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Xaos:
Clone her phone. If you can't, then clone all her SM accounts. If she's hiding something you will know.

But before you do, I want you to know

— you wouldn't find anything.
— your wife isn't ashamed of you or something like that.

It's just that she really, really, really hates attention.
I myself I am programmed that way.
Your wife is a mirror image of myself.

But please do clone her SM for your satisfaction.

She is also a mirror image of me. But I don't post my pictures nor that of my colleagues on social media sha....

Hermionegranger:
Pkingman, I read all your posts about your problem with your wife and to be honest, you don't have any problem. Your wife is an introvert. She's not abnormal. Stop using the standard of most women to judge her and you'll have no problem. Introvertedness in women manifests itself in many ways. Personally, I hate taking pictures, even in groups and I'm usually the one behind the camera. I don't upload any of my pictures or that of my family on social media. Your wife's method is just different. Some others don't post achievements too because it feels a lot like bragging..that's probably why she didn't post anything about your car gift. As for your problem of birthdays, we usually find it easier to do things for those we are romantically involved with than go to social media to post because we believe the actions count more than posting on social media. That private party she threw is a gesture of love on her part. Social media posts are overrated to us.
But, I think you should talk to your wife, tell her everything you told us on your first post...be completely honest about how her actions make you feel, she'll probably adjust to accommodate your feelings. Marriage is about communication.
Please ignore all the replies you're getting about how she's not proud of you and married you as an option. They are based on the impression you created in your first post. I thought the same too until I read your subsequent posts. Not many people here have the patience to read beyond the first page of a topic and not many can understand the actions of an introvert unless they are one. Your wife loves you, both of just need to talk and adjust to each other's nature

Did you even read the OP at all or you Dont understand simple English.

How can she be an introvert and she posts pictures of herself online after cropping out her husband.
How can she be an introvert and she posted pictures of herself alone in a wedding gown.
How does an introvert post pictures of her herself and her baby and even her siblings on social media but reduces to post pictures of her husband.
How does an introvert go online to wish her colleagues happy birthday with warm and nice messages but refuses to do same for her husband.

gaby:
Hmmm

Some of you guys are just so unfathomable and it irks me to no end how you bandy the word "educated" as if common sense is taught in schools especially our kinda schools.

You saw all these with your korokoro eyes while dating but simply pretended as usual that it wasn't there because in your mind your being an architect who can spoil her with gifts will cure her craze...fafafa fawoool

Look guy...zero love..is what that woman sure has for you and you disgust her fantastically. If she had her way or choice she wouldn't wish to be caught a thousand miles around you..its so frigging obvious. You were just a means to an end considering her biological time was waning..

She lost the one she truly loved for whatever reasons and was left with no choice than to manage you to fulfil all righteousness such as having a child seeing how time was ticking out on her coupled with pressures from her family too.

I won't be surprised if her true love is the one she is working towards moving closer to overseas.

I'm seated here typing and wondering how your "Architectural" brains could miss spotting how her "Doctoral or Surgical brain" is conveniently using you as the "available to be settled for in the absence of the desirables" haba oga...are you that low in self esteem or looks.

The lack of an okay self esteem is as well a huge turn off for most women so you know, and from the look of your write up you sure exudes this.

Wetin dey happen na...make una still try dey face reality and tackle am head on.

You see say you dey irritate person plus the person dey shame for you, you still dey force yourself on am cum dey claim successful architect. Your "trying too hard" to win her true love is even more repulsive to her including the gifts..

Na all these kind dundee characters dey make me sometimes dey agree say instead wey person go born mumu make e jejely born omila...

Abi na the woman disvirgin you or na Doctor kill you for your former life wey cum make you swear say you must marry doctor for your new life lol..

Guys make una dey shine una eye well well like my daughter abeg...no time to check time o

Just incase none of the above checks out...guy you dey marry person wey done die for one side prematurely wey him soul never rest according to the Nigerian gist.

Wake up man..you can do better than this...life is too long or short for all these arrant bullocks...yolo man...

That woman's true love is in a corner and probably getting his steady cut on the side from her because he must be married too hence your coming into the picture.

This story aptly captures and rings so true to the saying " Money can not buy love".

oga Gaby i wish i i can re like your post more than 101 times . you make sense die

narrowpathy:
Uncle forget the social media thing and enjoy your marriage like that. There is no perfect marriage anywhere and if posting of pics and messages on social media is the only imperfection in yours, you're in luck.

Count your blessings in the relationship and don't give yourself unnecessary heartache.

You say she's faithful, respects you, gives you peace of mind and maintains the home front. Oga what more can a man ask for? To hell with posting pictures and messages on social media in exchange of the above. Live and let live

if I have this kind of woman as a wife I might even deactivate all my SM account. Who social media help??so I go dey see old hoes twerking with stretch marks ass

LhoLar01:
the truth is that she doesn’t love u.
The same with my husband, we had introduction for close to 3yrs and he already has another person he was planning to marry in his new state of work.
He was eventually forced with d marriage . As soon as d we wedded, he deleted all social media he could b tagged with the wedding.

How ya husband go luvs u when u no fit constructs simpul grammar?

bLacKGoLd3:
One question - why did you string him along for 8 years? Were you financially dependent on him?

Good question. My ex was obsessed with me. He literally never wanted me out of his sight and did everything to keep me around. A few times I tried breaking up but he begged me each time. I wasn't even working when we broke up so money was never the issue.

His undoing was his positivity. Ex was sadly too positive for his own good. He believed I loved him and I often wondered in my head, "what kind of man is this". Ex would tell me he knows I love him so much. He still believes this. Never have I come across a man like him. You see all these things @Op posted, you'll never find my ex doing such or giving it a thought despite the fact that the handwriting is on the wall. That's who he is. Too positive. Too confident.

femi4:
A woman is an emotional being. If she doesn't feel you, she ll never RESPECT or APPRECIATE her man. You don't buy such love with GIFTS cos it never existed in the first place.

What a man need from his woman is RESPECT, PRAISE and APPRECIATION. You won't get it if she's not mad over you.
No Man will experience that and wouldn't give his all to such woman

But love can be elicited, do you believe? I can make one who initially didn't love to start loving me. The real problem with many people is not that they can't begin to love but they are deeply enshrined in negative belief. If a woman believes no matter how much she loves a man she shouldn't show it, then it is their the problem lies. You need to change such a person's mindset before you expect any love from such an individual. To marry a person, one needs to explore the individual mindset, to know whether their belief system tallies with what one believe. The scripture says "Can two walk together except they agree?"

UyaiIncomparabl:
She's not abnormal. All of her actions are/were premeditated and as thus; are conscious choices she's made overtime.

I can't come to a conclusion on this, but I think (a strong possibility) that your wife doesn't love you. You' were just available for her to make as a choice to salvage her biological clock from waning out.

Just as they say, when the desirable isn't available, you make the available one your choice. I love to show off what I 'LOVE'. So you see, it's tit for tat.

A deep check; She takes pictures, but excludes/crops you out, you tag her, she untags you, you buy her gifts, she cringes and in turn makes you feel worthless, she tells you she doesn't need to show you off to the world to know you both are married. That's a blatant lie from the abyss. In as much as I want to be stingy, nay say cautious with the truth, but I have to let it all out. You're not her fantasy. Forget that part about you being tall, dark and handsome. Beauty is subjective. You may think you're attractive but she sees you below that. How do you people even make love? Is there chemistry?

Another thing, you saw these signs during courtship and still stubbornly had to dive in? You're the architect of your own misfortune. I just hope she hasn't been cheating on you. I won't say she's unemotional, she isn't. (A person with less or little emotion transcends such vibe to people around him/her, they have no feelings). She just doesn't vibe with you. Communicate with her and hear her reasons out. I'm 100% sure it'll be gibberish. If it persists, don't be afraid to lose yourself (meet people and hobnob, and of course, get a side chick who'll heal your heart from the worries your wife gives you ). Act like you don't care. Flirt a little. She go do normal. You'll worry less eventually. I'm one against cheating, but I wouldn't have people treated like garbage.

PS; I can be very unemotional and non-challant, but this is off the radar. I only show off who shows me off. Say no to one-sided relationships!

The faster you know that humans love opportunistically, the better.
In your next life, learn not to be a second choice and don't be afraid to chose rigidly too.

Are you really a woman like this?

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

So you now want her to transform from her naturally created self into an imaginary feminine woman you have created for yourself inside your head??
If something is wrong between anybody amongst the both of you, you are the one..
You're expecting your wife to become another person..
Is that possible??
Anyway,, you saw all the signs before you entered..
That's just who she is.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You talk too much.

I'M DEAD

Maybe...
She comes from a place where there are monitoring spirits and she doesn't want any body to monitor her...

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

She doesn’t celebrate you online but she celebrates her male colleagues.. Hmmm red flag. Also she is planning on moving abroad hmm, oga are you also moving with her or you will stay put here with the kids

victorian:
Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.

Anyways I understand what she's going through. Cause I almost got myself entrapped in such kind of marriage but counselling with my Pastor saved me on-time.
I'm not saying u are a bad person, neither am I saying u are ugly but the thing is this : you can be someonelse dream man , perfect and Denzel looking to another woman except your wife. Your wife has the idea of how her ideal man should look like.
Not all women are tall, dark and handsome as their ideal looking man. Some prefer average height, natural for looks with a muscular or athletic body. That's why God created us in different shapes and sizes.
And your wife who got married in her 30s must have seen it all, got heartbroken by the kind of guys, she would have love to marry and settle down with. But reality dawned on her, such guys won't make A good husband to her. Then u strolled along into life, she realised u are serious with marriage. She checked herself, she's not getting younger, what da heck! Lemme marry. I will simply resign my self to this marriage as long as I have a family with him. Who cares about happiness and love. Most marriages sef are just there.
And with what friends will always ring into our ears everyday. Marriage is not about love, it's about marrying a man who is ready and capable to stay married. Just be humble and calm, have your kids and have a business or career going for yourself. That's all. We don't always marry who we wish to marry and here we are with our kids. You cannot be selective anymore, forget about falling in love and just Marry!
That's exactly how your wife feels. She's resigned to her fate with u. She cannot leave u, cos she's determined to stay married. Her happiness is irrelevant as long as she's Mrs.

What a life


In my own case, I stopped myself on-time from marrying the guy who proposed to me, after opening my heart to my Pastor. My Pastor said do I want to be lifeless in the marriage, I said no with tears almost running down my cheeks. He said good, then don't marry him, cos u will regret it. Tell him kindly u simply don't love him, which is the truth. There and then I felt so free and alive, I even felt like hugging the pastor with so much joy! Lol
I told the guy, I'm sorry dear, I can't go thru with it. And I don't regret it. I feel free and alive! . I don't care about my age. I just want to feel at peace wit my soul and being.

Are you up to 30 ?

engrelvis:
my I look at dp n u said u don't take bullshit .well from experience(am 46yrs n my marriage is approaching 14yrs now) any man or woman dat don't take bullshit always v difficulties in settling down.l doubt d authenticity of dis story .something doesn't feel right.

In the past, I used to take bullshit! And I almost died in the process. Not once not twice not thrice. If not for God, I had already given up hope in living.

So don't tell me what I know and experienced already. I'm in a good place to say because of God and nothing else.

femi4:
She is not crazy about you.

I always tell men, marry the woman that loves you and not the one that you love.
You are more like the available option for her cos age wasn't on her side.
I would have said that the love will grow but there was no mutual love in the first place

She married you out of societal pressure, you are nothing close to her Dream man.

But there is hope, you can use reverse psychology to put her on her toes.

onpoint, thumb up to you

Op, I wonder how you can be talking about your wife's age and the hypocritical pedophilia standards when you can clearly see she is still bearing kids even till now. And mind you, research has shown that kids born at that age are usually the smartest.
You expect her to be grateful she has a d1ck to call her own even when the d1ck can't give her anything but $perm.

She probably has faced reality a long time ago and has decided that the only thing that can give her long lasting joy are her career achievements and kids.

Maybe there are things you say and do that irritates her and she doesn't want to be emotionally invested in you.

You met her and you liked what you saw. A females who doesn't need a dime from you and is not clingy. What more does a negro want?You can't have it all. Just manage her like that.

I hope you don't cheat? Else, you don't expect a woman like your wife to be as you want her to be because you can't change certain females by acting that way. You will only worsen things.

If you like, take the reverse psychology advice of some dundi united here that are telling you to make her jealous by frolicking with girls. Remember that those hungry girls have feelings too. They want someone that will give them money and rent/buy a house for them. You cannot use and dump them. They are smarter now. You will eventually become their baby daddy. Be prepared to divide your home, pay more school fees and live worse than 2face all in the name of 'she doesn't upload my pics online'.

MChaze25:
The truth is that you yourself might wait forever to find love before you marry.
It's not even easy for anyone to find true love these days.
Irony of life.
Keep your faith up dear. We don even search tire.

Eeyah

I rather be single for life than marry a man I don't love.

That's the irony of my case. I tried it before and it went against me. I was emotionally blackmailed for years due to such action. So It's either all or nothing. And I will not regret my decision. May God help us all amen

Naughtysite:
Are you up to 30 ?

Mid 30s

I really respect this quote cos she already nailed it on the head.you cannot get 100% perfect woman and she just doesn’t want a public life but believe me your type of woman can die for you trust me.

Xaos:
Clone her phone. If you can't, then clone all her SM accounts. If she's hiding something you will know.

But before you do, I want you to know

— you wouldn't find anything.
— your wife isn't ashamed of you or something like that.

It's just that she really, really, really hates attention.
I myself I am programmed that way.
Your wife is a mirror image of myself.

But please do clone her SM for your satisfaction.

[quote author=MyFlair post=77187010][/quote]Yes I teach as well.. And also an instructor.

1StopRudeness:
Social media husband.....


But I understand u op...it's one thing to love a person...but the feeling that the person loves u in return is also important....
Make her feel like u don't care abit like u wanna leave and see her actions.....if she doesn't care ...she can walk away anytime if she finds her ideal man.....

hmm,yeah,op take this particular answer seriously,give her the attitude she gives you,make her jealous and see her reaction,give her some cold sting,if she still acts like everything is normal,bros you yaf entered one chance,and you must follow that one chance to ijebu,when you get to ijebu find a nice side chick and get the love you deserve....shalom

My guy, u are bn childish biko. All you want is her advertising u on Social media. If you want to be a celebrity, I think you know what to do.
Why not hire some magazines to be showing ur face daily in their publications.

You want to turn ur wife to all those online slay queens. When she starts, pls don't come complaining to us here.
When u guys were dating, u noticed she was extremely introvert and she does not demand for anything. U love it that way cos u think u are the one gaining. I don't see any reason you should start reading the Book of Lamentation now.

naturefellow:
Those are my exact thoughts up there!

And, personal peace and happiness is always paramount, that's why you see lots of ladies are still single today. Most of them have witnessed lots inatabces of unhappy marriages, and rather choose to be single with bliss. That was a wise decision. I hope the right man comes for you soon!

Amen!

Honestly people don't know what it means to have inner peace. It's something money itself or sweet words cannot buy. And without it, I can't function well. I'm happy o! Others can say rubbish, I don't give a fucvk!

Bigii:
Beauty with brain.

Make we marry na. I handsome sha carbon copy of John Dumelo, same stature, same look.

OK nah

Let's go there!

Cool pic!

UyaiIncomparabl:
She's not abnormal. All of her actions are/were premeditated and as thus; are conscious choices she's made overtime.

I can't come to a conclusion on this, but I think (a strong possibility) that your wife doesn't love you. You' were just available for her to make as a choice to salvage her biological clock from waning out.

Just as they say, when the desirable isn't available, you make the available one your choice. I love to show off what I 'LOVE'. So you see, it's tit for tat.

A deep check; She takes pictures, but excludes/crops you out, you tag her, she untags you, you buy her gifts, she cringes and in turn makes you feel worthless, she tells you she doesn't need to show you off to the world to know you both are married. That's a blatant lie from the abyss. In as much as I want to be stingy, nay say cautious with the truth, but I have to let it all out. You're not her fantasy. Forget that part about you being tall, dark and handsome. Beauty is subjective. You may think you're attractive but she sees you below that. How do you people even make love? Is there chemistry?

Another thing, you saw these signs during courtship and still stubbornly had to dive in? You're the architect of your own misfortune. I just hope she hasn't been cheating on you. I won't say she's unemotional, she isn't. (A person with less or little emotion transcends such vibe to people around him/her, they have no feelings). She just doesn't vibe with you. Communicate with her and hear her reasons out. I'm 100% sure it'll be gibberish. If it persists, don't be afraid to lose yourself (meet people and hobnob, and of course, get a side chick who'll heal your heart from the worries your wife gives you ). Act like you don't care. Flirt a little. She go do normal. You'll worry less eventually. I'm one against cheating, but I wouldn't have people treated like garbage.

PS; I can be very unemotional and non-challant, but this is off the radar. I only show off who shows me off. Say no to one-sided relationships!

The faster you know that humans love opportunistically, the better.
In your next life, learn not to be a second choice and don't be afraid to chose rigidly too.

you have said the truth.

Op,me too, I kno like to they show my husband for social media Ooohhh... Because I believe say, if I do am, evil eyes go see am. I absolutely like the way your wife is doing. Social Media love is not true love. True love is not on social media

StPete:
Kill him? That’s not possible. You’re making it sound like he’s in a cage

He's not in a cage but the woman is living in a mindset that she doesn't want a control freak in her life. Read the story again. That a woman who can have a mood swing within a twinkle of an eye.

Kill him? Very possible. Infact near 99.99% possible.

futuremoma34:
Op,me too, I kno like to they show my husband for social media Ooohhh... Because I believe say, if I do am, evil eyes go see am. I absolutely like the way your wife is doing. Social Media love is not true love. True love is not on social media

I somehow agree with you. I believe the woman loves him but in a different way. All of us are not wired in the same way. She even celebrated his birthday. Wow!

Just to add to the long list of advice, your case looks exactly like my ex's

I met her, we confessed love. Say all the mad things, but she avoids me in public. At first I reasoned maybe it's because she claimed to be a born again.
When I react to her attitude she apologises, but things quickly got bad and she wouldn't even care anymore.

No excitement, no romance, nothing. Yet, something in my warped head told me she would make a great wife.

Luckily for me she dumped me. Double luck for me, I found a girl that was mad over me. This new girl even lives in fear of me dumping her. Before long our love was over the moon, the kind of love I never had.

Then I sampled her on social media. Then my ex chatted me up. I made an evil grin, time to crush her.

But these days I don't even care about hurting her anymore . I just don't give a Bleep about her. Her chats comes in like disturbance. And she wouldn't stop trying. Sometimes my girl friend and I have a good laugh off the chats...

Funny how thing could spin around. But my only advice is that you've made the mistake. No human should subject another to such life. I'm sure she's so dumping you once she has the means. If you can, consider cutting her off. Move out of the house and try and get your life together. If you cut her off, she's gonna come begging you. But you have to be willing to cut her off and even treat her with contempt.

GrossPrice:
.. "I can't date you because your are ugly"

This happened in nursery school?

Gosh!
I didn't say he is ugly, I was simply not feeling his looks!

Do u know why God created us all differently with different shapes, heights, colour and all? Because everyone have different taste when it comes to marriage or even friendship sef.
If not? God would have created us all to look like.
The notion that a woman can marry any man cos he's rich or comfortable or average is wrong! Not all women and not me.
I can't marry any man out there. I have my own taste!

Sighs, Nigerians

Keep uploading her pictures on social media
so once in a while upload both of u pictures and if she angry dont take it serious with her be calm and also if u get access to her phone when she is happy u can upload ur own pictures on her social media. i think as time goes on she will use to it