happening right now in my compound . an older woman slapped another because of little misunderstanding.
NB: the younger woman did nothing wrong. now the younger woman has called her husband who is a gentle easy going guy.
I overhead their conversation when the guy told him he is on his way. the woman has been bragging about how her husband will let all hell loose when he is back.

my question is, is it right to fight Your neighbor because of a fight that happened while you are away. what if he gets killed or injured in the process

Na wa o! Fights every where! Of course atleast let her husband be aware of what is going on with her in his absence

Tosinex:
Na wa o! Fights every where! Of course atleast let her husband be aware of what is going on with her in his absence

the wife is boasting that the easy going guy is coming to fight.

I want to know if its right or I should just block the guy and calm him down

Is wrong nah, i don't expect the man to fight,talk more of fighting a woman,he should ask what happend from both ladies and settle the matter peaceful then take his wife out and get her somethings if he can.

I no go marry woman wey dey enter trouble

if someone slapped her, she should fight back if she wants, her cross

I no go find trouble and dey expect person make e fight for me

same with my kids

Your wife should slap bk not you as a man, pretend as if you did not hear about it, and ask your wife to hit back nxt time.
But what can lead to slap, women and there wahala

hmmm

If it's a woman who slapped the wife, the man shouldn't hit her... But he must find a way to support the wife so she doesn't feel isolated.

Reporting the case to the police wouldn't be a bad idea. Ghetto approach always escalates issues...

So the woman no get hand? The man should not fight. He should even thank the woman for helping him to reset the wife's brain.

NOC1:
Your wife should slap bk not you as a man, pretend as if you did not hear about it, and ask your wife to hit back nxt time.
But what can lead to slap, women and there wahala

Anything could have led to it. No matter what happens, even if your wife is wrong, you need to always have her back, although you must caution her in private.

Once a woman feels unsupported, you've killed her morale and trust in you.

Family 101.

LuciferPastor:



These fighters are Afonja YES or NO?

what has tribe got to do with this

gabazin080:
happening right now in my compound . an older woman slapped another because of little misunderstanding.
NB: the younger woman did nothing wrong. now the younger woman has called her husband who is a gentle easy going guy.
I overhead their conversation when the guy told him he is on his way. the woman has been bragging about how her husband will let all hell loose when he is back.

my question is, is it right to fight Your neighbor because of a fight that happened while you are away. what if he gets killed or injured in the process

Is it right for the husband to come and fight? No

However, he should sternly warn the old woman & her husband/kids never to touch his wife again. Slapping the wife is actually a disrespect to the husband.

The young wife sounds foolish IMHO. What's with the noise making that her husband is coming to fight? Even if indeed he is coming to fight, why take away the element of surprise?

And to ask, what kind of living arrangements do they have to warrant slapping about?

gabazin080:
what has tribe got to do with this

I take that as a YES.

LuciferPastor:


I take that as a YES.

sense is far from you

If everyone always mind their business, there wouldn't be anything like slap in the first place.
You cannot say the wife did no wrong, that older woman is not mad, she cannot just walk up to the younger woman and slap her, some arguments had taken place which prompted such action.

The man fighting a woman who slapped his wife will be the dumbest thing to do. Is his wife disable?
If it were a case of man slapping his wife then, some actions will be expected from him.

this is how some women put their husbands into trouble.

If the younger lady's husband comes back and beat the older lady, the older lady's husband might fight back and it will generate to another big problem.

The wives should settle among themselves and leave their innocent husbands alone!

the husband should ask the wife what transpired. if she tells him the truth and she is not at fault, he should politely approach the neighbor to hear her part of the story.

if the neighbor is rude to him or not fort coming, he should take the case to police, and report the neighbor for assault on his wife.

the police will invite neighbor for questioning - if her answer is contradictory, he should request the IPO to take the issue to court where the court will charge her accordingly.


IF THE HUSBAND SHOULD GO AND FIGHT THE NEIGHBOR, IT WILL BE A CASE OF TWO FIGHTING, PUBLIC DISTURBANCE AND MISDEMEANOR - police go take them chop wella!