₦airaland Forum

Noblefirstlady:
Thank you! Ha what type of story is this one, is the alloy friend living with them. This story is just too sweet, sugar too much inside. Anyways Rip to Alloy. There is nothing he had done that should warrant death.

Oma307:
and this woman will be a mentor to the upcoming girls. even though he begged after slapping you. you have now become a widow now and no man is willing to marry you again unless they will be sampling you. wetin you gain now

IamD18:
Typical Nigerian lady.

Believe me; Those thugs that beat her husband to death are fvckin her.

dominique:
Let's ask the narrator if he lives with them for him to have such intricate details on about the couple and what transpired between them. The way he garnished and spiced the story, it's not hard to see that his aim is to demonize the woman. We can't tell for sure if she's guilty or not, but one thing is certain, there are some untruths and half truths in this very one sided story.

opella:
This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.

JasonScoolari:
Immediately Alloy knelt down begging her."I'm sorry for slapping you. In twelve years of marriage I have never hit you.





The way Alloys friend paint the story to favour his late friend is what I don't get.

JasonScoolari:
Immediately Alloy knelt down begging her."I'm sorry for slapping you. In twelve years of marriage I have never hit you.





The way Alloys friend paint the story to favour his late friend is what I don't get.

Officialgarri:
This is the story from Alloy's friend . I'd like to hear the side of his wife's friend too .....

noisy45:
When u give a woman turned wife alot of leverage she will misbehave no fucking wife will tell me not to put my blood sibling in the guest room when things have gone bad for them. Dem never born d woman well

dfrost:
She is still culpable. That she was released doesn't exonerate her. The narrative above also corroborates the first narrative that he was beaten up. She should have just shut it.

Do not repay evil for evil.

opella:
This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.

Butoneday2:
Ashawo you have kill ur horseband so dat u will be free for fuvcking around. Oya shop him dead body. Ono na di acho di. Not all women are mothers and not all mothers are women. Stewpid creatures.

frozen70:
Hmmm am woman but fear women. She acted badly

After all he provided for her and her children, she still have the gut to beat him to death

Men pls recognise and accept that a woman's anger is not like a man's anger

Everything now is regret
That is if she ever have a concience

Hedonisst:
Another wussy bites the dust. You slapped her and started kneeling down to beg her, with all your family members. For what? That kind of weak behaviour only stokes irrational resentment in women.

I detest men with poor judgment of women. Its easy to tell the kind of woman that has this kind of demonic heart, long before marrying her. Even after marrying her, it's easy to see traces of this kind of nonsense heart, and immediately quit that marriage. I don't know how some mumu men end up marrying demonic agaracha like this with their two eyes wide open, when there are lots of meek women out there with hearts as soft as jelly (most important attribute in a potential wife).

If you 'fear' your woman for any reason, then you need to quit that relationship or marriage ASAP.

dfrost:
Okay.

Flash points:

1) He should have started looking for the accommodation for his sister from day one.
2) Why send your wife to the gym? Create a gym from the guest house.
3) He shouldn't have left the hospital until he got better. He is a medical personnel for crying out loud. He should know better. I lost a friend to internal bleeding last year.
4) Why is he giving money to the wife? For what exactly?

VeeVeeMyLuv:
something very similar happened to a family friend, the man also in medical line like this one housed his sister and her kids, somehow suddenly the wife and the man started to fall out, recently heard the wife is no longer with them.

JasonScoolari:
Immediately Alloy knelt down begging her."I'm sorry for slapping you. In twelve years of marriage I have never hit you.





The way Alloys friend paint the story to favour his late friend is what I don't get.

JasonScoolari:
Immediately Alloy knelt down begging her."I'm sorry for slapping you. In twelve years of marriage I have never hit you.





The way Alloys friend paint the story to favour his late friend is what I don't get.

RoyalBlu:
Oh woman! What have you done?

Hitting you was wrong, but there better ways to have handled the situation.

Now your eyes are clear now yeah? Anger does not solve anything at all.

RIP to the man. Really sad.


The friend is a good story teller tho.

lielbree:
I smell lies. Let's hear the woman's story.

opella:
This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.