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XD3G:
Hi Clow, while i feel sad about your current situation, i can tell you, there's a silver lining just right behind the cloud.

It's true most people go thru some of these before making it in life, but unfortunately, not all of us are wired to brave the odds, hence, some resort to suicide as the only way out, vices, taking the laws into their hands, etc, just to survive.



Please, you gotta keep trying, and never become despondent, nor crest-fallen. Remember, you have people looking up to you, what you do will sway them either way.

In the meantime, could you please drop your contact, let's see wha we can do together?

Thanks, sure bro I will....

sherylbakky:
Hey Clow, many ppl are facing more than wot u described as difficulty here, but u may not know dat because there's no meeting for people suffering. U just av to b strong n keep trying.


Life is full of good n bad sides, if u dont give up, u'l smile at last dear...Yea, we wil all smile at last. Pls dont give up.

Thanks a lot

ineco:
@clow,i red ur post,but to me,still count ur self luck for still u could still afford to pay for something eg the elt exam etc there are some people who cnt afford such in result of no money but i will give advice of go into personal fasting without telling anyone or if u knw any thru man of God,dnt hesitate .

Thank you

awaky:
At just 30 u're thinking this hard ? Yes u're not getting younger I know but never see your successful colleagues as your competitors but rather as motivators. Too much attention on things happening around you can make u loose focus on your own jorney of life. Stay focused and have vision towards that particular passion burning in you and u will be celebrated at your own appointed time.
In all, acknowledge God in all your ways and He will direct your path,
Cheers...

Thank you

Skinnienigga:
*sigh

Even though I understand what you may be feeling.. I think you have a lot of positives to look at too.

I mean, you are under 30, with a professional certification, 5 years working experience and you still have a job now.

I think your problem is not having a backup plan.. Seems you were really intent on leaving the country and as that didn't work.. You feel you have achieved nothing. But bro.. You can't begin to count how many people out there who are hoping to be where you are.

Just try to make a plan for your life now.. Use what you have in hand and work towards getting where you want to be. I know it seems like you've lost motivation like Real Madrid players but don't give up. Continue to push but plan on where you are pushing to first.

Good luck and please always be grateful. You have already achieved more than several other 30-year-olds out there.

Thanks, this means a lot

jasper83:
Hello Clow, i'm moved by your story. Firstly there is nothing wrong with you, all i see is a young vibrant and energetic young man with a strong passion for success, so calm down we have been there before. So few advice for you if you wish.


1. In situations like this you must try as much as possible to ignore things around you because life is not a competition everybody on their own lane. You envy your peers because of their achievements but God forbid if evil befalls their enemy you will thank God secretly its not you, since you envy their achievements why not envy their misfortunes too?

2. I may be wrong though but i see you as someone who doesn't concentrate on sensitive stuffs thats why you miss out on things by a whisker. You need to control your thoughts and emotions to focus on ONE particular thing at every giving time.

Search yourself deeply , what do you really want. Do i wanna go abroad or search for a better job? I dont see why you shouldn't blast your IELTS exams, you saying your writing skills messed you up is a no no for me, bury your damn head in books and be meticulous, i mean meticulous at filing any damn documents about your abroad dreams, seek advice from core professionals, watch every steps you take carefully as if you wanna report it to your boss. Concentrate bro, concentrate!!!

One of my Islamic cleric always advised that in times of tribulations we should concentrate on one particular thing that matter to us. He likened life to a very hard rock but God gave humans a very strong hammer . So keep hitting that particular spot on the rock and it will surely crack. Your hammer is your concentration, your hammer is your determination, your hammer is your extra hardwork, your hammer is your prayers!!!

Just keep hitting it on that one particular thing(either on a new good job or abroad dreams) and i see you succeeding exceedingly.

Cheers

Thanks a lot, you, just like I said advice and criticisms are welcome, and your write up contains both.
Bless bro!!!

Thanks to everyone who had one or two things to say...

newinsta:
I was in this situation sometime ago, this was how I got out, I got rare skill(to kill competition) make my skills enterprising(didn't apply for job) today am happier and even looking for who to hier

Bros comman hire me. A fresh graduate, just finished nysc last year. Here's my email: mekus7720@gmail.com. I'll love to be engaged in something productive. Thank you.

rawe45:
Come and drop games for boys o

That guy is a liar

chrisifeanyi:
I was like u before. I started playing bet9ja, hit 5M and if you see my business now. Although sometimes I feel like I want to work in an office. I have people that sale for me sometimes I feel am lazy. I go to shop anytime I like and come back at will.

Do you still play?

wiseone28:
Hire

thanks

mekus1011:
Bros comman hire me. A fresh graduate, just finished nysc last year. Here's my email: mekus7720@gmail.com. I'll love to be engaged in something productive. Thank you.

If you are staying in Abuja and you are hardworking, why not?