₦airaland Forum

Ishilove:
Aunty Culheart, beware, accountants are known to be stingy.

. Or baba Ijebus.

SBL28:
So many immature KIDS on Nairaland. So she committed a crime by wanting to find love again? Or you expect her to stay single for life when she's only 32?

Not all marriages can or should be fixed. And have you considered the fact that the ex-husband has moved on with his life already? So the poster should die alone? Abeg, na divorce she divorce, she no kill person.

Op, God will give you the right Man for you. But please, stay away from married men, do not be the subject of another woman's prayer points. And let no man use you to pass time.


I'm in similar shoes, even younger than you. When I'm ready to start dating again, I'm definitely not going for a broke guy. No, I don't need anyone to come and take care of my children and i, we are very very ok. But I also won't be dating a leech, you should be adding value not reducing. I have done my share of 'grow with your lover' shit, wetin I gain

.Thank U.God bless U.Dnt mind these poverty is good mentality/ poverty is their next neighbors. Some even kal me the Op.Can't help but laff..The Op sha shud be careful with all these my wife/family dey Canada,Accountant,Docs..May u NOT see EVIL/RUSH out again

SBL28:
So many immature boys on Nairaland. So she committed a crime by wanting to find love again? Or you expect her to stay single for life when she's only 32?

Not all marriages can or should be fixed. And have you considered the fact that the ex-husband has moved on with his life already? So the poster should die alone? Abeg, na divorce she divorce, she no kill person.

Op, God will give you the right Man for you. But please, stay away from married men, do not be the subject of another woman's prayer points. And let no man use you to pass time.


I'm in similar shoes, even younger than you. When I'm ready to start dating again, I'm definitely not going for a broke guy. No, I don't need anyone to come and take care of my children and i, we are very very ok. But I also won't be dating a leech, you should be adding value not reducing. I have done my share of 'grow with your lover' shit, wetin I gain

Babe, u are a darling. Honestly as a woman u dare not request else u will be tagged materialistic. I honestly have worked hard in my previous marriage n would want to rest and enjoy being taken care of not the other way round. U can imagine some men now see as their birth right to enjoy ladies wealth. I have a good job oo. My only crime is wanting a financially stable man. I no want ADDITIONAL BAGGAGE again biko

ipobarethieves:
.Thank U.God bless U.Dnt mind these poverty is good mentality/ poverty is their next neighbors. Some even kal me the Op.Can't help but laff..The Op sha shud be careful with all these my wife/family dey Canada,Accountant,Docs..May u NOT see EVIL/RUSH out again

Amen darling. I have read how they are bashing u because of me. May God help us all. I doubt if they are better.

Culheart:
Babe, u are a darling. Honestly as a woman u dare not request else u will be tagged materialistic. I honestly have worked hard in my previous marriage n would want to rest and enjoy being taken care of not the other way round. U can imagine some men now see as their birth right to enjoy ladies wealth. I have a good job oo. My only crime is wanting a financially stable man. I no want ADDITIONAL BAGGAGE again biko

shebi i told u to ignore/stop wasting ur time with those POVERTY IS GOOD peepz, they are empty upstairs. Wetin 17,18/22 yrs old KIDS wey still dey eat their mama reheated fufu sabi?Listen to Ishilove,SBL28 and and their likes not CONFUSED KIDS

Culheart:
Amen darling. I have read how they are bashing u because of me. May God help us all. I doubt if they are better.

I can't help but laff.i learned much from Bishop Oyedepo."IF SOMEBODY KAL U TINA WEN UR NAME IS BIMPE,WILL U ANSWER? "

ipobarethieves:
.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll not take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one and testify it here

Ha oga,she don get one candidate be that,better tell your family b4 u die like John busco

Culheart:
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality. Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

I know how hard it is to have two kids with no supporter and no love
We’re I stay here My neighbor as 2 daughters but the husband is late yet she pay school fees and pay house rent still buy the children cloth and she takes care of the kids and her self
Please stop judging her it is not easy
Women are trying they take the most heavy hit

I don’t know why nairaland can’t change some one will post topic here (some people will start insulting the person for no reason )

ipobarethieves:
I believe she's a strong lady.The insult of the kindergarten ones hold no wota.Only a poor man complain

You can say that again. She amazed me.

deniguy01:
So she should marry a poor man in the name of love
You guys reasoning are daft. People get married to ladies with 3-6 kids here in Florida. I see no reason why she cant get. Its not a must you comment and sis, stop replying them. Another man offspring. What if it was your kids. Cant you put yourself in her shoes. She should go back and reverse it. We Africans have limited brain or did she state she can’t give birth again??

Good talk

ipobarethieves:
. Or baba Ijebus.

babatubde2:
Hello,i read your Note,i really do not want to comment first,i actually wanted to see what my fellow men will write.am a very honest passionate easy going down to the earth man with a cool and lovely sense of Humor.i may not be handsome as you want,but believe me am all ladies choice.but i have lots of Love to offer to a woman.

let me be honest with you.i am Married and my wife and kids are in canada.if i wanna lie,i will tell you i am not married,but one needs to abstain from problems of the future.

my wife got a permanent canada Visa with my kids..

Though i always meet a lots of woman out there on a daily Basis,but i always Abstain from them.because all they wanted is a man to Buy them pant and all they want to give is sex.

I am more than that...relationship is not all about that.your note intrigue me when you says you arent gonna depend on the man's money.


if you want us to get going,i would be all you wanted and hope you would be all i wanted as well..


my concern now is that loads of men would have written you with their Numbers.so how earth can i trust anyone.

well lets talk and may be proceed from there.


we all needed happiness and this happiness needed to commence right away.


i cant drop my Number here for safety wise.

write me an email to Korede12014s@gmail.com

we will talk it from there.

I had to create another account just to write you and remains anonymity .

mind you am a young man of 35 look very young.

i would be waiting to hear from you,if serious.

Kunle i hail sir

Hello. We could be friends, you know? Kindly Whatsapp me on 07087054844

Culheart:
32yrs old and working

area74:
Hi. It my pleasure to have u here. I am from the western part of the country. I currently work as an accountant with a reputable company in Lagos. Can we get to know each other? I already sent u a mail. Thanks

Yoruba demon? Aka afo***nja?
OP bewares o

lilwetdick:
continuing dreaming...suddenly, you want a real man

which one is real men-- i think you are talking about nice and naive guys that dont know their left from their right when dealing with women

Lol, I laughed when I saw that line. Any thing women want in man, they simply tag it as something real men does. she is not realistic, as she still believe that the kind of man she want will be dumb enough to go for her, when he can actually have a single, fertile peak and youthful woman, without baby daddy and single mum complications.

Lorddee:
Hello. We could be friends, you know? Kindly Whatsapp me on 07087054844

And this is the exact reason she wont WhatsApp you. You're cheap, low value, and desperate, hence, it doesn't occur to you that your number should not be in a public forum.

pansophist:
Lol, I laughed when I saw that line. Any thing women want in man, they simply tag it as something real men does. she is not realistic, as she still believe that the kind of man she want will be dumb enough to go for her, when he can actually have a single, fertile peak and youthful woman, without baby daddy and single mum complications.

no mind am..real man my ass.. dat is how they will be manipulating naive men with the phrase of "real man" to do their biddings

SBL28:
So many immature boys on Nairaland. So she committed a crime by wanting to find love again? Or you expect her to stay single for life when she's only 32?

Not all marriages can or should be fixed. And have you considered the fact that the ex-husband has moved on with his life already? So the poster should die alone? Abeg, na divorce she divorce, she no kill person.

Op, God will give you the right Man for you. But please, stay away from married men, do not be the subject of another woman's prayer points. And let no man use you to pass time.


I'm in similar shoes, even younger than you. When I'm ready to start dating again, I'm definitely not going for a broke guy. No, I don't need anyone to come and take care of my children and i, we are very very ok. But I also won't be dating a leech, you should be adding value not reducing. I have done my share of 'grow with your lover' shit, wetin I gain

birds of the same feather always support themselves. the nice and good men were asking you out you were busy turning them down, now mr Bleep, born pekin and run away put you in family way or make life hell for you, you then realise your mistakes, so we should pity for you when suddenly, you want to get brand new man with cash to support another man's kids

torqque7:
Well if you were in an abusive marriage then I honestly wish you luck in your search for happiness,but if the marriage ended because it was your fault,or you were never married but just got pregnant out of wedlock then I have no sympathy for you because left for me I can't marry a lady with a kid let alone 2kids except she is a widow and it will take the grace of God self, that is how men are,no sane male will want to father another man's offspring. That is why even the lion will kill the cubs of a lioness that arnt his before he can mate with her,it's NOT just a man thing but the male species generally.Goodluck tho and it's ok to dream and hope.

u ar not God to determine her destiny. circumstances may have placed her in this situation so don't judge or conclude. am sure if it's a male that made this request it wunt be an issue to you.

what you stated here is your opinion not all men's opinion. One man's meat is another man's poison.

Op you are the only person who understands what u have been through and wears the shoe. Don't settle for less, be proud of yourself and kids and always hold on to God. He has ur back.

#peace

OlaitanAkanbi:
I know how hard it is to have two kids with no supporter and no love
We’re I stay here My neighbor as 2 daughters but the husband is late yet she pay school fees and pay house rent still buy the children cloth and she takes care of the kids and her self
Please stop judging her it is not easy
Women are trying they take the most heavy hit

I don’t know why nairaland can’t change some one will post topic here (some people will start insulting the person for no reason )

God bless u..Imagine and i'm so sure those asking How old is Culheart " are probably un their late 17/22 yrs.Wetin Kids sabi

Any single man that will support another man's kid financially all in the name of hooking up with a single mother that needs a "real man" is a woman wrapper or born fool.

the father of those kids is having fun somewhere while you are taking care of his responsibility. what sort of nonsense is this

how do you infact connect with the kids, dont you know you will be the last important person she will think of in that type of relationship

Tunagee:
Exactly! They just leave their matrimonial home just like that, probably due to financial hardship the husband is facing; rather than sit and help him, they carry kids and run, then starts looking for rich men to take care of their kids.

how do you know? it's her discision . who told you she can't take care of herself and kids independently. hypocrites!

realtalk19:
how do you know? it's her discision . who told you she can't take care of herself and kids independently. hypocrites!

then why is she looking for a financially stable man if she can take care of her kids?

Tunagee:
To be a single mother means you were not ready for the sacrifice in marriage, or you probably gave birth out of wedlock for some irresponsible fathers due to your quest for material things. Pls deal with your issue and carry your cross; or go and reconcile with the kids father or fathers.

it's guys like u that are irresponsible and childish. it's only in Nigeria females are being blamed and critizisd for a man's irresponsible act.

Tunagee:
U better face reality, resolve your issues and go back to your husband. Nobody, I repeat, nobody go father another man children. Besides who knows why u left him in the first place. Nobody knows what went wrong between u too. Personally, I cannot even have any extramarital with a married woman, or a once upon a time married woman cos as a christian its a curse and whoever does commits adultery. God does not support divorce, even if its infidelity, it can still be resolved before bowing out. Go back to your husband, woman, if he is still able and alive. Don't destroy the future of those kids; don't make them become touts, school dropouts, drug addicts or even females with unwanted pregnancy for female kids. If u really love your kids, never leave their father, especially if he still wants you.

so even if it's at the berge of death she shuld never leave . u have a very miopic way of thought.

realtalk19:
it's guys like u that are irresponsible and childish. it's only in Nigeria females are being blamed and critizisd for a man's irresponsible act.

so the female doesnt have the mouth to tell the man to use a condom

Tunagee:
The post sef dey vex me. What is wrong with our ladies? Single mothers everywhere!!! So disgusting. And they are not even ashamed to remain single mothers.that's the reason we have too many irresponsible kids everywhere now, drinking all sort of chemical mixtures in drug abuse, yahoo boys, cultists and ritualists and unwanted pregnancies everywhere!!! Products of single mothers.

like u abi? because u sound like one.

ipobarethieves:
God bless u..Imagine and i'm so sure those asking How old is Culheart " are probably un their late 17/22 yrs.Wetin Kids sabi

Exactly, I'm sure they are all these chewing gum boys in teartear pencil jeans. You can smell the senselessness of their comments miles away.

Michelle55:
Look after yourself and your kids first, finalize the divorce and give yourself time before looking for another relationship. Going through divorce and seeking for a relationship looks fishy.. Kindly give yourself a break from the hassles, and keeping multiple accounts ain't ladylike.

the divorce may have been dragging for a while now despite separated. even the man may have moved on with his life .

Yes, she may or may not get back to me, but then i wonder why your opinion of my mode of contact should be generalised, seeing as you have a line of thought as to why she'd not get back to me, even if i come across as "DESPARATE, CHEAP and LOW VALUE". Oga you should learn to stay off other people's business!!!

pansophist:
And this is the exact reason she wint WhatsApp you. You're cheap, low value, and desperate, hence, it doesn't occur to you that your number should not be in a public forum.