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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Mikepenny5(m): 8:48am On Apr 07, 2019
@ OP I want to ask a question, am still single anyway wants to marry. My question is this , during the old days our parents don’t seek the face of God concerning who to marry , but there marriages are the best and last unlike nowadays people seek the face of God
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Afolashade00(f): 8:55am On Apr 07, 2019
afroniger:
Goodluck with that, but e go hard. But my advice is you should not be too focused on virginity because there's life after losing one's virginity. The real person (behind that 'virgin') tag is what matters most. undecided Some virigns no get good attitude.
Everytime you people will always wanna criticize virgins, even nonvirgin atimes no get good attitude. You want a virgin be focused and pray for one with good character although you must have a good character also.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by iragbmite: 9:03am On Apr 07, 2019
Nonsense
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Ugosample(m): 9:39am On Apr 07, 2019
SunnyskyTG:
My greatest challenge with Religious Bigots and Fanatics is that they keep saying the World is getting worse everyday.

Those years when our Fathers had to travel from North to South by foot is better than this Age of Aircraft about?

Those years where you have no career choice is better than this Era of Freedom of choice right?

Those years where our Parents forced us to marry someone we don't Love is better than this Age of marital choice?

Those years where there are no Cell Phones, where you gotta travel to inform the other members of your family about you child delivery is better than this Age where you just have to make a call where you seated. That dark Age is Better abi?

Those years where you have to cook with firewood outside your house is better than this Age of cooking with Gas Cooker in your roofed house, shey?


Those years where people lived in caves and thatched house is better than this Age of modern Architecture, right?

Those years where Electrical Light is strange to the people is better than this Age of Electrical Power supply, abi?

Those years where childbirth can't be controlled, but now you are kinda safe with sex condoms and contraceptives, which is better?


The list can go on and on and on.

My Conclusion is that we Africans, Nigerians were birthed with Hypocrisy and it poses a great danger to our unborn generations.
You have spoken wwll
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by comfort91: 11:00am On Apr 07, 2019
This op seems he is related to faleke family.
On behalf of nairaland,
We wish u happy married life uncle bola faleke best.
I am jibola(Madina)
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by tete7000(m):
God says "My ways are not your ways, my thoughts are not your thought". I add this one "My times are not your time". There is time for everything, time dictated and known only by God. Only God determines the right time for man to do anything and whatever time he gives anyone, he gives him/her the grace to wait till that time.

All these kindergarten pastors should stop causing confusion up and down...
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by EternalBeing(op): 11:34am On Apr 07, 2019
Baselm:
OP list the names of men who married early in the Bible, Jesus came as a man and died at 33 without a wife. I'm not supporting marrying old but the Bible didn't say we should marry early either. there is God's appointed time for everything, stop using scriptures to support your personal beliefs.
Just because you want to make light of the truth I said doesn't me you should pretend not to know what the Bible says. Early marriage was the order of the day in the Bible. Since, you used our Lord Jesus as your example, Joseph and Mary were preparing to marry before the holy conception, what was Mary's age then?
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by EternalBeing(op): 11:42am On Apr 07, 2019
koyyess:
Exactly, Did Boaz marry a young virgin??

I don't know where the op is driving at
in an era where a lot of factors have to be considered. This is how poverty spreads.

A lot of so called religious people who had this mentality ended up becoming pedophiles.
Pedophile? I believe you read right, timely marriage is what I said. Clean the lens of your glasses and open your eyes very well to re-read. Tell us the truth, have you started having sex at 18 or not? The age range I mentioned is 18 to 25, how is that pedophile? So, even in this our current generation, you've not seen persons between 18 to 25 that married and are doing fine?
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by koyyess:
EternalBeing:
Pedophile? I believe you read right, timely marriage is what I said. Clean the lens of your glasses and open your eyes very well to re-read. Tell us the truth, have you started having sex at 18 or not? The age range I mentioned is 18 to 25, how is that pedophile? So, even in this our current generation, you've not seen persons between 18 to 25 that married and are doing fine?
Again, read and get the context of my comment.

Is it everyone who gets married at 18 that stays married? Use your head.

Timely marriage kor.
Preaching what is not in the bible.

Y'all be adding your own selfish sermons. The ones you ought to teach, you'll leave them out.

Clowns.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by sukerefakere(m): 11:52am On Apr 07, 2019
seunmohmoh:
Two virgins getting married is rare.
More like endangered species
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by EternalBeing(op):
Mizwisdom:
Why didn't Isaac & Boaz marry early?
Those were exceptions and they had self-control, they were not defiling and destroying girls lives for self-gratification as we see today. Instead of destroying their own conscience and destroying the girls' lives too, majority of guys then married as young men. 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
What age range do we refer to as youths? Even though satan has manipulated humanity down the ages by using his agents to twist economy, our CREATOR's original plan is for us to enjoy our sexual lives in marriage as youths. Read:
Proverbs 5:18-19. "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love."
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Mizwisdom(f): 12:11pm On Apr 07, 2019
EternalBeing:
Those were exceptions and they had self-control, they were not defiling and destroying girls lives for self-gratification as we see today. Instead of destroying their own conscience and destroying the girls' lives too, majority of guys then married as young men. 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
What age range do we refer to as youths? Even though satan has manipulated humanity down the ages by using his agents to twist economy, our CREATOR's original plan is for us to enjoy our sexual lives in marriage as youths. Read:
Proverbs 5:18-19. "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love."
You're making some sense brother but not entirely so, our destinies are different o, why didn't Jesus or Paul marry early if it was their destiny they would, what of Mary Magdalene, Mary, Matter & Lazarus nko? they were not kids na but even if the later married they were not so young if they did as they were already living on their own, independently. Yes, agreed some guys mess girls up but we are not in a perfect world that's why it can't change, even back in biblical times you'll be surprised to still find what we're experiencing, there's nothing new cheesy
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by EternalBeing(op): 12:24pm On Apr 07, 2019
Mizwisdom:
You're making some sense brother but not entirely so, our destinies are different o, why didn't Jesus or Paul marry early if it was their destiny they would, what of Mary Magdalene, Mary, Matter & Lazarus nko? they were not kids na but even if the later married they were not so young if they did as they were already living on their own, independently. Yes, agreed some guys mess girls up but we are not in a perfect world that's why it can't change, even back in biblical times you'll be surprised to still find what we're experiencing, there's nothing new cheesy
cheesy Sister, I understand you but..I'm busy, yet I'll explain
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Constantiney: 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2019
There is no virgin guy you bloody scammer.

The word "virgin" is for a female with intact hymen.
Any other use of the word is just a word play.

One might argue that if one hasn't done something before, it makes one a "virgin" but this will onlt bastardize the word as we will find that almost everyone is a virgin at something.

So a dude should stop calling himself a virgin, you've not had sex - we know but virgin is for female, no one can prove your fraudulent ass hasn't had sex before, stop scamming innocent girls.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by OpenYourEyes1: 12:32pm On Apr 07, 2019
SunnyskyTG:
My greatest challenge with Religious Bigots and Fanatics is that they keep saying the World is getting worse everyday.

Those years when our Fathers had to travel from North to South by foot is better than this Age of Aircraft about?

Those years where you have no career choice is better than this Era of Freedom of choice right?

Those years where our Parents forced us to marry someone we don't Love is better than this Age of marital choice?

Those years where there are no Cell Phones, where you gotta travel to inform the other members of your family about you child delivery is better than this Age where you just have to make a call where you seated. That dark Age is Better abi?

Those years where you have to cook with firewood outside your house is better than this Age of cooking with Gas Cooker in your roofed house, shey?


Those years where people lived in caves and thatched house is better than this Age of modern Architecture, right?

Those years where Electrical Light is strange to the people is better than this Age of Electrical Power supply, abi?

Those years where childbirth can't be controlled, but now you are kinda safe with sex condoms and contraceptives, which is better?


The list can go on and on and on.

My Conclusion is that we Africans, Nigerians were birthed with Hypocrisy and it poses a great danger to our unborn generations.
Brainwashed trolls. smh
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Nobody: 12:46pm On Apr 07, 2019
OpenYourEyes1:
Brainwashed trolls. smh
Why won't you throw away the Cell Phone used to type the "thing" up there? Hypocrisy.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by OpenYourEyes1: 12:51pm On Apr 07, 2019
SunnyskyTG:
Why won't you throw away the Cell Phone used to type the "thing" up there? Hypocrisy.
You deviated my friend. Learn to stick to topics when commenting no matter the temptation.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by LordPsalm(m): 1:02pm On Apr 07, 2019
EternalBeing:
Majority of the people on this wonderful forum are youths, and we all know that libido is highest during this period of human life. Personally I believe that YAHWEH ALMIGHTY did not make mistake by creating us so, neither has HE decided to punish us by giving us the sweet ability and then restraint us from enjoying it in order to punish us for disobedience.

So, how did we get here?! JESUS said "But from the beginning it was not so... " Matthew 19:8 Often times, we refer to the era of our fore-fathers when the world was not as evil, selfish and dangerous as it is now. The sanity of those era was primarily because humans marry at the original age-range biologically programmed by our Creator. Averagely, puberty ends between 18 and 22. This means the physical and emotional features for uniting with your one and only soulmate and set out on your destiny fulfillment as a Couple are fully ready.

Those days, right from childhood, knowing that you are certain of marrying early gives you the patience of not stealing sexual enjoyment, so most men and women marry as Virgins. Those days, by the time a boy is 16, the father and elders apportion to him a farm/business and set him up to be financially self-sustaining. So, by 18 to 2something he's already comfortable and married. In Biblical times and up till some few generations past, people marry between 16 to 22 or 25. Down the age, history has shown that the more immoral the world becomes the more humans becomes enemies to fellow neighbors.

When a virgin human falls in Love and give his/her body to the soulmate, it's in the hope that that would be the only person forever. Sex is very powerful and spiritual, that is why you will always feel something for your very first person, because you are forever spiritually connected.

Those Virgins here are advised to please marry as Virgins, the benefit is limitless. You should notice that the day a guy/girl has sex with a second person order than the one that flowered her/him, some part of the conscience dies. And it's a scientific fact that the more numerous sexual partners a human has (the more promiscuous a human is) the deader the person's conscience. All other vices known in humanity emerges from this emerged stone heart of dead conscience. Satan has been carefully luring and manipulating mankind down the ages by dragging and elongating the age of financial self-sustenance so that marriage would come far much later after the conscience has been seared with a hot iron, to ensure we become lawless, cold-hearted and self-annihilated.

He knows that the best way to destroy a Man's conscience, dip hand into his Glory/Destiny and deaden his GOD-given spiritual antenna is to make him a sexual nonentity. A sexual nonentity is someone that has lost self control and becomes a defenseless entity. Such become open to the reception and manipulation of various demons through sex, Proverbs 25:28. 1 Corinthians 6:18 makes it clear that immorality is a sin against yourself because you destroy your GOD-given shield, authority and allow the manipulation of your glorious destiny through it.

Read: Through these all, JESUS Christ has always been with us, helping us and strengthening us through all ages to preserve us fit for Eternal Life that Satan does not want us to possess.
Isaiah 41:10 — “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your GOD"
Read: Psalm 119:9, James 1:14–16, 5. II Timothy 2:22, 1 Corinthians 6:8, I John 2:1.
Nice but your Bible quotations do not correspond in anyway...
Matt 19 v 8 was speaking about divorce not early marriage
Cor 6 v 18 reffered to immorality which doesn't mean only SEX
The Bible NEVER gave any age bracket for getting married and never spoke bad about people who aren't married nor ever married just like MARY AND MARTA the friends of Christ.
Don't get it twisted, Marriage is a beautiful and blessed institution but rushing into it is VERY DANGEROUS. Perhaps, Most men are willing to marry but the economy isn't helping.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by MoonWater: 1:04pm On Apr 07, 2019
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 07, 2019
OpenYourEyes1:
You deviated my friend. Learn to stick to topics when commenting no matter the temptation.
The People shall regain their Freedom, no matter how deceitful you people are, we will never give up fighting for them, oh you Manipulators!

Shalom.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by OnPointMan(m): 1:08pm On Apr 07, 2019
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by EternalBeing(op):
Mizwisdom:
You're making some sense brother but not entirely so, our destinies are different o, why didn't Jesus or Paul marry early if it was their destiny they would, what of Mary Magdalene, Mary, Matter & Lazarus nko? they were not kids na but even if the later married they were not so young if they did as they were already living on their own, independently. Yes, agreed some guys mess girls up but we are not in a perfect world that's why it can't change, even back in biblical times you'll be surprised to still find what we're experiencing, there's nothing new cheesy
cheesy Sister, I understand. The Bible didn't tell us everything about the Biblical people, some of the people mentioned may be married then. Also, because people did not have any evidence that they were not better than animals, by JESUS' time the World has morally degenerated so much that people were having public orgy parties in Rome, and Jerusalem was Roman colony. We Africans were even much more morally better than them then. I believe that was what GOD saw and decided to send JESUS to come and return Humanity to factory default setting. Societal Sanity and morality as we know in the World today is largely due to the fact that JESUS showed Humanity that the only way to live forever is to do good as directed by our CREATOR. Most people wouldn't be making any effort to be good if humans are just to die without afterlife. Your emboldened statement is a mentality we all must change. "I can't be better than my father" is Satan's subconscious deceitful voice injected into man. Nokia 3010 wasn't good enough, that's we adopted to better generation of phones. Humanity did not stick to analog computers, newer generations of technologies get better, only satan deceives people to think that we can't be better than our past generations. The beauty of future generation starts with you and I. The greatest mistake anyone could make is to give up on striving for Holiness and to permanently surrender to weakness, sin or satan. Big Sean sang "One Man can change the World" and he's right. Obama brought his own touch of change on the World, Trump is effecting his own positive changes too. HEAVEN is observing all of us. Although, it is very realizable if we lay better ground for the next generation of humanity, I'm not advocating that everybody must marry at young age, destinies differ. 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
I'm a realist, I'm just calling our attention to the key to make our world better. Who knows if some people that reading this would be in position of authority tomorrow, this is to let all know that humans can do something to make the World better. Humans determine who to surrender the World to. GOD uses willing humans, as devil used some people to destroy the morality of the world to this stage, a foreign president was trying to force homosexuality down Nigeria's throat. Humans destroy the world, humans can repair it.
What age range do we refer to as youths? Even though satan has manipulated humanity down the ages by using his human agents to twist economy, our CREATOR's original plan is for us to enjoy our sexual lives in marriage starting as youths. He created us right, not to ponish us with purposeless libido. HE programmed the human biological clock to allow the sexual features ripen at due time for holy matrimony. Below are Bible verses that shows that GOD originally intend humans should marry at sexual maturity. Read:
Isaiah 62:5
For as a young man marries a virgin, So your sons will marry you; And as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, So your God will rejoice over you.
Proverbs 5:18-19. "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love."
1 Corinthians 7:9
But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Isaiah 62:5
For as a young man marries a virgin, So your sons will marry you; And as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, So your God will rejoice over you.

Proverbs 5:18
Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth.

Deuteronomy 24:5
"When a man takes a new wife, he shall not go out with the army nor be charged with any duty; he shall be free at home one year and shall give happiness to his wife whom he has taken.

Genesis 34:12
"Ask me ever so much bridal payment and gift, and I will give according as you say to me; but give me the girl in marriage."

Malachi 2:14
"Yet you say, 'For what reason?' Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.

Deuteronomy 22:28
"If a man finds a girl who is a virgin, who is not engaged, and seizes her and lies with her and they are discovered,

1 Timothy 5:14
Therefore, I want younger widows to get married, bear children, keep house, and give the enemy no occasion for reproach;

Ruth 3:10
Then he said, "May you be blessed of the LORD, my daughter. You have shown your last kindness to be better than the first by not going after young men, whether poor or rich.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by LVStone(m): 1:15pm On Apr 07, 2019
seunmohmoh:
Two virgins getting married is rare.
It is not rare, I am 29years and a virgin, my fiancee is 28years and virgin, we would be getting married later this year by Gods grace.

Our body is the temple of the lord
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Legendguru: 2:25pm On Apr 07, 2019
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by danilmo:
seunmohmoh:
Two virgins getting married is rare.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Baselm: 6:58pm On Apr 07, 2019
EternalBeing:
Just because you want to make light of the truth I said doesn't me you should pretend not to know what the Bible says. Early marriage was the order of the day in the Bible. Since, you used our Lord Jesus as your example, Joseph and Mary were preparing to marry before the holy conception, what was Mary's age then?
U tell me her age because it wasn't recorded in my Bible, and u should go and read Genesis chapter 5 and see how early they got married. I'm sorry, I'm not that kind of christian who believes everything I hear. Give me a biblical reference to your assertion.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by Baselm: 7:00pm On Apr 07, 2019
LVStone:
It is not rare, I am 29years and a virgin, my fiancee is 28years and virgin, we would be getting married later this year by Gods grace.

Our body is the temple of the lord
You can only speak for yourself the fact she calls herself a virgin doesn't mean she is a virgin. I'm just preparing your mind because you might be in for a rude shock.
Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by brosammy(m): 9:12pm On Apr 07, 2019
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by iragbmite: 12:13am On Apr 08, 2019
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Re: Timely Marriage is GOD's Original Plan For Mankind by seunmohmoh(f): 4:08pm On Apr 09, 2019
LVStone:
It is not rare, I am 29years and a virgin, my fiancee is 28years and virgin, we would be getting married later this year by Gods grace.

Our body is the temple of the lord
Congratulations in advance.
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