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Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Nobody: 8:04am On Mar 21, 2019
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Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Nobody: 8:08am On Mar 21, 2019
Dino98:
See that babe....she has not changed 1 bit.

All this crying and begging is becos baba has money and travels out....she does not want to miss out.

That babe will do so much more but will be extra careful, so he doesn't find out.

You see girls, fear dem. I have several stories of them.

Lemme share one. When I was in school...I met this babe. I honestly didn't want to date her, I just wanted to collect 3 points. For some months she refused to come visit me...until one lucky day, I went out with my guys; on my way back around 11pm, I was high and Hot, I was going tru my phone, trying to see who could come around, and I tried her again....she said OK, but that I had to come pick her, so I told the cab guy to turn around so we can go pick her. I picked her, we came back to my place, showered and without any discussion, shit went down...after that day we lost contact.

Fastforward to 1year+, I met this babe around the market....we exchanged numbers. We started talking and after about a week she came visiting. We were on it the entire night...na that kind girl. At about 7am the next day, she was making up to leave, next thing I heard was, "Danny, do u know I am married?", I laughed and said its not possible na. She said, "I'm serious Danny, I'm married, I got married some months ago", I still laughed and said impossible....she turned and showed me her wedding ring on her finger, I said that means nothing, I showed her my ring on my finger too, cos then I wore one. She said, "Danny, seriously, I'm married", I was quiet. She said, "u don't believe me?", then she picked up her phone and came over to where I was and started showing me her traditional marriage, white wedding pictures and honeymoon pictures. I still said its a lie, that she probably had a twin....I was in denial. Then she said OK, I should hold on. She picked up her ear piece, connected it to her phone, gave me one ear and took one, then babe called her husband...for 30minutes this babe was talking to her husband on different issues and the innocent man had no idea what his wife just did and that even this their conversation, I was listening to it too. I was in shock. I could not say a word from the time of the call, till she ended the call and left. After the call she was like, "do u believe me now?", I was speechless...I could not believe what just happened, I was just quiet, till she left. I felt sorry for the guy, cos he had no idea and she called him, talking about love and all that.

I started avoiding her but this married babe was still pressuring to come...one night she asked to come, I told her, I am out with friends, she said she will go wait by my door, till I am back. A married lady o. I was inside, so I quickly switched of all my lights. At about 11somtin, she was asking if I was back. I said, I might not coke back, that I will go spend the night at a friends. Babe didn't stop there o.

See girls...e dey there body.
Omo you slept with person wife?...Guy, you would have blasted the living day light out of her na
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Abbesuper123(m): 8:13am On Mar 21, 2019
Bro u only know the time wey the guy don spend for her place ,do you know how many times she don go him place?? Just let her be and move on with your life..girls like that can’t handle LDR...even if you marry her and go outta the country you won’t have peace of mind because you’ll find it difficult to trust her
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by MobilityExpress: 8:15am On Mar 21, 2019
Rejoice5000:
[s]@post forgive her and still watch her attitudes too,if u quit ad jump into another relationship like many guys advices u how are u sure there will be cheating free.am a woman we do some hmmmmmmmmm before we settle down that does not mean some of us cheat in marriage.igbo proverb says (pursue this woman because she no give birth the next woman u are going to do u CHECK HER WOMB) give her a second chance biko.[/s]
undecided It's not only second chance, it's second probability grin

Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Elliot2(m): 8:15am On Mar 21, 2019
rosalieene:
come and date me shikina grin
lmao.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Ategberoson(m): 8:15am On Mar 21, 2019
you left Nigeria and still not wise. may I ask which country you seek asylum inn?


why will u you even grant much time to listen to such crocodile tears of that h0e. na gun I go use pursue her away from my car



too much of tolerance is stupidity Op wise up. stop asking childish advise and get that future HIV patient away from your way. nonsense and failed atiku court case
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by ACE1010: 8:21am On Mar 21, 2019
I don't know what to say...I'm confused just as APC government shocked angry
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Buharimustgo: 8:22am On Mar 21, 2019
daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same kevel wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter ...
You said it all
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by MobilityExpress: 8:24am On Mar 21, 2019
Dino98:
See that babe....she has not changed 1 bit.

All this crying and begging is becos baba has money and travels out....she does not want to miss out.

That babe will do so much more but will be extra careful, so he doesn't find out.

You see girls, fear dem. I have several stories of them.

Lemme share one. When I was in school...I met this babe. I honestly didn't want to date her, I just wanted to collect 3 points. For some months she refused to come visit me...until one lucky day, I went out with my guys; on my way back around 11pm, I was high and Hot, I was going tru my phone, trying to see who could come around, and I tried her again....she said OK, but that I had to come pick her, so I told the cab guy to turn around so we can go pick her. I picked her, we came back to my place, showered and without any discussion, shit went down...after that day we lost contact.

Fastforward to 1year+, I met this babe around the market....we exchanged numbers. We started talking and after about a week she came visiting. We were on it the entire night...na that kind girl. At about 7am the next day, she was making up to leave, next thing I heard was, "Danny, do u know I am married?", I laughed and said its not possible na. She said, "I'm serious Danny, I'm married, I got married some months ago", I still laughed and said impossible....she turned and showed me her wedding ring on her finger, I said that means nothing, I showed her my ring on my finger too, cos then I wore one. She said, "Danny, seriously, I'm married", I was quiet. She said, "u don't believe me?", then she picked up her phone and came over to where I was and started showing me her traditional marriage, white wedding pictures and honeymoon pictures. I still said its a lie, that she probably had a twin....I was in denial. Then she said OK, I should hold on. She picked up her ear piece, connected it to her phone, gave me one ear and took one, then babe called her husband...for 30minutes this babe was talking to her husband on different issues and the innocent man had no idea what his wife just did and that even this their conversation, I was listening to it too. I was in shock. I could not say a word from the time of the call, till she ended the call and left. After the call she was like, "do u believe me now?", I was speechless...I could not believe what just happened, I was just quiet, till she left. I felt sorry for the guy, cos he had no idea and she called him, talking about love and all that.

I started avoiding her but this married babe was still pressuring to come...one night she asked to come, I told her, I am out with friends, she said she will go wait by my door, till I am back. A married lady o. I was inside, so I quickly switched of all my lights. At about 11somtin, she was asking if I was back. I said, I might not coke back, that I will go spend the night at a friends. Babe didn't stop there o.

See girls...e dey there body.
Bro, since the time me and one babe were, you know, and right in the middle of the, you know, she got a call from her boyfriend and she was like lying point blank to the guy, while I was on top missionary doing the, you know, since that day, I can never trust any woman 100% again. It sent shivers down my spine the kind of lie she was telling the guy while she was enjoying the, you know, and squirming her lips and rolling her eyes for me to go deeper in the you know. Fear women grin
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by innocent2019: 8:28am On Mar 21, 2019
don't think of leaving her, there is no saint in any relationship. even during ur stay in abroad u did things u never wanted her to know. shit happens but being a good a manager over it makes u a man. the next girl u are thinking as an optional could hurts u much more. the devil u know is better than the angel u never see. be wise my guy. I repeat, the is no saint in any relationship.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by lilmax(m): 8:30am On Mar 21, 2019
chihes:
I sincerely understand how you feel. But yes, her sin is forgivable and forgettable. Some people did the same and they forgive themselves. I dated my husband for 7 years not 100% fidel , one or two things happened, from him and from me too, we knew something led to it. We made up, understood ourselves because we are attracted to each other, both physically and in character. The 7th year we married, and have been in marriage for 9 years and no issue of extra marital affair has set in since then. We don't even discuss it. So I think if she's the kind of girl to keep as in character, give her another chance, but you need to be careful this time.
you guys deserve yourselves,because you guys are cheaters

this is a different scenario

so @op once again

discard this crappy comment
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by MobilityExpress: 8:30am On Mar 21, 2019
daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same kevel wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter ...
Mail order bride, Yahoo Yahoo wife grin According to my calculations, your post scored 100/100 cool
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by AreaFada2: 8:32am On Mar 21, 2019
Wow!
Cheat. Pathological liar. Pretender.

If the above specs tickle your fancy in a wife material, carry on.

Ndo.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by fynex(m): 8:38am On Mar 21, 2019
starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?
Every sin is forgivable if not we wouldn't be alive today.

If you're no more in it, at a later time let her know in a polite manner and end it up with her, however you put it... She might not take it well.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Muzikluva(m): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2019
cc
Starring
When you hear anything like "my cousin or uncle or family friend abi childhood friend " be very careful especially if you with someone you have suspected of foul play before. The common lines are COUSIN and UNCLE... grin grin My ex told me her "uncle" bought iphone 6 for her... I just laughed. forgive her but leave her. Fine everyone deserves a second chance but how can you be so sure she is changed? huh I don't know what most women want exactly. You have a good guy yet you still mess up then you come back and say "all men are the same" undecided lipsrsealed
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by rakumi(m): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2019
Don't forgive cos you won't forget this.
Plus forgiving is for the weak.
If you know you know!
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by IkpuMmadu: 8:52am On Mar 21, 2019
You are stupid ! Why are you disturbing us .. can't you guys of these days take a simple decision without coming on-line?

So you want me to gossip about a girl that fūcked


Your are a walking weakling

Get out
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by ghettochild4u(m): 8:53am On Mar 21, 2019
Better free the olosho ooo. Shes changed becos u r back in d country.. U try step out of d country again n see if she won't fuckadick. Abeg free this ashana n find better girl..
Don't be deceived by the tears... Na so God create women... To cry heaven n earth n blame it on d devil
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by ChiefSweetus: 8:56am On Mar 21, 2019
The fact that you haven't deleted the lying bish from your life has me suspecting you will eventually forgive her like a beta-ass bitchboii, which is her plan.

A girl will never confess, sometimes even when she is caught red handed.

Once a cheat (and liar)...

See.. I once was in this exact situation. Guess what I found out later? Her older sister coached her over BBM chat to cry like her life depended on it and to NOT allow me leave by any means. These same "my life would be meaningless words" lol.. Guess who's life is going on fine with other guys now? grin

LOL you think these manipulative hoes don't know what they're doing? Forgive that girl and be a fool forever.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by CyberWolf: 8:59am On Mar 21, 2019
IkpuMmadu:
You are stupid ! Why are you disturbing us .. can't you guys of these days take a simple decision without coming on-line?

So you want me to gossip about a girl that fūcked


Your are a walking weakling

Get out
grin That bole OP even get mouth to insult dudes telling him the raw truth here but becomes dumb when it comes to the Bastard he calls fiancé angry
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by toolate2fail(m): 9:03am On Mar 21, 2019
Bro This is not a good start i am not happy with dis ur babe. in summary she cant keep her self let her go byee she saw an opportunity but mesi it up do bye to her byee. just to keep pussy for a small time she cant.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Styluscrib(m): 9:05am On Mar 21, 2019
Guy,
I would prefer a lady trading as sex worker than the girl in question
Your live is not save in her hands.
A day will come when all planned comes true.
Getting enough then terminate your live.
Grow up and stop loving with self pity.
She has made up her mind about you.
You are just a financial umbrella for the purpose best known to her.
When true with you and had enough in her account. And out of school.
You are as tagged as dead man.
Please do away with her and go cleanse yourself of the
Incest curse's you have inherited via sleeping with her.
Be warned for the future tragedy.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by BabbanBura(m): 9:08am On Mar 21, 2019
daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same kevel wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter ...
Daddy daddy, take am easy pls!
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Mutemenot(m): 9:09am On Mar 21, 2019
Don't wait until it's too late. Leave her right now. A cheat can always be a cheat ..if she could cheat and boldly inform u of the guys presence just to deceive u, bro more 'll befall u if u try move on with her.
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by daddytime(m): 9:09am On Mar 21, 2019
MobilityExpress:
Mail order bride, Yahoo Yahoo wife grin According to my calculations, your post scored 100/100 cool
Lol thanks for the score my lecturer..
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by MrFly(m): 9:11am On Mar 21, 2019
Make it obvious to her ur gone. If she dies no wahala, when she was busy screaming 4d so called cousin did u die? Na conscience d prick am
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by osuofia2(m): 9:13am On Mar 21, 2019
islandmoon:
tell her you have forgiven her, impregnate her and pamper her till she can no longer abort the pregnancy , disappear ... keep in touch by sending hospital bills and money for child support , then disappear into thin air .. best way to pay her back .. I dont take nonsense from such women, I always pay them back in a wicked manner!! convert her to a single mother!
baba you wicked o
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 9:14am On Mar 21, 2019
Ifeann:
i do feel bad for u and not her.
she made a fool of u.
thank your stars u discovered she was a cheat before u went ahead and married her.
dumb her and move on. whatever she does with herself afterwards is her business.
Deaf her also while dumbing her cheesy
Lol...You're still as dumb as forever grin
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by Rejoice5000(f): 9:17am On Mar 21, 2019
MobilityExpress:
undecided It's not only second chance, it's second probability grin
Hia! Why are u pained.why my comment dey hurt u like Ghana pepper?
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by sirtonyanaele: 9:17am On Mar 21, 2019
starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.
young man please wake up.. her love for the other guy is stronger the one she have for u.she will still cheat if u marry her.
My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by mfujah(m): 9:18am On Mar 21, 2019
nigga follow ur heart....
Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by CorporateJay(m): 9:28am On Mar 21, 2019
daddytime:
Lol...dem dey plenty bro...you dey look for the one wey go waka come meet you say "bros how far"? Nigerian babes never kraze reach that level o, na you go make the move. Anyone wey catch your fancy you waka meet am talk to am...na yes or no e go tell you e no go bite you so no fear...
Lol..I know... But I dey very shy to follow them talk I dey fear embarrassment like craze... If anybody embarrass me for public I fit commit suicide...to approach be the koko.... After I manage to approach one self...dey no dey free sha... I guess I'm too direct
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