₦airaland Forum

funmisticqueen:
look here, i have no time to waste on you. This is the last time i will pay attention to you

Daeylar:
Not surprising.
That's how many of them think.

I don't like this submission of a thing and will never subscribe to it because the men and husbands who swear by it never want to submit to their wives if submission was such a good thing as they claim.
However I would assume that if a woman really wants to "submit" to you. She would do so because she believes you are worth it.
Not because you're using your money to control and lord over her.

Jman06:
Nigerian women love to be controlled with money!

jackals:
You're a tough lady for them, hence the noise and the insecurity all over. Let them rant their frustruation and wailing

Lordvaryx:
He's right and said nothing but the bitter truth. Women can't even be successful and respect their father, let alone their man.

But the question is; Where are the successful women? Let us see them first before deciding on what to do with them.

Or are these ladies studying iceblock and millipede engineering in school with the
hope to end in a man's kitchen the ones we are talking about?

victorian:
No need getting angry at him.
He's saying the mind of most Nigerian men.

A typical Nigerian men detest marrying successful women ,it's a well known fact people rarely talk about.

Imagine a suitor telling me last two weeks, I should promise to give him all my earnings in my business. Because he said earlier I won't be submissive in marriage with the way he sees me in his spirit and giving him everything means I will be a submissive wife.

I laughed so hard.

I was like really? Don't worry I will even hand over my company to you, so u and your spirit will become satisfied I'm submissive enough. Don't worry that will be your wedding gift from me to you.

Ole! Come carry o! Because you were there when I was suffering and building my career up. Na you and your papa train me for school and gimme capital to start afterwards. Nonsense!
Smhhhhhh

Aye ma ni ka o!

BuddhaPalm:
My brother, "Independence" and "Republic" na the same thing...

JONNYSPUTE:
In marriage there's nothing like MY but Ours. So she's free to make all the money

AntiBrutus:
He simply means, BUY SUBMISSION.

Why then do they cry when some women say they do not want broke men?

I don't even know why people are attacking him, he only said the mind of lots of Nigerian men. Wasn't it on this same Nairaland that one went on a 2k date, only to come back emasculated because the girl gave herself a treat.

If you see the average Nigerian man talking about his worth in a relationship, it ends at MONEY. If you see his female counterpart talking her own, it ends at WIFELY DUTIES (sex and domestic chores).

The man is scared of the woman having more money, because he will lose his hold, since he knows he has nothing else. The woman is scared of the man being a hit and run because she wonders how many more will hit and run.

Outside these things, they are totally clueless and useless to someone who desires and wants more.

AntiBrutus:
He simply means, BUY SUBMISSION.

Why then do they cry when some women say they do not want broke men?

I don't even know why people are attacking him, he only said the mind of lots of Nigerian men. Wasn't it on this same Nairaland that one went on a 2k date, only to come back emasculated because the girl gave herself a treat.

If you see the average Nigerian man talking about his worth in a relationship, it ends at MONEY. If you see his female counterpart talking her own, it ends at WIFELY DUTIES (sex and domestic chores).

The man is scared of the woman having more money, because he will lose his hold, since he knows he has nothing else. The woman is scared of the man being a hit and run because she wonders how many more will hit and run.

Outside these things, they are totally clueless and useless to someone who desires and wants more.

Preshy561:
Just pray to marry a good woman.
There are many homes today being funded by the wife and the family is still very peaceful.

The woman's action can be justified if the man is lazy and not attempting to go further to enhance his career and help in building the family.
No woman will be happy seeing her husband spending her money on bars and women, cos, that's what hopeless men, who has lost sight and hope in their future do.
So, most times, these actions by their husbands breeds hate or scornful attitude from the wife.

Honestly, many Nigerian home today are being run by the women, but you won't hear their voice cos they still want to protect the image of the husband.

At the end, pray for a good woman who will help build the family and who you can fall back on when the chips are down.
Whether she's richer than you or not.

victorian:
No need getting angry at him.
He's saying the mind of most Nigerian men.

A typical Nigerian men detest marrying successful women ,it's a well known fact people rarely talk about.

Imagine a suitor telling me last two weeks, I should promise to give him all my earnings in my business. Because he said earlier I won't be submissive in marriage with the way he sees me in his spirit and giving him everything means I will be a submissive wife.

I laughed so hard.

I was like really? Don't worry I will even hand over my company to you, so u and your spirit will become satisfied I'm submissive enough. Don't worry that will be your wedding gift from me to you.

Ole! Come carry o! Because you were there when I was suffering and building my career up. Na you and your papa train me for school and gimme capital to start afterwards. Nonsense!
Smhhhhhh
That part "aye ma Nika o" got me laughing.

Aye ma ni ka o!

Preshy561:
Just pray to marry a good woman.
There are many homes today being funded by the wife and the family is still very peaceful.

The woman's action can be justified if the man is lazy and not attempting to go further to enhance his career and help in building the family.
No woman will be happy seeing her husband spending her money on bars and women, cos, that's what hopeless men, who has lost sight and hope in their future do.
So, most times, these actions by their husbands breeds hate or scornful attitude from the wife.

Honestly, many Nigerian home today are being run by the women, but you won't hear their voice cos they still want to protect the image of the husband.

At the end, pray for a good woman who will help build the family and who you can fall back on when the chips are down.
Whether she's richer than you or not.

Daeylar:
Not surprising.
That's how many of them think.

I don't like this submission of a thing and will never subscribe to it because the men and husbands who swear by it never want to submit to their wives if submission was such a good thing as they claim.
However I would assume that if a woman really wants to "submit" to you. She would do so because she believes you are worth it.
Not because you're using your money to control and lord over her.

lincsnuel:
Hmm... Truer words have never been spoken!

The two things women can't manage well are:
1. Money
2. Power or Independence

When they have any of these, she starts misbehaving (There are few exceptions tho)

But make the man take am easy oo... Cos na like this witchcraft dey start oo. If your wife earns higher than you, never try to bring her down instead, let it encourage you to work harder and up your hustle.

Joromi12:
Sad truth but not all women sha. I have an aunt whose husband was an electrician and she was into frozen food. She bot the car the husband drives and the house they live. And no one knows. But my own mother( sister of my aunt) show my papa pepper when he got broke . Told the man to build school the man go use d money do business wey flop. My mum would later build d school and hammer lol

MariaLavina:
By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

MariaLavina:
By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

victorian:
Hunty At least mine is way better than yours

In your case, you claim to be young but it's so unfortunate no man on earth wants anything serious with you.
You even toast men online, they reject you. And still mock you even infront of you!
Are you not so unfortunate?

You! Uyi! That has been rejected by humans and spirits, still get mouth to talk on top my matter.

You that's washing feets for clients in one mushroom hair salon, still get mouth to talk.

You that looks like a caricature, still get mouth to talk

What have u achieved in this life wey you come?

How many businesses or companies do you have in this country, even in Lagos ?

You that's a mere house girl! You Still have mouth to talk

You want to find out about my businesses and companies? I swear you no reach. You are my door mat.. Even my door mat has so much value than your pitiable self.

Better go and hang yourself, cos uv never add any form of value even to yourself, how much more to people.

Slave like you! Dey talk! Wonders shall never end.

Smhhhhhh.

Macnnoli4:
It is unfortunate some igbo people have this retrogressive mentality. Even the university in the east, I am schooling in, a good number of males are against having a female SUG President, busy citing that a man is the head of a home.

victorian:
Hunty At least mine is way better than yours

In your case, you claim to be young but it's so unfortunate no man on earth wants anything serious with you.
You even toast men online, they reject you. And still mock you even infront of you!
Are you not so unfortunate?

You! Uyi! That has been rejected by humans and spirits, still get mouth to talk on top my matter.

You that's washing feets for clients in one mushroom hair salon, still get mouth to talk.

You that looks like a caricature, still get mouth to talk

What have u achieved in this life wey you come?

How many businesses or companies do you have in this country, even in Lagos ?

You that's a mere house girl! You Still have mouth to talk

You want to find out about my businesses and companies? I swear you no reach. You are my door mat.. Even my door mat has so much value than your pitiable self.

Better go and hang yourself, cos uv never add any form of value even to yourself, how much more to people.

Slave like you! Dey talk! Wonders shall never end.

Smhhhhhh.