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This one is a bully. Sadly, Nigeria has many bullies as pastors.

That is how they bully their congregants into believing and obeying everything they say.

In as much a gal doesn't ask me for money I will neva ask her for sex. De moment u start pestering me for money I will start demanding for sex..n de relationship won't last. Allow me. To do my thing or spending my own way n wen I wan to

Amanda4life:
Most men and women sex is the number one on their list.

People cannot have good relationship again without sex.

God save us

I personally prefer a good codial relationship than sex

If u want a good relationship without sex make sure as a woman u are independent financially. De guy will respect u die

Prognose:
This has nothing to do with what you posted earlier. If you're trying to dissuade people from cheating then you say Cheating is Wrong. Cheating is dangerous. Cheating is bad. Don't say there is no justification for cheating. Justification for cheating abounds.

Okay, we understand you better now.
You have a good point.

MariaLavina:
True some ladies lose their sexual prowess as soon as the knot is tied, they believe now that he is mine , the need to be active is no longer a necessity.

that's the only truth in all uve said...and that's what's killing many marriage this days... that's what am scared of

goldcoinhub:
Controversial Ghanaian man of God and sex expert, Bishop Kumchacha has given his opinion on the reason why men cheat in their relationships.

The cleric who claims to know all the sex positions this world, while speaking on e.TV Ghana’s ‘In Bed With Adwen said the reason why many men cheat in relationships and marriages is that their partners do not satisfy them well in bed.

He further stated that it is important that women should understand how to satisfy their partners in the bedroom.

“Men cheat in a relationship because most of the women are not able to satisfy them well during sexual intercourse. Ladies should learn how to have good sex with their husbands and always make them happy in bed.” he said

In his previous controversial statement, Kumchahca mentioned that the world will come to an end the day he does not sleep with his wife.

He revealed that he had as much as 35 different sex styles he uses in the bedroom and they are for his pleasure and that of his wife:

He said:

“I have 35 sex styles; so you can’t be my wife and be saying you’re tired of having sex; no matter how tired you are; you must avail yourself to me anytime l want it.”

https://lailasnews.com/reason-why-men-cheat-in-relationships-kumchacha/

oya nairaland sex experts get in here!

Uyi168:
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No sir

Belle dey big you no like am see am, PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE! Whether na man or woman, BELLE DEY BIG YOU NO LIKE AM SEE AM! prevention is better than cure! GNQD go do am! belle dey big you no like am see am!

abiolamitodun:
that's the only truth in all uve said...and that's what's killing many marriage this days... that's what am scared of

I understand, maybe you are one of the few who do not cheat. Find a woman who understand your fears and you are good to go.

This Man is already cheating ...


Watch him quietly.

Amanda4life:
Most men and women sex is the number one on their list.

People cannot have good relationship again without sex.

God save us

I personally prefer a good codial relationship than sex

We sure need God saving us!

Amanda4life:
Most men and women sex is the number one on their list.

People cannot have good relationship again without sex.

God save us

I personally prefer a good codial relationship than sex

Well, it's both. Sex and good cordial relationship. It' just dumb how many feel u can take them apart. If u don't put the salt in the soup, U spoilt the whole thing. In a relationship, anything can be the salt; sex, mutual connection, etc. It's ur responsibility to always ensure u figure it out. To most men, sex is salt. Mutual connectionis salt too. Da da da.

trapQ:
Mumu, the number one thing is companionship, not sex. Common sense is not common.

Your brain is under your thumb.. You are typing with it.. Oponu

[quote author=Magnifico2000 post=78222294]Everything is not about sex. Marriage is way beyond sex. Even if the wife gives all the sex styles in the world, a man that will cheat will definitely cheat. Has he considered other aspects too like hygeine, cooking skills, relationship skills etc.
I am yet to be married yet I'm scared of marriage.

I thought I was alone in this marriage scare. Again, men and women cheat for different reasons. Dear self made bishop, there is more to marriage than sex,and don't forget, too much of everything is bad.

Magnifico2000:
Everything is not about sex. Marriage is way beyond sex. Even if the wife gives all the sex styles in the world, a man that will cheat will definitely cheat. Has he considered other aspects too like hygeine, cooking skills, relationship skills etc.
I am yet to be married yet I'm scared of marriage.

I thought I was alone in this marriage scare. Again, men and women cheat for different reasons. Dear self made bishop, there is more to marriage than sex,and don't forget, too much of everything is bad.

Go and buy sense.

popcykaylah:
Your brain is under your thumb.. You are typing with it.. Oponu

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vickydevoka:
If u want a good relationship without sex make sure as a woman u are independent financially. De guy will respect u die

Are u sure?.

A friend told me this and didnt believe her.
Waoh! Then let me work on it.

Amanda4life:
Are u sure?.

A friend told me this and didnt believe her.
Waoh! Then let me work on it.

Allow the guy to spend on u wen he wants. Se him as ur play mate. If u wan to ask him for gift ask him jokingly. Believe u in me dat guy will never ask u for sex. Buh wen he spends on u him feels u are suppose to show appreciations by sexing him