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What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Gracespecial101(m): 1:34am On Jan 13, 2019
At some point in our lives we begin to go into relationship(s) which some take to the marriage level and some don't. One thing has always been sure, after marriage the next thing people expect is child bearing from the couples which is not bad, but was the marriage because of Love or Child bearing?
Some couples start cheating, fighting, throwing blames at each other when there are no kids coming and some will even have the kids still cheat and end up divorcing.

So my people the question is this.
Is child bearing the essence of marriage or love the essence of marriage..
Or perhaps What do you think is the essence of marriage?

Let's air our views on this

cc:Rocktation
cc:Seun
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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by CreepyBlackpool: 1:45am On Jan 13, 2019
man wants pussy

woman wants money


the only way both can get what they want without the society judging and gossiping about them is by getting married.

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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 1:47am On Jan 13, 2019
love,companionship
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 1:48am On Jan 13, 2019
Gracespecial101:
At some point in our lives we begin to go into relationship(s) which some take to the marriage level and some don't. One thing has always been sure, after marriage the next thing people expect is child bearing from the couples which is not bad, but was the marriage because of Love or Child bearing?
Some couples start cheating, fighting, throwing blames at each other when there are no kids coming and some will even have the kids still cheat and end up divorcing.

So my people the question is this.
Is child bearing the essence of marriage or love the essence of marriage..
Or perhaps What do you think is the essence of marriage?

Let's air our views on this

cc:Rocktation
cc:Seun
marriage is a culture.
Marriage puts you in a different category.
It symbolizes Gods teachings in the Bible.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 4:09am On Jan 13, 2019
Love, companionship, friendship, partner, children.

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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 4:09am On Jan 13, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
man wants pussy

woman wants money


the only way both can get what they want without the society judging and gossiping about them is by getting married.

Shutup, I don't want your money.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:07am On Jan 13, 2019
but he wants your pussy grin grin grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by catwalq(f): 7:45am On Jan 13, 2019
I believe its companionship and happiness.

Love to me is more than a feeling. Its a conscious act. Cause honestly,marriage will definitely outlive those butterfly feelings and mushy days.

Kids are FRUITS of marriage. So,its cool when you have them,but if you don't, that don't mean the marriage failed. You probably married without kids. Y'all should just be happy with each other.

Same goes for money
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by CreepyBlackpool: 8:36am On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
Shutup, I don't want your money.
of course you don't,
yet,
cause I haven't offered wink
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by millionboi2: 8:36am On Jan 13, 2019
Fvk
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by captianfreeman(m): 8:39am On Jan 13, 2019
Companionship is main essence of marriage. Any other blessings that follows, is a mere bonus.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Newboss(m): 8:41am On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
Love, companionship, friendship, partner, children.

You don't have to be married to get any of those. Ironically, most of them don't exist in marriage but outside marriage grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Newboss(m): 8:43am On Jan 13, 2019
catwalq:
I believe its companionship and happiness.

Love to me is more than a feeling. Its a conscious act. Cause honestly,marriage will definitely outlive those butterfly feelings and mushy days.

Kids are FRUITS of marriage. So,its cool when you have them,but if you don't, that don't mean the marriage failed. You probably married without kids. Y'all should just be happy with each other.

Same goes for money

Those things you mentioned have nothing to do with marriage because you can have them without being married grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by virgintoto(m): 10:15am On Jan 13, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:

of course you don't,

yet,

cause I haven't offered wink
. Guy who are you?
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by virgintoto(m): 10:17am On Jan 13, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
man wants pussy

woman wants money


the only way both can get what they want without the society judging and gossiping about them is by getting married.

. Hahaha.... Guy I have been following u,plz who are you?

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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by CreepyBlackpool: 10:27am On Jan 13, 2019
virgintoto:
. Hahaha.... Guy I have been following u,plz who are you?

I am my signature
smiley
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by coolestofall(m): 10:31am On Jan 13, 2019
I feel marriage was put in place 2 no party loses out when d other party is starting 2 lose interest in d relationship. Imagine being a lady being with a guy up to her 40s n d guy calling it a quit. She might not find a suiting mate at dat point easily. So 2 ensure she always has mate security, She def requires marriage.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:38am On Jan 13, 2019
all of you guys are funny, except the person that made the first comment (reply). he is the only one who knows what marriage is all about.

be wise, people.


grin grin grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Gracespecial101(m): 12:54pm On Jan 13, 2019
catwalq:
I believe its companionship and happiness.

Love to me is more than a feeling. Its a conscious act. Cause honestly,marriage will definitely outlive those butterfly feelings and mushy days.

Kids are FRUITS of marriage. So,its cool when you have them,but if you don't, that don't mean the marriage failed. You probably married without kids. Y'all should just be happy with each other.

Same goes for money
.

I love this

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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Gracespecial101(m): 12:56pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
Love, companionship, friendship, partner, children.

ok, But children happen to be gift for better Living?
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jan 13, 2019
Gracespecial101:

ok, But children happen to be gift for better Living?
How?
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by catwalq(f): 12:58pm On Jan 13, 2019
[quote author=Gracespecial101 post=74719463].

I love this[/quote
10Q
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 13, 2019
MrNipplesLover:
all of you guys are funny, except the person that made the first comment (reply). he is the only one who knows what marriage is all about.

be wise, people.


grin grin grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jan 13, 2019
MrNipplesLover:
all of you guys are funny, except the person that made the first comment (reply). he is the only one who knows what marriage is all about.

be wise, people.


grin grin grin
Sex is cheap and you can get it anywhere, so don't tell me men enter marriages cause of sex, also don't tell me women enter marriages cause of money, there are so many made women that are single and lonely, do they need a man's money? No, just the companionship and kids, plus happiness n

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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by Gracespecial101(m): 1:14pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
How?
We have seen or even heard of cases where couples had to go down cause the marriage had not brought forth a Child
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by virgintoto(m): 1:39pm On Jan 13, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:


I am my signature
smiley
i want to know more about u,cus I like d answers u giv to som comments and news here on nairaland. I really want to ask u more questions.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:49pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
Sex is cheap and you can get it anywhere, so don't tell me men enter marriages cause of sex, also don't tell me women enter marriages cause of money, there are so many made women that are single and lonely, do they need a man's money? No, just the companionship and kids, plus happiness n


your empahses on companionship, kids and happiness are of no use to nowadays reality.


I don't know where you read that companionship is only in marriage. maybe if you can tell me your own definition of companionship apart from the one well defined in the dictionary.

don't also know where you confirmed it that kids only come in marriages, whereas, baby mamas full everywhere and "one corner-sex" also results in kids flooding the streets of the states.


don't as well know where you gathered that happiness is also found in every marriage. where we can see how divorces and breakups are more than employment rate in the nation, maybe those happened cos they found happiness in their relationships. grin
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by millionboi2: 1:51pm On Jan 13, 2019
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Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:51pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
Sex is cheap and you can get it anywhere.



na this line I like pass... grin grin

i like girls wey know and say the truth. unlike all these hypocrite girls wey no go agree to a fact.
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:55pm On Jan 13, 2019
tonielee
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by millionboi2: 1:57pm On Jan 13, 2019
catwalq:
I believe its companionship and happiness.

Love to me is more than a feeling. Its a conscious act. Cause honestly,marriage will definitely outlive those butterfly feelings and mushy days.

Kids are FRUITS of marriage. So,its cool when you have them,but if you don't, that don't mean the marriage failed. You probably married without kids. Y'all should just be happy with each other.

Same goes for money
u Neva jam
Re: What Is The True Essence Of Marriage? by sacramento1212: 1:57pm On Jan 13, 2019
lefulefu:
love,companionship

Companionship and nothing more. If it's for love, you can love outside marriage, if it's for children, you can have kids without getting married. If you venture into marriage with the mindset that you are doing so for children, it means if the children doesn't come or it's delayed, then marriage go end be that.

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