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Have payed my dues as a man. I try to do the right thing at all times. I listen to my parent advise pick some and drop some and I seek counselling. I kept myself due to the information I heard from the scriptures. Keep the bed undefiled. I never have a relationship , the one I tried to after service was to No direction. Now am 29years old still single.

I have a mentality of focusing one thing at a time , presently. Am working from home and i did my certification , hoping to get a better job.

My question is i get attracted to gorgeous ladies. But what keep me back is No money No relationship. Is this right?.

Discipline does not count much with GOD as much as YOUR HEART.

See, you can do all those things and a slay mama will deceive you and use marriage to trap you

HAVE YOU READ RELATIONSHIP BOOK?
GONE FOR RELATIONSHIP SEMINARS AND CONFERENCES?

Do you have female friends?

because KEEPING BED UNDEFILED may be due to LACK OF OPPORTUNITY o.

GOD does not need all these DOs and DONTs...

Simple be HUMAN since you are not trying to marry a spirit

Yes we know you may be filled and spiri-koko.... but YOU ARE STILL FLESH AND BLOOD... join the singles group in your church and MINGLE...

it is NOT a sin.

Also, be a MAN and succeed with your life... success of a man makes ladies feel SECURE to come around him...

No lady these days want to be a HELP MEET to someone that has NOTHING.

Hope you get it now... YOU ARE TRYING TOO HARD.

STAY PRAYERFUL.... ask GOD to open your spiritual eyes... because ladies these days after playing in the world would get serious and come to church to marry a RICH SPIRITUAL BROTHER... and bruv, you gotta avoid that trap.

SO get reading, understand the nigerian relationship arena while you are VIGOROUSLY PRAYERFUL...
Marriage is NOT about two people BUT two families...

Take yourself out to NICE PLACES the kind of (lady who can be a mother to your kids and raise them well) WOULD BE.

yOU MAY NEED TO SWITCH CHURCH TOO.... because some churches do not help due to rigid laws that kill possibilities for relationship o.

I wish you the best. Hope to see your pre-wedding pics here soon.

sollye:
Have payed my dues as a man. I try to do the right thing at all times. I listen to my parent advise pick some and drop some and I seek counselling. I kept myself due to the information I heard from the scriptures. Keep the bed undefiled. I never have a relationship , the one I tried to after service was to No direction. Now am 29years old still single.

I have a mentality of focusing one thing at a time , presently. Am working from home and i did my certification , hoping to get a better job.

My question is i get attracted to gorgeous ladies. But what keep me back is No money No relationship. Is this right?.

greatnaija01:
Discipline does not count much with GOD as much as YOUR HEART.

See, you can do all those things and a slay mama will deceive you and use marriage to trap you

HAVE YOU READ RELATIONSHIP BOOK?
GONE FOR RELATIONSHIP SEMINARS AND CONFERENCES?

Do you have female friends?

because KEEPING BED UNDEFILED may be due to LACK OF OPPORTUNITY o.

GOD does not need all these DOs and DONTs...

Simple be HUMAN since you are not trying to marry a spirit

Yes we know you may be filled and spiri-koko.... but YOU ARE STILL FLESH AND BLOOD... join the singles group in your church and MINGLE...

it is NOT a sin.

Also, be a MAN and succeed with your life... success of a man makes ladies feel SECURE to come around him...

No lady these days want to be a HELP MEET to someone that has NOTHING.

Hope you get it now... YOU ARE TRYING TOO HARD.

STAY PRAYERFUL.... ask GOD to open your spiritual eyes... because ladies these days after playing in the world would get serious and come to church to marry a RICH SPIRITUAL BROTHER... and bruv, you gotta avoid that trap.

SO get reading, understand the nigerian relationship arena while you are VIGOROUSLY PRAYERFUL...
Marriage is NOT about two people BUT two families...

Take yourself out to NICE PLACES the kind of (lady who can be a mother to your kids and raise them well) WOULD BE.

yOU MAY NEED TO SWITCH CHURCH TOO.... because some churches do not help due to rigid laws that kill possibilities for relationship o.

I wish you the best. Hope to see your pre-wedding pics here soon.

Thank you so much.. God bless you. Have taken note. I sincerely appreciate.