gloria34:
Thats when she drunk, A drunk man will do worse. Whats all these fight over gender for? Taking alcohol is ok as long as you Dont get drunk, being drunk is bad for both gender

midnighter:
On one hand what she did was good because she didnt maintain a pretence. It was a restrictive action on the man's part. He should have asked her what she would have liked to drink

She will find the right person for her, who doesnt mind if she takes alcohol. A lot of men are touchy on the subject.. i dont really know why

When did food and drink become segregated along gender lines...?

Ugosample:


And you know this how ?

Not every man has a conservative view to life

We have those of us who are liberal

DissTroy:


Most females lose their inhibitions before they actually get drunk. Most never realize it until they are tipsy. At that point, some of her inhibitions are gone.

And women are naturally more emotional beings. Combine that with alcohol intake? It's not exactly pretty.

Maybe you should also read up how alcohol messes up the biology of women.

BiggyB242:

The reason I said 95%.

maasoap:


And how many are they in this our society? Who wants to marry an alcoholic woman of child bearing age?

DissTroy:


Alcohol makes people lose their inhibitions. It makes them less rational and more compulsive.

Why do you think guys who are trying to make easy lays of women try to get the said women drunk?

A drunk man might get away with many things but a tipsy woman? She's likely to tumble beneath the sheets with just about any male with a little prodding. Darn! She opens herself up to be molested and a thousand other ills.

DissTroy:


Most females lose their inhibitions before they actually get drunk. Most never realize it until they are tipsy. At that point, some of her inhibitions are gone.

And women are naturally more emotional beings. Combine that with alcohol intake? It's not exactly pretty.

Maybe you should also read up how alcohol messes up the biology of women.

maasoap:


Alcohol is more than a drink, a lot of issues are attached to it. Most especially for a man looking for a wife/baby mama

Ugosample:



alcohol does not mess up the biology of women Any thing


Stop spreading unfounded statements


if alcohol messes up women's biology, that means women from the deep south (Bayelsa creeks and all) would have been finished

for many of you men who think in this mumu way, it's an ego thing, but you look for excuses like these to hide it.

There is NOTHING WRONG with a woman who drinks responsibly

maasoap:


It looks like the guy has moved on knowing what he wants in a lady but the lady apparently seemed stuck. Like she's still expecting call from him.

You might end up marrying an alcoholic. Seems like you haven't seen one, it gets worse for them with time. Don't make mistake

DissTroy:


Alcohol does. Go read up the medical case histories of alcoholic women and what it doesn't to their foetuses and them when they get pregnant.

Don't argue what you know little a out. Facts don't lie.

Ugosample:


I'm sure my old man did not make a mistake

And from time to time, from my childhood up to this point, as an adult decades upon decades upon decades after; my parents still indulge themselves with "what makes the heart rejoice" if you know what's poppin


And nothing spoil

it's a mind thing

obailala:
*Most Nigerian men.*

In Nigerian households generally, boys are raised to drink beer and all sorts of alcgohol but our girls are raised to drink malt (and other non alchoholic) drinks. I've noticed this only amongst Nigerians.

Ugosample:



excessive alcohol has an effect on the baby when a woman is pregnant

not before, WHEN

So while a woman is pregnant, especially in trimester two when the organs are forming rapidly, it is advised that.she does not drink

That is what it is

Not alcohol affecting a foetus because the mum is an active drinker

go and learn

grandstar:


Her drinking beer is not the bone of contention here.

He should have been courteous to ask what she wanted instead of deciding for her.

If he asked and she says she wants beer, that's another thing

DissTroy:

1.

"Impact on the Heart: Studies have shown that women who drink excessively are at increased risk for damage to the heart muscle than men even for women drinking at lower levels.

Cancer: Alcohol consumption increases the risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus, liver, colon, and breast among women."

- https://www.cdc.gov/alcohol/fact-sheets/womens-health.htm


2.

"
Mild–to–moderate alcohol use affects female reproductivefunction at several stages of life. It has been shown to have a detrimental effect on puberty, to disrupt normal menstrual cycling and reproductive function, and to alter hormonal levels in postmenopausal women."

-https://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/arh26-4/274-281.htm


Above are just a few evidence to corroborate my assertion that women - pregnant or not- get the shorter end of the stick when they drink. Cry all you would but women who drink are worse off, healthwise especially.

Jon Snow! You really know nothing!

Ugosample:


guys like you need to expand your network /circles

That's all I'll say.

I don't mind, for example, and my father who married my mum did not mind either.

That's just two examples of many in our circles

not everyone was raised with that repugnant African mentality rubbish thinking that stereotypes women
Telling you so you know


like I said, expand your circles and see that it's no big deal in certain quarters whether a woman drinks or not

gloria34:
Exactly. i Dont take alcohol, i went on a date with you be you ordered that for me, you will end up drinking both. I Dont see anything wrong with a girl drinking alcohol, as long as she didnt get drunk, what then is the issue?

Ugosample:

That was very rude of him

maasoap:


Alcoholic circles of friends, good for you. Don't forget that we're talking about alcoholic lady here

anthonyuncle:


u know,
our society have a negative, sentimental & stupid view about girls and alcohol.
that guy's action shows that he has da same view & datz bad