phidipe:
Hello Dear Nairalander,
I want you please give me honest advice and sincere direction to go. There is this lady I met sometime around December last year. One thing let to another and we became friend. Later she told me about her Ex. Why she divorce him because she could not conceive for him and the guy impregnated another lady outside with this reason she abandoned her first relationship.
Fast forward to January this year I bought her a phone new one. Because the previous one she using is not good. Behold the first thing she did was to password the phone and restrict my access to the phone .
I didn't take offence in this initially later on she will be in WhatsApp online till 1:00am chatting. The day I visited her I allowed her to go to the bathroom and I open the phone straight to her WhatsApp chatting .
At the same time she is chatting with 5 guys at the same time with serious erotically words. She got these from Dating site called HitWe and most often she for the App installed or her phone. Three times this year she has taking permission from that she is going to mountain to pray initially I believed her but subsequently I discover that she is not going to the mountain but those guys house spent three to four days with one of them.
When I discovered this she blocked me on WhatsApp and stop picking my calls she said is over between us.she now fantasies those guys above me, and Evertime she always says don't touch my phone don't do anything wit my phone. The last time I did she talked heaven down.
Please my fellow Nairalander what should I do we never spent time together because I want her as future wife. Now she engrossed with the phone and monthly visitation to those guys spending three days the last one she did she spent Four days.
Please I need your honest advice please. I don't want to be depressed please help me

It's all evident She love those guys more( or she's still in that stage, hope you understand me?? ) ... If after all these signs you still want her as a wife, then you'll have yourself to blame in future....


My only advice for you is to let her be...

Jaqenhghar:
When Niggerians say they spent a fortine o a woman you will think they bought her a ferrari and a mansion. The phone money you may be able to recoup in a month

phidipe:
Please my fellow Nairalander thanks for your responses is it proper to collect the phone from her and destroy it

collinsuchendu:
First of all, is she your girlfriend? are you her boyfriend?
Or are you guys just friends?

NB: Stop buying girls gift, it makes you look stupid.

phidipe:

Thanks my guy I am planning to get the phone from her and damage it and she should approach one of those guys to get her another one. Is it proper please

gulfer:
I need to check this HitWe

lefulefu:
na only dat one u see? Wat of d one wey op say d babe no fit concieve for her ex but d ex married another lady and impregnated her. Is dat not enuf red flag for him to run. Hmm na wa.

phidipe:
Hello Dear Nairalander,
I want you please give me honest advice and sincere direction to go. There is this lady I met sometime around December last year. One thing let to another and we became friend. Later she told me about her Ex. Why she divorce him because she could not conceive for him and the guy impregnated another lady outside with this reason she abandoned her first relationship.
Fast forward to January this year I bought her a phone new one. Because the previous one she using is not good. Behold the first thing she did was to password the phone and restrict my access to the phone .
I didn't take offence in this initially later on she will be in WhatsApp online till 1:00am chatting. The day I visited her I allowed her to go to the bathroom and I open the phone straight to her WhatsApp chatting .
At the same time she is chatting with 5 guys at the same time with serious erotically words. She got these from Dating site called HitWe and most often she for the App installed or her phone. Three times this year she has taking permission from that she is going to mountain to pray initially I believed her but subsequently I discover that she is not going to the mountain but those guys house spent three to four days with one of them.
When I discovered this she blocked me on WhatsApp and stop picking my calls she said is over between us.she now fantasies those guys above me, and Evertime she always says don't touch my phone don't do anything wit my phone. The last time I did she talked heaven down.
Please my fellow Nairalander what should I do we never spent time together because I want her as future wife. Now she engrossed with the phone and monthly visitation to those guys spending three days the last one she did she spent Four days.
Please I need your honest advice please. I don't want to be depressed please help me