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Amicusacuriae:
Sorry for my long post


I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her.
After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe.
I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos.

Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature.

In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before.

2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday.

She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy.

After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me.

Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested.

I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed.

This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense.
Plz help me out.

I am a lawyer like you. Lawyers are trained to be cerebral and dispassionate when considering issues like this.

Don't come back here to lament when she infects you with HIV.

By the time you join us in actual practice as a new wig, you would know the babe isn't for you. You can't be able to marry the babe with what you will earn in the next 4 years of practice and you think she can wait?

There's always an exception though

Goddys:
I am a lawyer like you. Lawyers are trained to be cerebral and dispassionate when considering issues like this.

Don't come back here to lament when she infects you with HIV.

By the time you join us in actual practice as a new wig, you would know the babe isn't for you. You can't be able to marry the babe with what you will earn in the next 4 years of practice and you think she can wait?

There's always an exception though

i have resolved to let her go. I have ended all form of communication with her. Its painful but at least i will have rest of mind.

Goddys:
I am a lawyer like you. Lawyers are trained to be cerebral and dispassionate when considering issues like this.

Don't come back here to lament when she infects you with HIV.

By the time you join us in actual practice as a new wig, you would know the babe isn't for you. You can't be able to marry the babe with what you will earn in the next 4 years of practice and you think she can wait?

There's always an exception though

Are new lawyers not paid above 100,000 Naira as starting salary?

Amicusacuriae:
i have resolved to let her go. I have ended all form of communication with her. Its painful but at least i will have rest of mind.

Pls give me the summary because the story read me

edoman2016:
Are new lawyers not paid above 100,000 Naira as starting salary?

That's an exception. Op understands my point

When a woman is really into you she will put up with the worst and avoid the worst case possible of betraying that love but if she’s not she will make sure your aware it’s not only you in the picture.

I was raised in a very faithful environment and try to abide by that sure your called boring but at least when true love comes around you abide in your truth

edoman2016:
Are new lawyers not paid above 100,000 Naira as starting salary?

Lots of new lawyers earn under 50k in Lagos.

Amicusacuriae:
thank you sir. I couldnt sleep all night after thinking of the 3 years we spent together. The sacirfices and risks i had to pass through because of her

I'm a lawyer like you, attended Lagos Law school, served in Lagos and stayed back. Going to meet that girl was a stupid mistake you made, I'm telling you as a brother.

Now, what you must do is to firstly disconnect with that babe. You're a professional and impeccable reasoning is expected of you. Urgently dump her before you start making money cos if you don't, you'll waste whatever you earn on her.

Now is not the time for pity parties. Look for areas of law that are lucrative and of interest to you and have a workable plan of how you intend to tap into those areas.

Leave that girl and go make money. If you work smart and grab available opportunities, in just 5 years, she won't be able to look you in the face. That's the truth.

She would marry and carry this her character to her husband's house. Do you want to be the unfortunate man to experience it?

MrMcJay:
I'm a lawyer like you, attended Lagos Law school, served in Lagos and stayed back. Going to meet that girl was a stupid mistake you made, I'm telling you as a brother.

Now, what you must do is to firstly disconnect with that babe. You're a professional and impeccable reasoning is expected of you. Urgently dump her before you start making money cos if you don't, you'll waste whatever you earn on her.

Now is not the time for pity parties. Look for areas of law that are lucrative and of interest to you and have a workable plan of how you intend to tap into those areas.

Leave that girl and go make money. If you work smart and grab available opportunities, in just 5 years, she won't be able to look you in the face. That's the truth.

She would marry and carry this her character to her husband's house. Do you want to be the unfortunate man to experience it?

thank u sir for ur advice

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Thanks

Chief, I'd give you this advice, she's definitely gonna come back begging. If you give her another chance, u're on ur own cos she'd hurt you again. it's gonna be hard but u have to forget her otherwise you'd ruin ur life when she's living hers. Find something to pour in ur energy, a skill, work, business or anything fun and worthwhile otherwise this depression would dwell in you and lead even greater damage. I pray u find courage and wisdom to act.