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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by simplesearch: 11:42am On Jan 14, 2019
Two object are said to resonate when they are in same or nearly equal frequency, but vibration must occur for this to take place. Synchronising on the other hand means you are connected and in line with all the other body with which you intend to share your information. Going by this submission, how then can someone synchronize his/her life with another with whom he/she is not in love, it's like erecting a building without windows and expecting interrupted airflow. Love is the foundation or basis of all Human relationship; the true nature of such love can however be ascertained when exposed to the test time: which may come in the guise of delay childbirth, momentary financial difficulty or setback, occasional misunderstanding or even prolonged health challenges but not extra-marital affair(s). Therefore marrying on the basis of understanding alone without Love which is the literal interpretation of Reno's post, is like asking to be held by someone without hand, even if the request is well understood the fellow can't do it. It therefore means that understanding alone is not sufficient to start ordinary friendship not talk of sustaining a relationship. In a Nutshell marry someone you truly Love first, and also understand second, & vice versa.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:50am On Jan 14, 2019
WaffenSS:
What the heck is "in sync with"?

You can't know you're "in sync with" someone without love first.

So he's telling us he's not in love with his wife but "in sync with" her?

I can just imagine their text messages: "Baby, I sync you so much".



*Gratefulheart01 is Stoopid*
Sir, you can totally be in sync with those you don't love. But for ladies, most of the guys they are in sync with they friend zone and fall in love with those that are totally out of sync with them.
Being in sync simply means complementing each other in life in other to improve each others life and achieve the maximum you can both achieve
And believe, the feeling of love can be generated without two people being in sync. A few right worded text message, a few phone calls at the right time and viola, you are in love.
Are you telling me you have not seen couples whose dreams and aspirations died the moment they get married? They did marry for love no doubt, but since they are not in sync or complementing each other, they die little by little each day.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 12:01pm On Jan 14, 2019
Omeizadean:
Reno O mockery is one retarded fool that is lucky to know how to read and write. Let me clear ur confused maggot infested head to be in sync with someone actually mean to be in love with someone. Like compatibility, being in sync wouldn't even arise if its not love. O Mockery and all ur maggot minions I hope u heard?

Stupidity at it's peak. Stupidity that is like Z world, extraordinary every day. Being in love before being in sync is putting the cart before the horse.

You are not supposed to get compatible or in sync after you fall in love but before you fall in love.

Most marriage trouble arise because incompatible people fall in love.

There was this two AS people that fell in love before knowing their blood group but still decided to go ahead and get married. When the trouble of the sick children came, it tore them apart to pieces. That is just a physical example of couples marrying in love but out of sync.

The mental and creative examples are even more prevalent. You see mentally creative people falling in love with people that will kill their creativity everyday. They become a shadow of regret and resignation and many at times wish they were never married.

I have seen the look of resignation on the faces of many people (especially ladies) when they see other single ladies going for their dream and more than enough times heard the phrase "it wasn't worth it".

But most of them kept the guys best for them in the friend zone and followed love.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by WORLDPEACE(m): 12:10pm On Jan 14, 2019
Biglittlelois:
You can't be in sync with someone you don't love, it goes both ways.

This one na women sentimental reasoning.
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 12:38pm On Jan 14, 2019
simplesearch:

Two object are said to resonate when they are in same or nearly equal frequency, but vibration must occur for this to take place. Synchronising on the other hand means you are connected and in line with all the other body with which you intend to share your information. Going by this submission, how then can someone synchronize his/her life with another with whom he/she is not in love, it's like erecting a building without windows and expecting interrupted airflow. Love is the foundation or basis of all Human relationship; the true nature of such love can however be ascertained when exposed to the test time: which may come in the guise of delay childbirth, momentary financial difficulty or setback, occasional misunderstanding or even prolonged health challenges but not extra-marital affair(s). Therefore marrying on the basis of understanding alone without Love which is the literal interpretation of Reno's post, is like asking to be held by someone without hand, even if the request is well understood the fellow can't do it. It therefore means that understanding alone is not sufficient to start ordinary friendship not talk of sustaining a relationship. In a Nutshell marry someone you truly Love first, and also understand second, & vice versa.

Sir, I beg to disagree with you, synchronization happens based on two people being compatible first with each other.
Take your phone for example, an android OS can never work in an IPhone and Vice versa. Falling in love before trying to be in sync is like downloading an android apk in an iPhone. You can download it alright but it will not install no matter how hard you try. It will only end up being a waste of space, mb and time.
Bro, as a man or woman, you should know the type of woman that is compatible to you and ensure you fall in love with that person.
On the issue of understanding, in life you don't love something until you have tasted it first, understood it first. Take your favorite subject for example, you either loved it because you understood it easiest or naturally understood it. You don't love what you don't understand. Many at times we also become
It is also more probable for a marriage found with understanding to grow to love than for a marriage found on love to grow to understanding.
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by mhizbel(f): 12:41pm On Jan 14, 2019
Jeromejnr:


Love is a consummation of choices, a decision and not a feeling.

Love comes first the feelings come later.

Only a few would understand.
Excellent answer! This is the best definition of love I've ever read/heard in recent times. You ask young people what love is, they will either be unable to answer or they give you the definition of lust.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Zubbyemodi(m): 1:12pm On Jan 14, 2019
post=74744477:
Here comes Mumu Reno Omokriminal with another trash....

Guess the fraudster is tired of releasing his tapes of propaganda.

A Omokriminal that ran away from the country making his home twitter.
Part of the mess the ineffectual BUFFON was rolling with covered with lies and fraudulent ways of life. You are frustrated by the way he has been batching your mumu president!!! All hail Reno the tormentor of Buhari and his supporters


Slowpoke!
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by criuze(m): 1:12pm On Jan 14, 2019
castro316:
in synchrony. Meaning working together


Well sorry for stressing you

But I think you actually synchronise with what you love in a person.
May be someone value fairness。 for me I value brain, so definitely my love must sync with my brain.
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jan 14, 2019
Kingjames:
I was head over heels in love with one slay queen from delta state last oct. After 8months of constant communication, she decided to visit but on one singular popular condition: " you will takecare of my fare". I agreed intoto. Atleast meeting my "love" in "person" for the first time after close to a year of "social media love" . i asked for her account number which she sent at the speed of jet. Relaxing on my sofa virtualising all the inviting mature feminine features in her body, i opened my "Diamond bank app". Here i go: scrolling down to transfer. Confirm the name- though different from what she told me her name was(jenifer now turn umuokoro umenede Akpos!...i put a call across to confirm , on the receiving end, i heard that angelic voice again that turned me on( dont mind me , i am human with blood and emotion). I was convinced. She asked for 10K , lo and behold brethren, i mistakenly send 100k! Gbam! Ahhhh...what! I cant revert the transaction without going to my bank. I dialed her number immediately to confirm the "emotionally filled" transaction. She confirmed. Then here comes the drama: " baby, please, i mistakenly transfer 100k instead of the 10k...can you quickly send back 90k?

Hello, ..helo...helooooo! Can u hear me...
The line went off! ...i shouted ...
Few minutes later, an unknown number called. I take the call to hear a heavy- Indian hemp infected deep male voice: " na you dey disturb my babe abi?, if i catch you na die!...what! Me? With due respect sir, i dont understand what you talking about. May i know who i am unto? I asked with sweat all over my soft skin.

" that woman u dey chart wit na my wife. She don born three pikin for me....!

Holy moses! I sat for hours and i learnt a bitter lesson

Thats when i realised i was only dreaming when my kid brother ran in to ask with surprised what happened to me.

The world is wicked!

If this happen to person in real life na to faint remain grin

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Kingjames(m): 2:33pm On Jan 14, 2019
Tundexxy:


If this happen to person in real life na to faint remain grin
testing the mic...

soon start the much awaited story on this platform

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by gwama: 2:52pm On Jan 14, 2019
So for you, we have to resume arranged marriages as before? Even in arranged marriages, there are failures. A marriage that works well is the only grace of God. cool cool
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Sarang(f): 8:54pm On Jan 14, 2019
Biglittlelois:
You can't be in sync with someone you don't love, it goes both ways.

Exactly

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 14, 2019
Rubbish!
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by sweetilicious(f): 12:39am On Jan 15, 2019
Biglittlelois:
You can't be in sync with someone you don't love, it goes both ways.
I thought the same thing.i can't marry someone I don't smile while the memory pops up.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:45am On Jan 15, 2019
gwama:
So for you, we have to resume arranged marriages as before? Even in arranged marriages, there are failures. A marriage that works well is the only grace of God. cool cool

In no way did he say or insinuate that. Arranged marriages also don't consider people you are in sync with.

In life, you have to know your purpose, your goals and your vision and know the type of spouse needed to achieve that them.

Many people marry contrary to their purpose and goal in the name of love. And they end up shriveling and resigning through out life.

2 Sundays ago I met a man who was complaining bitterly that he should have been balanced if not for his wife. He wanted to start a business and build a house but he married a girl that he was training through secondary school till masters level. A girl that has never one day worked to bring in extra money to the house. When I asked him why he married that kind of woman, he just said two words, "na love".

As I said before and will say again, it is easier for you to love something or someone after understanding it or them than it is to understand them after loving them.

Above all, more kingdoms grew from arranged marriages than they did from marriages of love.
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:49am On Jan 15, 2019
Biglittlelois:
You can't be in sync with someone you don't love, it goes both ways.
Actually it doesn't. You can love something that is totally out of sync with you. That is why you have drunkards. They know by drinking they are destroying their lives but they love drinking so much they can't let it go.

It is easier for love to be a by product of understanding than for understanding to be a by product of love.
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Zeedarh(f): 11:37am On Jan 17, 2019
Muzikluva:

Cc: Zeedarh
This should be useful for you.

I really appreciate this.

Thanks a bunch. God bless you.

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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Muzikluva(m): 7:19am On Jan 18, 2019
Zeedarh:


I really appreciate this.

Thanks a bunch. God bless you.
Amen. God bless you too.

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