scriptures? Or do you want to tell me you agree with everything Bergoglio and Tutu stand for? |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 10:38pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Tutu gave a father's blessing to his daughter's gay marriage, he couldnt give a priest blessing because the Anglican church dont recognise same sex marriages Ranchhoddas:I doubt it would make any difference to you, even if I tell you, especially with the aspect of in light of scriptures, Ranchhoddas:Nothing to do with do I agree with everything Bergoglio and Tutu stands for. You remarked: "You must be the only person on the planet with this view" so I gave you two names; one Anglican and one Catholic |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Ranchhoddas: 10:55pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Probably. That guy was an anti-apartheid campaigner, there is no way he can but seen as anything but supportive to a group that claims persecution. You remarked: "You must be the only person on the planet with this view." so I gave you two names; Anglican and CatholicI still stand by it. The archbishop and the pontiff do not take their positions by quoting the Bible. Do you have a video of either of this men preaching that the Bible supports homosexuality. Their positions are political. What I mean by the last line is that you are doing what is called cherry-picking. Selecting a statement from people that suits you even when you might not agree with every other thing they say/do just to advance your position. That can't be right, especially if the discussion is a matter of religion. I doubt it would make any difference to you, even if I tell you, especially with the aspect of in light of scriptures,Unless you want to show me a Bible portion supporting homosexuality, it won't. Every other thing sounds like sophistry. As far as I know, all biblical references to homosexuality are condemnatory. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
raphieMontella:And one of such animals 'The White American Ibis' showed signs of homosexual activity due to "environmental pollutant methylmercury" - culled from Wikipedia Again, many of us are not actively bashing homosexuals and indeed interact positively with them in our daily lives, however we DO NOT have to agree that this life style is suitable for us as it pertains to our culture and families. But, if people want to make it part of their life style , that is also perfectly fine. Just DON'T try to FORCE EVERYONE to accept it , many do not want to. Its a free world , do your thing and allow others to do their thing. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2019*. Modified: 12:16am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Group that is actually persecuted, they arent not claiming but they outrightly are discriminated against, threatened with death, maimed or assaulted etcetera Ranchhoddas:Ranchhoddas though you arent a believer but knowing what you know about the believers' faith and God, say for the sake of this convesation, you are a believer, would you like to be with a God who hates two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour? Ranchhoddas:You dont know what true and pure religion that is faultless is. If you did, we wouldnt be having this discussion sitting down and facing each other at opposite sides of the table Ranchhoddas:Until you tell me what is the evil in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour then you aint getting that "a Bible portion supporting homosexuality" |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Ranchhoddas: 1:30am On Jan 08, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Okay. Ranchhoddas though you arent a believer but knowing what you know about the believers' faith and God, say for the sake of this convesation, you are a believer, would you like to be with a God who hates two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour?A believer in OMNIPOTENT deity? How about using some of that omnipotence to make them not You dont know what true and pure religion that is faultless is. If you did, we wouldnt be having this discussion sitting down and facing each other at opposite sides of the tableThere is no such thing as "true and pure religion". Only exists in the minds of the believers. I'm sure Jihadists think their religion is "true and pure". If there were any such thing it would be apparent to everyone, or at least the majority. Until you tell me what is the evil in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour then you aint getting that "a Bible portion supporting homosexuality"There is no such Bible portion is there? I'm sure I would have come across it if it existed. Only by sophistry can this be pulled off. Their behaviour is unnatural as far as I can see. You can't love a man without wanting to get in the sack with him abi? Disgusting. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by MuttleyLaff: 1:54am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:By design, gay is observed in nature and I can give you a list of animals that display gay behavior Ranchhoddas:I said "true and pure religion that is faultless". You have this habit at times to truncate out words in my remarks, in order to weaken or lessen the original and intended meaning. True and pure religion that is faultless exists, it is alive and kicking Ranchhoddas:There is but since you are unable to what is the evil in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour then you aint getting that Bible portion not minding homosexuality Ranchhoddas:Of course, I agree with you. It is unnatural to you because you're heterosexual but for them being homosexual, attraction to same sex is natural to them Define unnatural and give examples. I too will do same Now are all "unnatural" necessarily bad, evil and/or wrong? Ranchhoddas:I'll like to know why you say its disgusting, what exactly is disgusting in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour? |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Ranchhoddas: 2:08am On Jan 08, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff:Animals are the standard now? Oh God. Animals murder each other all the time, therefore it is natural for humans to murder each other. Murder is observed in nature. I said "true and pure religion that is faultless". You have this habit at times to truncate out words in my remarks, in order to weaken or lessen the original and intended meaningYou are being overscrupulous. There is no way the meaning was weakened here. "True" already means faultless. "Pure" is already superfluous. You meaning is well taken. Stop being pedantic. There is but since you are unable to what is the evil in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour then you aint getting that Bible portion not minding homosexualityYou have just described the relationship of two best friends. Why do they want to poke each other. I am something of a prude. I feel disgusted typing this. Don't make do it again. I know there is no such portion. Of course, I agree with you. It is unnatural to you because you're heterosexual but for them being homosexual, attraction to same sex is natural to themThere are stories of people who have been cured. Go figure. Define unnatural and give examples. I too will do sameUnnatural:Contrary to the ordinary course of nature; abnormal Straight from Google. The course of nature is to procreate via sex. Gay people can't. Now are all "unnatural" necessarily bad, evil and/or wrong?I know what you want to do. Change "unnatural" to "murder" in your question and you have your answer. I'll like to know why you say its disgusting, what exactly is disgusting in two consenting adults, in a faithful, committed, truthful, honest, loving, lasting that's life-long and loyal same-sex relationship, that has no detriment to another person, no betrayal of another person, or no cheating on another person, and not harmful to an object or neighbour?Their wanting to get in the sack is repulsive. They should seek treatment if possible. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 4:32am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Nature is screwing Man. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by raphieMontella: 5:26am On Jan 08, 2019 |
frosbel2:I totally agree with you on the force aspect... but above all stop condemning your fellow humans... their choice is their choice is their choice... so long as it has no "effect" on you.. |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by raphieMontella: 5:35am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas:Oga... animals have sex for non procreational reasons....as humans do so sex is not strictly for --- it's mating season fellas(animals in play here) let's go have some evolutional offsprings |
| Re: The Matter Of Homosexuality by Nobody: 6:04am On Jan 08, 2019 |
raphieMontella:But,humans are more complex with complex problems like education,religion, atheism,philosophy, etc |
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