Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday.
Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now.
Let's call this my friend James.

So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James.

Please I need your advice for a friend.
Thank you

Am sure you are the lady in question.

lilianofentse:
Am sure you are the lady in question.

I'm sure I'm not.

Why do u v a 10months old baby,n expect James to come wife u,tell d sister seeing d scenes to go wife d said lady,we Africans n religion...SMH..

mumu James

the girl's emotions are not straight..... when she gives birth, her brain will be normal again

but James don't have sense to see it, so I understand

Tell james to listen to his parent and go for a fresh womb.

10 months old that is too early for her to get involved with another man cause of the baby you know.

For now she should focus on her baby.

And for your friend he should just keep it cool no marriage yet, if he loves her and she's of good character he should just pray that God touches his parents. while doing that get a good elder in the family or pastor known to the family to solicit for him.

Although it's to early to get married to her but just because she's a single mother doesn't mean she was promiscuous, people make mistakes we are all human. God is the only perfect one.

But to be sincere with you all this is easier said than done. I pray God helps your friend to make the right decision because pressure from parents can be frustrating.

Jenifa123:
I'm sure I'm not.

ok
he should elope with her or dismiss the marriage talk entirely.

When did she and James meet that she had a 10 month old baby for another man? She having a child is not a problem, but why is the child just 10 months and James stupidly took her to see his people for marriage

Where is the father of the two-month old baby?
I can't understand why a sane young guy would want to put himself in trouble.

One of MGTOW Rules is

Never be a Step Dad.

For your mental and emotional well being. Dont be a step dad.

What sort of woman is that? she has a 10-month-old baby and wants another relationship.....red flag

James James, you are a white knight, you want to save a single mother with 10 month old baby, that woman is just looking for you to take care of her bills and responsibility. Listen james, you parent are right, do not get into something you do not want to regret, you might be feeling pity for her maybe that is why you want her but kill your pity and think logically and follow what your people said.

if the father of the child comes to his senses and wants to see his baby, what are you gonna do.

With such a young baby, I can vouch that she hasn't left her ugly past behind just yet. She only wants a quick escape, emotional and financial. Mr James, flee!

All of u are the calling me as if i have done something wrong. Is it bad to nack pesin wey get pikin? Make una leave me oo

Dating and marrying a single mum is like continuing someone else's saved game on PlayStation. Single mums will love you totally if you approach them and you are okay financially. In fact, single mums love the most because they have a child to take care of and will actively search for the mumu that's willing to shoulder the responsibilities of another man all in the name of love.

Apination:
When did she and James meet that she had a 10 month old baby for another man? She having a child is not a problem, but why is the child just 10 months and James stupidly took her to see his people for marriage

mmmmmm u have an investigative instinct.keep it up