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bamisepeters:
Lol.

Marriage is indeed a beautiful thing when you are with the right person, but when it is with the wrong person it will be like a curse. May God heal those distressed home and help those about to choose. Thanks for the comment.

bamisepeters:
This is the direct opposite of 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long as requested by my readers.

I know many ladies will like to read this, but don't blame men o, life itself is hard.

Well, there are series of reasons some men have refused to leave the single life alone for small boys, i know you know some, here are few of those reasons i can think of as at the time of this post.

1. Financial Ground

It is never easy to rule the home without the cash, despite the hardness many men still think they must store that millions before settling down, however, they are those you will find in bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such attitude i just wonder when the millions will complete.

Meanwhile, they have one lady they keep wasting her time, asking her to continue praying for devine favour so that they can take her to the altar.

Some men, no matter how hard they try things still get harder, no stable job or anything, i wouldn't blame those who fall in this category.

At times we can't blame these men with the kind attitude our ladies portray this days.

2. Observing The Lady

Some guys don't actually know what they want, they place lady under observation, if you ask them what's up they will reply with their usual verbiage, "i am still observing her jare", this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because they want to explore everything explorable.

After they have done everything they should have done inside marriage while courting they will now look for excuse to discharge the innocent babe... There is God o.

3. Parental Influence

There are many of these guys that will never learn how to take decisions on their own even after 30 years of age, their parent instruct them on everything to do, meanwhile, some of these our parents are selfish, they want to keep having all your resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya eyes.

No one is saying you shouldn't obey some of this kind of parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to make it all balance, once you decide they will not have option than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn't going their way, that us where you need to know how to deal with it all.

4. The Big Boy Gang

Those in this category will never marry till very late 30s and early 40s. They want to enjoy the wealth before they decide finally. They are the ones all the big girls around knows, they are those that will be spraying money where they are not needed just to remain relevant in irrelevant places.

The money to wed or to spend when the woman is home isn't their problem a bit. They usually say it is better to enjoy the wealth before they are caged, meanwhile after they get married they still go back to those things secretly, they are those that must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the man.

5. They Don't See Anything Special

This is one reason some men don't marry till very late. They never see anything special in any woman no matter what she is or how she looks.

You will keep seeing them with different ladies as they get tired of one easily. They are the kind ladies keep following about, yet, nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times they will not also have choice than to take the lady to the altar after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.

6. Religious Ground

One big reason some men will not get married till their religious leader can't bear it any more is because of their over belief.

To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such lady must share same belief with them. Their faith has covered every sense of their reasoning, hence, they expect you to be perfect. They are quick to condemn the cloth, makeup, choice of words and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and inline with religious teaching.

These kind of men understands the Bible than their pastor, they don't have the time to give room for mistake, their kind can never be God as they are ready to throw anyone in the fire even before they commit sin.

With those attitude they can never get married until they are forced or raped.

7. Village People

Lol, there are many men out there that because of their sin or that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they will be cursed.

At times, those village people might have seen that when he gets married his finance will turnaround, they will just change everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps hating every lady that are supposed to be best for him.

The solution is to go completely spiritual to cleanse the man off the curse.

Source: https://bamisepeters..com/2019/01/7-reasons-many-men-remain-single-for.html

Greenvaiper:
I

I hope Toks2008/ toks2008, Nairaland's oldest bachelor is reading this. ....

bettercreature:
1) Money

2 ) Money

3 ) Money

4 ) Money

5 ) Money

6) Money

7) Money

Once you make enough ..Just go on google,instagram or Twitter to choose any lady of your choice

Triangles1:
Marriage is overrated. All I need is contract relationship to get a child or I remain single. Women are full of problem and if you're not strong enough to handle them just remain single.

boiz2men:
bamisepeters

Guy your name looks familiar. Are you a doctor or uniben is your alma mater?

ajayiopy:
TO AVOID HEART ATTACK

akiOYIBO:
I met a beautiful, nice, tall girl. I immediately got along well with her. Introduced he to everybody around me. When my cousin came back from Lag, we made a bet that within two days he would Bleep her. I was confident cos she was one in a million for me, In fact I believed I ve found a woman for me. The next day my cousin came back with audio of hot sex whereafter she was telling him not to let me know cos she love me and would not like to lose me. When I asked him how he managed to conviced her, he ridiculed me by whispering 10000 naira only. That was how I lost a bet of 15k. The next day she came and attempted to pull her wears in front of me, I went to d bathroom and vomitted and that was how I knew it was over.

Marriage in Nigeria is a scam, all of them are all prostitutes

nkwuocha:
Village people?
I think it's more of finance.These days I see a lot of men rolling in shiloh, competing with the single sisters.When a man is almost 40,still living under his parents roof,no job,no money,no girlfriend,no wife,Him penis go salute in the morning,then humble in the
afternoon and,no house of his own,that one na serious gbege.

Dear single ladies,when you see a man rolling beside you in shiloh,give am space to roll well.Himn problem dey critical.His case is seriously urgent.May God help us.

I think women's prayers get easily answered than men,my observations though.

Divay22:
Lol
Village people
But marriage is a beautiful thing... If you're sure of the one you are with, go ahead and do everything to make it work.

bettercreature:
1) Money

2 ) Money

3 ) Money

4 ) Money

5 ) Money

6) Money

7) Money

Once you make enough ..Just go on google,instagram or Twitter to choose any lady of your choice

akiOYIBO:
I met a beautiful, nice, tall girl. I immediately got along well with her. Introduced he to everybody around me. When my cousin came back from Lag, we made a bet that within two days he would Bleep her. I was confident cos she was one in a million for me, In fact I believed I ve found a woman for me. The next day my cousin came back with audio of hot sex whereafter she was telling him not to let me know cos she love me and would not like to lose me. When I asked him how he managed to conviced her, he ridiculed me by whispering 10000 naira only. That was how I lost a bet of 15k. The next day she came and attempted to pull her wears in front of me, I went to d bathroom and vomitted and that was how I knew it was over.

Marriage in Nigeria is a scam, all of them are all prostitutes

bamisepeters:
Well, men had theirs in my last post, i am for everybody my boss.

bamisepeters:
This is the direct opposite of 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long as requested by my readers.

I know many ladies will like to read this, but don't blame men o, life itself is hard.

Well, there are series of reasons some men have refused to leave the single life alone for small boys, i know you know some, here are few of those reasons i can think of as at the time of this post.

1. Financial Ground

It is never easy to rule the home without the cash, despite the hardness many men still think they must store that millions before settling down, however, they are those you will find in bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such attitude i just wonder when the millions will complete.

Meanwhile, they have one lady they keep wasting her time, asking her to continue praying for devine favour so that they can take her to the altar.

Some men, no matter how hard they try things still get harder, no stable job or anything, i wouldn't blame those who fall in this category.

At times we can't blame these men with the kind attitude our ladies portray this days.

2. Observing The Lady

Some guys don't actually know what they want, they place lady under observation, if you ask them what's up they will reply with their usual verbiage, "i am still observing her jare", this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because they want to explore everything explorable.

After they have done everything they should have done inside marriage while courting they will now look for excuse to discharge the innocent babe... There is God o.

3. Parental Influence

There are many of these guys that will never learn how to take decisions on their own even after 30 years of age, their parent instruct them on everything to do, meanwhile, some of these our parents are selfish, they want to keep having all your resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya eyes.

No one is saying you shouldn't obey some of this kind of parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to make it all balance, once you decide they will not have option than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn't going their way, that us where you need to know how to deal with it all.

4. The Big Boy Gang

Those in this category will never marry till very late 30s and early 40s. They want to enjoy the wealth before they decide finally. They are the ones all the big girls around knows, they are those that will be spraying money where they are not needed just to remain relevant in irrelevant places.

The money to wed or to spend when the woman is home isn't their problem a bit. They usually say it is better to enjoy the wealth before they are caged, meanwhile after they get married they still go back to those things secretly, they are those that must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the man.

5. They Don't See Anything Special

This is one reason some men don't marry till very late. They never see anything special in any woman no matter what she is or how she looks.

You will keep seeing them with different ladies as they get tired of one easily. They are the kind ladies keep following about, yet, nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times they will not also have choice than to take the lady to the altar after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.

6. Religious Ground

One big reason some men will not get married till their religious leader can't bear it any more is because of their over belief.

To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such lady must share same belief with them. Their faith has covered every sense of their reasoning, hence, they expect you to be perfect. They are quick to condemn the cloth, makeup, choice of words and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and inline with religious teaching.

These kind of men understands the Bible than their pastor, they don't have the time to give room for mistake, their kind can never be God as they are ready to throw anyone in the fire even before they commit sin.

With those attitude they can never get married until they are forced or raped.

7. Village People

Lol, there are many men out there that because of their sin or that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they will be cursed.

At times, those village people might have seen that when he gets married his finance will turnaround, they will just change everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps hating every lady that are supposed to be best for him.

The solution is to go completely spiritual to cleanse the man off the curse.

Source: https://bamisepeters..com/2019/01/7-reasons-many-men-remain-single-for.html

bamisepeters:
This is the direct opposite of 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long as requested by my readers.

I know many ladies will like to read this, but don't blame men o, life itself is hard.

Well, there are series of reasons some men have refused to leave the single life alone for small boys, i know you know some, here are few of those reasons i can think of as at the time of this post.

1. Financial Ground

It is never easy to rule the home without the cash, despite the hardness many men still think they must store that millions before settling down, however, they are those you will find in bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such attitude i just wonder when the millions will complete.

Meanwhile, they have one lady they keep wasting her time, asking her to continue praying for devine favour so that they can take her to the altar.

Some men, no matter how hard they try things still get harder, no stable job or anything, i wouldn't blame those who fall in this category.

At times we can't blame these men with the kind attitude our ladies portray this days.

2. Observing The Lady

Some guys don't actually know what they want, they place lady under observation, if you ask them what's up they will reply with their usual verbiage, "i am still observing her jare", this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because they want to explore everything explorable.

After they have done everything they should have done inside marriage while courting they will now look for excuse to discharge the innocent babe... There is God o.

3. Parental Influence

There are many of these guys that will never learn how to take decisions on their own even after 30 years of age, their parent instruct them on everything to do, meanwhile, some of these our parents are selfish, they want to keep having all your resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya eyes.

No one is saying you shouldn't obey some of this kind of parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to make it all balance, once you decide they will not have option than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn't going their way, that us where you need to know how to deal with it all.

4. The Big Boy Gang

Those in this category will never marry till very late 30s and early 40s. They want to enjoy the wealth before they decide finally. They are the ones all the big girls around knows, they are those that will be spraying money where they are not needed just to remain relevant in irrelevant places.

The money to wed or to spend when the woman is home isn't their problem a bit. They usually say it is better to enjoy the wealth before they are caged, meanwhile after they get married they still go back to those things secretly, they are those that must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the man.

5. They Don't See Anything Special

This is one reason some men don't marry till very late. They never see anything special in any woman no matter what she is or how she looks.

You will keep seeing them with different ladies as they get tired of one easily. They are the kind ladies keep following about, yet, nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times they will not also have choice than to take the lady to the altar after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.

6. Religious Ground

One big reason some men will not get married till their religious leader can't bear it any more is because of their over belief.

To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such lady must share same belief with them. Their faith has covered every sense of their reasoning, hence, they expect you to be perfect. They are quick to condemn the cloth, makeup, choice of words and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and inline with religious teaching.

These kind of men understands the Bible than their pastor, they don't have the time to give room for mistake, their kind can never be God as they are ready to throw anyone in the fire even before they commit sin.

With those attitude they can never get married until they are forced or raped.

7. Village People

Lol, there are many men out there that because of their sin or that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they will be cursed.

At times, those village people might have seen that when he gets married his finance will turnaround, they will just change everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps hating every lady that are supposed to be best for him.

The solution is to go completely spiritual to cleanse the man off the curse.

Source: https://bamisepeters..com/2019/01/7-reasons-many-men-remain-single-for.html

buttlover:
please do you have guide for the village cleansing ritual. I need it. I just don't know why I hate girls although I like kpekus a lot, I just can't put in emotionally with girls.

Mcquine:
That's what Bubu said in the beginning.

gidgiddy:
Anybody who says marriage is sweet must be a kid. Yes there are times that marriage can be good but it is never always like that. In reality, no matter who you are, marriage is full of highs and lows. It is hard work. Unlike before when you were single and free and could afford to only think about your self, in marriage you think about your self, your spouse and the kids. Your life is no longer your own. Monetary consideration, emotional considerations, physical considerations and so on.

That is why it is better for you to marry someone you get along with than someone you love.

nkwuocha:
Village people?
I think it's more of finance.These days I see a lot of men rolling in shiloh, competing with the single sisters.When a man is almost 40,still living under his parents roof,no job,no money,no girlfriend,no wife,Him penis go salute in the morning,then humble in the
afternoon and,no house of his own,that one na serious gbege.

Dear single ladies,when you see a man rolling beside you in shiloh,give am space to roll well.Himn problem dey critical.His case is seriously urgent.May God help us.

I think women's prayers get easily answered than men,my observations though.

Triangles1:
Marriage is overrated. All I need is contract relationship to get a child or I remain single. Women are full of problem and if you're not strong enough to handle them just remain single.

uthlaw:
you said it all just to have a child nothing special in marriage...

buttlover:
please do you have guide for the village cleansing ritual. I need it. I just don't know why I hate girls although I like kpekus a lot, I just can't put in emotionally with girls.