Now i dig Ubunja....

Complicated!!!!!
They both have a point... But Nneka messed up with the sentence "if he says he loves me, then he is already owing me"...
I hate to say this.... That's what Chibike said, before she was used for rituals

That is why you remain unhappy

When women like Nneka give birth to a boy, they become useless mother in laws because they are afraid their sons wife would be just like them

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

Fear Nigerian girls but fear igbo girls especially.

Thinking Like That Make That Brain,fish Brain.I Pity Today's Ladies,that Is Why Marriage Is Not For Everybody,

I have no problem with a guy spending on a chick buh my problem comes when she start having the feeling of entitlement to a guy's money thereby turning into a parasite..
have been in this situation and life have taught me sense by force..
I will do what I can I leave the rest for you..
am nobody's father or poverty alleviation scheme

This is why i might not settle down with any Nigerian girl.. Their mentality is way too poor.. I still believe background matters so much.. Hungry girls every where..

iyke926:
...greedy insatiable preposterous b!tches everywhere.

True talk

LesbianBoy:
In the past, I would have insulted this lady but I know better now.

Notice how she said if a man won't give her money he should go. Do you know why she said that? Because she knows that if one goes another nigerian maga will spend on her. I don't blame her sha. Nigerian guys dey fvck up....Seriously!

In fact, i now HATE my fellow Nigerian guys with passion!

Apart from the few sensible one, I spit on the majority of Nigerian guys out there! Magas!

Even here on nairaland, just watch how guys on here will start insulting her. Calling her olosho or gold digger etc. But don't be deceived! They are only insulting her because THEY ARE BROKE. Let ordinary N100k enter their hand, you will be surprised how they will even be the one pursing girls up and down and be the one to give them their money even if the ladies didn't ask.

If all or majority of Nigerian guys were like me, Nigerian ladies will have no choice but to respect us and stop seeing us as magas!

Words on Marble, I have been saying this for a long time. Most young men of nowadays are totally worthless and completely useless!
I call them pussy worshippers!

Muhylonaire:
Complicated!!!!!
They both have a point... But Nneka messed up with the sentence "if he says he loves me, then he is already owing me"...
I hate to say this.... That's what Chibike said, before she was used for rituals

chibike can never be a she. So u fumble

I have blocked several ladies with this kind of mentality. I no send. Once u start asking for money, I won't hesitate to deal with you accordingly.

If a lady like brownsugar really exists in Nigeria, then there is little hope.

All these men advocate sef, I'm sure their mothers intercedes on their behalf before their fathers give them money especially for the males...imagine the mother doesn't have the tactic and skill to collect money from their husbands some of them won't smell school...a guy providing for his girlfriend prepares him on what it means to be a man and catering for the family, it makes him the man and head over the woman... God made it DAT way

This is why there are irresponsible men everywhere, women working and becoming too arrogant and disrespectful to their lazy husbands

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

iyke926:
Most Nigerian girls are greedy insatiable preposterous b!tches

Your comment stem from ignorance. A foreign wife will send you to a foreign grave. Women ain’t quite different

KIDfurniture:
This is why i might not settle down with any Nigerian girl.. Their mentality is way too poor.. I still believe background matters so much.. Hungry girls every where..

blame Nigeria guys

Nigerian ladies are like the country herself though there are still few with sense sha. They want the benefit of the old but are too corrupt to want to play their parts as in the old. Some done use their sense paint their face

i guess some women are living.in.the past. they must be blind to see that the world has changed and women has become providers .its now vice versa.if you want to keep a home, maintain a long lasting relationship, keep a family, stay in love ...you must provide

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

pls do and make money so another woman can be have 100% entitlement to it. Rubbish

If all man be like me, people like Nneka go die of konji and lack of attention.

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

I am not saying a guy cannot spend on his girl o, but with this mentality u will most likely be at Shiloh age 38 still looking for a husband. Unless ofcos u get belle out of wedlock

ikewaterwater:
A Nigerian lady identified as Nneka is currently trending on Twitter following her statement of 'once you say you love me, you already owe me money'.

Nneka who clashed with another lady who dragged her over the comment of 'once you say you love me, you already owe me money', further stated that a man who claims he loves you already knows you are his responsibility. Read screenshots of the exchange below;


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/11/nneka-once-you-say-you-love-me-you-already-owe-me-money-nigerian-ladies-clash/

If we ain’t married yet, your responsibilities lies with your parent not until there is change of ownership from your parents to me via marriage.. I wonder why all these stupid hungry hoes can’t make better use of their lives by working hard instead of asking guys for money as if they are requesting for salary from guys.. Despite the fact that some guys are reading this, they will still fall into the hands of this extorting mechanisms called females... I’ll rather get married to you Inorder to spend a little I have on you than spending on u while still dating u while some guys will be shagging u for free

Jirair:
Hmmmm!

what's ur take?

What is Nneka in english translation self? I think its means entitlement

LesbianBoy:
In the past, I would have insulted this lady but I know better now.

Notice how she said if a man won't give her money he should go. Do you know why she said that? Because she knows that if one goes another nigerian maga will spend on her. I don't blame her sha. Nigerian guys dey fvck up....Seriously!

In fact, i now HATE my fellow Nigerian guys with passion!

Apart from the few sensible one, I spit on the majority of Nigerian guys out there! Magas!

Even here on nairaland, just watch how guys on here will start insulting her. Calling her olosho or gold digger etc. But don't be deceived! They are only insulting her because THEY ARE BROKE. Let ordinary N100k enter their hand, you will be surprised how they will even be the one pursing girls up and down and be the one to give them their money even if the ladies didn't ask.

If all or majority of Nigerian guys were like me, Nigerian ladies will have no choice but to respect us and stop seeing us as magas!

Shut up weak man like you.
Ordinary ass that you will see, you will start doingike Mumu.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
If you won't spend on us, the rich would! Go make money brokeass

MhizzAJ:


Shut up weak man like you.
Ordinary ass that you will see, you will start doingike Mumu.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
If you won't spend on us, the rich would! Go make money brokeass

My post pain you no be small. And as for you calling me "broke ass".....I won't blame you. Ladies like you are used to guys being mumu for them so when you see guys like me you get angry!


Meanwhile, the cost of just my perfume will feed you for a year! Rubbish!

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

hahahaha.Onyi22 I dey gbadun you no be small. Just watch how they will come for you..

MhizzAJ:

Shut up weak man like you. Ordinary ass that you will see, you will start doingike Mumu. Empty barrels make the loudest noise. If you won't spend on us, the rich would! Go make money brokeass

easy oooo!chai

Believe it or not, Nneka will be far much good and better than brown sugar..

MhizzAJ:


Shut up weak man like you.
Ordinary ass that you will see, you will start doingike Mumu.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
If you won't spend on us, the rich would! Go make money brokeass

Lol. You have become very aggressive o. You used to be a very quiet and calm person. What experience changed you?

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

That's one reason, we bang the hell outta u girls before leaving u.We bang u like whores not like girlfriends because it is all about the money not love.And that's is only thing u offer in relationship: Sex