My advice is don’t do that. It doesn’t end well. Fam there is a bro code and you’ve broken it.

Wilson125:
I know some people will judge me for this but i honestly need your advise pls.. i have been dating ma fiends ex for 3yrs without ma friends consent, though he actually gave me the go ahead to have just sex with her then cus he was forming Bleep boy but i told him i wasn’t interested, but i liked her which was the mistake i made.. he is actually the one that broke her hymen.. since the girl was always coming from Anambra to see him in Akwa ibom state, i didn’t like the way he used to treat the poor girl so i started treating her better but with nothing in mind, she developed feelings for me i asked me we date cus i was nice to her.. she pleaded ma friend should not know about it even though he was showing less interest..i objected at first but she pleaded n told me all was gonna be fine, then i was single so i accepted.. she was like “that’s the only way i can pay back for the things you have done for me”.. i have been training her in school since then and she’s in her 200level now, last weekend i was with her, i went through her whatsapp, saw messages from my friend begging her to come back that he wants to marry her, dude was claiming he doesn’t want the girl anymore before I traveled to see her, so when i asked her, she said ma friend has been disturbing her since but she told him she’s with someone else now, but he is not aware i am the someone, he is not aware i have been seeing this girl, bro started confessing his love for her to me ever since i came back n he’s pushing me into pleading the girl to take him back based on ma good relationship with her.. the thing is i don’t know how to put it to him cus this girl and i are actually in love n she’s begging we end up together.. pls what do you advise i do? Don’t wanna lose ma friendship with him, he’s more like a brother now..

Your friendship vs your Woman

Follow the one that makes you happy

Wilson125:
hmm.. thanks a lot.. i know this friendship is gonna crash.. i mean everything will crash, relationship too.. cus i am actually hating maself n the girl right now..

I blame you for listening to the girl when you pleaded that you kept your relationship as a secret. You wldnt have done that. I know why I also said it ll take a miracle for you not to lose both the friendship and relationship. And reality is already at your doorstep. You might likely start detesting the girl. Deep down your heart, you now blame her for your predicament

Kweensavvy:
Na wa this your case is really deep poo. You NEVER should have involved yourself. Now the poor girl will get hurt all over again. Why did she even decide to date you of all guys!!!!!

She wldn't have dated him. Even if she wanted the relationship ,why keep it SECRET? for me the issue here is the SECRET nature of that relationship. Nothing more. The rest are all secondary and no issue at all

You wrote this...dude was claiming he doesn’t want the girl anymore before I traveled to see her, its not as if she was his wife just a gf.. he left her, played with her love, and acted indifferent u took over.. I just wanna know on what basis do u think u owe him apology? cause for me I don't see any form of betrayal here. However if you don't have deep love for the girl and wants to help your friend get her back, then u need not play any role, the same way he got her in the 1st place let him apply that method again and win her back, provided u've made up your mind to let her go. No need for apologies here, u didn't deflower his girl, or took advantage of his wife so whats the apology for?

SPOILT9JAOLOSHO:
You wrote this...dude was claiming he doesn’t want the girl anymore before I traveled to see her, its not as if she was his wife just a gf.. he left her, played with her love, and acted indifferent u took over.. I just wanna know on what basis do u think u owe him apology? cause for me I don't see any form of betrayal here. However if you don't have deep love for the girl and wants to help your friend get her back, then u need not play any role, the same way he got her in the 1st place let him apply that method again and win her back, provided u've made up your mind to let her go. No need for apologies here, u didn't deflower his girl, or took advantage of his wife so whats the apology for?

bro i only i feel i should have let him know, prolly when he wanted me to.. though for the past times he was still trynna push me in, didn’t know he still got love for the girl or something...

any nigga over a lady any day any time, friendship over relationship who love help....stop paying the school fee for that girl before God of thunder open your file!

Wilson125:
and the friendship is what i want most.. if our parents should get to find out, it will embarrassing

Bro that lady doesn't like you. she is with you on monetary ground

What a weak man. U are being used

Wilson125:
bro i only i feel i should have let him know, prolly when he wanted me to.. though for the past times he was still trynna push me in, didn’t know he still got love for the girl or something...

I have said mine, if u think u owe him apology then its left for u, remember if u apologize u don fall the girl hand, and remember the impending damage it will cause

EMEKUSBOY9:


Bcoz insult goes with the advice for the person to know he need to wake up.

You don't expect people to praise him when advising him

civilized people dnt do it i guess itz african's way of advice smh

MissRaine69:

Vagina.

Chai

fahvourite:
and y cnt sum people just advice sumbody without raining insults on them?

because the young generation of today too like to dey fvck

fahvourite:
civilized people dnt do it i guess itz african's way of advice smh

Lol, you know there is always a different
when an Africa man tell you to stop than other race.

EMEKUSBOY9:

Lol, you know there is always a different when an Africa man tell you to stop than other race.

i guess so

Fourwinds:
because the young generation of today too like to dey fvck

lmao

fahvourite:
lmao

@fahvourite. Have sent you mail, please let talk