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So last week Saturday, my friend told me to give lend him my house for some hours, he wants to have sex with his new girl in my house.
I asked him why he doesn't want to use his house, he told me he doesn't want his fiancee to catch him if she comes by.
I told him no, I cannot allow such act in my house.
I told him to go and rent a hotel, he angrily left.
Since then he hasn't picked my call, was I wrong in any way ?

Summary; The chicks would say you did well, the guys would say you fuc.ked up and broke the bro code.

you did nothing wrong,if he wants to cheat on his fiance he should pay the price by going to pay for a hotel......

You did well, he wants to cheat on his fiancee.
I pity their marriage, he's going to keep cheating on her.

But op you no do well, if I were you, I would have allowed him then send a text to his fiancee so she would catch him red-handed and kasala would burst.
She deserves to know the community joystick she is getting married to.
Cause this would continue if they eventually get married.

Nde Igbo kwuru na ihe Nwoke mere Nwoke ibe ya bu were ihe dozie rem!
(What a man did to his fellow man is take this and keep for me)
You don't know how yours we come next!

It depends on your friendship and your reputation.

What I mean is, this your friend knows the kind of person you are (i.e. your reputation) before making that request. Maybe he has allowed you use his own house for such in the past. Or maybe he thought you wouldn't object to him cheating on his main girl. (Now, he knows better and your friendship with him will get deeper).

And if I may ask, why are you calling him? Do you feel him guilty for saying NO to him? If you know you did the right thing, leave him alone. He'll eventually get over his anger and come back to you. Plus, he won't make such a request ever again. No worry yourself abeg. Lol.

Amanew:
Nde Igbo kwuru na ihe Nwoke mere Nwoke ibe ya bu were ihe dozie rem!
(What a man did to his fellow man is take this and keep for me)
You don't know how yours we come next!

I cannot condole such act in my house, he has a fiancee, and I can't be in that type of situation.

Congrats.
You just lost a fake friend.

JohnNgene:
It depends on your friendship and your reputation.

What I mean is, this your friend knows the kind of person you are (i.e. your reputation) before making that request. Maybe he has allowed you use his own house for such in the past. Or maybe he thought you wouldn't object to him cheating on his main girl. (Now, he knows better and your friendship with him will get deeper).

And if I may ask, why are you calling him? Do you feel him guilty for saying NO to him? If you know you did the right thing, leave him alone. He'll eventually get over his anger and come back to you. Plus, he won't make such a request ever again. No worry yourself abeg. Lol.

My friend knows I cannot support such evil, and I can't do such evil.
I am not calling him again, I am certain I did the right thing, my house is not a brothel.
Let him vex for all I care.

Good riddance to nonsense rubbish, if he was a single guy we for understand but never support cheating.

You are a good man.

Guy man, u no try at all. U don break the bro code and u shud be ostracized ASAP.

You did nothing wrong. A friend also stopped talking to me recently because I refuse to help him write IELTS exam. He wants me to use his passport, act as him and go sit for an exam, which is quite risky.

If you cant say NO in any friendship, especially when your refusal is reasonable, then that's not friendship. Dont call him, let him go. You did nothing wrong. If you allowed it, then you just inadvertently signed off your place as a hotel, he will always bring women there. You allowed it once and must continue the pattern.

chivera018:
Summary;
The chicks would say you did well,
the guys would say you fuc.ked up and broke the bro code.

What fudging Bro code?

u Bleep up big time now nigga don cut u off. allow that nigga to slaughter d congo maybe u for chop too. one dey u go undersatnd say man sha not leave by bread alone.

Is your house a brothel? Some people are funny sha ooo. Na you get time wey dey call am...... Nonsense and ingredients!

willanderson:
u Bleep up big time now nigga don cut u off. allow that nigga to slaughter d congo maybe u for chop too. one dey u go undersatnd say man sha not leave by bread alone.

You must think am 23, I have passed the stage for the rubbish you wrote.

Op you no dey have sex for that your house? Simple favour as a true friend you refused true pals got each other's backs with stuff like that

chivera018:
Summary;
The chicks would say you did well,
the guys would say you fuc.ked up and broke the bro code.

bro code call bro code ni...

seyi371:
So last week Saturday, my friend told me to give lend him my house for some hours, he wants to have sex with his new girl in my house.
I asked him why he doesn't want to use his house, he told me he doesn't want his fiancee to catch him if she comes by.
I told him no, I cannot allow such act in my house.
I told him to go and rent a hotel, he angrily left.
Since then he hasn't picked my call, was I wrong in any way ?

guy you did the best..your house is not a motel.

No

seyi371:
So last week Saturday, my friend told me to give lend him my house for some hours, he wants to have sex with his new girl in my house.
I asked him why he doesn't want to use his house, he told me he doesn't want his fiancee to catch him if she comes by.
I told him no, I cannot allow such act in my house.
I told him to go and rent a hotel, he angrily left.
Since then he hasn't picked my call, was I wrong in any way ?

seyi371:
You must think am 23, I have passed the stage for the rubbish you wrote.

Is the girl your friend well... you bringing it here shows you feel guilty....

It depends on what you believe... I personally believe in the "unwritten and unspoken bro code" which you just broke... except if the girl is also your friend and she can be considered as a bro as well....

H2Ossss:
Is the girl your friend well... you bringing it here shows you feel guilty....

It depends on what you believe... I personally believe in the "unwritten and unspoken bro code" which you just broke... except if the girl is also your friend and she can be considered as a bro as well....

all these nonsense bro code..is it not guys that will betray their other guys for money, kill their best friends and even rat them out

pls abeg..make una go sleep with una bro code...bro code call, bro code ni..

bros abeg forget this "bro code" talk....you were not wrong. if he wants to cheat on his woman, he should go to an hotel nd do that not your house.

Bro code..

Bro's before hoes..

Fvck reputation shiit...u broke the bro code...now u lost a bro..

In your times if need,na still bros u go call no be hoes..

Bro is a bro and don't give me a five if u ain't my bro.....


Outta here

krattoss:
Bro code..

Bro's before hoes..

Fvck reputation shiit...u broke the bro code...now u lost a bro..

In your times if need,na still bros u go call no be hoes..

Bro is a bro and don't give me a five if u ain't my bro.....


Outta here

somebody's fiancée that you used your leprous fingers to call a HOE.

Bro code bro code no be still same una dey poison each otherfor beer parlour,stab each other at the back.

Brain like tiger battery

krattoss:
Bro code..
Bro's before hoes..
Fvck reputation shiit...u broke the bro code...now u lost a bro..
In your times if need,na still bros u go call no be hoes..
Bro is a bro and don't give me a five if u ain't my bro.....

Outta here

So many stupid boys on this forum.

seyi371:
So many stupid boys on this forum.

Same bitches telling u ur doing tha right thing will still smash yo dad n not even think twice are the same people callin u a good dude ���. Dude u f up big time. Bout time niggas call U da Bleep out ���

seyi371:
So many stupid boys on this forum.

fvck u and fvck ur age..

If u ain't worried,u couldn't have come here looking for sympathizers...

Now fvck off with ur age bullshit

willanderson:
Same bitches telling u ur doing tha right thing will still smash yo dad n not even think twice are the same people callin u a good dude ���. Dude u f up big time. Bout time niggas call U da Bleep out ���

deep down inside the nigga..he knows he done fvcked up hence he is looking for sympathizers..

Dude is a pvssy nigga

krattoss:
fvck u and fvck ur age..

If u ain't worried,u couldn't have come here looking for sympathizers...

Now fvck off with ur age bullshit

Go and sleep, it is past your bedtime.