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| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Tonalphs(f): 3:56pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:Thanks a bunch.... I read online stuff too |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 3:59pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Tonalphs:Speaking about higher self, Not all higher selves are benevolent. Some people's higher selves could be deadly and brutal. I'm giving you a headstart. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:05pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:This is impossible. The higher self is sublime and seeks only your highest good. How did you come about your own conclusions? |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:39pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Even Gods in far more higher realms are capable of both good and evil. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:48pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:The Atman is incapable of evil. Don't know where you got this from. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Shekeleke is capable of evil. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:This is true, but just as humans on 3D, people are not bad all the time and good all the time, good people do bad things and bad people do good things, it all depends on what is on the timeline, sometimes it is happening for you to learn and grow or so you can resolve an issue or back off from doom, but then again it has to be based on your definition of good and evil. I see actions, I ascribe no feeling to it, so bad and good are so 3D. I see actions, so if actions are interpreted as good or bad has more to do with the actions itself and the motive for it as well as if you are the originator of the action or the recipient of the effect. The trick is always to be the originator, so you decide how to interpret it but if you end up being the target, you can choose how you feel by mastering your emotion. Can you share your experience with Higher Selves and what actions were terrible to you? |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:56pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:Da heq ![]() What is the higher self? |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
ThothHermes:You are still having your 3D experience. I do not think you'd actually understand until you have evolved further in consciousness. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 6:00pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:Billy. Na today? ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Young man, go and help momma with the dishes. We are having a conversation here. And hey, Capensis, not Billy. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 6:03pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:Of course. Why should I deprive you of your flights of fancy Enjoy. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Very much expected of a 3D human. Thanks for passing by. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ogawisdom(m): 6:34pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Raalsalghul:Lol I assume that a woman is currently feeding a lazy idiot like u better go n hustle before it's too late mumu |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:I agree with you. Not a terrible personal experience but, I've seen cases where so called enlightened ones mask their true intents in love and light while perpetuating their true selves under the radar. Take your time to see this observable reality all around you. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:We are not talking about 'enlightened humans', our discussion was about 'Higher Self'. If you have no direct experience of 'Evil' Higher Self, there is no point equating it with 'con gurus' Thanks by the way. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:Enlightened/Higher self is it not about self-realization? |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:Not at all. Enlightened is in nowhere associated with higher self as it does not need enlightenment, it is totally lightened and Self-Realization is totally on the 3D. In fact Higher Self is beyond God-Realization because Higher Self is not even Human on 3D. It is your Spirit Archetype, your future self outside Earth. It has always been the one holding the console of your life and has always been there pre-earth life and after. It is the real you outside this matrix. You can likened the Higher Self to the Game administrator. Do a little search online. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:I will take your word for it. I've got no urge for arguments. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Chubhie:How do you intend to argue about something you have zero knowledge of. Ego belongs to the trash can sometimes. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:29pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Simplep:Lol. If I hear say Capensis be billionaire. Who dash monkey banana? ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
EmpresFIDEL:Capensis is not intelligent. He has the delusion that he is intelligent and operating a higher level of understanding but in reality he is full of ridiculous garbages and a laughable sophistication. Just like all failed thinkers in an argument, he was trying to stir my emotions unto rage rather than face the argument but I am mature to not give him what he wants. ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:36pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Capensis:You didn't disappoint in the spectacular art of absurdity. ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 02, 2019 |
Martinez39:nice one |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by eroticboy: 6:37pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
I am very eager to learn as much as I can....... My philosophy in life is already very different from most. Sometimes I feel like I am the only sane person when dealing with others. I know I need to tweak what i know intuitively with practicality and more application. I would be very glad if you could answer the following questions; How can i get access to your masterclass? How would you maximize time and money variables if starting from ground zero Capensis: |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
eroticboy:Take from others' 24hrs and use your 24hrs wisely, use every minute of the 24 hrs wisely and as many people's 24hrs you can use, the better. You can pay less (employer), or not pay them but have them work ignorantly for you (religions/mind control) or you force them to work free for you (slavery). b) Find a free unlimited resource, use your brain and technology to transform it to products or service and sell it the ignorant masses. Eg Softwares, Games, Mining, Manufacturing, housing, banking etc. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Laadeh(f): 8:58pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Capensis:You are wise. How can I give you a hug?! |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Laadeh:Hug Hug ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by sisieko02: 10:14pm On Mar 02, 2019*. Modified: 6:45pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
[quote author=Treasured4eva post=76130625]I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life. I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken. She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong. I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her. My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday. My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse. I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job. I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me. I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration. Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return. She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse. Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome. My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise. She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her. Awww, So sorry to hear this. She can change though. Some women already had enough of men before getting married and what I mean by had enough of men is that she probably had been through the worst in hands of men, so she’s become so hard at heart towards men and then she met you though she knew she wouldn’t stay single forever, got married and then continued taking the anger inside her towards men out on you her husband. So sorry. |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Akious2k2(m): 9:26am On Mar 03, 2019*. Modified: 11:29am On Mar 03, 2019 |
Treasured4eva:Noted... It beats me to think that we usually don't talk about love, beauty, stature and those other things that used to matter, when much younger, when it comes to marriage... I hope our 21st century ladies learn from this |
| Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
[quote author=sisieko02 post=76294392][/quote]You're obviously correct. |
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