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LisaAnne:
If you're thinking that getting married is in the near future for you and your partner, here are 13 pieces of marriage advice to keep in mind, as told by people who have been there, wed that.
1.Keep Your Eyes Peeled For Red Flags
When you love someone, it can be hard to look objectively at your relationship and notice potential red flags — but when it comes to something as serious as marriage, it's crucial that you don't go into it blindly ignoring things that might cause problems down the line.
2.Loving Someone Is A Choice
When you're married, it's unrealistic to assume that every day will be filled with super lovey-dovey romantic feelings. Remember that you can make the choice to love your spouse, even on the "bad days."
3.Talk About The Future Before Committing To It
If marriage is on the horizon, it's important to have a conversation with your partner about what you both want for your future together — where to live, how many kids to have, etc. If those visions don't align, it might not be meant to be.
4.Only Get Married If You *Really* Want To
Marriage isn't for everyone, and if you're on the fence and feel like your partner is pressuring you to get married, things are bound to end poorly — so only get married if you truly want to be married.
5.Try To See Things From Your Partner's Perspective
In a marriage (or any long-term relationship), arguments are inevitable — but if you're able to take a step back and view things from your partner's perspective instead of just your own, you'll be able to
navigate conflict in your marriage much easier.
6.Trust Is Essential
Trust is one of the building blocks of any healthy marriage; without it, a marriage can't last. If there are any trust issues in your relationship, it's better to resolve those before tying the knot.
7.Communicate What You Want In Your Marriage
There's a huge difference between knowing what you want for your marriage — and being confident enough to communicate that — and setting unrealistic, unfair, and even unspoken expectations for your partner that you want them to meet. The latter will only end in disappointment.
8.Use Your Individual Strengths To Lift Each Other Up
The perk of partnership? When the going gets tough, you can each use your individual strengths to help support one another. And it's OK if that support feels lopsided at times: an equal partnership doesn't necessarily mean effort is always 50/50.
9.Mutual Respect Is Mandatory
Another building block of all healthy marriages? A shared sense of mutual respect. If one of you doesn't respect the other, it's unlikely that your marriage will be able to survive in the long-term.
10.Discuss Finances Before Marriage
It's not always easy to talk finances with your partner, but if you're planning to get married, it's absolutely crucial that you're on the same page about money — and are aware of one another's financial habits and history.
11.Don't Rush Into Marriage
If there's one decision in life that you should never
rush, it's marriage. It's OK to take your time in a relationship, and if you realize that it's not a fit long-term with someone, don't be afraid to break up and search for someone who's a better fit — because you should never settle when it comes to marriage.
12.Don't Let Minor Disagreements Become Major Rifts
It's normal to argue with your spouse, but it's important that each time you have a disagreement, you're able to talk it over and find a solution together — because if you never resolve them, even your smallest fights can cause major rifts in your relationship down the line.
13.Sharing Common Interests With Someone Isn't Always Enough
When you're dating, it's an awesome feeling if you share tons of common interests with your partner. But those surface-level commonalities aren't enough to make a marriage work: you also need to have a deeper level of compatibility beyond what your hobbies of choice are.
Sadly, there's no foolproof way to guarantee that any given marriage will last a lifetime — but if you're thinking of taking that next step, listening to words of marriage wisdom from those who've been married before you is never a bad idea if you want to help your marriage start out on the right foot

Wow what a wonderful piece. Thanks

And I also heard that both Tonto/Toto and are gang paid the idiot to say this on social media

Chipink:
He is right tho that gbenga guy is an idiot
But Yoruba guys are so immature in relationships. 2 of my friends had same experience with them....i'm not hating

If u watched bbnaija 2018 Tobi is a typical Yoruba guy.
Even one yoruba model agreed the fact that YORUBA guys can be so immature in relationships and gossips too much compared to igbo guys.

You can say that again, very annoying species, even though I am Yoruba, I prefer to date other tribes.

damify:
You can say that again, very annoying species, even though I am Yoruba, I prefer to date other tribes.

My dear God bless u for ur honesty.
Because some will not agree.

dominique:
Has this guy ever been pictured on a movie set?

Chipink:
He is right tho that gbenga guy is an idiot
But Yoruba guys are so immature in relationships. 2 of my friends had same experience with them....i'm not hating

If u watched bbnaija 2018 Tobi is a typical Yoruba guy.
Even one yoruba model agreed the fact that YORUBA guys can be so immature in relationships and gossips too much compared to igbo guys.

Like say Miracle no gossip in the bbnaija house? The most well behaved guy in that house was Lolu. Leo Da silva and Teddy hardly gossiped as well.

Kagawa10:
Like say Miracle no gossip in the bbnaija house? The most well behaved guy in that house was Lolu. Leo Da silva and Teddy hardly gossiped as well.

Lies lies lies.. .

Miracle only gossiped few times. And Tobi was the cause, where he was trying to help him or advice him.
Tobi is just so weak, couldn't handle rejection and pressure from a Woman and had to always run to miracle to tell him.. And the makes miracle look like he gossiped.

Miracle always stood his ground and told Tobi to just ignore ceecee.. But the weak nigga kept nagging..
Most Yoruba guys are like that.


Miracle was the best.. LOLU tried too. Leo was a snake.. Teddy thought he was God

Chipink:
Lies lies lies.. .

Miracle only gossiped few times. And Tobi was the cause, where he was trying to help him or advice him.
Tobi is just so weak, couldn't handle rejection and pressure from a Woman and had to always run to miracle to tell him.. And the makes miracle look like he gossiped.

Miracle always stood his ground and told Tobi to just ignore ceecee.. But the weak nigga kept nagging..
Most Yoruba guys are like that.


Miracle was the best.. LOLU tried too. Leo was a snake.. Teddy thought he was God

Which stupid miracle? The same miracle that always gossiped about Lolu even when Lolu did him no wrong? Or the one that had problem with Leo because Leo figured out his game of using Nina which was found out to be true at last? Lmao.

Miracle was the worst in the house. I pray someone like him use you and your sisters like he did with Nina.

Tobi has his own fault but what I can't fault him was his fight with Ceec cos Ceec pushed him to the wall with her constant drama and fight everyday. No man wants such stupid drama from a lady.

Kagawa10:
[s]Which stupid miracle? The same miracle that always gossip about Lolu even when Lolu did him no wrong? Or the one that had problem with Leo because Leo figured out his game of using Nina which was found out at last? Lmao.
Miracle was the worst in the house. I pray someone like him use you and your sisters like he did with Nina.

Tobi has his fault but what I can't fault him was his fight with Ceec cos Ceec pushed him to the wall with her constant drama and fight everyday. No man wants such stupid drama from a lady.[/s]

Shut up miracle only confronted snake Leo because he was disturbing Nina and Nina had to report him miracle.
Lol and what's with "discovered miracle game plan"...lmao
was he there to play his own game and mind his business or was he there to DISCOVER some1s game plan. .
The idiot was jealous of miracles personality and attitude, so he kept poke nosing.

Same Leo who told Alex he would date her and still went outside the house to tell ebuka he will not.. Very unstable human being.
I pray some1 deceive ur sisters like that too.

And u didn't see when LOLU and Bambam was gossiping miracle.
All yorubas in the house saw miracle as enemy except Tobi, who even later snitched him.

Miracle was classy above all of them and that's why he won week in week out till the final day

Chipink:
Shut up miracle only confronted snake Leo because he was disturbing Nina and Nina had to report him miracle.
Lol and what's with "discovered miracle game plan"...lmao
was he there to play his own game and mind his business or was he there to DISCOVER dimension game plan. .
The idiot was jealous of miracles personality and attitude, so he kept poke nosing.

Same Leo who told Alex he would date her and still went outside the house to tell ebuka he will not.. Very unstable human being.
I pray some1 deceive ur sisters like that too.

Lmao. You probably didn't watch the show. Leo told Nina that miracle was using her and she should think of her boyfriend but the mumu girl went to tell Miracle. That was why miracle confronted Leo. Guess who was right in the end? Leo. Miracle also said many bad thing about Lolu who did nothing wrong to him.

Leo never deceived Alex. He told her many time there was no way they would date because he has someone outside yet Alex was always crying. There was a time he even asked Alex to go to her bed and sleep but everytime he shunned Alex, she was always crying.

Like I said earlier, I pray someone like miracle play you and your sisters like he did with Nina. Can I hear amen?

Chipink:
Shut up miracle only confronted snake Leo because he was disturbing Nina and Nina had to report him miracle.
Lol and what's with "discovered miracle game plan"...lmao
was he there to play his own game and mind his business or was he there to DISCOVER some1s game plan. .
The idiot was jealous of miracles personality and attitude, so he kept poke nosing.

Same Leo who told Alex he would date her and still went outside the house to tell ebuka he will not.. Very unstable human being.
I pray some1 deceive ur sisters like that too.

And u didn't see when LOLU and Bambam was gossiping miracle.
All yorubas in the house saw miracle as enemy except Tobi, who even later snitched him.

Miracle was classy above all of them and that's why he won week in week out till the final day

Lolu and Bambam hardly gossiped.

Despite being the most bullied in the house, Bambam hardly gossiped about anyone in the house. She was always minding her business and that was why she was called fake because she was always calm in the face of constant provocation nor did she gossip. Same was Lolu who hardly gossiped and minded his business.

Miracle gossiped in the house even without reason. At least Tobi had his reason for gossiping about Ceec because he felt wrong by her and wanted to tell others how he felt but Lolu did Miracle no wrong. Miracle was always gossiping about Lolu with Tobi, Alex and Nina. He probably felt threatened by Lolu.

Miracle won because of his telemundo love play with Nina. He was boring without Nina. Majority of Nigerians are so dumb to have voted for telemundo love play which wasn't even genuine in the first place.

Kagawa10:
Lmao. You probably didn't watch the show. Leo told Nina that miracle was using her and she should think of her boyfriend but the mumu girl went to tell Miracle. That was why miracle confronted Leo. Guess who was right in the end? Leo. Miracle also said many bad thing about Lolu who did nothing wrong to him.

Leo never deceived Alex. He told her many time there was no way they would date because he has someone outside yet Alex was always crying. There was a time he even asked Alex to go to her bed and sleep but everytime he shunned Alex, she was always crying.

Like I said earlier, I pray someone like miracle play you and your sisters like he did with Nina. Can I hear amen?

now I know u didn't watch the show.
Bye

infogenius:
True talk.

Even with beard gang does not mean maturity.
Maturity is when a man can be responsible to his wife and immediate family

Why are you beardless guys always jealous of the beard gang?

BluntBoy:
Why are you beardless guys always jealous of the beard gang?

Does beards give success or money? Who beard help?