₦airaland Forum

MariaLavina:
This is how they kill themselves.



Keep dying because of pride, we will enjoy your wealth, the children's success with another man. LOBATAN

Smh

Jman06:
Many Nigerian ladies support this man's opinion either directly or indirectly.


Eg is Amtara sha

Lol, this is funny but true because the more the dumb man force himself to be richer than his wife, the more the cash flow. The woman does little but enjoy more.

But the thing is, no one is pushing the man, it's just his ego playing a fast one on him.

dukeprince50:
my wife cannot be more successful than I am, if she works overnight, I'll work overnight and over day, If she works 24hours in a day, I'll work 48hours in a day, (don't ask me how that is possible)
If she becomes a Dangote, I'll become a Billgate, if she becomes Billgate, I'll become Billgate+Prince Saheed+Beezos. If she owns a private jet, I'll own an airport.
If she owns a submarine, brother I'll buy Atlantic

That's the spirit bro!

cornerplus:
Smh

Do you need help holding it?

MariaLavina:
Do you need help holding it?

" with another man " it's okay madam.

cornerplus:
" with another man " it's okay madam.

Ehn na, if you have killed yourself with stress, and tension what's next?

MariaLavina:
Ehn na, if you have killed yourself with stress, and tension what's next?

Your logic is pure manipulation BTW

" With another man "

cornerplus:
" With another man "

Deal with it.
The truth is always hard to swallow.

virgoquin:
But I thought that you are already married

What would u like to know about that episode?

Sad truth but not all women sha. I have an aunt whose husband was an electrician and she was into frozen food. She bot the car the husband drives and the house they live. And no one knows. But my own mother( sister of my aunt) show my papa pepper when he got broke . Told the man to build school the man go use d money do business wey flop. My mum would later build d school and hammer lol

MariaLavina:
Deal with it.

The truth is always hard to swallow.

K

Preshy561:
Always telling your life stories whether real or fake.
You get issue. Tomorrow we go hear seh your son deh abroad.
Jisike.

she too dey lie

MariaLavina:
Lol, this is funny but true because the more the dumb man force himself to be richer than his wife, the more the cash flow. The woman does little but enjoy more.

But the thing is, no one is pushing the man, it's just his ego playing a fast one on him.

Many Nigerian ladies treat their men with so much scorn and disrespect if he isn't richer than them. That is why men would rather go for ladies who ain't richer so as to preserve their sanity and self esteem.

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Joromi12:
she too dey lie

I understand plights of people like you and Preshy561.
What you people don't understand, and what u people have never experienced in your life time, you become so bitter on. It's understandable, so I'm not going to argue back and forth with anyone. I'm relaxing today and no matter what y'all say? I'm less concerned about it. In fact I don't care.
Wail and rant from now till more years to come about me, it won't move me. So you and preshy561 should keep wailing about me.

If you guyz feel I'm lying? No wahala. Have always said when u see Victorian comment on any thread, use selective blindness and move on. It's not compulsory u must believe me.

I didn't place a gun on both of your heads to read and believe me.. It's that simple.

MariaLavina:
This is how they kill themselves.



Keep dying because of pride, we will enjoy your wealth, the children's success with another man. LOBATAN

lwkmd. Babe you bad

victorian:
I understand plights of people like you and Preshy561.
What you people don't understand, and what u people have never experienced in your life time, you become so bitter on. It's understandable, so I'm not going to argue back and forth with anyone. I'm relaxing today and no matter what y'all say? I'm less concerned about it. In fact I don't care.
Wail and rant from now till more years to come about me, it won't move me. So you and preshy561 should keep wailing about me.

If you guyz feel I'm lying? No wahala. Have always said when u see Victorian comment on any thread, use selective blindness and move on. It's not compulsory u must believe me.

I didn't place a gun on both of your heads to read and believe me.. It's that simple.

Shim tulai.

Jman06:
Many Nigerian ladies treat their men with so much scorn and disrespect if he isn't richer than them. That is why men would rather go for ladies who ain't richer so as to preserve their sanity and self esteem.

By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

gloria34:
lwkmd. Babe you bad

It's the truth nah...

If anybody go run the race of car hit bicycle, for this world we dey so, nah him loss be that. Life goes on.

Preshy561:
Shim tulai.

Shim tulai from now till many years to come, OYO.

that's your problem, not mine.

Shim tulai to you too. Cheers


Lol


Ignorant ekpa!

MariaLavina:
By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

Having a good self esteem is different from being egoistic.

If women can be richer in peace and not see their men as less a man for being poorer, then no problems. But the issue is that many Nigerian ladies would see the man as a weakling and less a man the moment they start earning more money than the man.
The result is usually an unhappy wife who is always angry and bitter at whatever the man does or says.
That time they'll start wishing they were that dependent housewife next door who stays at home gossiping while their husband goes to work.
In fact, some of such ladies would even start cheating on the man with other men whom they consider richer and alpha males.
No man wants to put up with all those drama, hence they kuku go for a fulltime housewife with whom they can manage the much they earn.
It'll continue that way until Nigerian ladies understand that they are not being sent to schools and given high paying jobs only for them to become a liability to a man.
Until that time when they'll not only love to work and earn money for themselves and families, but would not wish otherwise.

Guest007:
Because you came to earth to compete

not that, I av always planned to be the bread winner in my home, and I work towards bin a successful man whether she works or not. I won't stop my wife from bin successful but I'll always make sure I work harder than she ever will, thank God she is a woman and there are limitations which I'll use to my advantage. its not competition, its like peak, it's in me

victorian:
No need getting angry at him.
He's saying the mind of most Nigerian men.

A typical Nigerian men detest marrying successful women ,it's a well known fact people rarely talk about.

Imagine a suitor telling me last two weeks, I should promise to give him all my earnings in my business. Because he said earlier I won't be submissive in marriage with the way he sees me in his spirit and giving him everything means I will be a submissive wife.

I laughed so hard.

I was like really? Don't worry I will even hand over my company to you, so u and your spirit will become satisfied I'm submissive enough. Don't worry that will be your wedding gift from me to you.

Ole! Come carry o! Because you were there when I was suffering and building my career up. Na you and your papa train me for school and gimme capital to start afterwards. Nonsense!
Smhhhhhh

Aye ma ni ka o!

Every suitor is always meeting you but never marrying you. You and these your numerous businesses we don't know about. Wetin happen na, Aunty?

Anyways, save your petty story for another day. We don't care!

virgoquin:
But I thought that you are already married

That girl/mama lies with reckless abandon o!

Jman06:
Having a good self esteem is different from being egoistic.

If women can be richer in peace and not see their men as less a man for being poorer, then no problems. But the issue is that many Nigerian ladies would see the man as a weakling and less a man the moment they start earning more money than the man.
The result is usually an unhappy wife who is always angry and bitter at whatever the man does or says.
That time they'll start wishing they were that dependent housewife next door who stays at home gossiping while their husband goes to work.
In fact, some of such ladies would even start cheating on the man with other men whom they consider richer and alpha males.
No man wants to put up with all those drama, hence they kuku go for a fulltime housewife with whom they can manage the much they earn.
It'll continue that way until Nigerian ladies understand that they are not being sent to schools and given high paying jobs only for them to become a liability to a man.
Until that time when they'll not only love to work and earn money for themselves and families, but would not wish otherwise.

I miss road.

shaybebaby:
Why is there so much savagery in your post?

Throwing knockouts like its going out of fashion, dia is God oooo

But I genuinely want to know na

MariaLavina:
By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

Ewoooo

Let enjoy life and live.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Every suitor is always meeting you but never marrying you. You and these your numerous businesses we don't know about. Wetin happen na, Aunty?

Anyways, save your petty story for another day. We don't care!

you And This Your Mouth. Make This People No Beat You For Here One Day o

UyaiIncomparabl:
That girl/mama lies with reckless abandon o!

The lie dey weak me sometimes sef.

I have read where she was telling someone that she is married but she is richer than her husband .
liars truly have no memory at all !

Kkkk

AntiBrutus:
He simply means, BUY SUBMISSION.

Why then do they cry when some women say they do not want broke men?

I don't even know why people are attacking him, he only said the mind of lots of Nigerian men. Wasn't it on this same Nairaland that one went on a 2k date, only to come back emasculated because the girl gave herself a treat.

If you see the average Nigerian man talking about his worth in a relationship, it ends at MONEY. If you see his female counterpart talking her own, it ends at WIFELY DUTIES (sex and domestic chores).

The man is scared of the woman having more money, because he will lose his hold, since he knows he has nothing else. The woman is scared of the man being a hit and run because she wonders how many more will hit and run.

Outside these things, they are totally clueless and useless to someone who desires and wants more.

Absolutely