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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by grantefe(m): 12:50pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Bro... That's why it's good to marry a virgin |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by charris76: 12:54pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Bros am a married man like you and i had a similar experience, i dont believe that your wife is cheating on you but the the truth is that she doesn't know the implication of what she is doing, most wonen irrespective of there age reason like children, dont be tempted to send her away or ask for divorce especially for the sake of you child, but going foward if you dont like any behaviour from your wife, dont pretend over it tell it to her straight and even if she is ranting to the heavens dont exchange words with her, in so doing she will start livin wth ur does & donts 2 Likes |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by JoeMaddog: 12:57pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
charris76:Lol... I believe you may be older than me sir but you're John Snow. When a lady starts giving these kind of excuses, she's riding another dickk. Ask guys that have experience fuvking married women. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by samkevie: 12:59pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Modern marriage with modern problem!!! Abi make i nor marry,can’t go nd die young o |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by ruddyman500: 1:03pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Amhappy: you are so on point bro...i appreciate this |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by ruddyman500: 1:05pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Kaycee7: ur brain needs to br formated back to factory reset 4 Likes |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by goodnewscliff(m): 1:05pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
i am not the overly marriage protective type... cos marriage is both responsiblity.... so if shes is ready to ruin that..... then let the free bird fly... nd u settle with someone better....... dats y some marriage doesn't last.... these kinda people are the reason divorce exists 1 Like |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
be very careful about that her ex that called her overnight and couldn't think of calling anyone else except your wife,at d end of the day it is the devil that will take the blame.u better warn ur wife to stay clear off the devils track.you are too soft and it is part of the reason she doesn't obey you.i won't be surprised if one of those exes has her mumu button and she will be forming obedience and submission to him. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by goodnewscliff(m): 1:14pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
my best friend ex girlfriend is currently disturbing my life begging her life out to me to make sure her ex,, my best friend takes her back..... when she was misbehaving,, i personally begged her to stay put,,, but na padlock dem use block her ear then forming stubborn nd not wanting to be submissive cos she ain't married yet i was the secret brain behind their breakup cos my guy found someone whos a potential wife material... now the ex girlfriend is disturbing my life with unnecessary 50 mins calls almost every day saying she wants my guy back as if cakes that has been eaten can be gotten back.... i pity her shaa women don't almost always realize what they want until its completely gone..... rubbish 2 Likes |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by milliondollas(m): 1:39pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
you are a weak man 1 Like |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Baselm: 1:43pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
charris76: I agree with you, women are mostly ignorant of the consequences of their actions even when its staring them in the eye. My gf is like that too, although not about exes or guys but she does something's that I don't get the rationale behind it. She will even tell me and that makes me correct her gently and sometimes sternly seven she's being stubborn |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Quorax: 1:47pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Oyindidi: |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by TrumpDonald2: 1:51pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
ruddyman500: The best way you can stop this is for you to start yours. This is not peculiar to your wife alone, I've had such as experience. What you have to do is to raise issues about your ex too. From time to time and in close intervals, cook up a story about your ex and tell your wife that you have to go and see them. By the third time, she will complain. Then you tell her that's how you feel when she bring ups her ex too. After that, she will definitely stop. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by mandate12: 2:08pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
The problem with marriages these days is that people will b doing rubbish and call it maturity. U mean ur wife is going about frolicking with her exes in the name of functions/ceremonies and u condole it, thinking its maturity? Now here's the blunt solution: Let her fam know of this n let it b the last warning! If she wants to live oyibo life, let her marry oyibo. We r blacks, we have culture! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Grupo:Perhaps she's of questionable character then |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
MissingBudget:Lol |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
daben1: Did i say girlfriend? |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by toksbisola: 2:25pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
@OP; Listen mate, things like this happen when you allow your wife to see you finish; asin she don see you finish. I can’t understand when men/women can’t let go of their EX especially when they’re now married to different people. Don’t men/women realise that if they were that good then they’ll have been married to their EX and not someone else? This mostly happens when a woman has no respect for her man/husband. If a man/woman has utmost respect for themselves, then he/she has no business being in close contact with his/her EXs. From this angle, you’re a bit too soft; no offence and hope none taken; wake up and smell the coffee to the advertised drama that your wife is performing with her EXs and PUT AN END TO IT. Your wife is killing you slowly without you even knowing by this her stubborn refusal to stop communicating with her EXs. She seems to have forgotten that she’s no longer a girlfriend to any of her EXs but rather a wife to someone else and that someone else is YOU. REMIND YOUR WIFE THAT IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE FOR HER TO KEEP IN CONSTANT COMMUNICATION WITH ANY OF HER EXs. It’s obvious; you’re not in control of your home otherwise your wife wouldn’t have the audacity or even the liver to keep in constant contact with any EX. I am not saying that you should be a tyrant/bully neither should you be a walk-over/weakling. Rather, YOU NEED TO BE FIRM WHEN YOU SAY CERTAIN THINGS ABOUT WHAT YOU WOULD NOT TOLERATE IN YOUR HOUSE SUCH AS YOUR WIFE KEEPING CLOSE LINKS WITH HER EX/OTHER MEN AND THE SAME RULE SHOULD APPLY TO YOU AS WELL REGARDING YOUR EX/OTHER WOMEN. You have to sit-up and tackle this head-on and if she wants to stay with you, then you give her the option again (I’m sure you must have done that already) to cut off all ties with her EXs as she rather seems to be emotionally attached to them which makes her have continuous contact and chats with her EXs. If she’s not willing to do that, then you simply tell her THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHAT HER REFUSAL WOULD LEAD TO. The choice is hers; and BE FIRM when you tell her that. From your write-up, it seems you have spoken to her severally times without any change; hence, you’ve now been boxed into a corner and you now need to address this problem as a matter of urgency i.e TAKE THE BULL BY THE HORNS. Let me digress a bit and ask if the case was the reverse (I hope you ain’t involved in this) i.e you were the one keeping in contact with your EX/other female friends' and also doing what she is doing with them; I can guarantee that she would raise the house down; fight with you, quarrel with you, nag you as well etc. The saying; DO ON TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT DONE TO YOU comes to mind. Unfortunately, your wife has lost all form of self-respect for herself as a MARRIED WOMAN WHO HAS NO SHAME IN CARRYING ON CONTACTING HER EXs. This may be due to your neglecting her; maybe/may be not who knows? Dude, wake up to the reality that HIV and AIDS ain’t written on anyone’s forehead and it only takes a single encounter to become infected as your wife seems to have graduated from only communicating with her EXs on phone but also now planning a visit; I laugh in Japanese. Be warned and be wise. I rest my case 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Kaycee7: U have zero experience with humans. 1 Like |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Oyindidi(f): 2:29pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Quorax:Make I give you bucket to cry? |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
greatnaija01: IF u already have zero trust or confidence in ur wife, the marriage is as good as over. Better talk to ur mum before u get married. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Simplep: Check his username |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by AdesinaOlajide(m): 2:33pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Kendumazy:. Bros God bless you, change your attitude and show her you can live well without her. If she values her marriage, she would adjust |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Johnnydboy: 2:34pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
This is the type of lady that will be saying no sex until marriage when she is busy banging other guys or exs |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: I don't think u read his article. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by 15ssDRIVE(m): 2:41pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
stupidity: Boss, your nickname and your writing Na total opposite. I would have say,that’s my bishop,but imagine if you go be bishop? Kpekus go suffer enough calamity’s. The line that’s ways you don’t eat,married Vs.thats the best lyrics in a long time from a honey eaters member. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Mutemenot: Wen u marry, allow ur wife to still be friends with all her exes |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
PrecisionFx:I did. He needs to b careful how he handles the situations on ground. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: There's is nothing to be careful about anymore, his wife has long gone haywire and it is his fault because he allowed the first ex story she came up with. This woman has completely lost it and needs to be violently shaken back to reality. All that guy needs to do is contact the wife's family and tell them everything n also sternly warn his wife that she will go back to her father's house if she ever brings up any story of ex-boyfriends in their home. U that is defending the girl, how would u feel if ur husband on 2 or 3 occasions tell U that he's going to visit his ex girlfriend. |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
PrecisionFx:No no, I didn't defend her. She ought to drop all her exes contacts. I would definitely get hurt and insecured unless he's such a trustworthy person |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
TrumpDonald2:They say two wrongs don't make A Right.... Lalalala |
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
This is the kind of man uyailcomparabl will like as a husband. |
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