Zaralight:
Do men actually marry because their actually want to be in a marriage or the just marry because is part of a mans responsibility.

Xaos:


What is this?
You've murdered English.
Zara please go back to school.

Newguyhere:
we marry because we want to f**k on a daily basis
Thats just the blunt truth

ubunja:
Men marry for sex.


Don't ask again

lilwetdick:
who said marriage is part of a man's responsibility?

most of the times, it is women that force men into marriage and sometimes societal obligations force men into marriage.

truth be told, most men won't even consider marriage if not forced by either women or society.

on another note, if we say sex is the reason for marriage, sex, you can always get it for free whether married or not.

Zaralight:
you can get sex anywhere am not certain is all about the sex because even while still in marriage most men still have outdoor sex (not with wife)

Zaralight:
oh is all about the sex thing .

yeah take me as an example I'm a young guy (20) and I earn alot monthly about (400k every month) the idea of having sex with prostitutes on a constant basis scares me.
So I plan to marry this year..
All my family members think I'm doing this because I wanna 'settle down' but that's a huge lie.
I'm doing this just to get a daily dose of quality sex tbh

dingbang:
Do men marry because they want to be married or do they marry because it's part of their responsibility?

I think you should have asked a friend this question privately rather than clogging nairaland's cyberspace with crap.

Newguyhere:


yeah take me as an example I'm a young guy (20) and I earn alot monthly about (400k every month) the idea of having sex with prostitutes on a constant basis scares me.
So I plan to marry this year..
All my family members think I'm doing this because I wanna 'settle down' but that's a huge lie.
I'm doing this just to get a daily dose of quality sex tbh

ubunja:
Men marry for sex.

Don't ask again

Zaralight:
I think you should reconsider your decision because that is a most selfish mindset to walk in with into marriage (there is more to marriage than sex).

lmao you think so?

Newguyhere:


yeah take me as an example I'm a young guy (20) and I earn alot monthly about (400k every month) the idea of having sex with prostitutes on a constant basis scares me.
So I plan to marry this year..
All my family members think I'm doing this because I wanna 'settle down' but that's a huge lie.
I'm doing this just to get a daily dose of quality sex tbh

Newguyhere:


lmao you think so?

Zaralight:
Do men marry because they actually want to be in a marriage (commitment and companionship) or because it is part of a man's responsibility (to show achievement)?

Zaralight:
yes

are you married or single?

Newguyhere:


yeah take me as an example I'm a young guy (20) and I earn alot monthly about (400k every month) the idea of having sex with prostitutes on a constant basis scares me.
So I plan to marry this year..
All my family members think I'm doing this because I wanna 'settle down' but that's a huge lie.
I'm doing this just to get a daily dose of quality sex tbh

lilwetdick:


you are 20 and you do earn 400k monthly..pls suffering dey lie now... which job will pay a 20 years old 400k in nigeria

I'm full stack web developer.
I build websites for foreign clients.

Originalsly:


They really need to open a kiddies section... and mods redirect such topics.

badadvice:
My elder brother (more like my good friend) married for sex.
Bro had a high sexual urge and didnt want to disgrace the family by having multiple sex partners and eventually baby mamas
My maternal uncle married cos of pressure.
Nigga was way passed the age for marriage and still single.
My late grandpa once said he married cos it was the right thing to do.
He quoted a verse in genesis stating man and women were meant to marry.
I believe my cousin married an older white lady cos of green card.
Nigga was prolly fed up with naija.
I intend to marry cos as an only son, i have to make babies to make my p-man and malle grandparents.
The summary is people marry for different reasons.
Hence, this question is invalid.

Newguyhere:


I'm full stack web developer.
I build websites for foreign clients.

lilwetdick:


ok, except that, you work on upwork(freelancer) and presently working on a project i guess

are you are self-taught programmer or you learned from school?

Zaralight:
I agree with you at some point but not all women are desperate and in most cases too men do force women into unplanned marital style (pregnancy)probably because the want to keep the girl.

Newguyhere:



self taught

CAPSLOCKED:


BECAUSE AS SINGLE MEN THEY CAN'T HAVE SEX?
WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?

Zaralight:
you can't get sex anywhere am not certain is all about the sex because even while still in marriage most men still have outdoor sex (not with wife)