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Good morning great people of nlader
i will make my story abi na problem brief sorry for de error in typo
i have a problem bordering me for a while now and i said let me look for advice here.....i have a galfrd dat i was dating since 2017 and i really wanted to marry her but de problem is around may 2018 she travel to one arab country to work as a maid and de way am hearing abt de country they don't treat maid well...so she is coming back next month and she want me to go and welcome her in Airport...
my main problem is that she is insisting that we will lodge in a hotel and have a welcome back sex and i don't know how i will ask her that we should go for hiv test without her been hurt ......pls advice me

paddy u no get gist.... but i do enjoy your lie anyway

bizza45:
paddy u no get gist.... but i do enjoy your lie anyway

am very serious

Who will pay for the hotel bills, that’s my only concern.

depumpin:
am very serious

no one said u are not serious

Davash222:
Who will pay for the hotel bills, that’s my only concern.

she is coming with some change

bizza45:
no one said u are not serious

i need ur advice base on de hiv test matter

still waiting pls

depumpin:
still waiting pls

insist on what u want, or risk infection

depumpin:
Good morning great people of nlader
i will make my story abi na problem brief sorry for de error in typo
i have a problem bordering me for a while now and i said let me look for advice here.....i have a galfrd dat i was dating since 2017 and i really wanted to marry her but de problem is around may 2018 she travel to one arab country to work as a maid and de way am hearing abt de country they don't treat maid well...so she is coming back next month and she want me to go and welcome her in Airport...
my main problem is that she is insisting that we will lodge in a hotel and have a welcome back sex and i don't know how i will ask her that we should go for hiv test without her been hurt ......pls advice me

oga use condom na

shege45:
oga use condom na

the girl no wan use eyes see me with condom she always said am cheating on her

depumpin:
the girl no wan use eyes see me with condom she always said am cheating on her

if u dont have the balls to tell her to do hiv test, read psalm 23 before having sex with her na

BIGGIE121:
if u dont have the balls to tell her to do hiv test, read psalm 23 before having sex with her na

psalm 23 chai bro

Your life and hurting her feelings, which one is more important? Personally I can't feel bad if a man should ask that we go for such test, but since people are different, she may feel hurt. Would she call of the relationship? Whatever will be her reaction take it, but your health is top priority. Tell her abt the test issue before she arrives. Look for a good laboratory around, when she arrives, she lodge in the hotel, have some rest, then you both go for the test, results wount take time.

LilMissFavvy:
Your life and hurting her feelings, which one is more important? Personally I can't feel bad if a man should ask that we go for such test, but since people are different, she may feel hurt. Would she call of the relationship? Whatever will be her reaction take it, but your health is top priority. Tell her abt the test issue before she arrives. Look for a good laboratory around, when she arrives, she lodge in the hotel, have some rest, then you both go for the test, results wount take time.

tanx i really love ur advice

depumpin:
Good morning great people of nlader
i will make my story abi na problem brief sorry for de error in typo
i have a problem bordering me for a while now and i said let me look for advice here.....i have a galfrd dat i was dating since 2017 and i really wanted to marry her but de problem is around may 2018 she travel to one arab country to work as a maid and de way am hearing abt de country they don't treat maid well...so she is coming back next month and she want me to go and welcome her in Airport...
my main problem is that she is insisting that we will lodge in a hotel and have a welcome back sex and i don't know how i will ask her that we should go for hiv test without her been hurt ......pls advice me

Simply use protection

just when you think you have seen it all,welcome back sex ,is that all she learnt from the country she visited ,and to think that this is "a child's" future mum.
Anyways, you are thinking of HIV but my little mind is saying something different, a pregnancy is about to be transferred to you. Goodluck and pls the update, very important, I will like to know what d child looks like.

Easybela:
just when you think you have seen it all,welcome back sex ,is that all she learnt from the country she visited ,and to think that this is "a child's" future mum.
Anyways, you are thinking of HIV but my little mind is saying something different, a pregnancy is about to be transferred to you. Goodluck and pls the update, very important, I will like to know what d child looks like.

hahaha aunty u funny but both test will be carry even infections lols

SUPERPACK:
insist on what u want, or risk infection

ok i will

depumpin:
the girl no wan use eyes see me with condom she always said am cheating on her

so u go around having unprotected sex, just to please her, my brother you are playing with fire, am waiting for your next thread on how she betrayed your trust, be wise