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I have a lady I want to get married to. Her biggest problem is that she is older than I am with 2years. Meaning she is 36yrs and i am 34yrs. I am still trying to convince her, cos probably I want to get married by the end of this year. So Nlanders want do you guys advice?

Thanks

Isn't this ur personal decision ? Or you would like us to choose your wife for you ? I suggest u marry a 16 year chick, better yet a man. Good luck!

@OP, I think she is worried because she might NOT be able to give you a CHILD. Her child bearing days might be over.

wats up wit u and an older woman,arent ther younger girls willing? Smells to like she's gat dough and you don't,hun?

Guy! follow your heart, our opinion does not matter. Make her understand that age is nothing but a number. Good luck.

Well as per where she comes from "the Yoruba area" which I learnt that when ever a lady is marrying someone younger than her, she is either very cheap or desperate. Thats her worries and also how is is going to face it with her people.

mikelangs:
Well as per where she comes from "the Yoruba area" which I learnt that when ever a lady is marrying someone younger than her, she is either very cheap or desperate. Thats her worries and also how is is going to face it with her people.

if no one tells the age difference, hw wud pple knw na? 2 years doesn't seem too obvious if u ask me? or she looks way too old than u are?

2 years is nothing really. She needs to live her life the burden is on the tatafos, Na them get headache.
Make sure u shag her well n she will be rolling to the registery with you.

Marry in younger man 'culturally' makes a lady uncomfortable bt neva d less,if she loves u,then i gues that love shd be enough 2 conquer the age difference

And then u're talkin abt marriage here.if she's havin 2nd tot,then ask ursef if u can take the blame shd her fears(best known 2 her) manifests. If yes then gudluck.

mikelangs:
I have a lady I want to get married to. Her biggest problem is that she is older than I am with 2years. Meaning she is 36yrs and i am 34yrs. I am still trying to convince her, cos probably I want to get married by the end of this year. So Nlanders want do you guys advice?

Thanks

Would you still want to be seen in public with her 10 years from now?