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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 9:39pm On Feb 04, 2019
This is too small for IMO state especially Mbaise so it's either Abia or Anambra. An intending suitor will have to nearly bleed to death monetarily in IMO especially Mbaise. grin

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:54pm On Feb 04, 2019
Elder0001:
This would’ve made more sense in family section .

This romance section is filled with frustrated ,useless,dumb and broke dunderheads that won’t be able to make any meaningful impact on intellectual conversations/debates.

And yet your profile shows that you are also active in romance section.
Elder you self cool

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 10:03pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:


And yet your profile shows that you are also active in romance section.
Elder you self cool


That’s because I frequent sexuality section . It seems like sexuality section is under romance section .

Can’t remember the last time I was scrolling threads on the main romance section ! I just click sexuality and move to ashawo thread.
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Ishilove: 10:26pm On Feb 04, 2019
pocohantas:
Ishi, the thing we need to know is, some of our Igbo brothers are very egoistic. I have seen several cases where the man brought double the list (no jokes). Sometimes because he believes his wife is of so much value, other times for show off.

These items are not always the actual list.
I wonder why people do this- can a person's worth be tied to material things? Isn't bride price supposed to be symbolic? Why the extortion?

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Ishilove: 10:27pm On Feb 04, 2019
MajorJeffery:
This is too small for IMO state especially Mbaise so it's either Abia or Anambra. An intending suitor will have to nearly bleed to death monetarily in IMO especially Mbaise. grin
Igbo kwenu! tongue cheesy
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by pocohantas(f): 10:29pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ishilove:

I wonder why people do this- can a person's worth be tied to material things? Isn't bride price supposed to be symbolic? Why the extortion?

Na just plain greed and wickedness. "let's eat him now we are seeing him, because after he marries this our daughter, he won't come back here..." cheesy

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 10:30pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ishilove:

Igbo kwenu! tongue cheesy

Militants kwenu. undecided

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Ishilove: 10:31pm On Feb 04, 2019
pocohantas:


Na just plain greed a d wickedness. "let's eat him now we are seeing him, because after he marries this our daughter, he won't come back here..." cheesy
And then they complain when he bars them from his house and treat their daughter like _shit. I speak from experience.

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Ishilove: 10:31pm On Feb 04, 2019
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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:47pm On Feb 04, 2019
MRSoftapples:
jezz!!!!!!!!!
1 million naira for a wedding is not a waste.
Bride Price nko?? cheesy
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by HeWrites(m): 11:03pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ishilove:


Get a room, you two

Lmao.. cheesy cheesy

Sorry ma grin
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by 19grigri: 11:09pm On Feb 04, 2019
Airforce01:
Glad I jumped the bullet

Boss man Na you oo grin
Na you be matrix gan gan
Pple dey Dodge bullet
You dey jump am grin

Na joke I dey o grin
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:25pm On Feb 04, 2019
Lol! When I see something like that with oyibo lady as a bride, I will believe in Nigerian love. grin

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Tizu(m): 11:47pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ishilove:
Online aproko outlets claim this happened in Enugu, others swear it is Imo.cheesy

Regardless of where this happened, the lines between tradition and downright extortion is blurred in many cases.

Let me do a quick inventory-

A big nanny goat
2 trays of Nittol detergent
A basin of coconut
Three suitcases of Hollandis wrappers and assorted wax prints
One bag of rice
Two crates of drinks
One crate of beer

Is that a salon size pack of Profectiv Mega Growth relaxer i see there...??

Yep it is. I wonder when hair relaxer became a part of omenala. (tradition)

Emm, I sight giant can of peak milk
Something that looks like custard
A basin of big sized Canoe bar soap

I can't keep up. My eyes are aching and I'm tired of squinting. embarassed

So what happens to the struggling man who can't afford these cutthroat lists?


This is even small to what I spent during my time.
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by ClearFlair: 11:48pm On Feb 04, 2019
sinaj:
O! My hewrites

You didn't add kisses in your own nah. Oya go and add kisses before I open my eyes. angry

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Gracesofar(m): 11:48pm On Feb 04, 2019
More reason for domestic violence. After paying all this the lady will raise shoulder and you won't tell her THEREFORE YE ARE BOUGHT WITH A PRICE.

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by bigfrancis21: 11:50pm On Feb 04, 2019
Ishilove:
Online aproko outlets claim this happened in Enugu, others swear it is Imo.cheesy

Regardless of where this happened, the lines between tradition and downright extortion is blurred in many cases.

Let me do a quick inventory-

A big nanny goat
2 trays of Nittol detergent
A basin of coconut
Three suitcases of Hollandis wrappers and assorted wax prints
One bag of rice
Two crates of drinks
One crate of beer

Is that a salon size pack of Profectiv Mega Growth relaxer i see there...??

Yep it is. I wonder when hair relaxer became a part of omenala. (tradition)

Emm, I sight giant can of peak milk
Something that looks like custard
A basin of big sized Canoe bar soap

I can't keep up. My eyes are aching and I'm tired of squinting. embarassed

So what happens to the struggling man who can't afford these cutthroat lists?


Erm, can I ask how much your bride price is, Ishi? wink cheesy

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by MPESA(m): 11:52pm On Feb 04, 2019
Airforce01:
Glad I jumped the bullet

Bros forget na which bullet you dhey even talk, Abi no bi person dhey do am in
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Akuruoulo(m): 11:53pm On Feb 04, 2019
Tallesty1:
Lols. I am from Enugu sir and we don't sale our women

And we Imolites sell our girls. Weldon sir

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by LZAA: 11:53pm On Feb 04, 2019
First of that's imo not enugu
Secondly NOT all families collect this much as bride price
And also if ur hand no reach kuku leave the babe

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 04, 2019
Mrbolt565:
What kind of wretched thing is this?
PROVIDED the LADY in Question is not an eddiot, then she’s worth more than this.
The WORST can only happen when you spend all these on a GULLIBLE and Foolish Lady that has nothing else to offer beyond SEXX.
Then just know that ARMAGEDDON has visited your home
Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by oyinella(f): 11:54pm On Feb 04, 2019
my family won't even try me, them go tell me if I be commodity.. las las we go ikoyi registry. we go dey ok

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Mohdhk(m): 11:54pm On Feb 04, 2019
Love is good but, Good is the enemie of Greatness... Bros hop u're gallant enough to continue what u stated ''operation feeds the whole family''

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:55pm On Feb 04, 2019
Our igbo hunks aint complaining kiss they are always up to the task .....thats why we love them...most of the ppl that complain about igbo culture are afonja men...stick to your chimpazees if you dont have money to marry from igbo land

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by darling4real1: 11:55pm On Feb 04, 2019
AmazonTopaz:


Why waste 1 million for a wedding when you can use that money to invest in something profitable.

As for the thread this one na exchange of goods and services.In other words her husband has bought her.

Is marriage not an investment? Please tell the investment that is bigger than marriage. Even the Bible say he find a wife find a good thing and is blessed.

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:56pm On Feb 04, 2019
When your stupid relatives are collecting all those gifts while selling you to me in the process, better know that after the sale, you become my property and you will do as I please.

If you wanna try that feminist nonsense in my house, please tell you relatives to kindly return all my shyt so I can seek out another wife.

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Akuruoulo(m): 11:56pm On Feb 04, 2019
pocohantas:


Na just plain greed and wickedness. "let's eat him now we are seeing him, because after he marries this our daughter, he won't come back here..." cheesy


So that's their plan?

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:58pm On Feb 04, 2019
Airforce01:
Glad I jumped the bullet
Don't you mean dodged?

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Nobody: 11:58pm On Feb 04, 2019
darling4real1:


Is marriage not an investment? Please tell the investment that is bigger than marriage. Even the Bible say he find a wife find a good thing and is blessed.
MARRIAGE can only be a SWEET INVESTMENT when you end up with a REASONABLE and SOUND LADY whose intellect has gone beyond the caprices of what is obtainable among the empty skulls we have parading themselves everywhere as slay queens

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Re: Bride Price Collection Is Big Business In Some Parts Of Nigeria (Pics) by Sunrise258: 11:59pm On Feb 04, 2019
If after the wedding the husband used her for money ritual, make her parents no shout o, na wetin dem eat belle-full them.

And I no won hear say the husband be occult o.

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