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Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Treasuredoye(f): 9:30am On Jan 26, 2019
Kencruz:
They should adopt me too, I am tired of Nigeria.
I want to be abducted by Italian government by force too... Nigeria nah hell part 2
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by ensamy(m): 9:40am On Jan 26, 2019
Nigerian government should have adopted all the Al majiris , we wouldn't have had insurgency in the North East Nigeria. huh huh huh huh huh
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by HallaDaTruth: 9:43am On Jan 26, 2019
THIS MAN WAS ASSASSINATED SO THAT THEY CAN FORCEFULLY TAKE HIS DAUGHTER BUT MOST MYOPIC PEOPLE ARE HERE BEGGING FOREIGN GOVTS TO ADOPT THEM . I PRAY YOUR WISH COMES TO PASS SO THAT YOU WILL DISCOVER THE HARD WAY THAT THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE .
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by golddust6000(m): 9:55am On Jan 26, 2019
Dshocker:
My uncle almost lost his son in New Zealand as at 2009.... Although it was his 7yr old son that called the police on him twice and he was given the final warning.All because he whipped his son for changing the tv channel from cnn to cartoon network,but before his son would know what is happening,he found himself schooling at Onitsha and has adopted fully into the Igbo culture.


There are two things i advice any man living abroad to do

1.... Before you bring in any woman as your wife,she must sign a prenuptial agreement.

2....Never ever train your children or let them grow up their 1st 14yrs out side of Nigeria.
number 2 is must for me. I will not allow my child to grow up in western world, that’s over my dead body
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Nobody: 10:09am On Jan 26, 2019
RIP to the man.
The girl is better off there than here.
All these animal nairalanders would have gone to look for her to molest.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by frozen70(f): 10:09am On Jan 26, 2019
Fela4ese:
How did d govt kill the dad?or how did it happen trow more light on it plz
Depression and trauma with frustration is enough to kill him
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Damsman10(m): 10:26am On Jan 26, 2019
aremuforlife:
You talk out of sentiments, most of us in Europe left before the present administration.
true talk, since this administration, no body get power to leave Nigeria. Now Common Passport na close to 100K..

well rip to d young man. Heaven will have a lot of judging to do on that day.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by dheolexaone(f): 10:27am On Jan 26, 2019
[quote author=Dshocker post=75124255]but before his son would know what is happening,he found himself schooling at Onitsha and has adopted fully into the Igbo culture./quote] grin

That's the spirit.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Buharimustgo16F: 10:35am On Jan 26, 2019
Here in Germany is d same oo...I am planning how to bring my 8month boy home self in Nigeria to know our tradition self.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by taiyeayodeji: 11:13am On Jan 26, 2019
the story is not complete.why was the child taken,they don't take a child without reason,where is the mother,did anybody file a complain against the child.a child can be taken when the child is not given full attention and lack parental care.in Europe,children are given full attention,if the child is neglected because the parent are too busy hustling,such child can be taken.mostly in europe,the women take care of the child while the man does the full work of providing.so we need to know what really happened,a case of parental neglected must have been file against him and possibly he didn't see the letters or he ignored them.i believe there are procedures before a child is collected from parent.the government may see that he is not financially able to take care of the child and such may result to a case like that.i am in no way blaming the deceased man,lots of things happen in europe that I am aware of.Nigerians need to know that Europe is not what people think and there are laws concerning children and once broken,u stand chances of losing your child.










aremuforlife:
I once posted this on the forum with the full details and it was not move to front page.

Point of correction the father name is Olawale Saheed Mustapha while the daughter is popularly called Baby Jo. And he is not a drug peddler like someone said above.
He was given a 2 years document and later sent to spray in lecce italy and on Saturday the daughter was forcefully taken away from without prior notice. And he was later sent a notice from tribunal to appear on the 12/02/2019. And if he not appear on that said date the baby will be adopted without his concept. And suddenly he was found dead.
I called this homicide, he was killed in other to pave the way for them to adopt the child illegally.
Below are the adoption notice and the summon notice from the judge.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by rampantlover: 11:17am On Jan 26, 2019
Same happened to my little girl, she is very intelligent but influence from friends changed her attitude and before she will say jack, she found herself in Ghana. I told her because of her attitude I am leaving her with her grandparents and I will only come back for her if her grandparents confirm to me that her attitude has changed and she is performing better again in school. Oh you should see the expression on her face grin cheesy grin cheesy and threatening to report me to the authorities in her new school. Few months later I received a call from and I thought it was parents but lo and behold it was her.
Daddy how are you doing and I answered I am doing well, what about you and what are you doing?
I am doing well daddy and I am eating banku and tilapia and shito grin cheesy grin grin grin next time again make you misbehave.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by AngelicBeing: 11:22am On Jan 26, 2019
sad
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by einsteine(m): 11:34am On Jan 26, 2019
Same way Balotelli was taken away from his parents. Nigerians and poor people (generally) would keep having children they can't take care of, in the belief that God will provide, as if God has provided in the past. Now, the government wants to help the poor child and they are issuing stupid ul;timatums.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Originalsly:
aremuforlife:
I once posted this on the forum with the full details and it was not move to front page.

Point of correction the father name is Olawale Saheed Mustapha while the daughter is popularly called Baby Jo. And he is not a drug peddler like someone said above.
He was given a 2 years document and later sent to spray in lecce italy and on Saturday the daughter was forcefully taken away from without prior notice. And he was later sent a notice from tribunal to appear on the 12/02/2019. And if he not appear on that said date the baby will be adopted without his concept. And suddenly he was found dead.
I called this homicide, he was killed in other to pave the way for them to adopt the child illegally.
Below are the adoption notice and the summon notice from the judge.
This makes more sense. Can't read Italian.... but there's a 2015 date on the document...... was it then he was granted a 2 year stay? This is 2019... to suddenly take away his daughter maybe because he took her away from the mother/ he was likely somehow endangering the welfare of the child.... child home alone period... not living under conditions suitable for a child.... no heat/not enough heat in the room/apartmemt... too many adults sharing the apartment.....etc. Makes no sense that the FG has to kill him in order to have the child. It was not reported here .... but he knew why he had to appear in court..... and most likely knew what would be the outcome.... maybe deportation..... longgggg term separation from his daughter. Why can't it be he committed suicide?...isn't that most likely?...or the stress was too much for him to bear? What about the mother?...if Italian we should know how that goes as well especially with the new administration. Nigeria laws and practices do not apply in Italy.... the quicker we learn that...the more we will avoid such tragic situations.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by sweetilicious(f): 11:59am On Jan 26, 2019
[quote author=Dshocker post=75124255]My uncle almost lost his son in New Zealand as at 2009.... Although it was his 7yr old son that called the police on him twice and he was given the final warning.All because he whipped his son for changing the tv channel from cnn to cartoon network,but before his son would know what is happening,he found himself schooling at Onitsha and has adopted fully into the Igbo culture.


There are two things i advice any man living abroad to do

1.... Before you bring in any woman as your wife,she must sign a prenuptial agreement.

2....Never ever train your children or let them grow up their 1st 14yrs out side of Nigeria.[/quote
My brother has vowed that the daughters must come home for junior secondary to shapen their understanding.Now I understand his decision
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by alfaman3: 12:06pm On Jan 26, 2019
I was going to react 'cos I though it was an Igbo man. Then I saw his real name. Afonja demon. Wetin concern me?
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Papiajaxy(m): 12:23pm On Jan 26, 2019
delugajackson:
We've got too much on our plates now. She can return after we might have kicked the dullard out of office. And maybe we can switch places.

Lord knows I'd give anything to be adopted by the Italian government just so I can escape this hell hole.
Hahahaha ode
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Pavore9: 2:00pm On Jan 26, 2019
aremuforlife:
I once posted this on the forum with the full details and it was not move to front page.

Point of correction the father name is Olawale Saheed Mustapha while the daughter is popularly called Baby Jo. And he is not a drug peddler like someone said above.
He was given a 2 years document and later sent to spray in lecce italy and on Saturday the daughter was forcefully taken away from without prior notice. And he was later sent a notice from tribunal to appear on the 12/02/2019. And if he not appear on that said date the baby will be adopted without his concept. And suddenly he was found dead.
I called this homicide, he was killed in other to pave the way for them to adopt the child illegally.
Below are the adoption notice and the summon notice from the judge.
Where is the child's mother?
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by dochenaj: 3:59pm On Jan 26, 2019
They forcefully adopt your child then you come go die.
Except they are going to put her in witness protection where I cannot infiltrate I'll be worried. Else I'll track her down and "kidnap" my daughter with alibi. They won't even suspect me. And I'll even be shouting that they better go find my daughter.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by Ohraykon: 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2019
Dshocker:
My uncle almost lost his son in New Zealand as at 2009.... Although it was his 7yr old son that called the police on him twice and he was given the final warning.All because he whipped his son for changing the tv channel from cnn to cartoon network,but before his son would know what is happening,he found himself schooling at Onitsha and has adopted fully into the Igbo culture.


There are two things i advice any man living abroad to do

1.... Before you bring in any woman as your wife,she must sign a prenuptial agreement.

2....Never ever train your children or let them grow up their 1st 14yrs out side of Nigeria.
pls explain why we av some yeye children here dont generalize there are some good children abroad everything is not force u can train ur child in other ways
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by aremuforlife(m): 4:33pm On Jan 26, 2019
[/quote][quote author=Originalsly post=75128985]This makes more sense. Can't read Italian.... but there's a 2015 date on the document...... was it then he was granted a 2 year stay? This is 2019... to suddenly take away his daughter maybe because he took her away from the mother/ he was likely somehow endangering the welfare of the child.... child home alone period... not living under conditions suitable for a child.... no heat/not enough heat in the room/apartmemt... too many adults sharing the apartment.....etc. Makes no sense that the FG has to kill him in order to have the child. It was not reported here .... but he knew why he had to appear in court..... and most likely knew what would be the outcome.... maybe deportation..... longgggg term separation from his daughter. Why can't it be he committed suicide?...isn't that most likely?...or the stress was too much for him to bear? What about the mother?...if Italian we should know how that goes as well especially with the new administration. Nigeria laws and practices do not apply in Italy.... the quicker we learn that...the more we will avoid such tragic situations.
The child was born 2015
He was granted humanitarian document 2018
The child and the father are given a separate apartments and was not in danger.
He has no reason to commit suicide. And according to the notice that was serve to him, it state that failure to appear on 12/02/2009 the child will be parmanetly adopted.
The mother is in Nigeria and they communicate regularly, even up to the day he was killed.
The new administration created the xenophobic environment we have in Italy.

I believe he was killed in other to take full custody of the child. It was a plain work between his responsible and the carabinieri in the community.
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by aremuforlife(m): 4:34pm On Jan 26, 2019
[/quote]n[quote author=dochenaj post=75136344]They forcefully adopt your child then you come go die.
Except they are going to put her in witness protection where I cannot infiltrate I'll be worried. Else I'll track her down and "kidnap" my daughter with alibi. They won't even suspect me. And I'll even be shouting that they better go find my daughter.
It's not as easy as that, he was dealing with mafia people
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by aremuforlife(m): 4:37pm On Jan 26, 2019
[/quote][quote author=Pavore9 post=75133133]Where is the child's mother?
She is in Nigeria
Re: Nigerian Man Dies In Italy After Daughter Was “Forcefully” Adopted By Govt. PICS by aremuforlife(m): 4:40pm On Jan 26, 2019
[/quote][quote author=frozen70 post=75126130]Depression and trauma with frustration is enough to kill him
I was not under depression or frustration, we both spoke the night he was killed.
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