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| 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by GeorgesDiary(op): 5:04pm On May 27, 2019 |
1. THE ANTI-CHRIST Okay, you feel the anti-Christ I mean here is a black beast with wings and spear right? No, I mean that very nice guy who loves everything about you but doesn't appreciate the fact that you are a believer in Christ Jesus. It is not okay to marry someone with whom you do not share mutual belief! There is no point marrying a Muslim if you are a Christian and there is no point marrying a Christian if you are a Muslim. The reason is very simple; you aren't being religious intolerance, you are simply trying to avoid what will likely backfire in the future. The issue of belief is so deep that anyone who disagrees with your belief disagrees with everything about you. The Bible says in Amos 3:3 " Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?" Why start a journey in disagreement hoping that in future you may agree? Why not agree now or leave it? Let 2 Corinthians 6:14 be your anchor "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has the light with darkness? " 2. THE CHOLERIC Hey! I am not saying you shouldn't date anyone who identifies himself with the temperament of "choleric". This is simple, do not end up with someone whose temper is his master. Never fall for that line that says "with time he will change." If he isn't changing now, he will likely not change tomorrow. If you enjoy being with someone who gets angry at every argument, every misunderstanding, every mistake and so on, go ahead and enjoy but make sure you are not deciding on the basis of temporal feelings. Your husband is likely to serve as a leader and this isn't just about you but also about your children. Marriage doesn't change people and if there isn't any effort on his own part to readjust or he isn't seeing any problem with his anger issues, you are heading to a mess if you are going on with him. The Bible says in Proverbs 29:22 "An angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins." Your husband is supposed to be your best friend, how can life be for you as an emotional person when you spend all your life with an angry fellow? Trust me, nobody learns how to put up with an angry person forever. The Bible says in Proverbs 22:24 "Do not make friends with an angry man, and do not associate with a hot-tempered man." 3. THE ARROGANT Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who always tells you how unimportant you are and how he picked you from nothing? Do you want to marry a man who is so concerned about himself than he is about you? God designed you to be his helpmeet and the Bible says anyone who finds you, finds a good thing and obtains favour (Proverbs 18:22). Marrying a very proud person leaves you struggling for attention and never getting it because they believe they are doing you favour forever coming into your life. 4. THE BOSS Sarah called Abraham "my Lord" willingly. Abraham didn't have to put up a fight or force it down her throat that "he is the man of the house." You don't need a man who will boss you around, you need a man who will truly love you like the bone of his bone and the flesh of his flesh. Don't settle for a man who will never allow you to have the life of your own or make your own decisions. There are men who want you to cut off from your friends, stop interacting with people and stop going for events! Why settle for someone who wants to limit you from becoming the best of whom God has designed you to be? Never think you can sort it out! The Bible says in Philippians 2:3 "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves." 5. THE BULLY If women are weak vessels, then you obviously need someone who will treat you with respect and protect you, not someone who will flex his muscles at you and force you into things you obviously didn't want to do. You are insulting yourself and God who created you as a treasure when you settle for someone who consistently keeps hurting you and treating you like an animal. Even animals are protected and used as pets. I understand such men need help but trust me, sweetheart, you aren't that help they need! I know you want to be a hero and be given credit as that virtuous woman who stood all grounds but you aren't God and there are things left for God alone to fix! Marriage isn't based on unconditional love, it is based on commitment and oneness of purpose! You are not an object at the gym used in training muscles, you are God's display of beauty and you need someone who sees exactly what God sees in you! READ MORE via https:///p6c73H-1hC
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| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by captianfreeman(m): 5:17pm On May 27, 2019 |
Holy spirit |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 8:01pm On May 27, 2019 |
An atheist makes the best husband......... |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:21pm On May 27, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED and MJBOLT will know God real soon |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:24pm On May 27, 2019 |
And hopefullandlord too |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MJBOLT: 8:28pm On May 27, 2019 |
is there anything special in knowing him? Biglittlelois: |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:32pm On May 27, 2019 |
MJBOLT:There are so many special uncountable things, just free your mind that it can happen at anytime ![]() |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MJBOLT: 8:34pm On May 27, 2019 |
i'll pass Biglittlelois: |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:35pm On May 27, 2019 |
MJBOLT:Lol okay. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by CAPSLOCKED: 8:48pm On May 27, 2019 |
MissRaine69:AND YOU SAY THIS BECAUSE...........? |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by LarryBee1k: 9:03pm On May 27, 2019 |
MissRaine69:Are you female or male? |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by bukatyne(f): 9:21pm On May 27, 2019 |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:38pm On May 27, 2019 |
MissRaine69:Really? But how? |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by naijacentric(m): 11:12pm On May 27, 2019 |
GeorgesDiary:pls explain why many born again people have crashed marriages even pastor mr religious u neva know wetin dey worry u. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by backbone503(m): 11:17pm On May 27, 2019 |
GeorgesDiary:Your piece is so segmental and sentimental. People like you should be in Arab nations, and not a heterogenous society like ours. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:24pm On May 27, 2019 |
MissRaine69:True that ![]() |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:24pm On May 27, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:Because they would make birds of the same feathers |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by stanliwise(m): 2:51am On May 28, 2019 |
GeorgesDiary:Abeg forget all this talk, if you did not include 'AN IRRESPONSIBLE MAN' in this list you've haven't said anything. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:00am On May 28, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:You are free from expectations/rules that come with the mind of one immersed in religious dogma. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:01am On May 28, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:It is birds of the same feather not feathers |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:02am On May 28, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You are free |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:03am On May 28, 2019 |
LarryBee1k:Female |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by ednut1(m): 7:04am On May 28, 2019 |
So which men con remain ![]() |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:04am On May 28, 2019 |
bukatyne:Religious men = hypocrisy, rules and narrow mindedness |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by LarryBee1k: 7:37am On May 28, 2019 |
MissRaine69:It's hard to come across an atheist female. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by MissRaine69(f): 7:46am On May 28, 2019 |
LarryBee1k:Did I say I was atheist? |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by LarryBee1k: 8:09am On May 28, 2019*. Modified: 7:58am On Apr 05, 2021 |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:34am On May 28, 2019 |
MissRaine69:Free to do what? You haven't answered my question. |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:35am On May 28, 2019 |
GeorgesDiary:[/s] This is heresy and not backed by the scripture. Any woman that doesn't see her husband as Boss is not a Christian woman and not ready to have a Christian home. Sarah, called Abraham lord because Abraham was her lord and that is backed by the Hebrew/Jewish tradition and God's commandment. 1 Corinthians 11:3 says; But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Also, the book of Ephesians mandated the wife to Submit to her husband... While the husband love his wife as Christ love the Church and gave himself for it. Please, be guided |
| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:31am On May 28, 2019 |
MissRaine69:
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| Re: 9 Kinds Of Men Every Christian Woman Must Avoid by jaksmillioniar: 10:28am On May 28, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:baby dont listen to her |
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