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Re: I'm Doomed by edoman2016: 4:19am On May 13, 2019
Karrma:

You might be correct on things we are capable of holding in.
You know, i used to call those who commit suicide fools and cowards not until 2 weeks ago when i found myself in their shoes and saw life from a depressed angle.

Some are still there, the rashes are increasing.

The first result is convincing enough with the symptoms though.
If you are sure your girlfriend is HIV positive, she ought to be sick too and compulsorily tested by doctor in the hospital just like you? Is she not having the symptoms of HIV?

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Re: I'm Doomed by Predstan: 4:25am On May 13, 2019
BossDon:


Lymph Nodes are a form of swelling like boils. It appears under the Armpit, The groin area and in the neck. Does are early hiv symptoms, night sweat, sore throat, rugged cough dat will be forming Galadima. Even wit treatment this cough still lingers

Letting in on the symptoms that can't be ignored

Those Symptoms vary in everyone. Got someone who only had sore throats which is not even chronic

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Re: I'm Doomed by desoul2004(m): 8:15am On May 13, 2019
This guys story baffles me, for you to get infected only once you had unprotected sex, because I have seen men that had sex with positive ladies many times without contacting it. Even a Dr confirmed it that it's very difficult for a guy to easily contact it, unless you have some wounds around your private part.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 8:56am On May 13, 2019
Predstan:


Those Symptoms vary in everyone. Got someone who only had sore throats which is not even chronic

But when you have this symptoms together and you just had raw sex, i feel u just need to hit the lab pronto cos this symptoms coming together means something is up
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:06am On May 13, 2019
Karrma:
I might post her pictures here and other social media platforms so that guys will be careful with her since she has refused to go for a test and insisting she's clean.
She's not even remorseful saying i should go find who infected me.

Mehn she is so Guilty. Even with u having HIV normally she should be scared cos you both just had raw sex buh she ain't that means she know the heck wat she's doing.

Niggie i know it's tough buh i assure u last last you go dey alright. Just follow up with your drug man you gonna live a normal life.

I've seen a chick who is positive and hubby is negative and dey got 4 kids who are all negative.

You still gonna live a normal life. Be strong man

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 9:17am On May 13, 2019
Tony142:


Example of a good condom?
Kiss Durex
And dere is this special condoms giving to individuals in any General Hospital.
Stay away from Gold Circle. That condom is a death trap.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 13, 2019
edoman2016:

If you are sure your girlfriend is HIV positive, she ought to be sick too and compulsorily tested by doctor in the hospital just like you? Is she not having the symptoms of HIV?
HIV can go undetected for years.
Maybe she was infected a long time ago.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:08pm On May 13, 2019
czarina:
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh


Get a confirmatory test and get started on your drugs if it comes out positive!


Haba na! Where do you live by the way? I told you to call or flash the other time but you didn't.

Drop your number on a thread, I'll call you.

I'll look for a thread to mention you.

I stay in Lagos.
Someone offered to help start treatment in the hospital she works but unfortunately the hospital is right at my doorstep.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:33pm On May 13, 2019
My brothers friend has HIV and if you see him, you will not know unless they tell you, he always looks fresh, do you know why? Because he takes his antiviral drugs regularly.

HIV is not the end, you can still live a normal life, let me tell you cancer is even worst than HIV sef.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 13, 2019
desoul2004:
This guys story baffles me, for you to get infected only once you had unprotected sex, because I have seen men that had sex with positive ladies many times without contacting it. Even a Dr confirmed it that it's very difficult for a guy to easily contact it, unless you have some wounds around your private part.
I used Google and found out it is hard to contract it just as you said so i was consoling myself with that when symptoms started showing until the symptoms became obvious.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 13, 2019
mhd5757:
My brothers friend has HIV and if you see him, you will not know unless they tell you, he always looks fresh, do you know why? Because he takes his antiviral drugs regularly.

HIV is not the end, you can still live a normal life, let me tell you cancer is even worst than HIV sef.
Everybody knows cancer is worse than HIV.

But the stigma and discrimination that comes with it is out of this world. Taking drugs at specific time everyday of my life life is something i never imagined. Me wey hate drugs pass anything.

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Re: I'm Doomed by edoman2016: 5:51pm On May 13, 2019
Karrma:

Everybody knows cancer is worse than HIV.

But the stigma and discrimination that comes with it is out of this world. Taking drugs at specific time everyday of my life life is something i never imagined. Me wey hate drugs pass anything.
Is the anti rectoviral drugs totally free at hospitals? Cause I wonder how a poor man with HIV will have the money to buy the drugs for life? it's a critical situation.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:02pm On May 13, 2019
Sad story. You get know who your partner really is when they cause you pain and then flip on you. Terrible feeling! Stay strong.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 13, 2019
edoman2016:

Is the anti rectoviral drugs totally free at hospitals? Cause I wonder how a poor man with HIV will have the money to buy the drugs for life? it's a critical situation.
I heard it's free but don't know how true it is.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 13, 2019
Karrma:

I heard it's free but don't know how true it is.

Yea it's free, the Hiv program have alot of investors and the government are trying in that regards.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 16, 2019
Karrma:

Everybody knows cancer is worse than HIV.

But the stigma and discrimination that comes with it is out of this world. Taking drugs at specific time everyday of my life life is something i never imagined. Me wey hate drugs pass anything.


Kia.. I don suffer o. Comman see how they packed different drugs for me, mehn I had to reject some.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 17, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Kia.. I don suffer o. Comman see how they packed different drugs for me, mehn I had to reject some.
Damn. this is something i never imagined.
Like how many pills are you to take at a go and how many times a day?
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 17, 2019
Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?
It's not really that bad bro, I have been popping pills recreationally ever since, then I was put through rehab, and I am still popping pills to ease my withdrawal symptoms, they tell me I will bealright in a month but I find it hard to believe, I will probably end up relapsing and continue popping pills.

Eventually you will get used to it, and you don't even have to tell anybody you are infected, even if you go for a job application, and they ask for a medical certificate, there are lots of hospitals, that you can just pay to provide you with a new certificate without even conducting any tests, they will just write you are fine and healthy without conducting any tests, I even got one just last month.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 4:05pm On May 17, 2019
mhd5757:

It's not really that bad bro, I have been popping pills recreationally ever since, then I was put through rehab, and I am still popping pills to ease my withdrawal symptoms, they tell me I will bealright in a month but I find it hard to believe, I will probably end up relapsing and continue popping pills.

Eventually you will get used to it, and you don't even have to tell anybody you are infected, even if you go for a job application, and they ask for a medical certificate, there are lots of hospitals, that you can just pay to provide you with a new certificate without even conducting any tests, they will just write you are fine and healthy without conducting any tests, I even got one just last month.
I know you're trying to be nice but popping recreational pills ain't the same as popping HIV pills. Any mistake the virus becomes resistant to the drugs. So they're way too different.

Bro, companies refer you to their hospitals for tests because they are the ones paying for it. So, there's no way you can try anything funny

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:47am On May 18, 2019
Karrma:

I know you're trying to be nice but popping recreational pills ain't the same as popping HIV pills. Any mistake the virus becomes resistant to the drugs. So they're way too different.

Bro, companies refer you to their hospitals for tests because they are the ones paying for it. So, there's no way you can try anything funny


Yea tell him... It's way different, like the difference is really clear. I hate that sound of the drug whenever am walking .
I hate the thought of having to take the drug once it's getting close to 8pm.

Aarrrrgh.. if only there is a permanent cure

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 12:52am On May 18, 2019
Karrma:

Damn. this is something i never imagined.
Like how many pills are you to take at a go and how many times a day?

It's just once a day

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Re: I'm Doomed by sinaj(f): 8:35am On May 18, 2019
desoul2004:
This guys story baffles me, for you to get infected only once you had unprotected sex, because I have seen men that had sex with positive ladies many times without contacting it. Even a Dr confirmed it that it's very difficult for a guy to easily contact it, unless you have some wounds around your private part.
people's immune system differ
Re: I'm Doomed by czarina(f): 8:36am On May 18, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Yea tell him... It's way different, like the difference is really clear. I hate that sound of the drug whenever am walking .
I hate the thought of having to take the drug once it's getting close to 8pm.

Aarrrrgh.. if only there is a permanent cure
They're close to a permanent cure. I read that somewhere. Just continue on this. You'll be fine and it's just once a day like you said.

It is well.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:27pm On May 19, 2019
cuteguy14911:


It's just once a day
How many pills once a day? So you must not miss once it's 8?? It's horrible

Damn. My problem is keeping to time with the drugs, and not missing dosage because i know I'll skip a lot when i start.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 19, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Yea tell him... It's way different, like the difference is really clear. I hate that sound of the drug whenever am walking .
I hate the thought of having to take the drug once it's getting close to 8pm.

Aarrrrgh.. if only there is a permanent cure
Do you go around with the drugs?
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:14am On May 20, 2019
Karrma:

How many pills once a day? So you must not miss once it's 8?? It's horrible

Damn. My problem is keeping to time with the drugs, and not missing dosage because i know I'll skip a lot when i start.


It's just one per day.. The side effects no be hia o. Mehn I do have this banging headaches anytime from 6pm
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 6:20am On May 20, 2019
Karrma:

Do you go around with the drugs?


Yes I do once I know I won't be able to come home by 8pm. Sometimes when I forget, I'd ask my roomie to help me bring it. Thing is that he doesn't even know what the drug is for cos I told him it's for reducing the swelling on my skin grin. What has been helping me is that am this very jovial person, so you wouldn't suspect if am feeling depressed.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:33pm On May 20, 2019
cuteguy14911:



Yes I do once I know I won't be able to come home by 8pm. Sometimes when I forget, I'd ask my roomie to help me bring it. Thing is that he doesn't even know what the drug is for cos I told him it's for reducing the swelling on my skin grin. What has been helping me is that am this very jovial person, so you wouldn't suspect if am feeling depressed.
I envy the way you're dealing with yours, maybe it because you're an extrovert.

I'm an introvert with very few or no friends practically, guess that's why it's very tough for me. There's literally no friend i have that i can even talk to because i don't know how to make friends. So most times i'm curled up in my shell thinking everytime.

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Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 20, 2019
cuteguy14911:



It's just one per day.. The side effects no be hia o. Mehn I do have this banging headaches anytime from 6pm
I guess with time, your system will get used to it.
Re: I'm Doomed by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 20, 2019
Karrma:
I might post her pictures here and other social media platforms so that guys will be careful with her since she has refused to go for a test and insisting she's clean.
She's not even remorseful saying i should go find who infected me.

Please post it to save the world some trouble
Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 8:24pm On May 20, 2019
Karrma:
I might post her pictures here and other social media platforms so that guys will be careful with her since she has refused to go for a test and insisting she's clean.
She's not even remorseful saying i should go find who infected me.
this is very dicey considering the privacy issues.. You can water it down by giving her location and how many family members those she have something along that line... Am really sad for you it pains me I have had series of panic attacks thinking until I got tested while at the hospital had oral thrush ,no rash tho or cough... it was cured permanently in a week.
Re: I'm Doomed by ehmmy11(m): 8:36pm On May 20, 2019
One more thing I forgot my guys pls and pls raw sex is not worth it truly... I wish we could turn off our libidos but it's not possible even the condom sef.. If you can pls hold ursef wen u get married after full std testing you will get tired of it... Let's keep focus I for one have learnt my lesson.. Never again even wen I get tempted ..its really hard to say NO the thing sweet sha

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