Omudia11:
That story was too one sided. Read the story on this page and you'll see it's more realistic.

By the way, why put your sibling in the guest house when he/she can stay in the main house with you. I just don't understand.

Omudia11:
Fear woman bla bla bla

Are men not responsible for over 90%
homicides, armed robbery, murders, rape, terror attacks etc. Mumu.

dfrost:
Okay.

Flash points:

1) He should have started looking for the accommodation for his sister from day one.
2) Why send your wife to the gym? Create a gym from the guest house.
3) He shouldn't have left the hospital until he got better. He is a medical personnel for crying out loud. He should know better. I lost a friend to internal bleeding last year.
4) Why is he giving money to the wife? For what exactly?

AreaFada2:


(1) Nothing wrong with housing your sister in a vacant guest house temporarily. - AreaFada2, nothing wrong but since the friend said he is well-to-do, he should have done so from the world 'go'. It reduces the friction. Trust me.

(2) The gym has a trainer who can ensure she actually does her training right. If you said that regarding it being an opportunity to cheat, she could have cheated on the way to do shopping too. Or use her seemingly plenty of free time to cheat. - I was not referring to cheating.

(3) Internal bleeding may not show any symptoms or signs, once checked over by a doctor, admitting might not have been recommended. In fact healthcare professionals are most likely to say they are ok in such circumstances. You are right.

(4) In Nigeria, even lots of working wives keep their money and expect hubby to pay all the bills (food, fuel, kids & family total upkeep, etc), nothing unusual. Some wives live so well on hubby's income that both might find no reason for her to work. - If you say so.

You just cannot blame the guy for all the above. If there are things he was guilty of, we have to hear the lady's version first.

I think the guy pampered the lady too much, they didn't really love each other, the wife had no good relationship with her inlaws, etc.

I can assure you that if it was her own relatives that needed accommodation, she'd have happily taken them in.

I know one thing about Nigerian marriages. Many women are married to men they do not love. They did it to tick the marriage box, the economic security it provides, they wanted to marry like all their friends, etc. A few men also do it for same reason aside that she might be pretty.

dominique:
Let's ask the narrator if he lives with them for him to have such intricate details on about the couple and what transpired between them. The way he garnished and spiced the story, it's not hard to see that his aim is to demonize the woman. We can't tell for sure if she's guilty or not, but one thing is certain, there are some untruths and half truths in this very one sided story.

djon78:
Read the first story I was very angry, thanks I read the second story and got the whole picture

The man have been abusing his wife whom he married as a very young woman serially.
And he got his reward and payback.

Don't beat or abuse a woman, it always ends fatal. My dads cousin had a case of very abusive husband. The man married her when she was 17, she had 5 kids for him. This man terribly abused this woman, till finally he drove her out of his house. He was very wealthy.
He banished her children from seeing her. She was able to see those in boarding school. It was terrible.

The woman became hopeless. We were in primary school and she was living with us, very unhappy and miserable.
Then my dad advised her to go write waec, she did passed very well. She was very good in maths. Got admission to unn. Studied maths, like play graduated, like play got scholarship to do MSC passed very well, did PhD. During her MSC the evil man died, her sons then grown brought back there mother. Today she is a senior lecturer in a big federal university. Her children are married, with kids and she completely settled.

Don't abuse woman, it doesn't pay

djon78:
Read the first story I was very angry, thanks I read the second story and got the whole picture

The man have been abusing his wife whom he married as a very young woman serially.
And he got his reward and payback.

Don't beat or abuse a woman, it always ends fatal. My dads cousin had a case of very abusive husband. The man married her when she was 17, she had 5 kids for him. This man terribly abused


this woman, till finally he drove her out of his house. He was very wealthy.
He banished her children from seeing her. She was able to see those in boarding school. It was terrible.

The woman became hopeless. We were in primary school and she was living with us, very unhappy and miserable.
Then my dad advised her to go write waec, she did passed very well. She was very good in maths. Got admission to unn. Studied maths, like play graduated, like play got scholarship to do MSC passed very well, did PhD. During her MSC the evil man died, her sons then grown brought back there mother. Today she is a senior lecturer in a big federal university. Her children are married, with kids and she completely settled.

Don't abuse woman, it doesn't pay

JasonScoolari:
Immediately Alloy knelt down begging her."I'm sorry for slapping you. In twelve years of marriage I have never hit you.





The way Alloys friend paint the story to favour his late friend is what I don't get.

NandiIfeoma:
Let's hear her side of the story. This is too one sided and biased.

noisy45:
When u give a woman turned wife alot of leverage she will misbehave no fucking wife will tell me not to put my blood sibling in the guest room when things have gone bad for them. Dem never born d woman well

GlobalAdvtForum:
What do you want to do with her own side of the story? Go and get her story from her at the police station.

Classicalman:
Dead men don't talk. That is her words against a corpse. Why didn't she report to the police during those 12 years? She is obviously a murderous psychopath who should be jailed for at least 40 years.

Officialgarri:
This is the story from Alloy's friend . I'd like to hear the side of his wife's friend too .....

kenodrill:
May God save us(the bachelors)from every evil future wife IJN Amen

Deji63:


Even the meekest of women can be deadly. Just be careful in your dealings with women. Patience is key. If the slap did not happen she wouldn't have been used by the devil. I am sure she did not know it will result to his untimely death. Lesson learnt

bukatyne:


You want a wife that you will slap to death abi?