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ubunja:
why am I seeing this word for the first time

ubunja:
I made a girl pregant and I bailed. I told her I didn't care what she did or told my child about me..

Because from personal experience a child won't give a fvck what it's mother says anyways. When the time comes for the child to seek after its father it will seek after its father. Whether the father is in prison, dead or lost. It's in the genes.


Guys need to relax and MAKE AS MANY HOES PREGNANT AS POSSIBLE TO AVOID BEING TOO HUNG UP ON ONE HOE'S BABY

MissRaine69:
Not all humans behave exactly the same way and secondly not all women behave the same way either if that was the case the word emotional intelligence would not exist.

This is why one needs to be careful when it comes to whom you have children with.

ike24:
MissRaine69 i strongly doubt u are a female u are reasoning like a man

MissRaine69:
You are used to a certain type of female way of thinking. I am not one of those types.
So all I can say is get used to it.

MissRaine69:
Why are you having kids with someone who has 5-6 kids with 5-6 women already?
Why would you think your outcome would be different?
Look at all these celebrities with 4-5 baby mommas and then he goes get wed
it’s to a woman with no kids!



Are you speaking from personal experience?

From what I see around me I have a brother who went through hell to have access
to his child all because he would not marry the mother (that was her condition for access).
He now has sole custody of his child.

Are YOU married or not? Attached

Do you have kids from such a relationship situation? No


I can see that you have very RADICAL or CONTRARIAN views about - Different
not radical not all Nigerian women think alike.
issues. You seem to love challenging the norm. grin:

Why not? Life is about shaking the table from time to time.



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Why not? Life is about shaking the table from time to time.

MissRaine69
OK... renegage Ob-Gyn... keep shaking
that table from time to time!

I hope you are doing great?


On the other hand, HOW old is your brother's son
who is in his father's full custody now? It is better
that your older... or is he your younger brother
didn't get married to his son's mum... [although
that is obviously desirable in terms of keeping
the family unit intact] if his instincts do
NOT VIBE with her.

For most men, money and mental, emotional,
and psychological compatibility are the main
keys to consider when it comes to choosing those
delectable women who are going to be our lovers
and mothers of our kids...

Cheers and keep shaking the tables!

Konquest:
@MissRaine69
OK... renegage Ob-Gyn... keep shaking
that table from time to time!

I hope you are doing great?


On the other hand, HOW old is your brother's son
who is in his father's full custody now? It is better
that your older... or is he your younger brother
didn't get married to his son's mum... [although
that is obviously desirable in terms of keeping
the family unit intact] if his instincts do
NOT VIBE with her.

For most men, money and mental, emotional,
and psychological compatibility are the main
keys to consider when it comes to choosing those
delectable women who are going to be our lovers
and mothers of our kids...

Cheers and keep shaking the tables!


PS. I'll send you a PM for your perspectives
on some confidential issues later today. Not
meant to be posted on this forum.

ike24:
My luv dont get offended some one can not play with you again

MissRaine69:
My nephew is 6 years old my brother has had sole custody for 2 years the mother has visitation rights but is yet to take these up.

All my siblings are older than me and Male
My brother has also made it clear he never wanted to get married. His choice I have no issues with that.

MissRaine69

Oh... that was a quick response from you. I didn't realise
you'd still be online as of this time.

She should take up the visitation rights just so that
her son can have a flavour of what it takes to be
with or interact with both parents since he is just
6. I wish your little nephew the best and know he'll
turn out GREAT in life with the aid of every family
member of yours.

I can understand your brother's perspective... a
significant number of men will tell you they do not want
the drama that comes with getting married...
the loss of freedom and all that. I feel women
are EASY to understand by just reading books
on an eclectic range of issues partaining to
women and male/female psychology. This is
best achieved before marriage, but if not,
a man in his 30s, 40s and 50s can still change
his inner game about women. You can't give
what you don't have!


I'll give you just one instance. Did you know that one
of the top 5 reasons that lead to marriage break ups
on a GLOBAL SCALE is... wait for this... the monthly PMS
that a significant number of women experience?

Women can get really cranky during this period but a man
who is NOT clueless, and understands the situation full well
would emphatise with his woman!

She would later apologise for whatever angry
comments she may have made towards her partner
during the PMS cycle. The marriage then succeeds!

A man who doesn't understand this would hit his wife
in the face, call her unprintable names, and both of them
would fight constantly till they both ask for a DIVORCE
because of incompatibility. This is just a tip of the iceberg
of male/female interaction which a vast majority of both
sexes are completely clueless about because they don't
read functional books to understand!


I have to stop here and will get back to you.
Au revoir!

Konquest:
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@MissRaine69

Oh... that was a quick response from you. I didn't realise
you'd still be online as of this time.

She should take up the visitation rights just so that
her son can have a flavour of what it takes to be
with or interact with both parents since he is just
6. I wish your little nephew the best and know he'll
turn out GREAT in life with the aid of every family
member of yours.

I can understand your brother's perspective... a
significant number of men will tell you they do not want
the drama that comes with getting married...
the loss of freedom and all that. I feel women
are EASY to understand by just reading books
on an eclectic range of issues partaining to
women and male/female psychology. This is
best achieved before marriage, but if not,
a man in his 30s, 40s and 50s can still change
his inner game about women. You can't give
what you don't have!


I'll give you just one instance. Did you know that one
of the top 5 reasons that lead to marriage break ups
on a GLOBAL SCALE is... wait for this... the monthly PMS
that a significant number of women experience?

Women can get really cranky during this period but a man
who is NOT clueless, and understands the situation full well
would emphatise with his woman!

She would later apologise for whatever angry
comments she may have made towards her partner
during the PMS cycle. The marriage then succeeds!

A man who doesn't understand this would hit his wife
in the face, call her unprintable names, and both of them
would fight constantly till they both ask for a DIVORCE
because of incompatibility. This is just a tip of the iceberg
of male/female interaction which a vast majority of both
sexes are completely clueless about because they don't
read functional books to understand!


I have to stop here and will get back to you.
Au revoir!

MissRaine69:
I am awake as I am a chronic insomniac and I always find something to do.
No one is stopping my nephews mother from visiting, she opts not to.
My brother is 45 and he is NOT getting married.

I am awake as I am a chronic insomniac and I always find something to do.

MissRaine69

How was your day?


You are a chronic insomniac?

How long has this been for?

So do you read or listen to some stimulating
music when YOU can't get to sleep?


You need to get some regular sleep by either
counting sheep ... or more importantly
taking a hot bath, just before going to bed.
Those tips should help prevent grouchiness
or transfered aggression the next working day.


Well except maybe you are on duty call at
your place of work at night or something, and
you have to stay awake.

You must be one of those rare breeds whose
Circadian Rhythm isn't messing too much with their
mental states of health due to lack of sleep.
A consistent lack of sleep kills more quickly
than NOT eating regularly based on modern
medical research.

Konquest:
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@MissRaine69

How was your day?


You are a chronic insomniac?

How long has this been for?

So do you read or listen to some stimulating
music when YOU can't get to sleep?


You need to get some regular sleep by either
counting sheep ... or more importantly
taking a hot bath, just before going to bed.
Those tips should help prevent grouchiness
or transfered aggression the next working day.


Well except maybe you are on duty call at
your place of work at night or something, and
you have to stay awake.

You must be one of those rare breeds whose
Circadian Rhythm isn't messing too much with their
mental states of health due to lack of sleep.
A consistent lack of sleep kills more quickly
than NOT eating regularly based on modern
medical research.



P.S. Aromatherapy can also help you
to keep calm and have a sound sleep... try
the lavender fragrance from a shopping mall for
your aromatherapy sessions. This is what I
use too.

Konquest:
Hi Raine,

Hope you're doing okay?

I have a bit of jet lag right now from a rather long international
flight by air... and I have to quickly send this post... to you for
your response.


I sent you TWO e-mails or PMs via the NL platform within
the week, but I haven't got a response from you. I know
YOU must have seen the message like this:

"Kon.quest has e-mailed you. Please check your e-mail now."
on your NL profile page... indicating that I sent an email to you.
I just need a quick first and second opinions from you on some
specifics within your medical/obgyn line of duty, and more.


1. Check your e-mail inbox or spam folders, because sometimes
messages get SENT to the spam folders... and do reply me via
your email ASAP so that I can send you a FULLER INFO.

2. Alternatively, simply go to my NL profile page and click
on the "Send E-Mail Message To Kon.quest" link... just right above
my profile picture with the men in raised black power salutes.
Click SEND and the pre-written e-mail message will get to me.
I will then get back to you by e-mail with my FULLER INFO.


I indicated in the P.S. section of one of my posts on this
thread page that I would send you an email, because I DO
NOT want to post very confidential information on this
Discussion Forum.


You take care... and "keep SHAKING the tables."

MissRaine69:
I do get a lot of emails
Most of them are very indecent so I stopped responding

MissRaine,

How are you doing today?
I hope you, like me are having a great day.

It's alright, I can understand your view about the indecent emails.

Perhaps the indecent emails come from those you have carpeted for making
online love advances towards you in the past... and they find it hard to handle.
So, they revert to immature and ludicrous behavior by sending indecent emails.


1. Females and children especially get bullied or targeted the most on all Internet
platforms such as Twitter, FB, etc., according to research statistics. The BEST bet
is to ignore or NOT respond to such emails like you have done, and blacklist
unsolicited email addresses. Whenever I encounter a troll who quotes me on NL,
I simply ignore him... it takes the "winds out of his sail" and that fixes him up!


2. Alternatively, use the "(Report) button," [which is next to the (Quote) (Like) (Share)
links] and/or report any complaints to the "Super Mods" if you have strong misgivings
about any troll on NL... and give specifics via the link below

I've used NL since 2005 and never had such nasty email experience. NL is a
fantastic online resource or discussion forum, and I have met and interacted with
real men and women, professionals and fantastic folks from across the world
on NL. So, it is important to use your discretionary powers to discern who
you want to follow and interact with, so you don't miss out on the opportunities
here.

Discussion forums such as NL... from around the world have been known to
generate 6-figure and even 7-figure annual incomes in USD for those who know
how to use them for advancing their professional and entrepreneurial careers,
and that's why I haven't deactivated or left NL since 2005.


You take care.

Guest007:
The child needs it's father... what part are you not getting. The child should have access to Both parents because that's their right. Forget mum and dad issues. I agree with the op wholeheartedly because it's the women that suffer at the end when things are not done right. Little boys without fathers and little girls without fathers will make babies. It's a sick cycle and it needs to be broken.

I'd go as far as to say that MEN need to fight for their children, it's not one persons responsibility or right.

lenghtinny:
Tonto Dike is on the top of the table you are shaking.....

I heard she's started using beard oil in preparation for father's day

Biglittlelois:
Well it depends on what happened during the pregnancy e.g what happened when he found out she's pregnant, his reaction; either positive or negative, his involvement during the 9 month period and the day of delivery, some men can be soo annoying that they will start forming caring when they see the baby, they won't remember the insults and the blatant denial of the mother before the birth, well it still boils down to the kind of men ladies chose to be involved with, these days na so so yama yama everywhere, not all sha.