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"Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by 247naijamedia: 12:04pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
A Nigerian man on Facebook has advised men to ensure that their wife is never more successful than them. Echezona Enebeli said it's OK for a man to support his wife but he should never do so to the extent that she becomes richer than him. He wrote: "You can never know the true color of a woman until she starts making more money than her man..... she will even expect the man's entire family to be worshiping her.. "The word 'SUBMISSION' does not exist in the dictionary of a successful woman... "Therefore....umunwoke ibem.....the antidote for the above scenario is not to ever allow your wife to be more successful than you..... "Support her...yes... but dont ever allow her to be richer than you..." In a separate post, he criticized women who expect their husbands to do domestic chores, writing: "Women of nowadays have really lost it..... How could a well brought up woman...who knows the values of tradition and the place of the man in the family...expect her husband to be involved in domestic chores...especially in the kitchen department....... What are the women of this generation turning our men into..... "I really dont get it...." https://www.everyvibes.com.ng/2019/04/Never-Allow-Your-Wife-To-Be-More-Successful-Than-You-Man-Nigerians-React.html 8 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by 247naijamedia: 12:09pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
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Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Lordvaryx: 12:10pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
He's right and said nothing but the bitter truth. Women can't even be successful and respect their father, let alone their man. But the question is; Where are the successful women? Let us see them first before deciding on what to do with them. Or are these ladies studying iceblock and millipede engineering in school with the hope to end in a man's kitchen the ones we are talking about? 153 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 12:11pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
He simply means, BUY SUBMISSION. Why then do they cry when some women say they do not want broke men? I don't even know why people are attacking him, he only said the mind of lots of Nigerian men. Wasn't it on this same Nairaland that one went on a 2k date, only to come back emasculated because the girl gave herself a treat. If you see the average Nigerian man talking about his worth in a relationship, it ends at MONEY. If you see his female counterpart talking her own, it ends at WIFELY DUTIES (sex and domestic chores). The man is scared of the woman having more money, because he will lose his hold, since he knows he has nothing else. The woman is scared of the man being a hit and run because she wonders how many more will hit and run. Outside these things, they are totally clueless and useless to someone who desires and wants more. 187 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
he's right 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by richidinho(m): 12:17pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Painful truth 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by 247naijamedia: 12:18pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Seun lalasticala mynd44 |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 12:19pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Lordvaryx: None in your family? 124 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by SageMK: 12:22pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Some people have been doomed from birth to roam the internet without sense & MTN are not helping matters. This is utter nonsense. I completely disagree with him. Yes, money tends to make people want to be in control, but a good wife will never disrespect her husband or her in-laws simply because she earns more cash than him! Men should encourage their wives to earn more. They shouldn't limit her or cage her. And if her income becomes bigger — You should be proud of her. There's no individuality in marriage. It's for the benefits of all involve. And It doesn't make you less of a man or a husband. 69 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:32pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
In marriage there's nothing like MY but Ours. So she's free to make all the money 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by 247naijamedia: 12:47pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
lalasticala mynd44 |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Macnnoli4(m): 12:51pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
It is unfortunate some igbo people have this retrogressive mentality. Even the university in the east, I am schooling in, a good number of males are against having a female SUG President, busy citing that a man is the head of a home. 36 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Bush man's mentality but again, sad experience must have made him think the way he did. Some ladies, as soon as they receive their first paychecks as Registered Nurses, they start to disrespect everyone including their husbands forgetting that their husbands have been receiving same paychecks for long time without causing drama at homes. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 1:10pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
It is partly true but not in every home. Some wives are richer than their hubby but they are submissive. They are few Anyway. 13 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by shaybebaby(f): 1:12pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Why is there so much savagery in your post? Throwing knockouts like its going out of fashion, dia is God oooo 37 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
I concur 8 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by 247naijamedia: 1:43pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Cc: lalasticala |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by victorian(f): 2:29pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
No need getting angry at him. He's saying the mind of most Nigerian men. A typical Nigerian men detest marrying successful women ,it's a well known fact people rarely talk about. Imagine a suitor telling me last two weeks, I should promise to give him all my earnings in my business. Because he said earlier I won't be submissive in marriage with the way he sees me in his spirit and giving him everything means I will be a submissive wife. I laughed so hard. I was like really? Don't worry I will even hand over my company to you, so u and your spirit will become satisfied I'm submissive enough. Don't worry that will be your wedding gift from me to you. Ole! Come carry o! Because you were there when I was suffering and building my career up. Na you and your papa train me for school and gimme capital to start afterwards. Nonsense! Smhhhhhh Aye ma ni ka o! 80 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Jman06(m): 2:37pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Many Nigerian ladies support this man's opinion either directly or indirectly. Eg is Amtarasha 3 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Preshy561(f): 2:46pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Just pray to marry a good woman. There are many homes today being funded by the wife and the family is still very peaceful. The woman's action can be justified if the man is lazy and not attempting to go further to enhance his career and help in building the family. No woman will be happy seeing her husband spending her money on bars and women, cos, that's what hopeless men, who has lost sight and hope in their future do. So, most times, these actions by their husbands breeds hate or scornful attitude from the wife. Honestly, many Nigerian home today are being run by the women, but you won't hear their voice cos they still want to protect the image of the husband. At the end, pray for a good woman who will help build the family and who you can fall back on when the chips are down. Whether she's richer than you or not. 101 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Preshy561(f): 2:48pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
victorian:Always telling your life stories whether real or fake. You get issue. Tomorrow we go hear seh your son deh abroad. Jisike. 66 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by dukeprince50: 2:49pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
my wife cannot be more successful than I am, if she works overnight, I'll work overnight and over day, If she works 24hours in a day, I'll work 48hours in a day, (don't ask me how that is possible) If she becomes a Dangote, I'll become a Billgate, if she becomes Billgate, I'll become Billgate+Prince Saheed+Beezos. If she owns a private jet, I'll own an airport. If she owns a submarine, brother I'll buy Atlantic. If my wife wants to b successful, no problem, but to be more successful than I am? She may be more successful than I am sha but she will need to be very successful and remove all limitations that hold women cos I go compete shege comot for ur eyes. 96 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
victorian:But I thought that you are already married 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 2:52pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Preshy561: 5 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 2:54pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
dukeprince50: Because you came to earth to compete 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Jman06(m): 2:55pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Preshy561:Lol E be like you and victorian get beef before 5 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by aanuoluwami14(f): 2:55pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Enemy of progress, them plenty for Nigeria. Oniranu 6 Likes |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Daeylar(f): 2:58pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Not surprising. That's how many of them think. I don't like this submission of a thing and will never subscribe to it because the men and husbands who swear by it never want to submit to their wives if submission was such a good thing as they claim. However I would assume that if a woman really wants to "submit" to you. She would do so because she believes you are worth it. Not because you're using your money to control and lord over her. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by LordKO(m): 3:02pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
OP and his ilk - both male and female ilk - deserve no peace and progress. Balderdash at its peak. Success never makes one with an aristocratic manner bad, instead it helps make the person more refined. 33 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
This is how they kill themselves. Keep dying because of pride, we will enjoy your wealth, the children's success with another man. LOBATAN 31 Likes 1 Share
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Re: "Never Allow Your Wife To Be More Successful Than You" - Man "Nigerians React" by lincsnuel: 3:18pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Hmm... Truer words have never been spoken! The two things women can't manage well are: 1. Money 2. Power or Independence When they have any of these, she starts misbehaving (There are few exceptions tho) But make the man take am easy oo... Cos na like this witchcraft dey start oo. If your wife earns higher than you, never try to bring her down instead, let it encourage you to work harder and up your hustle. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
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