I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . . whoaaaaa
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy

Naija women don suffer sha. Spits. Meanwhile one small girl somewhere would be calling him by his first name and would be ordering him around oh

God bless the woman.

OdikwaRisky:
Naija women don suffer sha. Spits. Meanwhile one small girl somewhere would be calling him by his first name and would be ordering him around oh

I swear

What is suffering in respecting her husband?

OdikwaRisky:
Naija women don suffer sha. Spits. Meanwhile one small girl somewhere would be calling him by his first name and would be ordering him around oh

madridguy:
What is suffering in respecting her husband?

It's too much. We all know you guys well

Nothing is too much my dear sister. The only books " Qur'an and The Bible " said it loud and clear. My sister, don't allow some useless western culture to enter you. Respect your man.

Badassblogger:


It's too much. We all know you guys well

Nobe only Lord, we for kuku add 'personal saviour'. Mtchwww

Tamarapetty:
Nobe only Lord, we for kuku add 'personal saviour'. Mtchwww

lol

them don come again, a woman chooses to be prostitute it's her choice and they said mind your business

a woman chooses to call her husband my lord, it's everyone's problem and they don't mind their business

confused idiots

The husband must be the chief judge of the whole federation to deserve such title.....e no concern anybody ooo...the matter between husband and wife should remain btw them if u don't want them to break coconut on ur head las last..DO NOT INTERFERE!!!

Badassblogger:
I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . . whoaaaaa
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy

Just shut up already.
Don't guys kneel and worship you when they propose?

Just shut it

lilmax:
lol

them don come again, a woman chooses to be prostitute it's her choice and they said mind your business

a woman chooses to call her husband my lord, it's everyone's problem and they don't mind their business

confused idiots

mah niggah

OdikwaRisky:
Naija women don suffer sha. Spits. Meanwhile one small girl somewhere would be calling him by his first name and would be ordering him around oh

yet your ego swells when a guy calls you Princess or Queen or Goddess. Smh.
Selfish basterds

Don't be a dumbass, theres a difference between terms of endearment and terms that depict outright superiority. Big difference.Nigerian men love to me respected and treated like kings so much but y'all aint worth it, at least this generation men. The breed of men being raised today are a big cause for concern. Look at them, y'all want to be called lords when you behave like touts

ubunja:
yet your ego swells when a guy calls you Princess or Queen or Goddess. Smh.
Selfish basterds

OdikwaRisky:
Don't be a dumbass, theres a difference between terms of endearment and terms that depict outright superiority. Big difference.Nigerian men love to me respected and treated like kings so much but y'all aint worth it, at least this generation men. The breed of men being raised today are a big cause for concern. Look at them, y'all want to be called lords when you behave like touts

if Queen doesn't show superiority I don't know what does.

OdikwaRisky:
Don't be a dumbass, theres a difference between terms of endearment and terms that depict outright superiority. [Big difference.Nigerian men love to me respected and treated like kings so much but y'all aint worth it, at least this generation men. The breed of men being raised today are a big cause for concern. Look at them, y'all want to be called lords when you behave like touts

That ubunja boy is not from Nigerian he's from Zimbabwean

Badassblogger:
I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . . whoaaaaa
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy

lying feminist, you are looking for controversies.

Forget your Lord..Grow your hair, check my siggy..

wetdick:


lying feminist, you are looking for controversies.

Who told you she is??

This is what some men who wants submissive women like, they want someone that will be a mugu to them, shows their level of insecurity and low self esteem, what they cannot do outside they'll come home to pour frustration on their wife, rubbish!!!

Biglittlelois:
This is what some men who wants submissive women like, they want someone that will be a mugu to them, shows their level of insecurity and low self esteem, what they cannot do outside they'll come home to pour frustration on their wife, rubbish!!!

but it's OK when that husband buys you a car and a house and sacrfices his life to protect you?

SPORTSADDICT:


Who told you she is??

i guess you are the same person.

Shut the Bleep up @Wetdick

ubunja:
but it's OK when that husband buys you a car and a house and sacrfices his life to protect you?

Yes it is OK, cos the woman also sacrifice her surname, her body by carryING a child not just once but 2, 3, 4 times as the case may be, works and takes care of the home, how many sacrifices did I call? Four sacrifices, and you're typing material things as sacrifice, even saying "sacrificing his life to protect you" meaning a man will die or kill himself to protect his family, when he's not Jesus Christ lol, yeye dey smell

Badassblogger:
I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . . whoaaaaa
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy

For the wife to say 'my lord this that' in front of a guest, that means she is cool with it.
Not every family is the same.

SPORTSADDICT:
Shut the Bleep up @Wetdick

OK..... SPORTSADDICT

madridguy:
What is suffering in respecting her husband?

There is respect and then there is servitude this is not respect.

Biglittlelois:



Yes it is OK, cos the woman also sacrifice her surname, her body by carryING a child not just once but 2, 3, 4 times as the case may be, works and takes care of the home, how many sacrifices did I call? Four sacrifices, and you're typing material things as sacrifice, even saying "sacrificing his life to protect you" meaning a man will die or kill himself to protect his family, when he's not Jesus Christ lol, yeye dey smell

You think all that is sacrifice?
Primarily, in most cases No one will force a lady to get married in first place.
The decision belongs to the lady whether to marry or not, so its not sacrifice.
Its simply what the lady wanted.

MissRaine69:

There is respect and then there is servitude this is not respect.

Yea but the truth is 'what do you know about the family'
In your own perspective, its not respect but from the wife perspective, it might be respect.

Biglittlelois:



Yes it is OK, cos the woman also sacrifice her surname, her body by carryING a child not just once but 2, 3, 4 times as the case may be, works and takes care of the home, how many sacrifices did I call? Four sacrifices, and you're typing material things as sacrifice, even saying "sacrificing his life to protect you" meaning a man will die or kill himself to protect his family, when he's not Jesus Christ lol, yeye dey smell

If you feel that way nothing will make you change your mind.
Continue...

MissRaine69:

There is respect and then there is servitude this is not respect.

and you will call another man Boss at work?
But when it's your husband it's servitude?