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About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 1:45pm On May 20, 2019
I think I'm about to join the never marry campaign. My girlfriend who has been almost 100% loyal, always being a good girl, she never hide anything from has suddenly changed cos my job took me from kaduna to makurdi since January of this year.
I decided to travel down yesterday to see her and her parent after many months but her attitude has changed, she held her phone tight and didn't let me go through her WhatsApp, this is a girl I came here to see her parent, she said everyone needs alittle privacy since we are not married yet.
I've seen her parent but I don't think I will proceed with the plans anymore, she was never like this when we were together and it was what even encouraged me to hold myself for the past 5 months.

Its a shame I wasted my money and time to come and witness this.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Shelumiel: 1:57pm On May 20, 2019
Take heart my brother; there is plenty of fish in the sea. Just cast your net again , only this time , think real hard .
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 2:00pm On May 20, 2019
Shelumiel:
Take heart my brother; there is plenty of fish in the sea. Just cast your net again , only this time , think real hard .
I took my time with this present one and noticed her for months when I was around her and I deemed her to be worthy but just these few months apart has shown that women are not worth losing sleep over. I've invested so much in this relationship.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Easybela(f): 2:07pm On May 20, 2019
undecided u don't have to give up, many hearts don't stand distance affairs, once distance exist, they are quick to introduce a replacement. Be thankful, what if u had married her, work shifted u and then she replaces u or sneaks around in your absencehuh,most times,its good to introduce some abnormal circumstances in relationships, just to no how the future wl look like.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Shelumiel: 2:10pm On May 20, 2019
hatbricker:
I took my time with this present one and noticed her for months when I was around her and I deemed her to be worthy but just these few months apart has shown that women are not worth losing sleep over. I've invested so much in this relationship.
My dear friend , do not generalize , for there are good women out there who know the value of a man's love . The woman you dealt with was just a shrew and with time nemesis will meet up with her . But as for you , do not let this setback steal happiness from you ; rather be thankful to God and see it as a blessing in disguise . it
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by MJBOLT: 2:14pm On May 20, 2019
i dont understand why you want to go through her whatsapp

hatbricker:
I think I'm about to join the never marry campaign. My girlfriend who has been almost 100% loyal, always being a good girl, she never hide anything from has suddenly changed cos my job took me from kaduna to makurdi since January of this year.
I decided to travel down yesterday to see her and her parent after many months but her attitude has changed, she held her phone tight and didn't let me go through her WhatsApp, this is a girl I came here to see her parent, she said everyone needs alittle privacy since we are not married yet.
I've seen her parent but I don't think I will proceed with the plans anymore, she was never like this when we were together and it was what even encouraged me to hold myself for the past 5 months.

Its a shame I wasted my money and time to come and witness this.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 20, 2019
MJBOLT:
i dont understand why you want to go through her whatsapp
Because I have been suspecting her way these days, and the excuse she gave me not going through her phone is that we both deserved privacy since we are not married yet, this is the girl I travelled for hours to come and see.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 2:26pm On May 20, 2019
Easybela:
undecided u don't have to give up, many hearts don't stand distance affairs, once distance exist, they are quick to introduce a replacement. Be thankful, what if u had married her, work shifted u and then she replaces u or sneaks around in your absencehuh,most times,its good to introduce some abnormal circumstances in relationships, just to no how the future wl look like.
Thanks a lot for your advise.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 20, 2019
Shelumiel:
My dear friend , do not generalize , for there are good women out there who know the value of a man's love . The woman you dealt with was just a shrew and with time nemesis will meet up with her . But as for you , do not let this setback steal happiness from you ; rather be thankful to God and see it as a blessing in disguise . it
Or maybe its nemesis catching up with me cos I've treated alot of ladies badly because of this present lady.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Shelumiel: 2:47pm On May 20, 2019
Or maybe its nemesis catching up with me cos I've treated alot of ladies badly because of this present lady.[/quote]Huh? shocked
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Oluromantic: 2:56pm On May 20, 2019
Easybela:
undecided u don't have to give up, many hearts don't stand distance affairs, once distance exist, they are quick to introduce a replacement. Be thankful, what if u had married her, work shifted u and then she replaces u or sneaks around in your absencehuh,most times,its good to introduce some abnormal circumstances in relationships, just to no how the future wl look like.
Don't follow this advice bro.

She's not yours. Simple! Shes found someone else. However dont react rashly cus she'll tie it around ur neck without conscience despite being the one who started it. Focus on ur work, there are many girls looking for a lucrative hardworking man like you..girls who wanna leave their parents supervision for marriage.

BTW don't tell girls ur great plans.. Just plan out urself and when d result is out don't tell them immediately. Ask more abt her works and plans and let ur marriage plans come as a deserved surprise having known what she's worth in deeds and ways. I'm not saying this guarantees a perfect relnshp but its a helping step. You're the one to marry her, not the other way round.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 20, 2019
Oluromantic:
Don't follow this advice bro.

She's not yours. Simple! Shes found someone else. However dont react rashly cus she'll tie it around ur neck without conscience despite being the one who started it. Focus on ur work, there are many girls looking for a lucrative hardworking man like you..girls who wanna leave their parents supervision for marriage.

BTW don't tell girls ur great plans.. Just plan out urself and when d result is out don't tell them immediately. Ask more abt her works and plans and let ur marriage plans come as a deserved surprise having known what she's worth in deeds and ways. I'm not saying this guarantees a perfect relnshp but its a helping step. You're the one to marry her, not the other way round.
Thanks alot
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by drmikeadams(m): 7:37pm On May 20, 2019
hatbricker:
I think I'm about to join the never marry campaign. My girlfriend who has been almost 100% loyal, always being a good girl, she never hide anything from has suddenly changed cos my job took me from kaduna to makurdi since January of this year.
I decided to travel down yesterday to see her and her parent after many months but her attitude has changed, she held her phone tight and didn't let me go through her WhatsApp, this is a girl I came here to see her parent, she said everyone needs alittle privacy since we are not married yet.
I've seen her parent but I don't think I will proceed with the plans anymore, she was never like this when we were together and it was what even encouraged me to hold myself for the past 5 months.

Its a shame I wasted my money and time to come and witness this.
. Welcome to the club grin brother.....since I joined the club I sleep well,think we'll ;save money and spend on my self..am a happy dude
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Apination(m): 8:37pm On May 20, 2019
I respect people's privacy because I trust no one. Too bad you wasted time and money to go see your supposed fiancee, only to get slapped (hypothetically speaking), lick your wounds and look forward towards better things, marriage is not a do or die, people dey change mind even on top altar undecided
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Hintona(f): 8:46pm On May 20, 2019
Mtcheww
All this your stupid stories that always aim at antagonizing women
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 20, 2019
Hintona:
Mtcheww All this your stupid stories that always aim at antagonizing women
babe, u know D guy
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 9:36pm On May 20, 2019
Oma307:
babe, u know D guy
you dey mind her?
Birds of same feathers, women may look innocent and delicate but their hearts are stronger than men's heart.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by deafeyez: 9:43pm On May 20, 2019
Marriage of a thing, na God o.
These days eh the spirit of sex wey posses people eh my mouth no fit talk...
Well one babe was at my place yesterday and that was her first visit.
I tried touching body but she no gree say na first time
I just ask am weda e dey for Nigerian Constitution and she said no
Na him I just dive and it was a goal ....
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by deafeyez: 9:45pm On May 20, 2019
hatbricker:
you dey mind her?
Birds of same feathers, women may look innocent and delicate but their hearts are stronger than men's heart.
I really fear women o.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by dollytino4real(f): 10:16pm On May 20, 2019
na ur life bros but don't fork another o! stay as a monk
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Deepfeel(m): 11:52pm On May 20, 2019
I wonder why most Nigerian men African men, feel entitled to having 100% control over their ladies life's, she's a human being with a heart and mind of her own, why claim ownership of her freewill, even God who created humans don't have that much control over them he gave humans privacy and freewill huh
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by iRepNaija1: 1:03am On May 21, 2019
You're willing to change your attitude, mindset, and actions based on the fact that a woman won't let you see her phone? Please don't give any person that much power and influence over you. You'll only end up being the one losing the most.
Re: About To Join The "Never Going To Marry Campaign" by Nobody: 3:18am On May 21, 2019
Let me take a nap... great type, anyway.
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