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Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by cyr4me: 10:37am On Jan 23, 2019
i think something is wrong with her this stupid girl ,at 16 ,a man is touching ur breast and u didn't push him away....no force ,no struggle and no shout when you were enjoying your self you didnt shout na when the goodies done finish and him no give you again na now your drain come
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girl should b arrested for misinforming the police..nonsens[/color]e.�halfed enjoying the forbidden fruits
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Johilo(m): 10:37am On Jan 23, 2019
I am not understandin o biko... Is it dat she's arouse wenever someone touches her breat or she gets confused and wondering wat de person is doing to her breast!... Some pple sef
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by tfash96(m): 10:39am On Jan 23, 2019
A man of 36 dealing with a girl of 16 is like Barcelona playing Everton.They will just beat Everton to coma.Thank God it didn't result to coma for young sweet teen
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by LINTUNE(m): 10:39am On Jan 23, 2019
mrjaydee:
Ayam not understanding. He confused her by touching her breasts?
ylol cheesy grin
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by tfash96(m): 10:42am On Jan 23, 2019
Really he was on top that girl that's IMPROPER FRACTION the girl is really strong 2 accommodate his weight and the other thing length.She's so strong unless they did doggy quickie beside wall
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Emilydrake16: 10:43am On Jan 23, 2019
This guy got a magic hand with magic touch
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Nobody: 10:46am On Jan 23, 2019
Daeylar:
Why should they do that?

They should ban the word rape because of your misogyny.

A 16 year old was raped and all that can fall out of your mouth is that they should ban the word rape?

The nonsense some of you post here sometimes.

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Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by adanny01(m): 10:46am On Jan 23, 2019
HumphreyGspot:
A 36 -year old man, Alex Ogbuagu, has been arrested for handling and sucking a 16-year old girl’s breasts and tricking her into sex in Isheri area of Lagos where the suspect resides with the victim’s parents.

It was gathered that Ogbuagu returned early from work and lured the victim into his apartment and confused her with words.
He then allegedly fondled and sucked her breasts and she became more confused before he penetrated her in the romp that lasted for several hours.

The victim later regained herself after the act and reported to her parents that she was raped by Ogbuagu.

The matter was reported to the police in the area and Ogbuagu was arrested and transferred to the Gender Section of the Police Command.

It was gathered that during interrogation, Ogbuagu insisted that he did not rape her claiming that the victim consented to the act.

However, the victim denied her consent and claimed that she was forced into the act after he touched her breasts and got her confused.

https://www.hgsmediaplus.com.ng/2019/01/he-confused-me-by-touching-my-breasts.html?m=1
Hey hey hey!

Lets slow down a little and redefine rape before we proceed with this case.

For now, let men det carry consent forms at all times.

Nigeria is such a shit hole.

Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent.
Which part of this Wikipedia definition of rape is comparable with this case. Probably the girl is intellectualy disabled, then i agree it is rape.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Ovie56(m): 10:53am On Jan 23, 2019
DrtroubleM:
Of course this is rape..
What is a 36 year old guy doing with 16 year old undecided
Jail the morrafucker!
Buhari and Aisha no?
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by afroxyz: 10:56am On Jan 23, 2019
when he touched you, you felt a surge of testosterone to your brain. you tuned in to a higher frequency. After the act was done, and yiu descended from cloud 9, you were embarrassed with yourself. To hide the shame, you labelled it rape
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Unlimited22: 11:05am On Jan 23, 2019
Daeylar:
grin grin
Disclaimer taken grin

All right then.


I hope you are not trying to imply that having sex with a 16 year old is consensual sex and the 16 year old is a disgruntled lady who is trying to spoil his name?
That is exactly what I'm trying to imply. The crime here is not rape outright, but statutory rape. Which is a different crime altogether.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Phoenix999: 11:07am On Jan 23, 2019
Damn!

Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by adanny01(m): 11:14am On Jan 23, 2019
infocabal:
All of u saying Nonsense above should think if she was your daughter oh.. Cos u see ogbuagbu u begin defend am like say u dey Dere.
I do infact have a daughter.

I expect my daughter to slap the man who touches her breast. If he slaps her back, twist her arm, threaten or do anything further, it is rape.

If my daughter allows a man to touch her breast with no protest, remove her pants, penetrate her and continue doing so for several hours, i will not have a rape case against the man especially if she is over 18.

If she is under 18, there are different names to call the case but not rape. Statutory rape is for having intercourse with a minor.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Randy100: 11:14am On Jan 23, 2019
tofolo:
statutory rape it is which is still a crime.
They are still two different things. My point is that the girl was not forced into the sex. Some countrys has consent age to be 16 by the way.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Augustine112(m): 11:16am On Jan 23, 2019
the girl is mad after enjoyin Moses rod ,he confused you touching your breast but you enjoy the act that moment
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by MannaFromHeaven(m): 11:17am On Jan 23, 2019
DrtroubleM:
Of course this is rape..
What is a 36 year old guy doing with 16 year old undecided
Jail the morrafucker!
Do you even know what rape means?
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by MannaFromHeaven(m): 11:17am On Jan 23, 2019
How can touching of her breast confuse her? As he touch her breast e con confuse her to spread her legs like rumour abi
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by GoldHorse(m): 11:19am On Jan 23, 2019
What she meant was "aroused" not "confused". Most probably her breast is her weak point. She was not raped. Under age sex happened. Not good she's lying though. Her parent must have instructed her on what to say.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Daeylar(f): 11:21am On Jan 23, 2019
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Unlimited22:
That is exactly what I'm trying to imply. The crime here is not rape outright, but statutory rape. Which is a different crime altogether.
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You're sickening.
A man raped a child of 16 years and instead of you to condemn the man for rape. After all he admitted it out his own mouth that he did it.

You're attacking the poor girl and saying she is a disgruntled and trying to spoil his name? undecided
What stupid name? Name the man himself doesn't care about? Why should a man who cares about his name rape a 16 year old?. Is he saying that he didn't see ladies above 18 to have consensual sex with?

Where is your consideration for the life of the 16 year old he is trying to spoil?

Even if you want to call it statutory rape, why didn't you just do so? Instead you tried to attack and shame the little girl. Why?
for your information.
Rape is rape.
She said she was confused. Didn't give consent. And she is right. She can't give consent, that is rape.

IT IS RAPE.

I'm sick of nairaland men defending the indefensible just because they want to turn everything to a man vs woman's case and support the man no matter the facts on ground.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by GoldHorse(m): 11:21am On Jan 23, 2019
adanny01:
I do infact have a daughter.

I expect my daughter to slap the man who touches her breast. If he slaps her back, twist her arm, threaten or do anything further, it is rape.

If my daughter allows a man to touch her breast with no protest, remove her pants, penetrate her and continue doing so for several hours, i will not have a rape case against the man especially if she is over 18.

If she is under 18, there are different names to call the case but not rape. Statutory rape is for having intercourse with a minor.
You make sense!
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Daeylar(f): 11:25am On Jan 23, 2019
Toks2008:
I hope you are not arguing the fact that this is no rape case but very consensual.
What were you trying to say? Read it again. It made no sense.

The only crime is making out with a minor PERIOD.
Nope.
The crime here is raping a 16 year old.
No matter how you guys try to pretty what happened up so you diminish the crime.
Facts are facts.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Teymanhenry(f): 11:27am On Jan 23, 2019
16 years girls of now a days nor be small girls o.. maybe she reported to her parents cos he refused paying her...she didn't even said she was a virgin self...
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by GoldHorse(m): 11:27am On Jan 23, 2019
Daeylar:
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You're sickening.
A man raped a child of 16 years and instead of you to condemn the man for rape. After all he admitted it out his own mouth that he did it.

You're attacking the poor girl and saying she is a disgruntled and trying to spoil his name? undecided
What stupid name? Name the man himself doesn't care about? Why should a man who cares about his name rape a 16 year old?. Is he saying that he didn't see ladies above 18 to have sex with?

Where is your consideration for the life of the 16 year old he is trying to spoil?


Even if you want to call it statutory rape, why didn't you just do so? Instead you tried to attack and shame the little girl. Why?
for your information.
Rape is rape.
She said she was confused. Didn't give consent. That's a case of it's own.
Second case. Having sex with a child under 18.
Both rape.

IT IS RAPE.

I'm sick of nairaland men defending the indefensible just because they want to turn everything to a man vs woman's case and support the man no matter the facts on ground.
Under age sex? Yes.
Statutory rape? Yes.
Rape (forceful penetration without consent). No.

The girl was aroused not confused and she had sex. She was probably found out....then rape came in.

Not good twisting things. We all live in this society and see these things all the time.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by kinghez10(m): 11:29am On Jan 23, 2019
Which one is rape? She is just afraid because d guy didnt used cndm dis time around, incase belly show make d parent no too blame her. no b sey na first time oo. Just @16, she is just a defination of shame, I pity her.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 23, 2019
Rape ko? grin

Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Daeylar(f):
GoldHorse:
Under age sex? Yes.
Statutory rape? Yes.
Rape (forceful penetration without consent). No.

The girl was aroused not confused and she had sex. She was probably found out....then rape came in.

Not good twisting things. We all live in this society and see these things all the time.
Rape is not forceful penetration without consent.
RAPE IS SIMPLY SEX WITHOUT CONSENT

Is she at the age to give consent? No.
Did she give consent? She said she didn't, and at her age. She is right. She can't give consent,

what do you guys call that. undecided

I'm not interested in you guys trying so hard to diminish this crime and call it everything except what it is.
Rape.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Toks2008(m): 11:39am On Jan 23, 2019
Daeylar:
What were you trying to say? Read it again. It made no sense.



Nope.
The crime here is raping a 16 year old.
No matter how you guys try to pretty what happened up so you diminish the crime.
Facts are facts.
Believe what you want if it will make you sleep well at night.
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by tofolo(m): 11:46am On Jan 23, 2019
Randy100:
They are still two different things. My point is that the girl was not forced into the sex. Some countrys has consent age to be 16 by the way.
I agree with you Bros, but in Nigeria Na 18yrs n above oooo...
Re: ‘He Confused Me By Touching My Breasts’ – Girl Raped In Lagos Tells Police by Unlimited22: 12:02pm On Jan 23, 2019
Daeylar:
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You're sickening.
A man raped a child of 16 years and instead of you to condemn the man for rape. After all he admitted it out his own mouth that he did it.

You're attacking the poor girl and saying she is a disgruntled and trying to spoil his name? undecided
What stupid name? Name the man himself doesn't care about? Why should a man who cares about his name rape a 16 year old?. Is he saying that he didn't see ladies above 18 to have consensual sex with?

Where is your consideration for the life of the 16 year old he is trying to spoil?

Even if you want to call it statutory rape, why didn't you just do so? Instead you tried to attack and shame the little girl. Why?
for your information.
Rape is rape.
She said she was confused. Didn't give consent. And she is right. She can't give consent, that is rape.

IT IS RAPE.

I'm sick of nairaland men defending the indefensible just because they want to turn everything to a man vs woman's case and support the man no matter the facts on ground.
You only heard one side of the story, and you've judged the man. And concluded I'm sickening. No wahala
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