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What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Meduzah(op): 4:42pm On Feb 28, 2019
Personally, I don't get why some people see marriage as an achievement. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying I don't want to get married but making it a priority so that it's all you ever think of , like a big project sort of seems incomprehensible.


So what do you think? Do you think it's an achievement?if so why?
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:46pm On Feb 28, 2019
Marriage is not an achievement and can never be... It's instead another tough job....
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by faithfull18(f): 4:49pm On Feb 28, 2019
In Nigeria, it is.
I can't keep talking about the calls you get when you are of marriageable age and you aren't married.
They keep asking for the reason et al.
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by tosyne2much(m): 4:50pm On Feb 28, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Marriage is not an achievement and can never be... It's instead another tough job....
How is marriage not an achievement?

When you fulfill any of your desires, it's an achievement
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2019
If you’ve sustained your marriage for 10 years plus, I can call that an achievement because it’s not easy waking up to the same person every day of your life, it takes a lot of sacrifice, dedication and hard work to get there. But getting married alone, to me it’s just a phase in someone’s life, but each to their own. People look at it differently.
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by lilmax(m): 4:53pm On Feb 28, 2019
the ones that do not see it as achievement should not get married..... everything we put effort in is an achievement
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by ValCon888: 4:54pm On Feb 28, 2019
The housewife is an unpaid worker in her husband’s house in return for the security of being a permanent employee:

Hers is the reductio ad absurdum of the employee who accepts a lower wage in return for permanence of employment. But the lowest paid employees can be and are laid off, and so are wives.

They have no savings, no skills which they can bargain with elsewhere, and they must bear the stigma of having been sacked.
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:55pm On Feb 28, 2019
tosyne2much:
How is marriage not an achievement?

When you fulfill any of your desires, it's an achievement
gringringrin OK, it's not an achievement to me
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Boxer007(m): 4:57pm On Feb 28, 2019
Meduzah:
Personally, I don't get why some people see marriage as an achievement. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying I don't want to get married but making it a priority so that it's all you ever think of , like a big project sort of seems incomprehensible.


So what do you think? Do you think it's an achievement?if so why?
Are we talking man and man or vice vasa?
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Feb 28, 2019
Marriage in summary



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Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by clive2u(m): 5:04pm On Feb 28, 2019
whatever you desire to attain and you finally attain it is an achievement so if marriage is your greatest wish then it's an achievement to you.
but to me everyday one stays married is the achievement cos loads of married couple cant do that.
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Kdon2: 5:33pm On Feb 28, 2019
Meduzah:
Personally, I don't get why some people see marriage as an achievement. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying I don't want to get married but making it a priority so that it's all you ever think of , like a big project sort of seems incomprehensible.


So what do you think? Do you think it's an achievement?if so why?
Its an achievement when you marry the right person
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by BLUEJAYY: 5:40pm On Feb 28, 2019
Humans are non-committal. That's our nature. I therefore wouldn't subject myself to any committed relationship whatsoever.

Fvck societal norms and social correctness. Why would I want to lock myself down with one person for like, ever?

I mean, we are only trying to create something that doesn't work 90% of the time. Divorces everywhere, marital violence, abuse, cheating etc.

I can't be a part of that, never!
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Feb 28, 2019
In nigeria is is for 98% of ladies
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by tosyne2much(m): 9:44pm On Feb 28, 2019
lilmax:
the ones that do not see it as achievement should not get married..... everything we put effort in is an achievement
Don't mind them jawe... If graduating or owning a house or cars is an achievement why shouldn't marriage be an achievement?

Nairalanders sha, always trying to be pessimistic about something that doesn't interest them
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by lilmax(m): 10:03pm On Feb 28, 2019
tosyne2much:
Don't mind them jawe... If graduating or owning a house or cars is an achievement why shouldn't marriage be an achievement?

Nairalanders sha, always trying to be pessimistic about something that doesn't interest them
no they're not trying to be pessimistic, they're trying to be woked cheesy
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by Nobody: 5:25am On Mar 01, 2019
Yes it is. It is a phase of life many wish to attain. Going to school, getting a good job, birthing your own kids are all life goals and achievements.
Re: What Is Your Opinion About Whether Or Not Marriage Is An Achievement? by anochuko01(m): 6:58am On Mar 01, 2019
it could be an achievement, but seeing people making it their ultimate goal in life is what annoys me.

at 23, a girl refused to continue with her hnd coz she was getting 'old' and wanted to marry.
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