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| Which Is Preferable? by SteveOfu(op): 9:07am On Apr 04, 2019 |
Should a man marry a woman if he is jobless with hopes that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favor from God? Or The couple should make money first before getting married? |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by TourismMan(m): 9:17am On Apr 04, 2019 |
SteveOfu:It's very wrong getting married based on that biblical quote. I'm not a subscriber to that. 8 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by StPete: 9:27am On Apr 04, 2019 |
SteveOfu:Which eye you wan use dey look your in-laws (breeding ground for serious disrespect) or how would you sustain erection knowing that you don’t have a dime to feed? But na wa for some kind questions o 5 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by MrLankeeee(m): 10:16am On Apr 04, 2019 |
@Op, you want put person pikin for suffer abi? 4 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by PaulAris: 10:41am On Apr 04, 2019*. Modified: 1:22pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
TourismMan:Yh, misinterpreted it. ... SteveOfu, If the man is jobless but got sources of income prolly through multiple investments in different scales of business, he can. But if he ain't got nothing, and he's quoting that Bible verse to back up his delusion, then he should not tread that lane He shouldn't even have the thought of getting a girlfriend yet! |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by dirtycoin(m): 11:14am On Apr 04, 2019 |
TourismMan:The Op has twisted the Bible to suit his wants. A man is worse than an unbelievabler if he cannot cater to the needs of his family. So why is the Op considering marriage when he is jobless? Is marriage a mandatory obligation? 4 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 04, 2019*. Modified: 11:41am On Apr 04, 2019 |
This is how people misinterpret the Bible and use it in the wrong contexts in order to fit their own agenda. 2 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by michru: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
Finding a good wife shows that you've been favoured by God. Indeed has found a good thing. Not the other way round. 3 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
Make good enough money first. Very important. 4 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by aanuoluwami14(f): 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
SteveOfu:Jobless, God forbid. A man must have something doing before thinking of marriage. No matter how little, he must be able to get ready for family expenses. His wife too must be ready to support the family. 2 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by SteveOfu(op): 10:39am On Apr 05, 2019 |
dirtycoin:It is, and the italics is actually the opposite |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by SteveOfu(op): 10:40am On Apr 05, 2019 |
How much is enough? Chubhie: |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 05, 2019 |
SteveOfu:That's relative. But good enough to secure the 3+1 basic human needs. Shelter, clothing, food and good education for the little ones. 2 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by PSTEMMA1960(m): 12:32pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
SteveOfu:it depends sometimes..... If he has a part time job that can at least feed the family and pay rent while searching for a better job u can go ahead..... But if there is nothing at all at all, then I won't advice u to marry him... Hunger is a very terrible something... No matter the love once a woman is hungry it won't be funny. . I don't even advice my fellow guys to have a girlfriend if they are broke....how much more marriage that may produce children within a year. 3 Likes |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by SteveOfu(op): 12:54pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
 Chubhie: |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Nimmadiji(f): 1:41pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Lol. The latter. Please. 1 Like |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by dirtycoin(m): 5:07pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
SteveOfu:What makes marriage mandatory? Where are the italics in any of my posts? 1 Like
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| Re: Which Is Preferable? by angelamina(f): 8:43pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Hmmmmm |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Ohunene2478: 12:22am On Apr 08, 2019 |
This man is a scammer please you guys should be careful of him. Posting girls picture without their concept and demand illegally from people he has been using girls picture on his profile. Please Nairaland take action on this person Name: Steveofu by username He is scammer |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Ohunene2478: 12:30am On Apr 08, 2019 |
You guys should be careful of this man his a scammer posting girls picture without their concept and demand illegally please report |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by ogawisdom(m): 4:54am On Apr 08, 2019 |
SteveOfu:A jobless man should not get married 1 Like |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by SteveOfu(op): 9:52am On Apr 08, 2019 |
How am I a scammer? Ohunene2478: |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by SMJay: 7:56am On Apr 09, 2019 |
The later. |
| Re: Which Is Preferable? by Pascopele: 11:09am On Apr 09, 2019 |
If you can barely feed yourself, please don't bring a child to this world. That's the height of irresponsibility. A baby won't understand that you don't have money. Your wife, family and friends may understand that but a baby won't. Have a source of income before procreating. |
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