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MarianaTrench:
You took the words right out of my mouth!

keepingmum:
Women please buy as many properties as you canin your SOLE name. , buy in your full names please. MRS titi Abubakar not Mr and Mrs Abubakar.....they may be a second Mrs Abubakar in the future, like Jennifer is also Mrs Abubakar.

Whether the man you are married to supports, agrees or is even aware is irrelevant. Buy it ohhhhh.
I have been married for almost 15years to a truly wonderful man who is also VERY imperfect in many ways!!!

Dont buy in your brothers name cos you areonly enriching your brother and his own immediate family.

I have seen and will see more to validate my views. I have assets in my name alone and infact, only tell hubby after purchasing. But i also have a will that indicates all my estate to my children.


Dont listen to any inlaw, pastor or Imam that says otherwise rather speak with wives who have atleast a decade of marriage lessons in them.

If you are married to an egoistic dream killer that believes you acquiring properties will make his blokos shrink, please buy without his knowledge, take your documents and keep in the bank for storage!! Keep buying and preserving the docs in the banks vault.
Dont allow him pressure you to add his name to your property, if he so desperately wants a propertt he should buy

Annwrites:
You may disagree with my opinion but it still doesn't change the fact.

Marriage - The two marry themselves.

And yes, we both have equal right.

Not everyone wanna be submissive to stay married.

flyca:
Do you know why my parents still live in a rented apartment after 38 years if marriage?

My “submissive” mum always sort consent, which she was never given! And her bible told her to “submit”, so all her years of marriage, she submitted to the man's will. My dad? Never saw the need to buy a land, build a house, good to good schhols etc because his bible told him to be “content”.

38 years after, REGRETS everywhere. Lol

Consent my foot! I may notify you (depending on how you sail our ship) but I cannot allow you to drag me backwards. Impossible!

Annwrites, you are very intelligent
Cc: MahatmaGhandi, keepingmum

ainas247:
okay oo Mrs Gloria Mathew. Happy Sunday

flyca:
Do you know why my parents still live in a rented apartment after 38 years if marriage?

My “submissive” mum always sort consent, which she was never given! And her bible told her to “submit”, so all her years of marriage, she submitted to the man's will. My dad? Never saw the need to buy a land, build a house, good to good schhols etc because his bible told him to be “content”.

38 years after, REGRETS everywhere. Lol

Consent my foot! I may notify you (depending on how you sail our ship) but I cannot allow you to drag me backwards. Impossible!

Annwrites, you are very intelligent
Cc: MahatmaGhandi, keepingmum

Annwrites:
If a husband can buy a property in his name so can a wife.

She doesn't even need his consent or support except she feels like it.

A woman will misbehave because she has the tendency to not because of some properties she acquired.

If a husband would not let his wife know of any step he wishes to take he doesn't even deserve to know about his wife business.

Annwrites:
You may disagree with my opinion but it still doesn't change the fact.

Marriage - The two marry themselves.

And yes, we both have equal right.

Not everyone wanna be submissive to stay married.

DukeofNZ:
xxxxso make u no de use ur evil papa and family to set standard for good people. If ur mama dey submissive as you say here may God be with her now and forever. She go get her good reward. And may God punish ur foolish papa and evil child like u. U be pocohantas kind of person, bitter evil women and men everywhere. I no de pity somebody like U.

Annwrites:
hmm

alhassanyusuf29:
just imagine in any slightest disagreement, she tells u to pack ur luggage and leave at 2am

Annwrites:
Single and having the life of a party.

I have met too many unhappy married women to understand that the only thing they enjoy in their marriage is the title 'married'.

Besides, I wasn't advising, I dropped my opinion.

CuntMiner:
yyou are brainless

Zedoo:
I wonder if some people really have brain matter.

What is wrong with women owning some shett around this bxtch?? Heh? Heh
Don't men buy shett without telling no one?

Its called insurance.

Women need their own shett too just in case the bxtch in men come out.

Its 2019.

Can y'all stop thinking like uncivilized coons

Gaddamnit.

fastseo:
Then why pretend that they love the man when they are not happy with the term marriage. It's better they stay single after all marriage no be by force.

flyca:
Why talk about my father this way? Why? Do you know him? Will you be happy if someone talks like this about your family? You lack home training. Why hurt me with careless words? Wait for Karma.

And also I do not need your pity. I am a successful woman. Thank you.

Annwrites:
Many women don't even marry for love, they just wanna bear a title. For this reason, they will remain married whether they are happy or not.

The same pressure which pushed them into getting married in the first place is what keeps them there.

That's their own problem. It's not my business.

fastseo:
First who is the man acquiring those wealth for? His brothers? Mom or friends? Is it not you and the kids?


Am saying this if you aren't prepared for marriage remain single.

U know women when they get wealth that's when you know their true color. Man will endure everything but women will hardly.

keepingmum:
Women please buy as many properties as you canin your SOLE name. , buy in your full names please. MRS titi Abubakar not Mr and Mrs Abubakar.....they may be a second Mrs Abubakar in the future, like Jennifer is also Mrs Abubakar.

Whether the man you are married to supports, agrees or is even aware is irrelevant. Buy it ohhhhh.
I have been married for almost 15years to a truly wonderful man who is also VERY imperfect in many ways!!!

Dont buy in your brothers name cos you areonly enriching your brother and his own immediate family.

I have seen and will see more to validate my views. I have assets in my name alone and infact, only tell hubby after purchasing. But i also have a will that indicates all my estate to my children.


Dont listen to any inlaw, pastor or Imam that says otherwise rather speak with wives who have atleast a decade of marriage lessons in them.

If you are married to an egoistic dream killer that believes you acquiring properties will make his blokos shrink, please buy without his knowledge, take your documents and keep in the bank for storage!! Keep buying and preserving the docs in the banks vault.
Dont allow him pressure you to add his name to your property, if he so desperately wants a propertt he should buy

larryking540:
Lady u indirectly insulted ur own father from ur first comment no offense,

lolybaby:
IF AM YOUR WIFE I WILL FIND OUT AND KILL YOU WITH SMILES ALSO

flyca:
I told you that my father was “content” by his own understanding of the scriptures. How can this be an insult? How dare I insult the person you who fully and responsibly saw me through school? Do you have to insult him? Does calling him a fool make you happier?

I don't feel happy right now the way you have addresses my very own blood. You hurt me deeply by your careless statement but don't worry. Your daughter will be my age someday.

fastseo:
I hope you are married? Hiding things from your husband like house and other investment is not wise at all. You have to let him know he is your husband and not an enemy or village people.
The man too have to let his wife knows before getting any property or going into investment for two heads is better than one.
A man should allow his wife know how his will should look like when he dies. Even self who is the man struggling for if not the wife and children? Or will the man will his property to his brothers and family members.
We all have to chill in this feminist thing, this is the reason we are having broken homes here and there, during the days of our father nothing like broken homes but today after 3 or 4 years marriage has broken why because women are now trying to be the head of the family which naturally its not so.

Annwrites:
Lolz...

This is so similar to my mum except my dad doesn't have money when my mum has more than enough. He knows she won't ever turn down the needs of any of her children.

My mum finally became wise and now she has a land which she's gradually developing and is planning to acquire more this year. She didn't tell a soul except we her children.

The most annoying thing is my dad tries to take credit for every of her successful project or business but my mum never fails to remind him and his family members of how she struggled without his support to achieve them.

It is really nice to know a lot of women are realizing the anomalies in the society.

It is also nice knowing you are also one of the few intelligent ones who refused to accept the chains society prepared for women.

larryking540:
Oya on behalf of everyone here we are sorry if we indirectly or directly insulted ur dad, to day is Sunday hope u went 2 church

Dpharisee:
Your mum is not a good woman I am sorry, I have an uncle whose wife is doing well and he takes all the credit, but we all know that it's his wife, she remains submissive and she doesn't need to broadcast her strugglew and efforts because marriage is not a political contest between two opposing parties.

larryking540:
Lady u indirectly insulted ur own father from ur first comment no offense,

Teeisaac:
Once she use my name as her surname, and she bring the document for me to sign no problems

flyca:
I told you that my father was “content” by his own understanding of the scriptures. How can this be an insult? How dare I insult the person you who fully and responsibly saw me through school? Do you have to insult him? Does calling him a fool make you happier?

I don't feel happy right now the way you have addresses my very own blood. You hurt me deeply by your careless statement but don't worry. Your daughter will be my age someday.